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Well im about to tell my crush I love her.
Any tips on how to make it less awkward??
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Don't
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>>18389192
unless you are sure they like you back with a 90% probability you better keep your mouth shut.
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>>18389208
Just tell her personally or you will always regret it and try you will to think of her and wanting her 24/7h again like me
Dont be like me and man up
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How easy is it to accidentally kill or turn someone handicapped in a fist fight? Never been in a fight before and it's one of my fears.
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>>18389014
Unless you're a Greek God beating down a spindly 4'8 dude youre probably fine
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>>18389014
All it takes is some bad luck, basically. If you knock someone out--which is more about where and how you hit than it is about power--and they take a limp fall and hit the ground in exactly the wrong way, they could end up paralyzed or with life-threatening damage.
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>>18389014
very unlikely if you've never been in a fight. unless the guy falls on concrete.
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>22 years old
>Get nervous around cute girls
I feel like this is something that shouldn't happen anymore, but it does regardless.
Is this bad?
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>>18389007
Welcome to Autismoland, population 3000000+ men and a sprinkling of females
That's about as common as dirt
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>>18389016
Is it bad though?
Where was the entrance?
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>>18389016
ha, this. OP, ever wondered what kind of sad pathetic men end up with fat, ugly, boring wives?
well... bad news
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To the ladies of /adv/ 2017-06-05 09:01:40 Post No.18388994
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I'm 25 and I've noticed that my hips have become more... womanly this past year and my body is changing.
Have any of the women of /adv/ noticed similar changes in their bodies at this point in age?
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>>18388994
I'm 27 and yes, I jump started it having kids, I'm pregnant with my second now, but yes you fill out some in your mid to late 20s. I used to be really thin like 90lbs then when I hit 24 or so I noticed my hips filling out then I had a baby and now I have wide hips. Still only weigh like 100lbs but it's distributed differently, also it's harder to keep a good muscle tone like my legs and arms don't look as got as before even tho I work out. Feel like I look a lot more "soft" and "womanly"
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>>18389010
This same thing happened to me! Am growing into it, and pregnant noticing distribution in weight. Gained it in all the "right" areas, I agree with this anon about feeling more soft and "womanly"
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>>18389010
Thanks for the response! I knew my body would change once I became pregnant, but I'm not there yet so I was really surprised by my weight gain and change in my body. I'm honestly not liking how I look these days. Regardless, It's nice to know I'm not alone in experiencing these changes.
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Not a virgin but still has never had a girlfriend 2017-06-05 08:34:09 Post No.18388919
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Not a virgin but still has never had a girlfriend
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So I'm 20 years old, and while I did manage to lose it a few months back thanks to Tinder, I've still never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship longer than a one night stand.
For a while my problems had to do with self-image and self-confidence issues, and while I feel that I have largely conquered those, I do sometimes feel residual feelings of those in regard to my dating life. But I think my main issue now is that I'm terrible at letting women who I'm interested in know that I'm interested in them. There was this one girl at my college who I had a crush who I asked to dance with me at the last big party of the semester, but apparently she had a big crush on another guy and didn't want to get distracted by other guys, so I respected that and let it go, but there's not much else I've done in presenting myself as a potential partner.
What am I doing wrong? How can I let girls know I'm into them?
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>>18388919
>How can I let girls know I'm into them?
"Do you wanna catch coffee with me next [Day] at [time and place]"?
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lol, I literally did the same thing as you.
I've never had a girlfriend, and I lost my Virginity when I was 20 because of Facebook (I don't know if Tinder was around in 2012). I'm 26 now, and haven't had sex since.
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>>18388980
I feel like that I'd have to build up heavily to this point, but also I'm a dumbass so I've never thought of this
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How do I become independent? 2017-06-05 08:29:01 Post No.18388893
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How do I become independent?
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Here's the deal /adv/, I cannot be independent. My entire mental and emotional stability relies on being in a relationship, and without it I completely fall apart. I'm in a happy relationship right now, but we are pretty dependent on one another and I hear that being in codependent relationships isn't healthy for either partner.
I have really bad relationship anxiety and separation anxiety and I'm heavily dependent on her to maintain my mental state, without her I fall into deep depressions and become prone to breakdowns and suicidal tendencies. The stress of not being with her even gives me slight memory loss. I know this because we separated for about 3 months, I developed all these traits (+ more) and I attempted suicide at least twice. Luckily we're back together now, but the root issues are obviously still there. How do I become less of a faggot and learn to be independent?
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You need to fix yourself first.
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Yeah I have pretty much the same issue and I kinda suck as a person
I've thought of suicide. And maybe I will. Maybe I won't.
Find out next week on the anon has a mental breakout show
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>>18388931
Go to a psychiatrist, you fag!
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Girls ask other Girls for advice thread 2017-06-05 08:25:03 Post No.18388877
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Girls ask other Girls for advice thread
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If you're on 4chan you're probably the kind of weirdo who doesn't have lady friends. But now you do! Ask anything.
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>>18388877
Do you wanna be my gf? I promise I'm nice and not ugly ;_;
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I befriended a guy I met online, fell for him, and now I have a dilemma on whether I should tell him that or not
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>>18388934
I did the same thing, except I'm a guy, and it didn't end up well for me!
Friendships are worth more than long distance relationships. Deal with your feelings another way.
Online relationships never work. You'll look back and wish you just remained friends at the end of it.
The lesson to be learnt is down to you though.
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Guy I liked shut down, I moved on and now he's upset? 2017-06-05 07:24:02 Post No.18388699
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Guy I liked shut down, I moved on and now he's upset?
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So a while ago I broke up with my bf and started hitting on his friend. He didn't want to start anything right away and was adamant that my ex wouldn't take it very well since the two were sort of close. I told him that it was between him and us and to not worry about him, but he's always been a thoughtful guy(part of why I liked him) and asked for some time.
Then last month he came to me in a stupor and I could tell that he was a bit down, I asked him what was wrong and he said that something terrible had happened; but that he didn't know where to begin with it and that it was dragging him down. I kissed him and told him that it was okay and that I loved him no matter what. He got me some chocolates and made me dinner that weekend(he often cooked for me and taught me some culinary stuff since I don't cook much) and things seemed okay. He was getting a bit distant though and when I'd ask him if he was okay, he'd say he was but looked miserable. This went on for about two weeks.
On his birthday I wished him a happy birthday and had a gift for him, but decided not to give it to him since he just seemed so disillusioned with everything. That night I went to a local bar with some of my girlfriends and this cute guy who worked there caught my eye. We chatted for bit, shared some drinks(he was off shift) and ended up sleeping together that night. We started talking and he and I started going out more often. About a week later the other guy called me and asked me what I was up too. I told him that I was going on a date, he told me to have fun and then hung up. The next day he came to me and asked to talk, he asked me what was going on and I told him that our lack of communication had been a problem for me and that I didn't know how he felt. He brought up the night we were together last and asked if I hadn't remembered what he told me. To be honest, I forgot about that talk and he started crying and told me that he'd tell me what the problem was if that's what I wanted.
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He told me that his twin brother had committed suicide and that when he tried to talk to me about it those few weeks ago, that he couldn't even bring himself to say it and accept it. In the end he asked me to give him a chance and that he'd make it up to me. But I felt bad about seeing this new guy and him taking me out and such. I told him that I couldn't do that to my now boyfriend and that I owed it to him to give him a chance. My friend then just nodded and left my house without even bothering to put his shoes on.
A few days later we argued over text and he said that I was a callous and cold person because I told him that I loved him, but when he needed me most; I just went and found another guy. When he had always been there for me and didn't drop me for another girl when things got tough. In the end he apologized for insulting me and gave me a hug when we ran into each other. We haven't spoken since and things are going great with my new guy. But I'm curious if this guy had a foot to stand on?
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>>18388699
That guy has all the fucking ground over you. Jesus Christ what the fuck man youccant just get 20 kinds of flirty with a guy then drop him for some dude at the bar. You're a bitch and karma is gonna kick your ass.
Note that I'm usually the guy saying for people to stop whining about friendzoning and shit, but you came onto him and then turned around and ran off to jump on some other guys cock. Congrats you're officially a slut.
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>>18388699
He wanted you to make him tell you about his issues so he could vent or get it out because guys are uncomfortable talking about certain stuff. Some girls will pry information out of their boyfriends because its the only way to get them to confront their issues.
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Quit smoking thru vaping?
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I really need to quit smoking. Can it be used as a form of nicotine replacement therapy effectively? I.e. is it effective to lower the levels of nicotine periodically, hit zero nicotine and then stop vaping as well?
Gum and patches are more expensive it seems, and unfortunately vaping at least would help the psychological and oral fixation of smoking.
I am using a cigalike from my gas station these last two days, it seems to be working, and is already cheaper than smoking, but I can't control the nicotine level directly.
Any pointers?
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Get the robocock vapes that you put juice in. My friends a heavy smoker and quit with it. I think the way it feels in your lungs has to do with it being good as a substitute.
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>>18388647
My mom and step dad both quit smoking by vaping now they dont smoke anything
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>>18388657
But did he manage to quit the vape? I am working out, and running since september, so I ultimately want to stop putting shit into my lungs altogether to increase my fitness levels.
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hi /adv/ I'm beta as fuck and can't pee in public at the urinals. I get nervous and it just don't wanna come out. I can poop fine and pee sitting down, help my cuck ass out.
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OMG, I have the same problem. I think it's just nerves. If nobody's around I can do it but if anybody is in there, nothing's coming out. WTF is that?
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Got the same problem. Fucking sucks.
Tbh I've just learned to be really good at holding it in for long periods of time.
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Try bringing your headphones and listening to music. Audio cues (ie the guys pissing next to you) often cause the problem in my opinion.
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How do I stop giving a damn about what strangers in public think of me?
The older I get, the more social anxiety I seem to get. It's almost crippling me to the point that I can't autowalk or eat food properly without thinking of the people around me judging my behaviour.
I don't feel the same way at all when I'm with friends in public, but when I'm alone I feel really paranoid. This shit ain't fun.
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>>18388617
Why would people in public give a damn about you? They probably have better things to worry about than your egotistical ass.
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Everyone in public is worrying about themselves not you LOL
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>>18388617
Think of it this way:
How much thought do you put into the actions and behaviors of random people on the street? The vast majority doesn't even register with you. For the ones that really stick out, you might notice it and within 10 minutes completely have forgotten about that person.
That's what everyone does. No one could give less of a shit what you do unless you go out of your way to interact with people and make them notice you. Even then that's somewhat difficult to achieve. Making a lasting impression on someone isn't something you will accidentally do.
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How many sexual partners is too many? How many would be an absolute turn off to stip you from dating someone. Just curious.
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Depends upon the age. But averaging 2 new partners per year since being sexually active is reasonable to me.
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>>18388600
Well you never tell them you fucked the football team
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I've had 6, but I've had long dry spells in between. 05-08 was monogamous, in 10 had a threesome, 2011-2013 had a fuckbudy, and a new fb in 2015-2016.
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>girlfriend left me
>now I have no one to split bills with
>family lives across the country
>cheapest place I can afford only leaves me $300 for food monthly
>work full time job that is a few dollars above minimum wage
>mfw people tell me millennials are entitled when I can barely feed myself
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>>18388587
Are you retarded? 300$ for food monthly is more than enough
How much do you eat?
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>>18388589
I don't eat much but a bag of 5lb potatoes here cost $12
300 is everything left over though. So that's clothes and hygiene too.
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>>18388587
I spend about 50€ on food per month. And that's if I get myself something really nice a few times. Then again, I cook for myself which isn't always easy to do with a fulltime job. Do you usually buy something to eat for your lunchbreak (assuming you have one)? If so, you could start making sandwiches instead and bring them with you to your work and make a light dinner when you get back home.
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GF of 9 months wants a kid. 2017-06-05 06:03:33 Post No.18388482
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GF of 9 months wants a kid.
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Hey guys I am 24 year old med student. Haven't had really intense feelings for a girl before this one. She is only 19 and I don't want to burden her in the sense with a kid to young. Her sister suicided about 8 months ago. So it happened 1 month into us dating, I believe it sorted of made me stop being a Man slut and really made me quite soft for her. Well she has been super duper clucky wanting for me to start a family with her. I already have a 1 year old daughter with her friend from Highschool so having a bubby around all the time doesn't help. Just I am not sure, she says she wants this more than anything else. I don't know how I feel about everything I am just looking for some constructive thoughts if possible.
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>>18388482
Literally everything about this situation and post is fucked.
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>>18388496
I fucking know right?
Like finances aren't a problem it's just I don't want another kid so soon, but I don't think I can say no. Everyone around me thinks I should knock her up. Like she essentially is a housewife to me already. Cooks, clean, literally will go out buy me booze and smokes if she has fuck all cash. She has even stopped smoking and drinking for 2 months now. just to seem more of put a baby in me material.
Sorry if my grammar is shit, always has been always will be.
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>>18388482
knock her up then, if she wants a baby you know thats what´d really make her happy
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Do all girls look plain without makeup? Pic related
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No, most are much uglier
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>Pic related
lol sure virgin
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>>18388411
what kind of question is that?