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Write those letters you will never send, vent your frustrations, confess your deepest darkest sins
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I don't know why or how or what happened with me at this point, but you made it to a point with me that I can't look at you without wanting to be with you now. that's pretty fucked up, thats way more than I ever intended things to be with where things were, if that makes sense. what the fuck am I supposed to do with that?
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>>18449814
My entire fucking life I wondered why I was a magnet for random people to come up and start talking to me.
Now I know.
:/
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>>18449899
why?
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What the fuck is wrong with me
>gf of 2 years now
>legit a 9/10 to me both face and body
>was a virgin before meeting me
>has the same views on life as me, supports me in all my aspirations (even the autistic manchild ones)
>have the same common end goals
>does everything she can to make me feel loved and I do the same in return
>sex is amazing, I'm incredibly turned on by her
>want to marry this girl in the near future
Here's where things get fucked
>before I met my gf, I used to talk to this girl
>isn't even attractive, I was just desperate for a gf at the time
>she's just landwhale with oversized tits (pic very related, 90% what she looks like)
>she was also admittedly a virgin
>went on 1 date with her (just saw a movie together)
>never really got serious
>despite this things get very saucy over texts, start sharing lewds over snapchat
>start making vague plans on meeting up for sex
>before I could meet with fat girl, I meet my gf and stop talking to the fat girl
>she'd still message me despite telling her explicitly that I have to break off whatever I had with her
>would constantly beg me to break up with my gf
>before cutting off all contact, she says to contact her if I ever break up with my gf because she wants to give herself to me
>despite a perfect relationship with my dream girl, every night the gf isn't sleeping over, I'm lusting over that landwhale
>jerk off to pornstars that look like her/facebook pictures
>I immediately feel disgusted with myself after I finish jerking off
>repeat the same thing the next night if gf isn't sleeping over
I would never cheat on my gf, that's out of the question. Yet I'm addicted to fantasizing about fucking this unattractive fat girl that I barely have anything in common with (aside the fact she's desperately infatuated with me). I don't want to dump my gf either, she's legit the best thing that ever happened to me.
How do I stop being such a degenerate?
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>gf is "dream girl"
>still jerks off to other girl
So would you break it off with your gf or with the other girl?
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>>18443433
People have shitty, shitty feelings and you can't really avoid them. The second gf I ever had was fucking awful to me, and it took me four years and two other girlfriends to cut her out of my life completely.
It'll take time. At least you've already cut off contact. Until then you gotta bear it and not do anything damaging because of it.
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>>18443433
you only want her because you tell yourself you cant have her
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I call my gf mommy. During sex, and dirty talk...fuck it sometimes I'll say it to her casually too. I only say it because,
1. She's a little older than me
2. It's pretty hot
3. She kinda likes it too
Mind you, I have no feelings about my mom like that, or anything of the sort. I just love and respect my gf so much that it feels good calling her that and the reasons mentioned before.
Is this common?
Btw just to clarify this isn't baby role play either it's just what I call her.
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>>18434314
alright
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Nu-male
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At what point does success actually mean anything if you're getting nothing in return but money? Long story short, I know how to be professional which is great in my work-place, but outside of it, I'm a socially retarded shut-in who forgot how to handle women.
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>>18455200
t. jay gatsby
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>>18455201
oh shit, that's what the book's about?
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>>18455200
Haopy people are successful. If you're an atheist then you know that life is essentially meaningless. Given that what is the point of living at all if you aren't reaching toward your own happiness? Money is great and all, but you can be wealthy and depressed. I've met poor people that are the happiest people on the planet. Life is all about your attitude.
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I met a girl on tinder and talked for three days before meeting up. Initially I suggested a time and date but she said she was busy and gave me an alternative date. I meet with her and her friends at a bar. Went through the get to know you crap with all of them. Just made out with her at the bar that night, even though I tried to escalate things but she said "I'm not that easy". Kept talking to her and she asked to meet up again. Met her with her friends again at another bar. Friend number 1 asked if I was on tinder for hook ups or relationships, replied both with a slight chuckle. Friend 2 kept mentioning that the girl I meet on tinder didn't drive and I'll have to drop her back home. Basically implying go bang your tinder date.
Long story short after a long night of drinking I couldn't get an erection but she sucked my dick for 20 minutes or so. Fingered her til she said she came. Sucks me off again til I came in her mouth. Dropped her home.
She adds me on instagram the next day. I haven't talked to her since Friday night. Sent her a message this morning and she hasn't replied (six hours has elapsed).
Did I fuck up?
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Wrong image
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You gotta reframe how you view the situation my man.
You see the possibility of never seeing her again, which is a fair possibility. But what I see is you went on a date and got your dick sucked. Good job.
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>Friend 2 keeps saying you guys are so cute together on both dates
>Friend 2 kept making a heart sign with her hand at me all night
>say I drank too much when I couldn't hard. Date said it happens and kept kissing me.
>>18454991
But won't she tell all her friends about it and make me the limp dick guy?
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What does it mean when a girl tells you she'd like to go out but she can't that exact day you specified? Does she like one or not?
What is one to do then, especially if one does not permanently live in the same city? How does one approach said person?
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>>18454926
One is to kill themselves.
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>>18454931
Why?
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>>18454931
Is that you, Sheila????>>18454931
I'm sorry I didn't mean to ask it publicly like that. I am so sorry if I inconvenienced you or made you feel uncomfortable in any way!
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Hey /adv/, me and my girl broke up today.
The problem is I know she's gonna go on social media and attempt to make me jealous, because she knows I like to stalk her page. I've been here before and every time I see her with another guy it crushes my soul and she knows this.
But for some reason I can't stop checking up on her. Any tips on how to completely erase her out of my mind?
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I should note, that I do go to the gym and work, but it seems like when i'm at home bored that's when I become weak and see what she's up to.
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>>18454924
Don't go on her fb page. Block her. Don't go on Facebook for a few weeks. If doing something hurts you don't do that thing. Keep your mind preoccupied on something else. Every time you think about going on her Page open 4chan or any other sit instead.
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Block her?
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Last night I had some great sex, but no matter what she did I just couldn't cum.
I could make myself reach orgasm fairly quickly with some porn and cocoa butter, am I desensitized?
What's going on, am I fucked 4 life?
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You don't have to orgasm. In fact, it's healthier if you don't (unless you learn tantric orgasming) since you deplete your body of nutrients each time you ejaculate.
Practice cum retention while still having sex and you'll accumulate great sexual power.
Not even joking. Shit works
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>>18454831
No kidding?
I'll look into that. I'm still a little spooked since I wasn't able to pop a load.
It's really okay?
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Just play around. Usually it's stress. Most girls I'm with, unless i finish it, only a pussy will do. Try different positions and places. Something is bound to do it. Maybe get her dirty talking. Do you.
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22 year old with still no idea what I want to do the next 30-40 years. Looking for advice what type of higher education I should look into to get the most money without going into business. Really tired of working shit jobs hoping I'll get inspired to find a career goal, some people are born to wageslave at career they're not particularly passionate about.
so university or trade school? What university degrees? was looking at nanoscience and it has a research experience programme in their final year that's meant to be good but I have zero interest. Any opinions on computer science, physics, medicinal chemistry or law?
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>>18454685
What is the outcome you want?
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>>18454713
I want to be making 150k+ by late 30's which I know will be hard if I'm not going into medicine or dentistry. I'm not good at networking but I'm intelligent.
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>>18454723
And what's the purpose of that outcome for you?
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Me and my gf were so pose to be staying at a hotel 2 hours away for the night which I stupidly booked today. We were talking about booking it last night but then we got into an argument because I drank her energy drink which had been sitting in my fridge for a week, she called me a "c***" and wouldnt apologize and I told her to leave and she would'nt and didnt want another street domestic, I ended up sleeping on the couch.
Now she isnt answering her phone and there is a pic of her friends with some guys on snap chat. She also isnt replying to me on snap chat.
It literally feels like I'm about to give up on women. Every chicks that I've dated so far seems to just want to manipulate and fuk with my head. I'm 27 and feel like time is running out. I've tried to tape this relationship I've had with this girl for the past 2 years with constant drama, manipulation and crazy narcissistic behavior. I actually feel sad that I've wasted so much energy on someone like this.
Wtf is wrong with me? I knew in the back on my mind she would manipulate me todo some bullshit like this then run off and now ive fkd myself of $300
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(ps. she apologized the next day (today) and wanted to book the trip
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>>18454683
the timeline makes no sense, OP.
either you're more handicapped than you think you are or this is bad b8./
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>>18454696
>we argue
>we make up next day
>manipulates me to book trip
>I book trip
>she runs off, blocks my number , photo of her on snapchat with other guys
>I lose 300 dollares
>derp
I fucked up
A woman at my local gym low-key hits on me, chats with me, is cordial and I chat back. Lately she's been giving more signals. I was horny and we ended up having sex. I told her beforehand that I don't want to lead her on, that I'm not sure I'm looking for anything substantial. She said "Well I'm not looking to get married. But going out is fun too". Thing is I don't want to go out. I don't want to date at all. I think I was pretty clear, but I always see her at the gym and don't want it to be awkward.
What do?
I'm very prone to feeling guilty. I thought with my dick and as the dick does, it led me astray. I haven't had sex in 2 years so it was fun, but yeah. Not worth it. It was fun. We got along fine. But it opened my eyes that I REALLY don't want to date. Nothing against her, but she was talking before and after sex and I wanted to kill myself. I'm autistic if it clears up why I feel this way.
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You don't want to date?
Okay then, just say it to her. Tell her you don't want to date and it's really weird seeing her in the gym. Find a compromise. She might even just stop going there altogether if you word it right.
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HOW did this happen? How old is she? How old are you? How do you look? What country do you live in? Tell me everything, I beg of you.
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>>18454677
Yeah, but do I text her? Do I say anything next time I see her other than "hi, how are you?"?
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I'm mid-20s. She's late-30s. A little chubby but cute and decent body. US. She was asking me about something. I said "so you mentioned you're single before?" And we got chatting. We went back to her place, etc.
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31 year old smart japanese woman was hitting me up after a month of texting, asking me if i could consider a relationship with her. she would come to my country in europe. also she stated that she would further develop her personal business and let me finish studying before making any actions (about 2 years or so)
does this sound considerable? What do you think?
>picture unrelated
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>>18454658
yes yes OP, but what is the background to all this epistolary cockteasing?
How old are you? What is the nature of your relationship with her? What are your intentions?
Hard to say solely from you're telling us. And more to the point, what have you been telling her?
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>>18454661
i've met her on a language exchange site in the internet. i'm aware that some people might abuse it, especially women, in order to prevent themselves from being contacted by sex driven weirdos. but to mention, there is no useful filter besides the languages you can speak and the languages you want to learn. so it makes it almost impossible to really choose from among people in your area.
anyways. since three weeks we've been talking to each other on the phone for like 60 Minutes on average every day
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i'm 29 yo by the way.
i felt kinda attracted to her. so i said "i like you" some time ago. In the right context of course....
she got curious and asked me for my interpretation of "I like you". i felt exposed somehow. so i somewhat lied to her by saying I just like the way she treats our conversation and the way she is.
she agreed to that within a second. even though i think she didn't believe me entirely... however she didn't ask again and our conversation continued the way it did before.
our conversations are pretty straight forward, we don't gossip. And our mindsets match. We're getting along together quite decently.
she is an intelligent, considerate, rather unromantic person. I can deal with that a lot better. ( i was married for 6 years btw)
she lived in australia with her husband for 7 years until they separated (no kids), now she's back to japan.
she has a japanese australian accent. kinda special..
although i think she might be a little desperate. because she still wants a child at the age of 31. (that's my greatest concern) ..Not the child though....
And then today on the phone, out of nothing, she asked me what i think about us - we could get together she said, because she likes me and she feels good being with me (at least on the phone). when i look into my inner self, i wished this to happen. but i never ever expected it. because our talks never went in such a direction, which ever would allow us to question something like that.
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>>18454658
OP, if an asian woman tells you she is 31 she's really 45.
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>date girl a few times
>fall in love way too quickly
>fool around once. She acts as if she's cool with being fwb but blocks off everytime I try to get closer
>I "break up" with her at a party cause she's treating me badly and I had feelings for her
>later that week call her saying I still wanna hang out with her ( yeah, I'm pathetic)
>she says she hasn't got feelings for me but wants to hang out too
Last nite I lost the keys to my apartment and she offered me a bed at her flatshare. When I wanted to take her up on that offer she suddenly "remembered" that the room wasn't free after all and was giving me all kinds of shit for losing my keys.
I got pissed cause I called bullshit and we parted that nite on bad terms.
The next day she texts me
>"did you have to sleep in the park?"
Am I being too sensitive? Should I text her back or just ignore? I'm not sure what I feel about her anymore, but she's interested and troubled and I wanna be her lover if I can't be her boyfriend. I really want to be her friend but she's not making it easy since that's what friends do.
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All I can say is that you've both put your cards on the table. You want to be intimate, she does not. She was clear with you about where she wanted your relationship, and you've expressed differently.
So the real question is this: do you think you can be her friend? I don't, because when she suggested that, you rebutted with "lovers".
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>>18454644
she keeps making innuendos and touches me flirtatiously. We also talk about her vagina alot. I'm not the only one wanting something sexual afaik. I think friends still means fwb but I'm not sure.
I also think she has feelings for me but is too much of a coward to admit it to herself because that would show vulnerability. But the latter is a rabbit hole i'm not willing or able to go down
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>>18454631
ignore the whore.
if she wanted to remain friends, she would have acted like one and allowed to crash in the pad; had she wanted to continue being FWB you'd have been spooning her all night.
fuck that shit. walk and don't look back.
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Hey /adv/. I have a problem with my testicles.
A fortnight ago my right testicle started hurting. I went to a doctor thinking it was the onset of torsion, and was told it couldn't be, otherwise I'd know. The doctor didn't look at my testicles. I should have been more forceful. I went away putting it down to a bruise or something, but the pain persisted for a week and grew to the point I went to the emergency room. I was admitted to hospital and scans showed an infection: epididymitis.
So I was put on antibiotics for five days. Here's the thing: my urine came back clean and my blood came back clean. On top of that I'm a virgin. So getting discharged and returning home today, I went to have a welcome home wank and the pain in my right ball returned. This has me worried that I may have injured one of the tubes in my testicle, which got infected. I've been in a depression for the past two months, jacking off up to six times a day (averaging 2/3).
If this is what's happened, what can I do to fix it? Keep chugging antibiotics and waiting for it to heal over a few months? I'm freaking out right now. My shitty way of living has finally caught up with me.
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>>18454531
Go to a doctor and properly explain what the fuck is going on. Don't fuck around with health. Quit masturbating 5000 times a day it won't help, find new hobbies or stuff to keep you off thinking about it until the issue is solved also what the actual fuck you want to ER got out, jerked off and pain is still there? wtf did
It looks like you didn't listen to advice from doctor whatever that was. Health is top priority , not jerking off , so get your shit together.
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>>18454531
It re-infected? Obviously, get actual medical advice again.
Normally you can jack off this much no problem, but perhaps it's not a good idea right now, ask your doctor about that, too.
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>>18454531
I have no practical advise,but rest assured I feel really bad for you
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I want to work an extra half hour everyday so I'll have +4.5 hours time off in lieu (9 days of 30 minutes) by Friday at the end of each fortnight to go home early.
Is this something reasonable I can ask my boss?
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>>18454496
Don't ask
just do
it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission
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>>18454507
Your boss can get super pissed off if you skip one day without telling him before hand. It all boils down on what type of work you do and how good relation you have with your boss.
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>>18454496
What kind of work you're in? Most of times employee schedule is strictly tailored to the company's need to fulfill the quota on the timetable. You couldn't get it changed like poof without changing a lot of others' schedule and workflw.
Unless you're working as a gardenenr or housemaid, it's hard to ask, but still completely reasonable.
I'd say be polite and propose it to your boss first.