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>>18454468
>after a certain age

idk if you noticed but a lot of women are shallow c:

>>18454468
such is dynamics of male female relationships, ways you see chick are not as same as ways chicks see dudes my man, only thing that changes with age is older women not being able to party as much cause of aging, younger girls on playing field, children and such
younger girls don't plan too much ahead, so they seek excitement

It is sad that we aren't fully educated in matters of love.
What you are experiencing is something called agape.

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>>18454322
OP is spreading their buttcheeks? how do you know this?

>>18454293
idk what to tell you OP. but here's a snek that someone forgot to don't with.

This is normal when you are lonely and only have a single person in your life you relate too.

Your options are to either try and hook up with them in which case good luck, meet someone who actually lives near you which will in all likelihood lessen your feelings for random internet anon as you are connecting with a second human, or finally you can continue to be alone and slowly drive yourself mad with loneliness while building internet anon up to be much more than he is.

I guess you could also find some other internet people to talk to but that won't really fix anything.

>>18454270
Are you fat?

>>18454270
I don't think it's a medical problem however you can get it checked out if you really want to. I personally like really cold temperature and even shower with "freezing" water. It's just a very unpopular preference, don't worry bout it.

Just immigrate to America.

Have a doctor rubber band the thing

Start taking Metamucil. Every day. It will soften your shit and let it pass painlessly.

I would still see a doctor about them anyway though.

>>18454291
This. Luckily the one I had went away but it was so awful I researched everything I could do to get rid of it if it ever came back. This seems to be the sure fire, quickest route.

Why did you drop out + Are you going to complete the studies sometime?

>>18454078
Did you leave your refrigerator running? xD

>>18454081
This is was very severe. I let my mind run wild and thoughts wander as it pleased for experimental and also ignorant reasons. It came to an extent everything I tried to do caused severe headaches and inability to concentrate at all. I wish to finish.. But I'm knee deep in business and it wouldn't help me increase my income or reduce any load in life right now from what I feel. I'm only doing whatever that gets me to success faster..
>>18454086 fridge is fine thanks

>>18454056

define 'successful'.

This would need to be some really beta loser whimp with low self-esteem.

Or a French president.

>>18454056
Damn, uh.... Well I am getting in a relationship with a 19 year old and I'm 29. I still view her as a kid but I know she is mature and calm and sweet. She obvs still has growing up but so far so good.

She also said that "she needs time" to sort it out even if I'm not trying to change myself, which I originally took as "give me space", but when I tried to give her space she freaked out and wondered why I wasn't talking to her and thought she "lost her best friend". So what does that mean if she wants time to think but apparently wants me there as close as I have always been?

>>18454022
She is going to leave you, sorry anon.

>>18454051
Oh, why is this? Why tell me things she was unhappy with and say she thinks if they change so too will her feelings, that she even rebuffed the idea of taking a break and reacted so negatively to me giving her space? Because she really heavily indicates she wants to feel for me romantically again, infact when I brought up a break she said if I want to see other people because she's not good enough like this I can, but she isn't interested in seeing new people

add more context, op.

>>18453889
Alright. We've been together almost 6 months, and I realized about 5 months in that I didn't want this relationship. I don't know how to say shit like that without sounding like an unfeeling dick.

>>18453904
what about the relationship do you not want? it's good to outline what you want to see and how you feel before doing it since you seem adamant on breaking up with her.

Anywhere?

Then leave the country.

>>18453878
>We desperately cling to Jeremy Corbyn for hope, and sort of disassociate from the fact that he didn't even win the election
Huh?

> We are essentially at war against Islamic terror.
Much of the world is at least initiating police actions against Islamic terror - so what? Has it ever been easier in the world?

> Where should I go to study in a financially viable way?
Well, usually in the UK. You maybe can go to *work* elsewhere once you've got degrees from academies foreign nation's companies trust.

Almost every other plan is not very easy or financially secure.

>>18453895
C'mon, acting like he didn't lose the election, worshipping him at Glastonbury, the list goes on.

>>18453838
humble bump

>>18455079
>>18453838
a patient, yet still humble, second bump

>>18453838
Some reasonably applied business minor. Accounting is good.

You know that you can be friends with someone who has different interests, right? You can even be friends with people who aren't the same age as you.

Damn whats your career?

>>18453562
>You know that you can be friends with someone who has different interests, right?

It would be easier for me to make friends with people who share my interests.

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>>18453474
What helped put you in the right direction?

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>>18453484
Pain and loneliness was the driving force. As far as "setting me on the right path" I tried everything from across the internet. /fit/ is half people who don't know what they are talking about but being on any program> not being on a program. Diet means more than anything.

Your going to need self esteem from somewhere and lifting is all sorts of good when dealing with anxiety and getting the testosterone/motivation to change yourself.

Goodlookingloser and Mark Manson's Models were probably the two best resources for getting social/interacting with girls. To this day I remind myself of GLL's "9/10 guy is much different than the 999/1000 guy that your imagining" speech.

Zen and psychology (the older the self help the purer) helped a lot. I had to get over a lot of emotional baggage. I had only anger as an emotion at one point. I had to work to become honest with myself and get the full spectrum then I had to work to deal with the pain of the full spectrum.

I can give more specifics if you have a particular concern.

The best advice I have is to try everything, never give up and put faith in systems and routine action.

>>18453474
>Why does the chip on my shoulder feel bigger than ever?
Because you're still as insecure now as you were back then, I think. Despite all you've achieved you're still not sure you're worthy of any of it, and so, anything that might challenge your worthiness strikes really close to home.

To get rid of that chip you have to internalise that you've made it, that the little pricks you feel are nothing more than that. Mosquito bites on an elephant. The futile attempts of those jealous of and far beneath you to rile you up. Rise above them and find contentment, you have nothing to prove. Grow closer to your girlfriend, do your job and take things as they come. You have managed to take all the steps, save the last one.

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>>18453325
Shes all depressed and moping and not even interacting with people normally or doing the things she likes now since we broke up. I just don't know how I should act while she unfemales herself for however long it takes. To me it feels like cutting her off and leaving would be most damaging to us as that will only isolate her from me even further and leave her hurt and upset towards me for "leaving her", but I also dont want to just become a beta orbiter she has no sexual or romantic desire for, as right at this moment I know that there is sexual and romantic desire in there, somewhere under the feelings for the other guy. She was still expressing them with occasionally groping me or revealing herself to me and infrequently would kiss me passionately for a few seconds.

What do I do if I want to get her back /adv/

>>18453325
stop making these threads you fgt

>wants us to be there for each other still while she figures all this out

Enjoy being a cuck/emotional tampon. She will get off and orgasm thinking about this guy and then text you how sad it is that they can't meet irl. Have some self respect you idiot.

>>18453339
Thanks how about next time don't respond and shove your sense of superiority up your loose asshole

>>18452780
if you don't carry anything for them to rob then they wont have anything to steal :)

>>18452780
First off...it's Defense you ignorant fuck. And second...just kidding. You're fine. Best way to defend yourself is to move further north. To Iceland.

Martial arts.

>>18451711
Well you can start off by getting a sewing machine and fabric/materials then learn through trial and error, quite a decent amount of resources on the internet to show you.

>>18451711
Start with what you have and work from there. Need more money get a job that pays more. On your free time work on the skill. Believe in your capabilities. If you stick to this road of thought. You will find ways to go up in the industry.

>>18451711
you need to do like Karl Lagerfeld and find a rich designer boyfriend who'll teach you all the skill3 and stretch your boipoucci, then leave you all his millions. that's what you need to do.