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>>18401077
>she loved me from the beginning
She lied to you OP. If she did she wouldn't have fucked through your circle of friends first or have a boyfriend now.

>>18401087
No, it's a bit more complex, she tried really hard to tell me, but I was too blind to see that, even my friends noticed her love for me. Something totally different that she experienced with other guys

>>18401095
That she didn't experienced*

bump this cant be homework since it's summer

pls help

>>18400977

You gotta start by calculating the percentage of people who only speak one language

make any degree of positive change in the world

suck her clit often

clean your room

>>18400906
Neglect her and do what you want. She will follow you to the ends of the earth

>>18400906
Respect her and communicate with her.

Make sure she knows you love her.
For every person this is different, but for me a small, daily gesture is what makes me feel truly loved, as I've always considered love an act of constancy more than anything else.

Allow her to be herself around you. Make sure she feels accepted by you and comfortable around you. Be her biggest fan and supporter.

Don't be afraid to speak up when something she does hurts you or herself. Criticise her when necessary. Don't be scared to fight when she's being unfair.

Learn to fight well. No screaming, no circular thinking, no bring up the same argument over and over, no shit like that.

Keep your own life and be your own person. Encourage her to do the same. Don't devote your life to making her happy, devote your life to being a good person in a good relationship.

Put effort in the relationship - spend time together, share interests, do things together, have new ideas. It's an investment.

Be a good partner - take care of yourself, take care of her, be fun to fuck with.

Well if you can't keep a relationship but can get sex with them, then it isn't because you are unattractive.

How old are you? You must have something about you that doesn't make you bf material.

>>18400879
Maybe you send all the signals for a sexual encounter. If you start by rushing the sexual part, your partner will know there is nothing serious going on and will take this as granted.
I am not saying you can't transform a one night stand into a relationship. I just mean you have to take little more time for a romantic relationship, because it is based on trust, and both must have a sense of respect towards what brought you together.
If you aim at a relationship, don't kiss/bring home on the first encounter, try to get to know the person before you take action.

>>18400884
I'm 23 and never had a real relationship. Getting laid is so easy I find but I have no real desire to do that atm.
I'm heartbroken and feel that I'm just simply not worthy of love.

>Although I gotta admit: seeing beautiful women naked is almost worth the pain of rejection
>>18400895
>not kissing on the first encounter
I thought that's what you're meant to do? I'm always more afraid of going too slow cause the women might think I'm gay or just a friend.

>>18400859
While it still burns, put special balm for sunburns. Then use atopic skin balm (no allergen, no alcohol), don't shave for the time being.
Then don't use antiperspirants with alcohol.
Some exist without aluminium (potassium aluminium is same crap), which will not contribute in your future breastballs cancer.

>>18400859
I had a very similar problem. It took a very long time to get rid of the rash. I had to switch to an unscented hypo-allergeninc antiperspirant for a while. If you're in the US, look for something call ed Almay and get the unscented one. Use it until the rash clears up and then go back to your original deodorant.

>>18400859
It would also be wise to use a gentle soap when cleansing your pits during a shower, like the soap Ivory, scented soaps may irritate exacerbate your issue while the skin is raw and flaky.

Very possible she used them and is cheating, what you need to do is calm down and act normal all while observing her and what she does so you can be certain
Cut her off cold turkey after that and make sure you have all your shit back before you do

oof

So figure it out man.
>make a list of possible people she can be cheating with
>snoop on her texts and social media message
>try to bait her into telling you herself
One rule: Do not confront her until you have solid proof.

>>18400557
Chill dude. Under no circumstances should you go to her house.

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So actually it was 3 texts but whatever.
I swear to fucking god if I log into Facebook and check her and see her accounts been "memorialized" I will lose my fucking shit I'll probably go on a murderous rampage I can't lose another friend everyone is dying around me

Please be ok holy shit

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>>18400568

Why do you say that? I'm not gonna break in, just knock on the front door...

If she's ok, why can't she just tell me that? I made it clear how worried I was for her wellbeing. Idc if she doesn't want to be my friend anymore please just dont be dead

>>18400533
I have no idea, but thought I'd keep you company

>>18400533
I don't think you (or people like us) were meant to survive into our 30s. were it not for modern medicine and hygiene.

>>18400533
I don't know my dude, you and me both.

Dump her. The fact that she won't even admit it is proof that this isn't going to stop.
I'm sorry this happened to you, OP. Stop dating bitches.

>>18400512
Dude, GTFO there. Three months is nothing. Learn a lesson from this and find someone better.

Wait wut.
So it takes the guy 3 hours to leave?
wtf man

I'm too unattractive to get a date yet I can't stop myself from trying. I'm so used to being shunned by everyone else that I also don't even want to try and every time I talk to a woman or ask her out I secretly hope she rejects me. I am never disappointed.

I already deleted my tinder because not even bots will match me. About to delete okcupid. Can't talk to anyone face to face, something about me is really off-putting I guess.

I know it's just stupid generic post-breakup thoughts but I cannot stop thinking about her and what I could've done differently. I know it ended for a respectable reason (we both have things we need to work on) but I just keep telling myself I could've prevented it. There are things about myself that I know I jeed to change and I grew complacent in our relationship even though she brought these things to my attention. Memories of her haunt me every minute of every day and I honestsly just want to be over it. I don't want to feel like this. I want to move on and find someone new but I keep thinking that I'll never find anyone like her. I'm trying to stay busy and hang with friends but it's still so hard when every little thing you do reminds you of a random date you went on or some random night you spent with her. 3 and half years worth of memories, and they never seem to cease.

>Maybe I'll get over and forget my high school crush after a year at my far-away uni?
>Naw, you're more crazy about her than ever

>It's not like I'll see her any ways when I come home for summer
>Naw, she's friends with your friends now, so you'll be seeing her every day

>Ok, but she has a serious boyfriend who is much more attractive than I am. I don't even have a chance
>Naw, she broke up with him weeks ago.

>Ok, but she's never given me any attention before. I'm way off her radar
>Naw, she'll DM you and talk about music for 3 hours straight like it's nothing

>Well shit. Maybe I have a shot after all. Next time I see her in person, I'm gonna finally ask her out
>Naw, she went to Europe with her family without telling you, and you won't see her again till next summer lol.

Sometimes I feel like God sticks around this world to shitpost on the lives of entitled doughboys like me.

I also told him goodnight in our usual flowery way, and he just gave me this terse Goodnight.

damn what a child lol

he sounds like a huge faggot

>>18400041
As one with adhd and a pretty decent education in clinical psychology...

The absolute be all and end all key to adhd is Environment. You're designed for certain tasks. Look for jobs that cater to your strengths.

You should be excellent at sales, entrepreneurialship, trades, or artistic endeavours. Ill put a heavy emphasis on self employment. You will absolutely excel in anything that you can actually dedicate time and effort to that you can do on your time and your terms without answering to anyone but yourself.

Remember that our problem isnt lack of focus, its hyperfocus.. Your brain wants to be firing and activated on all fronts, you lose attention ability on low stimulating activities because your brain is craving a challenge or to be highly engaged, so itll just go entertain itself.

Having said that.... Just get the damn medication if it isnt a money problem. Theres nothing to fear especially after 25 when your brain development is done.

The meds are a goddamn lifesaver. If you have a problem with stimulants (though i can tell you thats kind of silly) ask for concerta. It is a non stimulant and very effective.

>>18400041
Keto is good for ADD.

>>18400070
Concerta is a stimulant and like amphetamines, it is addictive. It is helpful however.

>>18400031

Don't drop the soap.

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>>18400031
jail, or prison? how long? possibility for parole? cmon, give some info, get custom tailored /adv/. otherwise just look on google for general stuff.

>>18400370
Jail. Misdemeanor embezzlement, $330. Michigan. 93 days tops but I haven't been sentenced yet.

>>18400019
If subtlety isn't working, be direct.

>>18400019
Just fucking talk to her about it?

>>18400019
>have a panic attack

She sounds like a nutcase. I bet you she is not a virgin

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Bampo

>>18400013
>kinda miffed when I said I was his girlfriend and won't say "love"
you are getting played and he likely has other women.

93% of LDR's fail. Even marriage last longer than them.

I believe you know the correct answer on what to do. You just need someone to tell you the reality. That is what I am here for. I know you know what needs to be done and I'm rooting for you to get it done.