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Is aiming for a 4.0 GPA in college worth it for engineering?
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>>18457262
From what I understand, GPA is taken into account when hunting for jobs before you have actual work experience.

It would be prudent to aim as high as possible
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Well it can't hurt. Everyone and their dog is going into engineering these days, you need to stand out in as many ways as possible.
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>>18457305
>and their dog
More like
>and their adopted Asian brother

So, I've got a gf of 5 years we're pretty serious and everything is going great. Now a few months ago met a new chick at work, she's super energetic and happy, polar opposite of my gf. After talking with her a while, I discover I have feelings for her, while talking to her, which she deduced on her own and told me "it's ok, I've got a crush on you too". So now I'm in this hell where I can't stop thinking about her. When I'm with my gf everything is fine, and I forget all about the new chick. (lets call her D) however, as soon as i see her again, I'm stuck thinking about her, like her hair, her smile, her laugh, etc. Idk what to do here because I know I love my gf, but I think I'm starting to love D too.
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>>18457241
I know that you can't really change your feelings so just try to distance yourself from D and hang around your gf more. I know that D works with you but just try to stay away when you can
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>>18457249
Yeah that's what I was thinking, but these pangs in my chest just don't go away. I hate feeling like this, feeling like a cheater, but thanks to D I can understand why someone would cheat. Also it's hard to avoid her since she's latched onto me as her bestie
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Fresh love has this nasty tendency to blind you, making you believe that the person you've fallen for is perfect. Be cautious.

I'd analyze both D and the current GF thoroughly, try to really see all their perks and flaws. Then I'd try to compare the two and ask myself, who resonates the most with me? Who makes me the happiest?

If it truly turns out to be a stalemate, I'd stay with the current GF, as you're tested and true.

And remember, everything's not black and white, you can still be good friends with D if you stay with your current GF.

How can i stop being so angry and bitter?

Recently i dated this girl for about a month. Started off great, or so i thought.. she acted like she was really into me, and no, it wasn't wishful thinking, there was physical contact. But later on she got distant, rejecting my affections, but still talked to me and wanted me to spend a whole lot of time with her. That got frustrating, so i finally said this isn't going anywhere, and finally got her to be honest with what she wanted and it was friendzone.

She got all pissy when i distanced myself and didn't 'get in line' to immediately continue hanging out with her, which i thought was super shitty, considering she just fucking rejected me. Then she said she's not even actively looking for anyone at the moment, because she's focusing on 'fixing her depression'.

Well i haven't talked to her in 3 weeks now, but i looked her up on fb (i deleted her) to see when her birthday is (it's around this time) so i could be a decent human and wish her a happy birthday. But then I see that as of a day ago she's now 'in a relationship' with some guy.

I don't like her anymore, but i'm infuriated. because

>A) she would have tried to keep wasting my time if i didn't end it myself
>B) she lied and said she wasn't talking to anyone while she was talking to me
>C) also said it was shitty of me to keep my tinder when i liked her, even though we were never together and she i guess was getting serious with a guy when she knew i liked her
>D) was just kind of a bitch in general, idk why i liked her
>E) rejected me for a skin-and-bones manlet twink


I shouldn't be angry, but i am. I just want her to be miserable.
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Sorry OP, but you're in the wrong.
If you feel like making friends with women is a waste of your time and shouldn't be pursued then you need to seek help.

Just because they won't fuck you doesn't mean they literally have zero feelings for you.

The rest of your points are stupid mind reading assumptions your doing that don't even make sense. Take B for example, you say she was talking to this guy while you were "together but not together". Any proof of that? 3 weeks is plenty of time to start talking to someone else.

You're really jealous over this girl.
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Honestly, OP, pat yourself on the back because you dodged a bullet right there. The fact that she split with you was really doing you a favor.
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>>18457235
i make an effort not to be mad hoping ill be granted death as a result of my decency.

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27 male

I just scratched my head and ~15 hairs fell out.
For a couple months now I keep noticing hair shedding. I keep readin it's normal but someone already mentioned when I bent my head that my hair seemed thin.

This is bothering me a lot.
What do?
How do I know if I'm going bald?
The only person who had kinda baldness is an uncle but my dad doesn't have that, nor anyone else in my family (Granddad didn't)

What do?
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Apparently it's normal to shed 100 hairs a day (which seems to be a pretty liberal estimate for normal hair loss rate whenever I hear it but it's less than a percent of your total follicles)

I would simply say to you , go see a good dermatologist. They will tell you if your hair is miniaturizing, which is more useful in diagnosis of MPB than shedding, which everyone experiences.
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>>18457246
>I would simply say to you , go see a good dermatologist. They will tell you if your hair is miniaturizing, which is more useful in diagnosis of MPB than shedding, which everyone experiences.

Will do, my insurance kicks in on July 1st, so I'll get an apt ASAP.

I also went through A LOT of stress January-April, so idk if that's causing it.
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I started losing my hair in high school and was bald by the time was 20. At least you got to keep your hair a decent amount of time.

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My younger sister had been chatting to many foreign anons, with one occassion she was sending nudes.

We gave her the talk but she still seems to be doing things the same way, this time discreetly.

>be me
>be big bro
>lil sis has no phone security
>ez surveillance
>big bro gets caught
>lil sis get password
>still leaves phone open and unattended
>big bro can now work for FBI

How should I deal with this?
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>no phone security

I would say getting some spy software. Most likely something that you can control the phone with. I used realtime spy before but there are other options too.

tl:dr use spy software on the phone. Most likely something that can remote control the phone.

I wish you luck mate
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>>18457166
Any recommended software?

>t. OP w/o spyware experience
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>>18457145
Go into your wifi networks settings and block access to certain sites and services she might be using.

Do the same thing with your Cellular

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At a turning point in my life. Do I chase ass or start respecting women? Get dick wet or find a stable relationship?
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There's no right or wrong here, do what you feel like.
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>>18457144
Damn. if you want to get a girlfriend, hopefully she will be a good girl and make your dick wet.
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Respecting women and getting in a stable relationship will get your sick set indefinitely. It all depends if you want to get it wet for a night or years.

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As a guy, when you meet a new girl you're interested in, how do you go about competing with every orbiter she has on social media?

Meeting and talking to girls has never been a problem for me, never had problems getting laid, but recently, once we exchange numbers I feel like I just hit a brick wall.

I never get calls, or responses when I ask someone to go out, one on one or with groups.

Girls used to choose to talk to me but now it's like I have to bribe them to come around me like they're hookers. I don't understand what changed.

Advice?
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>>18457140
In my experience girls who keep a lot of guys around to give them attention aren't worth going after. If you bribe them they will put you right into their friend zone, don't do it. If you want to stand out, be a bit of an ass and tell them exactly what you think of them, at least then you will stand out and appear to have some backbone.
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>>18457199

Being an ass doesn't work when they can just get validation from anyone.

I'm more at the point of: how do I get a girl to want to go for a walk in the park with me over spending a day binge drinking on a boat with someone else?

And let's assume, for arguments sake, that :"girls like that aren't worth your time" is a non-answer.
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>>18457140
heres what you do..

>how do you compete?

i dont.

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Hey a person is stalking me and sent me this picture. can anyone help me figure out whos doing it, wut i do
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Call the cops dumb ass
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Already did that they couldnt trace the number the person is using.
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>>18457119
I hope you've got some means of defending yourself

I dont know how credit cards work.
If I make a large purchase and pay it off over 3 months (worth the interest IMO) will that effect my credit score negatively at all?
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>>18457109
Credit score is calculated by utilization, overall negatives, accounts open, accounts applied for, and average age of accounts.

If you have a $2500 credit limit and buy something worth $2000 and take 3 months to pay it off your score will go down a fair amount as your utilization is 80% when the balance first hits.
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>>18457114
Utilization isnt going to be more than 30% its just Ive never not paid my bill in full, Im not sure if that will negatively impact me
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>>18457109
>giving kikes money.
Buy everything directly, only use credit if it's an emergency.

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I don't know how to fix this Samsung galaxy s7 btw
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Not sure what the problem is
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>>18457101
Fix what?
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>>18457116
I can't see some of the screen it goes off the edge

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I've got a consultant interview with E&Y tomorrow on my lunchbreak.

The usual work attire in the office is just suit pants and collared shirt, but I want to dress up a bit for the interview. How can I wear a tie and suit jacket into work tomorrow without arousing suspicion?
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Put them in a bag and change before the interview u fuckin n00b
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You can probably wear fancy pants without attracting attention. Then your only issue is the shirt. Have it with you like the tie and jacket, packed. Change into the shirt in a bathroom on the way, then tie and jacket are easy to add whenever. Reverse on the way back.
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>>18457093
>suit pants and collared shirt
so just keep the rest of the stuff hung up in your car so it stays nice?

also, jewelry if you really want to look good. get a decent watch, get cuff links, get a decent tie clip. fuck wearing a tie without a clip anyways. if you're gonna go all out go all out.

>>18457333
>Put them in a bag
one does not simply put a suit jacket in a bag and one does not fold a suit jacket. it must be placed on a hanger that supports the shoulders with the top button done up, and then either hung up in the car or laid as flat as possible on a seat.

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I've been picked on and made fun of my whole life. Does everyone go through this or is it just because I'm a moron?
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>>18457025
I wouldn't say that everyone goes through it but a lot of people do. It's how you handle it that will set you apart from the real losers who end up killing themselves or eating themselves to obesity or abusing drugs.
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>>18457036
Thanks, that actually helps.
I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong or what makes me such an easy target.
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>>18457025

a lot of people do. but the truth is morons arent usually picked on. a lot of morons become popular. a lot of ugly guys become popular. I went to five different high schools and each one was a little different. the popular kids could be conventionally attractive girls, or fat guys, or no one because the school was too big for that dynamic, or this or that or the third thing.

but one thing that was pretty consistent was there was always someone who thought everyone hated him because he was 'differnet'. someone who even my friend group would often hate (and i was always in the nerd group, anime fans at one school, theater group at another, and just weird ironic fanfiction writers at another).

the problem was that these people werent dumb, or different. they were bad people. they were awful to be around. and they blamed it on the world.

medfag, ask me anything
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>>18456982
do obese people have smaller penises because the fat compresses it during development the same way africans wrap their heads in banana leaves to form the skull into a cone?
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>>18456988
Well they can have smaller penises just because the fat around the penis sort of makes it effectively shorter. Also if you have a lot of adipose fat erectile dysfunction is more common. Cholesterol can cause lipid plaques in your blood vessels and decrease their ability to deliver blood effectively. This results in angina in your heart muscle and then ED in your penis. So basically atherosclerotic plaques and also just the physical effects of the fat around the penis. Finally for younger males, erectile dysfunction is often due to psychological issues (nervous). Many fat people are pretty self conscious and being seen naked can sort of exacerbate the issue.
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Dry glans, easily irritated foreskin, uncut, rinse well after washing with soap, wat do?

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I'm starting to develop weird fetishes and doing things that I know are exactly that I don't like. It's like some type of self masochism. I really want to get rid of this but i'm not sure how. Anyone have any ideas on solutions to this?
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How much porn do you watch a week?
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>>18456974
Stop watching porn, read a book, preferably something classic, with moral values and some romance, the pure kind of romance, not the degenerate ones.
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>>18456992
maybe an few hours a week 3 times a week maybe. sometimes 4? not really sure I haven't really kept count

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>Have gotten gay people to hit on me or go after me
>One straight up walked up to me today and told me I was hot (was at some pride thing)
>This has never happened with a woman, or maybe I am just dense and don't realize a woman that I am speaking to is into me.

Does this at least confirm that I am attractive somewhat?
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Women don't have to do that
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>>18456980
Well I know that at least anon.
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>>18456956
It means gay men are whores

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