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I haven't averaged more than one hour, maybe two outside a week in the last six years
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OUT. THE HOUSE.
y. Four weeks! Innit too soon teenagers are fuckin falling in luv with fidget spinners n shiz, she dunno what she wants she can't even woke up on wronfsidenahaved and keep coming at a with Ur new favourite shirt and cunt crushing shit.
Nah shorter down the toilet pipe and she'll be Rightmove mate..


GO. GET OUT.
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>>18456610
It's literally being sheltered. Exposure to the outside of your safe zone will make future exposure easier. I had agoraphobia until I broke it by going out.
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>>18456626
Except I ended up like this because I always hated being outside
It was a slippery slope

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I just got fired from a job after working for a week. Is this a common thing because I never been fired that fast before.
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>>18456576
Reason?
Was it being lazy not doing things on time or something else entirely?
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>>18456576
Tell us the whole story. Clearly something fucked up somewhere.
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>>18456586
>>18456587
I was working in a bucher shop as a retail associate. Place was pretty understaffed so the workload between doing prep shit and taking customer orders was stressful. Wasn't fast enough and had a tough time remembering a lot of things. I suck at multitasking..

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I'm feeling depressed and everything again.

And I have a weird craving to see and talk to a girl I knew 5 years ago who was nice to me but also kind of rude without realizing it.

I'm a married man, age 22, but I hate my life and I'm depressed and I miss these girls I once knew.

I also feel like I have a mountain of tasks I've been putting off for months and have text messages from nearly 2 years ago that I still need "to get back to" because I'm that bad at replying. I feel like I'm constantly procrastinating, for years. And I've only been married for 1 year.

But I feel like I can't do anything until I finish everything, so to speak. But most of all I miss that girl. She doesn't even have a facebook. I was happy enough to find her on linkedin.

Please help me.
Please.

I feel so sad and crying and trapped right now.
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>>18456552
go back in time and don't get married
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>>18456565
I'm falling apart here.

I'd be even more lonely if I weren't married. Suicidal even.

I don't understand. No matter what I do, I'm just so lonely.

I love my wife but I don't know why I'm so sad.
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>>18456552
What's wrong with your marriage?

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I'm lonely, horny, and I'm trying to avoid masturbating.

How do I stop from doing stupid shit like messaging people and making an ass of myself?
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Just jerk off. It's fine in moderation.
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>>18456541
Yeah, but part of the reason I stopped is because I haven't felt sexually charged in a while. Now that it's coming back, I'm getting impulses to make poor choices.

If I don't figure this out sooner than later, I'm just in the same boat as before.
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>>18456549
do you have a reason that you need to feel sexually charged?

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So I have a HP DC7900 (as seen in image)
I need a disk drive with over 200GB
That'll actually fit inside this things case
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>>18456494
The SFF, USDT, or CMT form factor model of the DC7900? Assuming the device is identical to the image it would be the SFF model. In that case most 3.5'' sata drives should work fine.

If this machine is at a business, you have a supplier at HP, and you need to replace it with official HP parts for some inane reason you can reference the following part numbers:

504337-001 for 250GB
504338-001 for 320GB
504339-001 for 500GB.
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>>18456781
If you want to be safe though and make sure the drive will fit no matter what run out and buy a standard laptop sized (2.5'') sata drive.
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Generally speaking as the previous anon suggested, any old 3.5" SATA drive will do.

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Looking for advice and/or someone who can tell me if they feel this too... so I have a boyfriend of a couple years. and I love him to death and I want to marry him. And he's always been faithful and doesn't try to hit on other girls or let himself get into situations where he would do something wrong...but the thing is I kind of want him to.

sometimes I imagine him kissing other women, or having sex with them, and more than jealous I get really aroused by it. like I want to find him someone really attractive and let him do whatever he wants with her. He's a really attractive guy, sometimes I feel like he's out of my league, and it makes me feel even more attracted to him when I think about how he could probably reel one in if he really wanted to...I haven't said antying about this to him because I don't know how he'd react. and I've tried not having these fantasies but I keep coming back to them. almost anytime I see a really pretty beautiful girl like pic related I start imaging her with him.

How should I deal with this? and is it normal? is this at all common or am I really weird...? one one hand part of me feels like it is weird and wrong somehow and that I should stop feeling this way but it would also be a relief to know that there are other women in the world who deal with this.
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>>18456484
How would you feel if your boyfriend cheated on you with a hot girl would you be jealous or would you feel horny. And if you feel horny then maybe suggest him to have a threesome but the problem with this is that you have to be sure you might hate him after he has intercourse or some sort of sexual desire with another chick and how insecure are you?
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>>18456484
Sounds like you are what is called a cuckqueen, I've only ever seen 2 of them ever online and 0 in real life that I am aware of. But there is porn out there for your type, check it out and see if it's something you might want, if you're actually sure about it then have a talk with your boyfriend and see what he thinks.

I personally know I'd be too upset to have sex with another woman in a relationship unless it was a polygamist one, where the third girl was intimately involved in the relationship and the original partner also liked her. Obviously most guys dream about this though, so make sure it's something you actually want and are aware of the consequences(like getting some one pregnant) before you bring it up to him though.
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>>18456500
don't want him to cheat, would prefer that he were open about it. definitely open to threesomes

>>18456510
I'm glad there's a word for it...but I am afraid to bring it up with him for the reasons you mention I guess

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>dad fucked my oneitis
>she married someone else

How am I supposed to live?
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>>18456436
what the shit dude, how does that even happen??
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>>18456436
Your oneitis is your mom?
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>>18456438
I fucked my dad's girlfriend when he was in jail. I think he did it as revenge. I think he really loved her or something. I don't know, I thought their relationship was on the rocks when I did it.

I shouldn't have done it, it wasn't worth it.

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Need some advice regarding abusive brother.
Summary:
>Be me
>Been physically abused by 10 year older brother for years. Like, pretty bad.
>Eventually he moves out, shit returns to normal agan.
>Pick up life, doing pretty well for myself.
>I'm able to be around my brother on birthdays 'n shit, things are swept under the rug. Was never able to really converse with him though, shit was too awkward.
>Year ago we (me and my mother) learn that he's a pedophile and he's raped my sister for years, stirs shit up again.
>My mother too ashamed to talk about it with the rest of the family, drama ensues and well, nothing happens. She still welcomes the devil at home.
>Recently got into an argument with my mom, said something I shouldn't.
>Mentally challenged, pedophilic brother was around to work in the garden.
>Go upstairs, he attacks me, almost kills me.
Cont.
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>>18456356
>Called police, wanted to sue him but my mom talked my out of ti at the last moment. And the timing wasn't great since I'm waiting to be issued a gun licence. I won't sacrifice my fun for that asshole.
>He's not welcome at my elderly house anymore, and has to stay away from me and my sister.

Anyway, I don't know what to do. Things were allright, but he's shown that he has learned nothing. I think he should be punished. He's really depressed and his conscious weighs heavily on him, has been for years. But even despite all of that, he's shown he hasn't learned anything of his mistakes.
I think he should be punished. I want to tell my other brothers what he did to my sister, because he'll be shunned by everyone, maybe even killed. But I know I'll devastate my mom and my sister by making that public.
I just want to hurt him. I will get back to him, but I just don't know how. I'm studying to be a lawyer, so I should be careful how to do it. I just want to make his life miserable, like he tried with me and like he succeeded to do with my sister. I'd love to do this the legal way, but in a few years I might resort to less legal options. I can't let this slide.
So, I kinda needed to vent I guess, and this is perhaps a very bad place to do so. Still, any advice /adv/? I'd greatly appreciate it.
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>>18456362
What do you want truly? Ask yourself that question imagine the outcome and the feeling of that outcome and conclude what's best, what are the repercussions if you do or say anything have you put yourself in your sister or mothers shoes have thought that maybe your sister is embarrassed about what happened and what about your mother who raised not only you but also your brother who was inside of her when he was a fetus.
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>>18456418
Been asking myself that so many times. But I'm also kind of angry at my mother for keeping relations good with him. I mean, how could she? It's just hard when you feel so much hate towards someone

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How do I go about tripping on shrooms for the first time?
How do I obtain the shrooms?
Where should I do it?
What kind of person shouldn't do shrooms?
Will it make me schizophrenic?
Will I die?
I just want to find some sort of internal meaning or meet god or something
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>>18456349
getting them could be hard if you don't know anybody. I know this sounds obvious (and also you might not want to) but just ask literally everyone you know who you think might be able to help.

Do it somewhere safe and comfy. You might feel a little sick toward the beginning, and its always good to stay comfy.

It won't make you schizophrenic.

It won't poison you in any serious way (the worst thing that could really happen like that is a little vomiting or diarrhea)

You won't die, but I wouldn't recommend hanging out by a cliff or tall ledge or giving your tripping self access to obvious ways to end up hurt or dead. The biggest potential for harm is just doing something retarded to yourself (NOT that this is common)

Have fun, just don't be retarded, and good luck.
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I hope it isn't really your room, otherwise sorry for ot but you might have to solve something else first before doing shrooms, im saying that for your safety. ANon
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>>18456368
>getting them could be hard if you don't know anybody. I know this sounds obvious (and also you might not want to) but just ask literally everyone you know who you think might be able to help.
Fuggggg
>>18456391
that's not really my room. i think if our rooms were based on our souls like dungeons in the Persona games, that would be my room

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How do I stop with my horrible eating pattern. I would have a good day, go to work, do some little excersise after and then all of a sudden I get really hungry. Like I need some kinda shit food to make me full. Like today I went to work and mowed my lawn for 2 hours. Come in and order a pizza and drink coke. Or the other day I went walking around the park for a little while and all of sudden on the way home I get burger king. The worst part is I have a meal replacer shake at my house and dont use it as much as I should. It just doesnt fill me up when I get really hungry like I need real food but sometimes there is none in my house. I want to buy a grill to cook more myself but im waiting on more money since i only work part time. I lose energy and motivation to do things when I eat like shit but I fear im addicted to it.
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>>18456321
Do you game if you do start gaming distract yourself don't think about eating and if you're hungry eat something like a apple while gaming to keep you distracted or drink a lot of water that will fill you up.
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>>18456324
I game alot which is another issue I dont need to go into now. But I dont eat from being bored its just actual hunger. Even if I am busy doing shit I still feel it
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>>18456336
It might be because of a condition how long does it take for you to get hungry again after eating a meal?

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I'm coming to accept that I don't like people. If a food is very unappealing 80% of the time or something, you wouldn't claim to like that food, would you?

What is on the other side of accepting misanthropy? I actually lose out on specific friends and sexual partners, by becoming too unhappy with them, maybe because they are degenerate or manipulative.

Society is structured around human cooperation. People need social interaction as social animals. What is an honest misanthrope supposed to do?
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>People need social interaction as social animals.

Not to say this is untrue, but this instinct doesn't trump reason. If you genuinely are happier by yourself than with other people who you can't tolerate, you need to accept that about yourself. Learning to be more tolerant is an entirely different discussion, but basically you do it as a means to an end.
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>>18456477
>Emotion doesn't have to trump reason
That's true.
>If you are truly happier by yourself
I'm not, though.

Maybe being around people in general is about learning to appreciate them without ignoring the glaring flaws?
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>>18456556
Glaring flaws being immoral and self-destructive behaviors

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

You dumb niggerfaggots. You are supposed to make another thread *before* the old one dies. Otherwise no gf/bf for (you)'s
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Girls, my penis is hungry. Wat do?
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My puss tastes like salty water. Is that normal? How do I change it? It's not super salty, but definitely detectable.

>>18456275
Urethra probing.
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>>18456280
Does it still taste the same even after showering?

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I am a 34 year old man and I haven't spoken to / communicated with my mom in any way for 4 years.

>inb4 why not, what's wrong, you should talk to her

I'm not here to talk about why, but I understand if people have questions and I am willing to explain to some extent. For right now in the OP I'll just say that she's very needy emotionally, and manipulative. She's not a horrible person but the bad outweighs the good.

What I want is advice on how to get her to leave me alone.

I told her that I didn't like talking to her four years ago when I broke off contact. I told her to stop contacting me.

For the first year she would just email me a lot. I hated it but then I realized I could just block her email address. That helped for a while, but then she called my work and left a message with me. This was a new job and I never told her the phone number.

Then two years ago I got a new job, and within a week of starting my new job she was emailing me at my work email. I have no way to block her for that email address. Also she calls me at my work number. I have asked if I can block someone from calling me but my boss says it's not possible (although he added that if the calls are harassing then I should call the police).

I don't talk much generally with the rest of the family, but about a year ago I made the mistake of calling one of my uncles who promptly gave my mom my new cell phone number. So now she texts me too.

She lives very far from me, but in September she has a trip to a nearby city. She keeps texting, emailing, and leaving voice messages at my work phone about how she wants to see me. I want absolutely nothing to do with her.

I could tolerate this, even though it really sucks, but one thing worries me: she might just show up at my work. I wouldn't put it past her to just show up and make a big emotional scene in front of my coworkers and basically force me to either talk to her or flip out / call the cops.....
(too long)
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>>18456265
(continued)...
I guess my main question is, for anyone who knows, can I take legal action? I find her repeated contact very upsetting, especially since some of it is truly unavoidable. There's no way to block her from calling me at work, and I can't even delete the messages without listening to them in their entirety (although I guess I could let them play to the end without listening).

Is it really illegal harassment though, and would the cops take it seriously?
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>tfw read this as "how can i get my mom to fuck"
>tfw disappointment in what could have been an interesting thread
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>>18456265
OP here, sort of bumping and sort of explaining more.

I don't want to call the cops on her. It feels like it shouldn't come to that. But she won't stop, and I really really want her to.

So maybe the question I should ask isn't whether I can "take legal action", but whether it might get her to stop. I don't want her to get arrested or to sue her. I just want her to stop.

But I also don't want to take the trouble to reply to her emails with a threat of legal action, and then have her just keep doing it and then feel like an ineffective jackass for making empty legal threats.

But honestly, I should also admit that *IF* it was both possible and necessary to have her arrested in order to make her leave me alone, I would.

I'm having trouble getting it up (or mantaining the boner, actually) when meeting new women.
In the past 4 months, after having ending a 4 year relationship, I've fucked the same 2 women several times and have not had any performance issues, except for going a bit soft the first time but only momentarily.
2 months ago my dick went limp and I couldn't get it up with a new girl and the same thing happened yesterday, yet I still have no issues with the ones I've fucked multiple times.

I'm decent in bed but I get really nervous the first time. I still make up for it with my tongue and hands but I seem to be limited to give them the whole package (no pun intended) and it's having a snowball effect on my anxiety when having sex with someone new.

How do you deal with these things? Do you take viagra? Do you try to reduce overall stress, as soft dick is a byproduct of being stressed out?

TL;DR: dick goes soft when meeting someone new but have no problem with women I've been with several times with
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last bump
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Get the lowest level of cialis or viagra. Just a little boost to overcome the anxiety issues. It works wonders. Order online generic and it's cheap.
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"heh heh Ur too beautiful old mate won't show"

Are necklaces cool to wear?

I always thought thought they were for girls, but maybe the right type of necklace can actually make you look cooler.

What do you think?
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>>18456258
Depends big one make you look like a fuck boy small ones make you seem like a wanna be and medium are okay. Big chains make you seem like a show off and a dick, small ones make you seem like a married man or a boring guy mediums are fine I had to justify that.
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>>18456258
Autist with street cred
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>>18456258
No, they're for puerto ricans and douchebags from the 90s

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