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Asking for an opinion 2017-06-25 06:23:10 Post No.18455369
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I'm a 20 years old male. I'm being in a relationsip for a bit more than 2 years. I've committed a lot in this relationship in terms of time and money. I'm friend with her parents and i usually stay for dinner.
Now i'm starting to think if she's the right girl for me.
We usually get along but sometimes she has some attitudes that make me wonder if i didn't waste time with her.
I often look at other girls and think "if only i wasn't engaged".
What can i do to understand what i really want?
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>>18455369
its a myth that love is some all encompassing power that prevents us from wanting other women. on the contrary history has proven the exact opposite and the only source we can find for this sort of information is childrens movies. Love is like going on a diet. You still want the fucking cake, but you choose to avoid the cake because you know in the end you will get something that you really want, that your hard work and your suffering is worth it for what she brings to you at the end of the day.
you don't get married because you no longer want other women. You get married because its worth suffering without those women to be with this one in particular.
what you are doing now is questioning if you didn't rush it. you were likely just getting along and thought this was the natural next step so asked her to marry you. It's normal to question whether or not this was a wise decision in the long term. its interesting that people expect us to get married so soon after meeting someone. when compared to our entire lives 2 years is rather weak. and we are living in a longer period of self discovery, and the idea of marriage being permanent is something that a lot of us don't agree with until we meet the 'right girl'.
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>>18455387
This is such a deep thing that i had to screencap it.
I'v may have rushed with this decision. We didn't even live togheter.
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Penis too sensitive? Whenever a girl a would touch or put my wiener in her mouth I start laughing because how sensitive it is. What do?
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>>18455334
the only option is to desensitize yourself
maybe jack off more try getting worked up before a blowjob or sex
but if it's a big problem go to a doctor, a dermatologist or a gynecologist.
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>>18456054
I don't like masturbating. But when I do it feels feel good but it just feel too sensitive when my girl touches it
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>>18456761
Buy a fleshlight
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Life is too easy and boring. What to do? 2017-06-25 05:50:37 Post No.18455305
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Life is too easy and boring. What to do?
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>20 years old
>rich parents
>in medschool
>had a couple of girlfriends but I ended up screwing girls i met i clubs
>pretty fit (tennis and gym)
>tried almost all the drugs but they dont make life much more interesting
>politically active (speaker for a right leaning organisation here in germany)
>travelled the world last year
>ton of friends
Life just seems so meaningless and boring. I am going to accomplish everything ive ever wanted/ what people exspected me to want in life.
Is there anything for me left to do except for living and enjoying life as it is? I feel the need to expand further but i dont know what to do.
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>>18455305
build more wealth, gain land and truly live life when you reach god tier OP, get so rich and powerful that laws don't apply to you
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>>18455305
Challenge yourself more. Try something you have never done before.
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challenge yourself
try shooting yourself in the head, its a lot harder than it looks!!
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I hate all of my depressed friends.
Woke up this morning to about 50+ messages on Discord by a long time friend.
"Where the fuck were you???"
I was asleep dude, you started messaging me at 5 am.
"oh
ok
but in the future seriously tell me you are going to sleep and turning your phone off I need to know these things in case of emergencies"
Ok man, whats the emergency?
"i feel really sad"
Why?
"i dunno..."
Fucking great. I am so glad I can start my morning being berated and harangued by someone who needed to talk about how they felt sad. You know what we talked about yesterday? How they felt sad. You know what they talked about every day for three weeks? How they felt sad. You know what they'll talk about every day for the next three weeks? How they feel sad and also I need to be available at 5 am in case they feel sad.
And all my other friends and family have latched onto this idea that I'm this person's rock, the one thing that's keeping them from killing themselves, and that its my duty to save him, to cure him, to help him get better.
HES NOT GETTING BETTER. HE THREATENED TO KILL HIMSELF BECAUSE HE WANTED TO COOK DINNER BUT "DIDNT". HE SPENT THREE HOURS DOING NOTHING AND THEN WHINED AND LAMENTED ABOUT HOW HE SHOULD KILL HIMSELF BECAUSE HE DIDNT GET OFF HIS ASS AND MAKE SOME FOOD AND WHEN I SAID TO JUST COOK DINNER HE STARTED FREAKING OUT TO OTHER FRIENDS ABOUT HOW I SET HIM OFF.
I hate him so fucking much right now. I don't want to deal with him. I never signed up for multiple hour therapy sessions. If I tell him this, he'll kill himself, and if I tell others, they'll think I'm the hellspawn of Hitler.
How do I tell him to fuck off? How do I not make my family and friends hate me?
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>>18455286
people wont actually think you're hitler especially if you explain it rationally. you are getting sucked into his bubble and its causing you to think like him, like every little moment is a life or death situation of intensity.
even if some people do go over the top with how they react to you putting an end to this, thats their problem, and they are clearly acting over the top and part of the problem.
so go tell him that you're done. if you want. or you can just scale it back. just straight up when someone says 'you need to tell me when you're going to sleep' you should be saying 'no, my life is my life, yours is yours. if i dont answer its because im asleep or im busy.'
if he can't handle that, then thats his problem. figure out where to draw the line and if he crosses it, leave him. he wont actually kill himself, he just wants the attention, and if he actually goes for it then its not your fault because if it was that fucking serious his actual family should be checking him into therapy instead of insisting his best friend on discord is going to fix this shit.
is his name nelson?
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Tell him to go see a therapist instead.
and then promptly kill yourself for being such a shitty friend
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Tell him to take it easy and just ignore him so he moves on to using someone else as his emotional tampon. You're not fucking him/her so you don't need to deal with it.
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How can I be more romantic and passionate?
My girl tells me that I should be more romantic and passionate but she also claims it's not about buying her gifts or stuff like that.
Help
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she's cheating on you. pump, dump her, then go no contact
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Compliment her, touch her in public, kiss her in front of your friends.
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>>18455277
That sounds so obvious that I probably was too stupid to notice
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From 60 days prison time to civil infraction 2017-06-25 05:27:53 Post No.18455249
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From 60 days prison time to civil infraction
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Hey /adv/, I need some legal advice regarding a situation that I was placed in. The gist of it is that I was arrested for Criminal Trespassing about 6 months ago, and apparently the cop who arrested me recommended that the DA jail me for 60 days. That was 6 months ago. I was forced to hire a lawyer, but if you read the police report, I wasn’t actually doing anything wrong, and it’s very innocuous (using my computer in a lounge room). Eventually, the DA wanted me to accept a deal for 1 year probation and plead guilty. I refused. Finally, the DA saw the light and realized that taking me to trial would be a waste of time and so he called my lawyer and now they’re offering a violation and want me to pay court costs ($100) and no additional fine. I still want to take it further since I feel like I did nothing wrong and the woman who arrested me actually misled the cops (told them the door was locked). I just don’t think its worth it at this point. So, after 6 months of embarrassment, I pay $100 to the court and that’s the end of it. The thing is, I also have to pay my lawyer and he tells me the grand total bill will be about $2,500 (partly because they kept delaying the court date). Can I still go through a civil lawsuit against the person who got me arrested or do I have to get the entire case thrown out? It seems weird that what started off at 60 days in prison ended up going all the way down to no fines or probation.
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Police report #2
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Police Report #3
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>>18455249
This sounds like an excellent question for your lawyer, a person qualified to answer it.
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How can you not get jealous of other couples as a single guy ? 2017-06-25 05:12:47 Post No.18455224
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How can you not get jealous of other couples as a single guy ?
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The thing is that I'm actually trying to get a girlfriend and it isn't working out.
I posted a picture of myself here, a few days ago to get constructive criticism from you guys.
I might be ugly and I guess I need to improve myself more.
For example:
>I'm taking driving lessons, so I can't pick her up if I want to date her, I'll just need to catch a bus.
>I'm a beginner when it comes to playing guitar and weightlifting, I can't brag about these hobbies yet, to appear more cocky and macho.
>Still living with my parents and I help them pay the bills, she might get turned off due to the fact that I don't have my own place yet.
I just get pissed and jealous when I see couples have a good time while I'm actually trying to find my own girlfriend.
I can post that pic of me again, to get more advice and (constructive) criticism from you guys.
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How old are you OP? And yes, post the pic, I missed your previous thread.
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>>18455232
I'm 23 years old.
I can also post another (maybe even better) picture when I'm done working (after 7:00 pm).
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>I forgot to post the pic.
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I can orgasm but it's not very strong, basically any pleasure I build up in my clit fades and my vagina starts pulsating/contracting
I want to have the kind of orgasms that women have where they get dizzy and it's fully body pleasure and they moan
Is it possible? Or does everyone have a different capacity for pleasure?
I've tried wand vibrators, g spot stimulators, edging, kegels, elaborate fantasies, acting out fantasies with other people, not sure what else to do
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The same thing happens to me. I don't know what else to try.
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>>18455225
Good luck.
I wonder why our problem doesn't get spoken about much, it's always women who can't orgasm but never women who have crappy orgasms.
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I don't think there is something you can do about it. Scientists say that the female orgasm has not evolutionary relevance. So it just developed in some way, leaving some women with a crippling inability to experience orgasms or at least good orgasms.
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I have these feelings for a coworker of mine, but I'm not acting on them because I dont want to fuck up the work dynamic. We're a very small and tight and close workplace, so doing this would get around and easily disrupt the dynamic here. We're both going to quit around the same time in September and she'll be attending my college. Should I just be clear about how I feel now, or wait until we both quit? I recently took her to lunch and that solidified how I feel since she was just fucking cool. I'm absolutely fucking concerned because she's been looking to online dating these last few weeks and I fear she'll find someone she likes before I do something about this.
We both have low confidence and shit like that, but I feel already defeated since most of my mind is so convinced that this'll fall through and then that'll be the end of knowing her.
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>>18455152
Well go for it then, from your post you're in a good opportunity to do it, and don't overthink it to the point it'll be like the end of all.
If you're going for it and it's not meant to be, just think of it as a blessing in disguise since who knows what shit to come if you're forcing it? Cheers.
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>>18455181
So should I ask her as soon as possible then? I thought about this and was thinking of holding off until around mid july, since I did just hang out with her a few days ago and I dont want to seem too forceful out of nowhere. Of course the prospect of her going onto online dating has me in panic mode so I was also thinking of just getting all this out in the open within the next 2 weeks. I just dont want the dynamic we have at work to get all awkward, but I know I'm facing against time here.
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you should probably take the time to get to know her more. if something were to fuck up between you two, work would be god awful and awkward. she's attending your school next year, you say? don't rush. get to know her more. she'll find online dating isn't the greatest when she has someone she can actually iteract with in real life.
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Is sex worth it?
I am 32, and I've never dated a woman. I think, I should try hooker, but I am not sure, because I am afraid to catch some disease and suffer from it for my entire life.
What are the pros and cons of sex?
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The best part of sex comes from the emotional intimacy of two people who are extremely attracted to each other. That emotional intensity is what drives passion and good sex. When one member of the party isn't into it, the tension becomes apparent and the sex becomes terrible. This is why hookers suck for your first time - there is no connection and you miss out on the best part of sex.
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>>1845514
>for your first time
Okay, first time will be bad, I'll buy another hooker next day after this. Will it be better?
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>>18455133
Just castrate yourself, you're too socially fucked up.
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Alright /adv/, I need your help, collectively.
I watched a Spanish horror movie the other day and literally fell in love with the lead in it. She's the most attractive woman I've ever fucking laid my eyes on. I must meet her and be in a relationship with her.
My plan is to
>start acting in short/indie films
>after a year of doing that send my resume off to america or wherever the fuck
>become a b grade actor
>after doing that for a year, be in bigger and bigger productions
>become a very famous and rich actor
>go to spain and meet this woman
>do all of this in 5 years
The issue is, she's 41 and I'm 18. How do I do this /adv/?
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easy.
find a Spaniard or Latina who looks similar, can't be too hard.
who is it by the way? Victoria Abril or someone?
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>>18455073
That's not her. But no, it needs to be this specific woman, no one else.
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All that seems a bit too farfetched.
I suggest you write her a letter instead.
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Would it be stupid to join the military with your main reason being so you won't feel guilty about not joining?
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>>18455051
No, I knew a guy that joined the Navy because of Megaman.
He wanted to be the "Blue Bomber"
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Yes. Don't believe Pentagon lies. America has a military capable of taking on the entire rest of the world put together. They don't need you.
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Probably. If you aren't cut out for that kind of shit, its probably more of a service if you don't waste their time and tax dollars.
Whats the guilt really from? You feel like you're not doing anything for your country? There are many ways to serve your country without signing your soul over to uncle sam. Volunteer, particularly with politics. Next election time, volunteer to work in the voting booths, or campaign with someone you believe in.
Otherwise though, any form of volunteer work is good. Helping your city helps your country. Helping your fellow citizen helps your country.
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How do I control my anger? 2017-06-25 03:41:20 Post No.18455030
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How do I control my anger?
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My fuse has been really short lately, fucking drop my butter knife on the floor this morning, and got so pissed that I threw my butter container across the room.
How do I get a hold of myself?
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bump
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>>18455030
Stoicism. Read Meditations.
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>>18455030
Identify what your actual problem is
sounds like you are repressing something or several things
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Should i bug her one more time?
>matched with nerdy qt on tinder
>assumed she's the 'take out on a few dates first' type
>talk to her, conversation goes well
>got her number
>texts me for a bit
>stops replying
>said hi yesterday, nothing
Well i found her twitter since i have her number, and i was surprised to see what she's really looking for. Just got out of a long, serious relationship, and she's pining over the guy, saying all kinds of shit about how all these guys are asking her out, but she wants them to go fuck off because she's still grieving. BUT, she's a nympho and craving some casual sex. So it sounds like all these betas are just sweet talking her when she just wants to be pounded.
Well i didn't even get to ask her out before she ignored me. Should i make a last ditch effort and say something lewd? Maybe she'll be like "okay, this guy isn't a bitch and would actually fuck me, i should give him a shot".
Or should i just delete her number and forget it?
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If she isn't replying, she isn't interested.
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What do you have to lose?
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>>18455022
That's what i'm saying. Everyone acts like GOD FORBID TEXTING HER AGAIN HAVE DIGNITY! But you have to realize how many suitors this bitch is getting, i'm probably lost in the mix, and she probably assumes i'm just another beta faggot, since i was making friendly conversation with her.
So i'm thinking i should at least try an 'i'll fuck you good' kind of message before i stop, since i now know that is what she really wants.
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Should I stay in a relationship I the hopes that one day she won't want us see other people on the side?
>They live miles away
>They're in love with their bestfriend
>they want to get a beast implants
>I love them to death
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>they
who's they
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OP, you need to understand that right now you're being played and "saved for later". You're a human being and don't deserve to be treated like a dessert to be saved after the main course.
Tell her that she isn't worth it and that you're better off finding someone that actually values and loves you. I was in the same situation, and eventually came to regret it. Don't be me. Just tell her to fuck off and that she's a shitty person for doing this.