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Are there tall women who are into short men?

Beyond the women who want short men just emasculate them?
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>>18395453
there always are women into something that you are, but is it easy to find? no.

im okay with having a girl shorter than me but wearing high heels accounts for it
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>>18395453
It really is painful for me that he is gay sometimes.

There must be some tall woman who has a strong preference for short men, but they aren't common.
Women want men their height or taller. Some might be down to date someone shorter, especially those who are taller than the average male, some might not particularly care, but in general girls will want guys who are taller than them.
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>>18395453
I don't think it needs to be a fetish. Dated a girl three inches taller than me and it was fine.

Today is me and my girlfriends 1-year anniversary, I had a few plans, and she breaks up with me out of nowhere. Let me state that there is nothing bad, no build up of anything, we're so close even with friends and family, and we're each other first for pretty much everything. I'm her first serious boyfriend and she's my first. Before me, she was shy low self-esteem, but I made her more confident and feel sexy, all that good stuff. Admittedly she has been having a hard time recently, she is on the verge of losing her horse who's her #1, and she's cried a lot recently because of it, and she recently started a new school as she got bullied in the last so is behind on work, and she says she wants to be single for a bit, then it's I have no feelings, and now it's just short, emotionless replies, now she's ignoring me. We argued I was like wtf what is it you meet some new boys and now you're done well go fucking enjoy them then and she said I will (although I know she isn't like that).

I literally don't get it, this is the girl who I was gonna marry, hell she was the one who said all this stuff, she even has this diary thing of me and her where she even written the time and day I first spoke to her, and I've helped her through so much which she's very thankful for, and she's not the kinda girl to fool around not trashy etc that's what made me like her in the first place. I just don't understand this or what I'm supposed to do. I've got a little angry with her but haven't said anything bad, I've just asked her 'Seriously babe, what's wrong?' to which I get ignored.
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That is really strange. I hope she is just overwhelmed by emotions and she gets back with you ASAP. Sorry I don't have any real advice, I've never heard of this situation.
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>>18395244
Hey bud, fellow anon, also in love atm. You can't give up easy on this one, you can never give up on a real love. Try to talk to her in person, if her parents like you maybe reach out to them too, but don't give up. Kek guide you son
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>>18395257
It's okay and her best friend said it's just too much for her right now. Still hurts though because I got her a card, and some things and I wanna gonna make pizza for her which she loves, and it's just been thrown back in my face. I mean we were the couple that couldn't keep hands off each other, even if I was to sit there and lean away from her to tease her she'd pull me back etc.

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Should I be concerned if my GF is texting her friend from grad school

>Hope you have a good day at work, I'll call you when I'm free to ask how it's going
>I miss you a lot!!
>Come Visit

And sent him a pic of her dressed up like Wonder Woman?
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Maybe? Need more info? How long has she known him? Have they dated? What does she say about him? What do you know about him?
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>>18395243
It's probably a old fuck buddy. It's totally cool.
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>>18395243
Nothing about that sounds worrying desu, but I'd keep an eye on it.

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I want to hang up within the next week when I'll be left all alone in the house. The question being how soon am I gonna faint and what is awaiting me after I faint? I'm afraid of pain, but I really need to kill myself and I terribly need your help in the matter.
If anything, I'm from a hellhole and don't even try to dissuade me - there is not a single doubt I ought to do it.
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>>18394910
You sound like a pussy. See ya next week.

>WAHH MY INTERNET GF GOT COME OF CHAD AND TYRONE'S THUNDER/LIGHTNING COCK IN A TAG TEEM, I BETTER KILL MYSELF NOW

>WAHH MY SISTER ATE THE LAST SNICKERS ICE CREAM BAR AND NOW I'M GOING TO KILL MYSELF

>WAHH I GOT MYSELF INTO DEBT DOING STUPID STUFF AND THINK IT'S GOING TO BE IMPOSSIBLE TO PAY THAT $300 NOTE + INTEREST

>WAHH MY ENTIRE LIFE IS IN SHAMBLES BECAUSE i DID AN AWKWARD THING LAST WEEK AND IT'S COMING BACK TO HAUNT ME
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>>18394910
It's not a nice way to die, OP. It's much more painful and uncomfortable than people think until you pass out, and if it goes wrong can last a long time.

Have you at least tried a suicide hotline?
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>>18394916
It's way more serious than this.

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Does someone know who this young blonde girl in the picture is.
It's from this youtube video : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VeDMPkBXMpY&t=
She appears at 10:11
It's located in the UK, please if someone knows anything say it.
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My advice for you is to get a fucking life you pathetic loser.
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>>18394819
What the fuck is the plan here? Get her name and then get in contact with her and she'll fall in love with you?
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>>18394819
I see what you mean, OP

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Vent, write letters you will never send, confess your sins, ask for advice.
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I'm trying to wean myself off 4chan, but goddamnit if people ofline aren't the most SHALLOW AND UNINTERESTING CUNTS ON THE PLANET
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DAYLIGHT
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The stars have aligned, if I play my cards right I can get a chance to be alone with my crush. I'll find out tomorrow if that's the case. Then I could get some time with him on tuesday. We'll see how it goes!

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i bust my ass in this life.
i do all the things they say wins the race.
>be good, kind, genuine
>have skills, good work ethic
>et cetera...
but FUCK! nothing seems to pan out for ME. why? how do i fix it?
36 years old now, still don't have a decent job, still don't have a steady female...
what do?
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>>18394375
Hope my life works out better than yours, OP.
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>>18394375
See my post op here
>>18394368

maybe it will trigger you too. Or motivate you to do better.

Good luck.
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>>18394447
wtf?!
where's the correlation?

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How do I get over my fear of being close to someone?

I've been in two relationships. Both ended because they changed their minds on things. First girl changed her mind and liked someone else after 3 years of dating. Second girl changed her mind about her plans for the future and ultimately she thought it would be best if we broke up. A part of me still isn't over her but I try my best to not think about her. She met a guy 6 months after we broke up and got engaged to him 5 months later. She asked my friend how I was doing and said I'll always be important to her, but I know its all bullshit. Even if it wasn't there is no point for me to relevant in her life anymore, and it pisses me off how she could just say stupid things like that. But anyway, without getting sidetracked...

I'm so scared of women deciding, while deep in a relationship, that they no longer want to be a part of it. Especially since it could happen anytime. Just now on my news feed this girl, who had a kid with this guy, decided to end things with him and found someone new a few weeks later.

I just can't trust women anymore to be dedicated to someone like I am. I know it sounds ignorant and dickish, but from my past experiences its always me being the one who gets left behind.
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>>18393836
Dude there one thing I tell everyone with relationship problems; Girls are going to be girls. Learn their weakness and exploit it. If she leaves you it's your own fault. As much as every girl wants to believe they are different,they are exactly the same.
Ypu also need to come to grips with NOTHING is forever. Especially a woman's love. Their whole journey in the relationship is to make you seem "less" than they are. Soon as they feel that way, they start planning an exit strategy.
The most important thing. NEVER EVER will you be able to just relax and love her. She will constantly and always test you to make sure you are still the guy she thought you were when you got together. Soon as you relax she's out. It sounds shitty because it is. Love is nothing like TV.
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>>18393857
man you are just the cherry on top of this shit sundae aren't you?
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>>18393857
What about those couples who never divorce? You don't think those women might be dedicated to the relationship?

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Hi adv. I have a problem and I'm wondering if it's because I'm a "nice guy" or it's because of how I grew up(Catholic). I'm 28 years old now. When I was in my early twenties, I worked in a restaurateur and a lot of the girls there were cute; but they all drank/partied a lot and I just never felt comfortable in those scenarios.

Recently I met a new girl and she seemed nice, but always liked to pretty herself up whether she had a bf or not. And I took that as her simply looking her best for personal reasons, no problem. But when I hung out with her as some mutual friends dragged me out; she loved to drink and I quickly heard stories about the hooking up and partying that she did. Still I liked her enough and kept telling myself "her past doesn't matter if she likes you". Then one day I saw her face busted up and covered in bruises, I asked what was wrong and she told me that she'd gotten drunk and fallen on the street. She would often show up with random bruises that she didn't know where she got them from. As we got closer, she started showing me signs of being manipulative and lying(She borrowed my car to visit her parents and I assumed something was wrong with hers. But she told me after that it was because she crashed her car and dented it badly a year before we met, and that her parents would be pissed if they found out. I told her to just be honest with them and face the consequences, but she sad that if they didn't know; it wouldn't be a problem.

Long story short the girl cheated on me, blamed me for not "caring enough" about her and didn't even tell me she was gone until I called her up for a date and she said she was going with someone else on one.

How do you guys/girls balance red flags with emotions? I find it hard to run away when I like a girl and find out that she has "flaws". Is it my faith overriding my logic and saying that "people can change"? Should I avoid bars and just go to Church for a partner?
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If there was a shit ton of red flag labeled walk this way to get punched in the testicles would you keep walking that way?

Same thing except these flags are telling you there's no good future with this woman. If she's too much or causes too many problems you need to count your chickens and move on. I guarantee no matter how much You like her, you will not be able to change who she is to fit you better.

Women like this only get worse the longer you stay with them.
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You should just jump ship as soon as a major red flag pops up.
>Should I avoid bars
Well yeah
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On the other hand this is a great opportunity to practice manhandling women. She's always covered in bruises, which means that she's either clumsier than Mihoshi, or she gets into accidents a lot, or she prefers men who beat her up.

In either case it's your word against hers, so you'll get away pretty easily.

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I live alone in a small flat with no friends/family for about 1000km. I am in my mid 20s. I do not play video games anymore, and am fairly shy/quiet so not really using a hobby as an excuse to meet people (although I don't mind it!)

I need a new hobby that is fairly accessible. I have $700 USD.

Suggestions?
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>>18393514
any interest in music,photography,travel,clothes,designing,skydiving,hiking,kinky stuff or anything you wanted to try out but never did due to simple issues
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sports
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>>18393519

Not really, I mean sure I would like to travel, but I live in a country where it is very expensive to go anywhere.

I always wish I could learn the piano, but I have no experience with any instruments and I don't have the patience.

I am honestly clueless. I am a student and in my spare time I just watch movies. I play a bit of CS but my PC is on the verge of death and I won't be getting a new one as I barely use it as is.

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if I like this guy do I ask him if he likes me or do I just tell him "I like you"?
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>>18391477
Depends. Is he at all meek or reserved or anxious? If so, do the latter. If not and you are worried about rejection, do the former.
Tbh I wish females would come on stronger more often.
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>>18391480
He isn't meek but kinda reserved
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>>18391483
Then you should tell him you kinda like him, but in a playful way, with a smile on your face. And ask if he likes you. If he says no, just keep smiling and say thats too bad, don't show any evidence that you are hurt. Girls can afford to act with a fuckton of self-confidence because men feel like they are on a higher level, it won't get weird if he rejects you unless you make it weird.

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I just get no matches, whats wrong with my profile?
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You have the gay.
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>>18390893

huh?
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>>18390893

Just to clarify, i am straight... have it on females only

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These fucking communication and creative thinking classes are fucking killing me. It is not that is is difficult, i have all A's. But they are so fucking stupid! I honestly think college in easier than high school just because I have these stupid fucking classes that any 4th grader could complete. I fucking hate it. and i fucking hate the bitch English Major teachers who teach the fucking things. I just want to fucking become a Computer scientist.

I have 5 hours of busy work ahead of me for a project that will teach me absolutely nothing! I want to kill these fucks.

How do I get over this?
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>>18390091
Who gives a shit, less work for you and more time to enjoy college.

I went through engineering school taking the easiest electives available so I'd have less school time and "cheated" my grades higher for my resume.
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>>18390091
Just be grateful it's not too tough.
I'm taking the easiest pol sci classes next semester and I've done it before.

I know how you feel. I kind of just meme my way through it.
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>>18390091
I feel the same way as you. That's why I dropped out twice. I don't like the thought of paying hundreds and hours of my time just so some old hag can tell me about the meaning of a shitty poem, or learning about something I can learn online in a few hours. It's even more of a scam when you realize that about 90% of college majors are damn near useless on their own

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Hey /adv/, quick question/advice/discussion shit

TL;DR Don't want trans GF to meet step-family because they're cunts, but dad acting like I'm the bad guy

Long version: My girlfriend and I are going cross-state for my brother's graduation, and while we're out there we're gonna party with friends and family. I'm fine with her meeting my mom's side of the family, since aside from a few bad moments they've been pretty chill about her being a tranny. Dad is pretty chill too, but I've heard my step-mom and step-sister openly trashing trans people and other shit like that and I don't want them around her for fear that she might hurt their precious fee-fees in retaliation then I'm in trouble. My dad thinks it's kind of a dick move that I'd want to just do lunch with him and not the rest because he's the only one who hasn't been a huge cock about trannies in the past.

What do, /adv/?
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>>18396450
P.S./Edit, the fact that my step-family on my dad's side doesn't seem to get the whole tranny thing isn't the main sticking point, but that's the narrative I'm using to tell my dad they can fuck off. They've done some really shitty things to me in the past and I don't want to even be in the same room as them let alone go to lunch.
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>>18396450
so let me break it down to you. This has nothing to do with your boyfriend being a pretend girl and everything to do with them not accepting you as gay.
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>>18396450
Man you are a huge faggot and not because you are dating a trannie. Sometimes you have to be the bad guy. Just tell him that it is what it is and its not going to change and if that makes you a bad guy then so be it.

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ITT: Life changing choices;
Colleges, careers, etc.

Anon is an 18 year old going into his senior year of high school. I'm a straight white male who completely fucked up my freshman and sophomore year of high school with a less than 3 gpa. My junior year I stayed at about a 3.5 gpa. My cumulative is currently almost at a 3 gpa. I think I can do better my senior year. Problems: I'm an adhd fucktard who can't be medicated anymore starting this past May. I'm a workaholic and have a few extracurriculars which take my time. On the plus side I didn't study much at all for the SATs except the day before the test and scored a 1410 on the 1600 scale. I plan on retaking the test and studying to see if I can make my score even better. I can't be medicated for adhd because I plan on going into the armed forces. My family can't afford to put me through college and I don't want to be in debt forever. I realize it's dangerous etc. Idc. I ride a motorcycle too. Reckless, right? Whatever. IF I make it through that, which I'm planning for, I want to go to college. I plan on being in the armed forces for 4 years so that the post 9/11 gi bill will pay for my college. First thing, I realize it's unethical and potentially dangerous, but how the hell do I self medicate for adhd. Also, my SAT scores should help my chances with colleges, so should my extra curriculars. Idrk if military service will. What should I expect as far as colleges? I want to go to school for engineering.
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Sounds like a fun plan! I can't answer any of your questions but >>>/k/34181866 is a military enlistment general thread on /k/ and they have a discord. great source of information.
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>>18396334
Thanks for the info
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>>18396326
take an engineering job in the military
its not dangerous unless your special ops
by the time you get out ull have some engineering experience, continue with college
grad, get a job
???
set

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