Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 1545. page

>>18386424
Wish I could help, but you are the only one this has ever happened to, so I have no idea how to deal with this.

Probably not

>>18386424
You're probably feeling more ashamed and embarrassed than you ever have in your life but it's not that big of a deal. Guys wank and she's seen her share of dicks in life. You'd probably blush if you saw some of things she's seen with her eyes. Don't beat yourself up about it.

>>18386349
Does she has a bf at the moment, If not ask her the fuck out, JUST DO IT!

>>18386354
Yep, just talked to her a while ago, and either way, she's on vacation with her family

>>18386357
When she come back, tell her what you feel, If ya dont, you're just gonna continue to be misarable

How old are you and what's stopping you from talking to her?

>>18386492
I'm 20 and she already rejected me. I feel sick to my stomach and just want these ferlings to go away

>>18386507
To be clear, I'm not upset that she rejected me, it was actually a while ago and we haven't talked since. I just can't get over how infatuated I am with her, it's killing me

>>18386331
How old are you?
younger than 22, stop giving a fuck, start to improve youself and it will come naturally
older get your act together

>>18386331
I'm 5'9, 6 inch dick hard, depressed, anxiety and constantly talk about suicide and self hate as a joke, and easily a 4/10 at best with bacne, man bun, and a 2 inch beard. Have been with a girl who pops my nasty pimples, will comb my hair cause I have terrible dandruff and cheer me on through dark souls even though I suck half the time. First time we ever hung out I wore those chain shorts that were called Tripp and she still just accepted me and here we are now still happy as can be. Don't let yourself give up just because you aren't with someone yet. You gotta keep going for it!

>>18386361
fuck, i gagged at how nasty you are

>>18386328
>oldfag
Yeah, sure you are.

>>18386334

Old for 4chan, at least.

How do I make my dick fit in a burger bun in a comfortable fashion?

Go to work you pansy

>>18386234
You are only alive once

wagecuck life in the big city seems like it won't lead to anything but dispair for you.... I would only choose this if it was a job you loved.

enjoy the wilderness

>>18386234
A healthy middle? Work part time and self develop on the side? That, or maybe go back to school and study something of interest?

>>18386191
Start dressing better, stop caring

>>18386191

hair spray. my hair is very 'fine' and unless i crust it with gel its not going to stay in place. i used to spend 90% of my day just trying to fix my hair, walking to the bus stop on the way to work was enough to ruin it.

then i just said fuck it and used hair spray. now my hair looks good ALL day, its great.

look up instead of down.

limit your self to music only an hour a day, this is good advice for people in general as we burn our brains out with constant stimulation.

stand your ground as you walk.

stop slouching. it takes a long time to get out of this habbit

move your arms

experiement iwth hand forms, commit to a hand form every day until you find one that feel right. this isnt that important desu, you can just put em in your pockets or whatever.

not mch you can do about the auto walk.

realize it doesn't matter how you walk to be less secure.

change your clothes if you want but dark and nuetral colors are fine. ask a shoe savvy friend to help you pick out less running looking shoes.

go ahead and pass people wlaking slower than you.

lose your virginity

>>18386191
An erect posture does wonders for confidence.

Just remember that you're only human and that you'll inevitably decay like everyone else. It's alright to be imperfect and shit, just don't revolve your existence around getting pussy

>>18386178

dont feel ashamed. you and your best friend shared a very interesting bonding experience together. you clearly wanted it. rewinding with 'too drunk to care about his advances' is a bit selfish.

the problem is you woke up and you remember that gay actions 'ruin' you. so you're trying to make it seem like it had nothing to do with you so that you can walk away not gay.

but like a girl who wanted to have sex she has to wake up the next morning nad accept her sexuality.

and no, that doesn't make you gay (though managing to take it up the ass without complaint is pretty fucking gay). It just means you felt so close to your best friend that the lin got blurred and you tried something.

you might do it again in the future. you might not. be open to possibility and just keep it to your self until society catches up.

He's probably as traumatized as you, he prob. had some repressed sexual desires. Try talking to him in person and not over the phone.
How to contact him idk.

>>18386178
Your friend done fucked up, and not just up your ass. That said, you need to talk to him, figure out your and his feelings, and then decide what to do about it.

>>18386172
bump

Get up and do something else. Start with little things. Wash the dishes, dance like an idiot, meet a friend. I also spend a lot of time in my computer but its getting really boring.

>>18386238
It's really hard for me to get motivation to do anything else when I'm on the computer and my ritual really fucks me up when I muster the willpower to do something else but get hungry and thus get compelled to go back to the computer to eat.

>>18386104
Sounds like repressed anger, try some sport like boxing or get a hobby where you can let repressed feelings out.

>>18386104
You should also talk about it with her, maybe she can help you

>>18386125
I was thinking about going to a psychologist

Different people have different triggers. Yours could be stress, mine was my parents. I had depersonalization my whole life until I moved out.

I know how bad it sucks man. Get your hormones checked, some people say it can be caused by low test, make sure your diet is right. Force yourself to go to the gym. Live as healthy as possible, the rest should fall back into place

>>18386135
I've always been stressed but this is just fuckin ridiculous. I legit can't tell how long has passed after leaving the bathroom and sitting down on the couch. I can't even fathom what I need to do tomorrow and I my memory is in the pits. My train of thought is all over the place too.

3 years of college fine and now this just pops up? I can't exactly use it as an excuse to get out of taking finals either. How did you deal with it in school?

>>18386159
Try taking a ZMA supplement and fish oil. A UV lamp may help too. There are tons of homeopathic cures, different ones work for different people. Going outside in the woods has always been something that could bring me back.

Is this your first episode, or have you had previous?

Ugh I know someone just like this. We started hanging out and then she just canceled all our plans and basically told me to fuckoff.

>>18386006
Ask yourself why I can automatically tell you're a female.

>>18386114
Nuh-uh. Male. Do you think a female would admit she's the one in the wrong?

>>18385986
read the Koran and the Torah too
don't be biased.

>>18385986
Stop reading it and throw it in the trash. Religion is just a weak appeal to authority for people who don't have the brains to seek real answers. If you really wanted to start to understand reality or morality read philosophy.

>>18385986
King James Version, I hope. That one kickstarted english literacy and caused a cultural boom.

Anyway, I'd start at the beginning. It's an important book if you want to deepen your understanding of western culture.

Don't smoke before I'd say, and remember to try to focus on positive things you really enjoy.

>>18385881
Be prepared to meet Satan. That's what happened to me.

>>18385881
Bigger dose = more of the typical lsd confusion. Also more mindfucks and intense visuals. Expect not being able to go to the supermarket. In my experience higer doses dont really last longer. After 9-10 hrs im kinda sober again. Have fun!

>>18385867

Stop focusing on girls. Girls pick up on that shit easily.
Focus on building yourself into a man first

>>18385867
Dont date self centered women, don't take their shit
you sound like a punching bag and a place to dump emotional garbage

>>18385867
holy shit do you know nothing about females? this is how they connect. girls are empathetic creatures, the kind that share and trust and talk. her telling you about her past and her baggage is her trusting you with the hard to swallow, hard to live with parts of herself.

she's literally handing you the keys to herself. it's not her fault if you're taking that the wrong way lmao. share back. that's what she wants you to do. that's how you build a relationship. jesus christ, my dude.