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I posted this yesterday now I have an update that I wanted you guys advice me.
So I'm the 26fm with 20m.
>Last night was my friend birthday party and he invited me, happened 20m was there as well
>Turned out his relatives also was there
>They looking at me and all.
>I felt uncomfortable, being silenced.
>He came on to me so hard that I didn't know what to do
>I acted null and uncomfortable the whole night rarely talk to him
>I left the party first, he stayed.
>We haven't talked since then.
The thing is he acts like he's really into me and all but he doesn't show it much for me to know. Like no messages or anything. Still liked my Facebook posts bla bla.
I know he's still a boy but I don't have that much experience myself either. I don't know what to do now.
>Should I text him to ask what does he want and such?
Because I'm losing one of my friend who has a crush on him just because he came on too strong and I haven't made anything clear with him yet.
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>>18384538
I'm not understanding the whole story but age is only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Do not text him and ask him real direct questions about his intentions and such. Ask to meet for coffee or something at Starbucks and level with him. Why is everybody wanting to play these stupid fucking 12 year old games all of the time? I know a guy who's 27 that just married a 39 year old. You wouldn't know if to look at her and they dated for two years. She doesn't have kids either and she's cute and norme.
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Lay it on the line!!!!
Put yourself out there and let him take the bait.
Tell him how you feel.
Its vulnerable and scary. But after you do it you'll feel like a millions bucks wrapped insite an anxiety chamber but that relief will be better than never doing it.
Grab life by the horns and fuck it into submission. You won't get anywehre just not confronting shit.
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>>18384556
Do you work for Starbucks?
OP it's quite possible you'll have to lead him a little. He's just a kid after all. Don't make a big deal out of it, just send him a message saying 'why don't you come over?'
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In your opinion is accepting being average giving up? Or is it being realistic?
Are you one of those people who listen to motivational speakers and movies telling you to be better than everyone and rise above? Or are you happy with being average.
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I'm below average famalam
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>>18382416
probably not, there's a huge rise of depressed NEETS in the millennial generation.
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>>18382391
If you can be financially self-sufficient and reasonably happy, you're doing great. Not everyone has to be a movie star or a billionaire.
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Figure we'll make this a thing.
Useful resources:
Nat'l Lawyers' Guild, "Know Your Rights" (advice for handling police encounters) http://www.nlg.org/know-your-rights/
ACLU, "Know Your Rights" (same) https://www.aclu.org/know-your-rights
See your public library's collection of books by NOLO on just about everything to do with the law you could imagine.
Frequent posts:
>I can't afford a lawyer!
1. For criminal defendants: You may qualify for a public defender. Call the public defender office NOW.
2. Find a legal aid organization near you and CALL THEM NOW.
3. If you're a university student, your school may offer free legal aid.
4. If you don't qualify for either of the above you probably actually CAN afford a lawyer, but not all lawyers. Find a lawyer who advertises for your type of case and find out if they offer free consultations. The lawyer will give you an idea of costs and likelihood of success.
>Is X legal?
We don't know. It depends on the jurisdiction and the specific circumstances.
>I got a DUI. Wat do?
Get a lawyer. Many will offer free consultations.
>My ex is suing for full custody! Wat do?
Get a lawyer today, without delay. See above if you think you can't afford one.
>Can I sue X for doing Y?
Maybe. A lot depends on the specific circumstances and the jurisdiction. You will probably need your own lawyer to sort through this and tell you not only whether you have a case, whether bringing it would be financially worthwhile.
>How do I [do an illegal act] and get away with it?
We don't know. Lawyers usually deal with people after they get caught.
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how do I go about getting my family member who is an addict forced into rehab?
also what kind of money dollars do you earn?
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>>18381494
>forced into rehab
There are some proceedings you can bring to have a person declared mentally incompetent or unable to manage his own legal decisions, and get someone appointed a guardian. That MIGHT work. But the fact that it'd be used to impose involuntary commitment, I'm guessing in an inpatient facility, would almost certainly trigger other requirements. It might not even be possible to be honest.
>also what kind of money dollars do you earn?
Not a lot right now, but I'm not very experienced yet. I charge around $200/hour for those matters I handle on an hourly rate (which isn't many), and since I'm a solo practitioner that all goes to me. The real key is keeping the clients flowing.
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Bumping for new questions.
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How do I make friends?
I'm 21 years old and I'm about to spend another summer sitting on my ass doing nothing because I'm a shut in. I'm tired of rotting in lonely misery, I want people to talk to. Quality people, not degenerates you meet at a bar. Where do people my age go to make friends outside of university?
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>>18379226
Do you not have a job...?
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>>18379226
First of all, you need to stop spending all your time playing video games, so you need to make a commitment to yourself and delete all your video games and sell or donate your consoles.
Secondly, you need to find things you're interested in and get involved in those things. Meeting people comes secondary to that. Idgaf what it is. If it's martial arts, or politics, or Magic the Gathering. It literally doesn't matter.
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Work is always where I've met the greatest, most influential people in my life.
Traveling is also good, however it's very unpredictable. I got good friends in many countries, that I met while traveling.
Everyone wants a good friend and you can be that guy no doubt, you just have to swallow that fear, use your rationality and get out there. Just talk to people who seem similar to you.
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How do I recover from shaming myself? 2017-06-06 07:00:18 Post No.18390496
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How do I recover from shaming myself?
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I've never come here before so I don't know the board culture, so sorry if greentext isn't standard here
>live in mom's garage
>bout a month ago
>mom get wild hair and picks up a shit assed little bark machine from some shelter
>dog decides it's my dog
>ree
>be now
>precious pupper is sleeping tight in my bed
>be at computer
>been gassy all day
>feel a big rumble
>have bathroom in garage but toilet can't handle my massive dumps
>don't want to have to go to house
>dogger will have to be carried into the bathroom with me or else she'll wake up parents
>also it's night and all I'm wearing is a big ol pair of granny panties and don't have time to find clothes
>maybe it's just a big fart
>maybe it'll pass
>it isn't
>it won't
>try to sneak out of house without waking pupper
>pupper snaps to life like a fucking rage zombie
>fat faggot ass pupper sprints out the cracked door into the fucking night
>try to whisper loudly like a youtube lp'er trying not to wake his mom in the next room
>dog isn't coming
>the rumble persists
>start shouting as quietly as possible for dog
>feel anus trying to crack open
>fuck it
>I don't care, no more dog then
>run up to the back porch
>arm fully extended
>rip the door open
cont
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>dog was somehow fucking there already
>step on her
>trip over her
>she's screaming
>fall inside the house
>tear down mom's stupid fucking hippie commie pink beaded curtain down
>tangle in beads
>fall with back arched up so I don't hurt my screaming dog further
>form a human tent of beads and poopsweat over her
>dog is living the end of the world and is screaming appropriately
>trying to free herself from 70s home decor, she flops violently upward
>headbutting me in the guts
>the guts already strained by arching
>now we're both screaming
>tangled in beads
>and now I'm shitting
>parents have obviously woken up from all the ruckus
>stepdad: large, what used to be known as high functioning autisitc, first generation German illegal alien
>comes running down from parents' bedroom
>with his shotgun
>he is also screaming, but in German, having apparently been startled into regressing
>now a chorus of three different languages are all screaming
>2/3 are tangled in beads
>one is shitting
>one is pointing a shotgun
>mom comes in and has the fucking sense to turn a light on
>now we can all see
>me and the dog are trapped in a third world fishing net and covered in shit
>there was a point about halfway through where I could have stopped shitting
>but
>you know
>may as well live a little
>the screaming stops
>dog frees herself and flees into the night
>stepdad goes back to bed without saying anything
>mom stares at me like I'm a piece of shit
>I am, Ma
>look at me
>look at what your baby became
>she turns the fucking light off and gos back to bed
>lay down in the beaded shit cocoon I've made
That was last night/yesterday morning
I haven't left the garage all day
I don't know how either of them or even the fucking dog are ever gonna be able to look at me the same way again, and it's not like I was a point of pride for anyone to begin with
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>>18390501
Accidents happen don't beat yourself up over it.
Really it's not a big deal.
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>>18390527
I mean thanks but like
What would you think of someone after you saw them naked, trapped in a beaded curtain, and basically shitting on the family dog?
I just have to imagine that's what they're gonna picture now when I walk in the door
Maybe I could just let the embarrassment wear off for a few days and just act like it didn't happen
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Am I being unfair to my roommate? 2017-06-06 04:25:26 Post No.18390157
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Tonight my roommate said I never give him a chance to fix issues.
About a week ago, rent was late, AGAIN, and I yelled at him. I told him that rent needs to be on time every month, without me asking multiple times. And that he needs to contribute to the house - trash, dishes, cleaning, etc.
So three days ago (Saturday), he knocks on my door. Asks if I have any dishes I need washed because he's going to do them "tonight." Of course, they sat there, while he played Overwatch, and tonight, in frustration, I did them.
He came down all sad and frustrated and said that I never give him a chance to succeed and that he was "just about to come downstairs and do them."
Should I have just let it sit and wait, more and more and more? I'm already working on kicking him out but trying to give him some chances.
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No, he's just kind of a whiny bitch and doesn't know how responsibility works/is a man child.
"Stop being an entitled bitch. It's not up to me to baby you and GIVE you chances. You need to take the initiative and EARN them like an adult.
If you really want to fix shit, instead of crying about me not giving the chance to, prove it through your actions and just fucking do it. I'm not your mommy, here to hold your hand."
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>>18390157
you could try telling him specific dates it has to be done by. I mean dishes sitting for two days is nothing.
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>>18390157
your roommate needs to grow the fuck up
you badgering him about it won't fix the problem
people don't change quickly
get a new roommate
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Do I have to make the first move with a girl? 2017-06-06 03:39:57 Post No.18390069
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Do I have to make the first move with a girl?
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There's a girl I work with and we get along great. However, she's 17 and I'm 21. I joke with her and she genuinely laughs and seems to enjoy my company.
She told me that today was "Maybe the last day we'll see each other". I thought that might me she would give me her phone number or something, but she didn't. But I didn't ask.
I've never asked for someone's phone number and I've never sent anyone a friend request on Facebook. Should I send her the request? Or wait a day or two before doing that?
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How have you never asked for a number at 21 years of age? Yes, ask for her number. DM her on instagram and ask for it. Be like "Hey, I completely forgot to grab your number the last day of work, but I'd love to hang out sometime!"
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>>18390069
9 times out of 10 you have to make the first move
maybe even 19 out of 20 times
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>>18390073
Damn, I know. I've never done it, never felt compelled until know when I really should've I guess.
>>18390075
Damn it, is this true? I kept thinking "well if she hasn't said anything, she must not want to give me her number".
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18 year old girl here, I need some advice. Its a bit of a rant so sorry
first off, my family is rich, I wont sugar coat it. We're loaded and the "rich family" in our relativity small town which we also basically built over 100 years ago. So you get the idea, rich old money.
Because of this, I was always ostracized growing up from middle class kids, I always felt left out and desperately wanted to just go be a kid with them. Instead I had to learn about class and elegance and other boring garbage, and the only kids I talked with were the children of other rich families that were kind of snobby.
Then I met him. the son of a local baker in town that got hired with his brother and their friends to do work on my families (embarrassingly large) house over the summer for a few of our parties. To top if off his uncle is a contractor who has also done work for us so he worked at my house almost all summer and I basically fell hard for him. Its sounds dumb bt he was just different then anyone else, blue collar worker, didnt judge me for my money or kissed up to me. Treated me like a person. We didnt talk much at first he'd go hang out with his friends in town after work and I wanted to join but couldnt. My parents said I "didnt have the time" and honestly I was scared id be judged or come off like a snob without meaning to. I was already teased for being "miss money bags" around town when id go out. We'd make awkward small talk but eventually got to know each other and I felt comfortable with him. I even went out with his friends (after begging my mother) and did like, normal kid stuff.It was awkward at first (will explain later).Then the summer ended and I went aboard for the past year. Those last few weeks of summer were some of the best times ive had ever and this year I want to do it again and maybe even date him.
how does an affluent girl swoon a regular guy without looking like a creep/desperate/airhead?
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The only people who care about your wealth in your small town are you, and other stupid people. Stop (that's step one)
Step two is stop giving a fuck about your parents
Step three is talk to this guy and give a fuck about him.
According to you, he isn't kissing your ass and judging you, and that's hard to find. Try not to fuck it up.
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>>18389614
>Step two is stop giving a fuck about your parents
actually, my dad doesnt seem to mind. Said his family is "good people, hard workers, you dont find that stuff with the regular folks as much anymore" I mean, it came off as kind of rude but it was well intended. My mother was a different story, but she comes from that old money as it has been for generations. Shes gotten a bit more understanding though
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>>18389602
>how does an affluent girl swoon a regular guy without looking like a creep/desperate/airhead?
Here's how I go about these things:
I want to be with a man who is kind and patient with me when I am nervous and embarrassed. If he doesn't like who I am when I'm nervous and embarrassed, then he's not a guy I want to be with any way.
So go ahead and just ask him out. Tell him you like him. My current boyfriend I snagged when I sat him down and said, "I want to talk to you about something. I kind of have a crush on you." I was so nervous and light headed that I thought I might pass out. I had my feet up on my chair and I was hugging my knees. I could hardly look him in the eye. I had only known him for a day. And keep in mind that we're both adults, with jobs and whatnot - I felt like I was a middleschooler confessing to a classmate.
His response? He laughed and said, "I kind of have a crush on you too."
He thought it was adorable and was flattered that I cared that much about him. He had fallen for me right back.
And now we've moved in together.
Don't second guess yourself so much. Just let it happen. You won't know if it'll work until you try. Don't let your future self wonder what could have been.
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I'm ganna be honest here and say I can't get over my gfs past
We've been dating for over a year. I think about it every day. I have old school notions of love and dating- I simply want to be my girls first. But she fucked two guys on tinder prior to dating me. I don't know how to feel about it. On one hand because of her past I feel like I can't view her as more than a sex object, but then I think whats the point of being in an LTR with her?
My main reasoning is this- she's never ganna forge the men she's been with. Any rating she would give me would be watered down by previous boyfriends. I'll never get to have her the way her first did, and that depresses the ever living fuck out of me (yes im pussy etc. etc. fuck you)
Should I just break it off forget dating altogether? I'd rather be single than be with a girl whom I will never be special to.
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forget*
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Stop chasing amy and be happy. If you don't understand the reference watch chasing amy by Kevin Smith. Don't get hung up in the past.
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i see shit like this all the time on this goddamn board and it's so goddamn stupid. why are you so obsessed with being her first? all first means is that you don't know better. you can eat horseshit all day and think it's great if you've never had steak.
if your girl is not a virgin and she's choosing to stay with you, it means you're better than what she's had before. yes she's comparing you to the other guys and she's judging you to be better.
a compliment on your cooking by a gourmand means a lot more than someone who eats slop every day.
Hey, I stalk a girl from school online.
It was a few years back but:
>Had barely any friends in high school
>Lived with dad, Vietnam Veteran
>He did hit me a lot
>Government gave me this picture/scholarship for it
>Never had much social contact growing up
>Tried talking to people in HS
>I told this girl I was having a hard time
>She ended up harassing me in school
She seemed like a nice person but I was trying to be a bit private about some things and she thought I was upset because of rejection.
I sent her a message this morning telling her how I went to to the hospital in high school because I cut my wrist.
She knows I went, but she didn't really care to ask why.
She said she cared, but I never got that feeling. She never bothered to apologize when she made fun of me after I told her I was suicidal.
I have a fear of social situations, I'd love to going outside but I just have a fear of doing so and her harassing me kinda fucked with that. But note I probably did it twice as bad with all the messages I sent.
It was a few years ago, I'm 20 now. I do take drugs and sometimes send cooked out messages. .
I would have really liked to have been friends with her AT THE TIME. Not now, but I would drop it if she apologized or took down the post she made making fun of me.
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>>18389505
You need serious counseling and therapy, some girl from highschool is the least of your problems.
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That's what she posted.
I thought I was explaining why I was mad she harassed me.
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>>18389514
She is fucked up too, both in her interactions, and to interact, with you.
Forget that though, focus on working on your own shit.
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Does depression have to be clinically treated? Is one year+ a lot or will it go away at some point
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It depends on cause of the depression. If the depression is caused by a chemical imbalance it needs to be treated, if on the other hand it is caused by something else it only goes away with self actualization and improvement. It cannot clear on it's own.
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>>18389465
too bad being a trash retard fuck doesn't clear on it s own
ty for the info tho
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>>18389490
Sounds like a chemical imbalance desu
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22 year old beta seeking advice. How to score pussy?
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>>18389417
250 bucks and Craigslist
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>>18389418
This.
Or tinder.
Given that you're at least 6-7/10 youll have some good chances.
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>>18389417
Get /fit/
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Is there a way to fake finding a dog? Can I buy one that looks
I like pic and turn it in?? I cant get a job and realIy need money right now.
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They are going to know if you pull some silly shit like that.
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Your best bet would be to find a university study that pays for the retarded to participate in.
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>I need money, should I waste time looking for a dog to buy in order to get a measly $150 instead of getting a real fucking job?
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How do I turn this into a date? We live near eachother and go to the same uni
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if you have to ask us even if it ends up one I doubt it goes well.
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"Hey have you been to <insert local coffee or diner place>? I'm going there tomorrow and they have great <insert favorite thing> there. Want to come?"
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>>18389297
Just ask her on a date and get it over with
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My gf is addicted to heroin
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I feel like I'm at my wits end dealing her serious drug problem. I am all she has and can't get any help to get her clean. At her worst she'll shoot up like 600 dollars a day in heroin and ruin herself and me financially just to get high. I feel like I only have three options to deal with this. Force to detox cold turkey by basically trapping her somewhere she can't escape for a week or more, and then drive her to another state and drop her off with her family that she's not seen in 7 years. Get all her dealers arrested (I provided the police very detailed Information about all of them). Or I go Punisher and stop her dealers from ever being able to ruin people like her ever again.
What the hell can I do? :/
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>>18389230
Snitching on or going after a dealer making that kind of profit of hard drugs is going to get you killed. He has at the very least a supplier.
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>>18389230
Have you talked to her parents?
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>>18389254
I've tried, but can only get a hold of one of her brothers.