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How does one deal with losing their virginity?
I'm in no rush to be honest. Is sex as great as people say? 19 male reporting in.
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Dont turn it into a rush op. I lost mine out of curiosity to some random girl, it was awkward and I preferred to have done it with someone I actually liked.
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>>18397355
Ah cool.
I swear the pressure to try and lose it is just a joke at this rate.
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>>18397385
in the same spot as you except im 23. no hurry...
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Ever Just Feel Like Life Isn't Fair and You Were Dealt a Bad Hand? 2017-06-08 06:57:59 Post No.18397231
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Ever Just Feel Like Life Isn't Fair and You Were Dealt a Bad Hand?
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I feel like I can't just have the things normal people have and that my life is a cruel joke. Like the universe thought it would be funny to concentrate every shitty trait in one human being.
>Grew up with parents with anger problems who would blow up on me for the slightest mistakes
>Have social anxiety, never had a lot of friends
>Grew up poor, so I kind of missed out on experiences normal kids have (never went on vacation or even been out of my province, never had a birthday party, etc)
>Have gynecomastia
>Have very feminine, gynoid/pear-shaped body, despite being male; always have to be conscious of constructing my outfit in ways that draw attention away from my hips/thighs
>Never kissed a girl or even held hands
>Can't even order drinks at a bar properly like a normal person because I don't have experience with drinks because I never had a social life, and I don't know what they even are
>Nothing interesting about me and nothing to offer; even normal activities like going to the cinema are rare for me
>Despite having hobbies, I suck at them no matter how much I practice; I don't have anything that I can be proud of or secure about, I'm inferior to everyone
>Ugly face
I've tried making an effort to change. I started asking girls out and going on dates, but I never go on more than two with a girl before she starts ghosting me. Tried making friends, but they've stopped responding to my texts. I work out, but I still look like shit because I can't control my compulsive eating, it's more like an addiction than a matter of will
The one thing I had going for me was school. Was a straight-A dean's list student. Even that's gone now, because I can no longer focus and I feel like I have ADD all of the sudden.
I just want to be normal. Why am I like this?
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>>18397231
Only every second of every day anon.
I just pray someone kicks my door in to rob me and catches me off guard and just drops my useless ass.
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>>18398580
I know that feel. Don't want to kill myself because I'd hate to hurt my immediate family (or at least my mom and sisters, don't really care if my dad is sad because of dead son because he had it coming by making his son want to be dead), but if something "happened" to me, I wouldn't protest too much.
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>>18397231
There's no such thing as normal. Everyone has issues they deal with, even if they're invisible to the naked eye. Everyone's got their own demons. There are lots of things you can do to improve yourself if you pursued them and made an honest effort for a sustained period. But you have to actually want to try.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-06-08 06:57:41 Post No.18397230
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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Guys - why did you choose your SO over any other girl? What makes her special to you?
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>>18397303
Pretty much the same reason my best friend is my best friend. It's hard to put it into words beyond that.
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>>18397303
Men never pick only one girl.
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my husband told me that he has gay fantasies and wants a treesome with a trap.
i think that's disgusting and degenerate.
divorce is not an option, we have a toddler and a baby on the way.
how am i supposed to handle this?
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>>18397217
you can simply say no. but he will likely cheat at some point.
reconsider whether or not divorce is an option.
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I understand how you must feel. That must be very tough for you and I couldnt imagine going thought what you are going though.
Husbands and wives are supposed to be supportive of each other. Can you think of any ways you can support your husband though this? Is there anything you can do to help him?
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>>18397217
Tell him to stop watching so much porn. Normal straight men are often turned into sexual deviants because they need more and more extreme porn to get off. Alternatively, let him experience fucking a trap. Earlier this week I saw a lot of guys on 4chan admit that they did this and they realized that it was not for them.
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My mothers dating preference 2017-06-08 06:44:31 Post No.18397200
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I'm a 22 year old black man and my mother prefers that i stick to dating within my race. I am secretly dating a white woman and i don't feel the need to tell her. How can i express my feelings towards my mother without upsetting her or worse getting kicked out of my house.
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>>18397200
you can't. or rather, you can't force an outcome. there is not some magical third approach guaranteed to make her change her mind.
she is who she is. she'll either accept whats happening or she wont. if you think she won't, then wait until you can support your self to drop the bomb.
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>>18397200
Yeah fuck, I wouldn't wanna Date nigresses aswell as they are fucking awful
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Do you have a healthy relationship with your father? If so, how do.you think he would feel?
Does your gf have a healthy relationship with her father? If so, does he know that you two are dating?
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Another relationshit thread but with a gay twist 2017-06-08 06:13:15 Post No.18397139
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Another relationshit thread but with a gay twist
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>be with bf of 4 years
>1st year its alright, more a rebound guy from first bf
>later into 2nd year, ask him why he's so quiet and i'd like to talk to him and be more open
>"i'm just a quiet guy with not much to say"
>whatever i guess
>4th year in, getting real fucking sick of dating someone who is a wall
>by this point i know his "im quiet" excuse is bullshit because he talks to his friends, coworkers and his worker crew pretty well even if they're new
>now; living with him for summer
>get a job at his company in a different department but still see him often
>see him standing around chatting it up with other supervisors (he's one himself) while i work
>think to self: quiet and "super busy every summer" my fucking ass
>been cold to him for 2 days now
>dumbass still hasn't realized that i'm pissed at him even after him asking both days, which just solidifies the point ive told him in the past that he doesnt pay attention to me
>had a date recently (2 weeks ago) with guy who i met a year ago and is genuinely interested and wants to see each other again
I don't even know if I should salvage this relationship. I can't find the worth of being with someone who is about as open as a fucking clam to me, can't talk to me, ignores me but says is "madly and deeply in love" with me. I also find the work so monotonous and somewhat betrayed, as someone who studies and works hard as fuck, about him being a busy guy. I could care less about leaving a few days into the job; it's not in my field, provides no useful skills, most likely won't return to the company and I'm essentially a glorified gardener so far.
However I'm cautious and treading carefully because I'm living with him for the summer, he got me the job instantly (which I don't know if his reputation will take a hit or not if I were to quit) and wants to travel out to his place in Alaska which he's said multiple times he really wants to take me out there.
Advice?
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>>18397139
How about you try, and actually discuss this with him. Confront the man
>but I did
NO! I mean actually try, sit down with the dude and open your heart to him. tell him you're feeling neglected because he never bothers to discuss anything with you. Being mad and cold shouldering him isn't going to do anything when he avoids speaking to you in the first place.
Relationships are a joint lift my dude, it takes effort from both sides. You gotta open up if you expect him to open up as well.
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>>18397139
First off, you sound like a cunt.
Secondly, leave him he'll be better off. Boom.
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>>18397154
>hurr he'll be better off without you
Ha, okay based off of what? A bitter post from an anon that got neglected by a boyfriend of four fucking years and had a single date with someone he met a while back? With the addition of cold shouldering someone? If I were a cunt, I'd leave fucking him over with the job but not without telling him off and letting him know that day I took the train to the city was to meet another man, not to explore.
>>18397152
How are you supposed to confront someone who takes precedent in irrelevant things, carries a conversation with yeahs, okays, yeps, and mhms that lead absolutely nowhere? I've legitimately had a talk with him before and didn't go anywhere. I guess that was pretty stupid on me, in retrospect, not talking to him and being cold. It's not like he's hasn't noticed, I just get the impression he doesn't care too much.
I will sit down and have the talk with him another time (if he's even receptive to it) when I've cooled down because now I'm just heated.
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There has been a cat living in my backyard (for around a month) that I have been feeding. Whenever I try to get near it, it runs away (underneath my porch).
What should I do? I'd like to take it in if possible, but I know that if it's feral it would be an arduous task. It makes eye contact with me but it just will not approach.
Would a feral cat live in my backyard this long? I haven't been feeding it proper food but I will get cat food for it tomorrow.
It seems pretty young too.
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>>18397097
sounds like my first gf.
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>>18397097
My suggestion is to just be patient! Next time you feed the kitty just sit quietly with the cat while it eats. Allow the cat to approach you if it wants to be touched!
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>>18397109
The problem is, it refuses to eat when I am around. Tomorrow I will buy cat food and heat it up and see if it will approach. If it doesn't approach, would it be wrong to assume it's feral?
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So my gf of like 5 months broke up with me over text a couple minutes ago, her reasoning was that she "didn't feel a romantic spark" and that it had nothing to do with anything I did and that it was only because she just thought it wouldn't be fair for us to be in a relationship where one of us didn't feel anything for the other. I can get that, but being the kind of person I am I have to blame myself for not being romantic at all. I'm particularly bummed because she was the first girl I've dated since high school (3 years ago), a genuinely gorgeous fat girl - which is like finding a unicorn for a chubby chaser like myself, and also a virgin - which is equally unicorn status. We never fucked.
I think I'm just having trouble accepting that I'm not cut out for romance because I want to get laid at least once with a girl I find sexy, but at the same time I'm okay with just jerking it. I guess I just want to say I've fucked just to say I've fucked.
Looking to vent some, I guess.
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>>18396739
>gf of like 5 months
>We never fucked
Jesus Christ OP.
I'm going to be completely straight with you.
You had to make a fucking move.
Girls don't feel attracted to guys who can't take charge and fuck them.
Movies lie to you. Girls don't just want a nice, romantic guy. Girls want a fun, dominant guy who's willing to take chances.
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>>18396739
Geez if you're a chubby chaser, the current world is your oyster. Find one you like and make her feel pretty and sexy and she'll be giving it up in no time. Nothing quite like getting your hands on a big fat butt when your banging I've got to say.
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>>18396755
You see I was thinking the same thing, but her previous relationship that lasted 2 years ended after her boyfriend pressured her for sex too much, and if she claims to be a virgin I'm willing to bet she doesn't want to fuck period. If there's any truth to that, I don't that would have worked either. But I guess I'll never know
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i think i'm done with puttin other's feels above my own well being.
i can not sleep next to my bf but he has always said that he thinks it's the last straw for couples to have separated beds. but i need them or else i will ho crazy from sleep deprivation.
i'm also going to tell him that he has bad breath and that's why i can not bring myself to kiss him. he has decent oral hygiene, but somehow it's not enough and i'm disgusted.
further, i'm going to tell his mom to mind her own business.
how much of an asshole does this make me?
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>>18396703
as soon as you say these things, expect people to forever despise you
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>>18396703
it doesn't make you an asshole but you need to understand that a key component of a successful relationship is communication. bottling it up and then releasing it all at once like this is not conducive to a healthy relationship.
Also you should NEVER put anyone above yourself.
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>>18396703
Do it. Wish I had. Now I'm married to a garbage breathed motherfucker who also can't understand why I might want my own bed. Not like he ever wants to fuck anymore anyway.
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My gf got a crew cut and it looks terrible. I said I'm happy she likes it but I prefer long hair. She called me a misogynist and "it's 2017." She basically says "fuck you for having a preference, that is misogynist"
Should I just dump her immediately?
How the fuck can someone ask me to have sex with her while simultaneously not caring or having a single opinion about her phsyical appearance at all? That is a direct contradiction
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>>18396685
Don't stick your dick in crazy.
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Why were you ever with someone like that to begin with.
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>>18396685
if she's meant to care about you and then calls you a misogynist for having a hair preferece then you should realize this is toxic. She obviously doesnt care about you that much to say something like that.
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How do you afford shit adv.
I swear i don't seem to have money to do shit ever in life. Granted my current job is shit, but i've had not so shit jobs in the past and I could afford some shit, but not like i see most people who afford shit do.
Affording shit like concerts, or enough alcohol for a drinking game, or intensely following through on a hobby or being able to get a shiny new thing now and then. What with the cost of rent light water gas phone and car insurance it feels like theirs never any money left over for anything, not for eating healthy, not for a gym membership, not for going to social gatherings and meeting new people. not for better looking clothes. Really just having to be worried about how spending 5 or 10$ here could make the difference between not paying X bill on time or not having dinner tomorrow.
I guess my question is, if you can afford to do shit well enough while still covering all your expenses and not going into 0 by the time your next pay check rolls in. What's your income at, what changes did you do to become more economically stable? People living off other people excused of course. Are you working full time? Do you feel happy at your job? Do you still have enough time leftover to do the things you want to?
Idk i feel like theirs something that should be complete common sense that i'm not doing right.
TL;DR: How much money is enough for a comfortable life and how do you go about getting it.
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>>18396625
how much money do you make per month?
what are your expenses? are you wasting money on addictions? if you smoke cigarettes a pack per day can add up to ~$200 per month.
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make sure you don't spend unnecessary amounts on insurances you don't need. check the best deals and switch if you find something better. get good at filling out taxes and saving money there. make sure to streamline all your expenses, iow, only rent the apt you really need, tmnot the one with an extra room that will just fill up with unused stuff. sell what you haven't used in a year. get used stuff if possible, it's mostly as good as new.
track your expenses. make a DETAILED budget.
mostly, change your attitude. if you THINK there's never enough, there will never be.
maybe your income clashes with the living expenses where you are?
idk, read books about money management or something.
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>>18396633
My expenses a month typically average 338
I do smoke which definitely does have an impact but it's alot less because i live close to an indian reservation. Here cartons average about 26$. I smoke a little less than a pack a day though, but for a good estimate lets leave it at a pack a day. so on average my montly expenses are 416ish$. That's before factoring in food, which would be another sizeable chunk of anywhere between 100~200 a month.
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Should I lose my virginity to an escort? I'm only 18 and I'm socially awkward so I've never had a GF.
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>>18396600
No, I don't think you should
If you haven't actually tried to get a gf then no way
Also, would you feel comfortable telling your gf (when you get one in the future) that you lost your virginity to an escort? I'm sure that wouldnt feel to good to say
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>>18396600
No, not worth it.
Infact, don't do a One Night Stand "just to lose it" either. When I was 20 years old, I felt really pressured to lose my virginity so I fucked some girl from Facebook that I didn't like. I did it just to lose the VCard. So not worth it. It was a really awkward and shitty experience and it fucked me up later in life. It made me resent sex.
So, just wait until you're with a girl you actually like and trust.
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>>18396611
Not OP, but how old are you now
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I debated where to post this. I can't really talk about with my family on Facebook since I'm not really out to them, and LGBT has been less than helpful in this regard.
For 12 years, I've basically been a shutin, and I've come to realize recently that I am transgender. Realizing this, accepting my gender has done wonders for me, and now I want to make friends, to go on dates, but I have no idea how to meet people, or if they'd even want to know me when they hear I'm trans.
What do I do?
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>>18396574
Search online for trans-friendly bars and clubs in your area. Go to them. Talk to people you don't know in what should be a relatively safe space.
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>>18396574
kill yourself faggot
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If you've been a shut-in for 12 years, you do not have the life nor the experience to judge whether or not you are transgender.
Sounds more like you are seeking a change in circumstances and are trying to go to extreme measures in order to do so.
Why, instead of changing your genders, you start going out more, learning new things, or even improving yourself physically by working out an hour or so a day?
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If about 120 appleseeds are ground up and boiled into a "tea", would the cyanide created through the grind still be concentrated enough after boiling?
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250 seeds minimum and you can't make a tea out of them. you'd have to chew them and swallow.
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>>18396524
You'd probably be better off eating a bunch of bitter almonds.
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>>18396524
You'd probably be better off eating a 12 gauge bullet
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>be me, 21, b cup
>no hope for natural double ds
>researching ways to finesse my way into affording new set of tits from sites like MyFreeImplants.com??
Not trying to prostitute myself out there But I'll willingly send nudes
> help ( o ) ( o )
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>>18396428
only way boobs grow naturally is preparing for childbirth... otherwise gonna have to save for falsies
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yeah but why tho? fake tits aren't as attractive as the real deal.
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>>18396428
>solid 8/10
>wants bigger tits