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My boyfriend is a beta cuck 2017-06-25 12:09:37 Post No.18453419
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My boyfriend is a beta cuck
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We've been together for 4 years now and we were broken up for a month this year. I know 'beta' and 'cuck' are slurs and not very nice things to say about your partner but in his case, it's just so apt.
He isn't bothered by the fact that I pay for all his shit, and mind you I'm not some loser lady desperate for a man, I'd say I'm an 8 and he's a 4 objectively. He's very fat, his obsession with food is unhealthy af and even though I would never disrespect him, I did ask him once to do sports and he told me I was horrible for mentioning that. Early on in our relationship ( I was still a teenager), he used to point out all my flaws, one time even driving me to tears and I worked on all of them to become an attractive woman, but for some reason, if I tell him to work out ( he literally has a lot of free time since he's got 3 months off until graduation.
He also proudly says that he never wants to work for someone, although he's not that bright to start his own business. I have to work and study at the same time but if I suggest it's unfair, I'm a horrible person.
Lately, it's gotten to a point where I'm not even attracted to him and I keep asking myself if I should stick around because he's all I know about love ( I generally never talk about his shortcomings) or if I should get out of this very toxic relationship and risk being incredibly depressed for months.
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why in the world are you with this guy? you know you could do better. desu OP I wonder if you get off on being better than him.
Move on. this guy's toxic. don't look back. honestly you will feel so much better in a week's time if you do this.
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Just dump his ass already. If he treats you like shit and doesn't do anything all the time then just remove him from your life all together. It might be hard at first for you to put yourself out there again, but if you keep looking eventually you will find someone who suits your needs.
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>>18453419
Try to put yourself into someone else's shoes for a moment an read what you posted once more.
If that's all that was really worth mentioning then the answer is clear right?
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This
>>18453425
This
And probably any further answer you will get
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I keep having a reoccurring dream and I think my general stress levels would be lower if I stopped having it. I think its related to maybe being raided a few years ago or perhaps something to do with going to prison.
>Staying at parents property
>Police start raiding the property
>Always respond by having to quickly get rid of some drugs/destroying phones computers.
>Sometimes I even try run away from them or even more rarely get violent towards them.
I did get paroled to my parents place when I got straight out of prison and I was abusing amphetamines on parole so maybe that damaged my brain. Developed paranoia maybe? People say I'm always a bit on edge, a bit like a guard dog.
Anyway I was wondering if anyone else had problems with reoccurring dreams and was there anyways to fix it?
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does it wake you up in the middle of the night? If not, then you might be best served by making sure you get a good night's sleep so that you don't wake up in the middle of a dream.
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>>18453400
Did your home ever get searched by the cops? Because that alone can be enough to cause serious psychological issues. I've met one person whose home got searched although he was innocent of anything (iirc correctly the cops plain got the address wrong), and he got so messed up that he was unable to live there anymore, or to live on his own at all. He'd been living at a rehab clinic for several years already when I met him.
If you've developed phobias there's really just therapy that can help you.
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>>18453400
>I did get paroled to my parents place when I got straight out of prison and I was abusing amphetamines on parole so maybe that damaged my brain. Developed paranoia maybe?
I would say so. Have you sought psychological therapy?
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Can anyone diffuse this and give me a reason to pursue an American woman in 2017:
Lets talk about those "male acquaintances" you see listed on the social media site of that girl you have a crush on
>LAYER 1: (10+ male celebrities she has a crush on, these are not on her social media necessarily but they are ingrained into her brain)
>LAYER 2: (10-30 really hot guys she doesn't know IRL but saw hot pics of them and saw them doing stuff like mountain climbing or being in their band on instagram---she probably sent nudes to a bunch of them)
>LAYER 3: (Her 10 hottest boy crushes that she knows IRL and has on facebook, probably knows them from high school/college and has hung out with them for years as friends, dated some, fucked dumb, ex boyfriends are in this layer
>LAYER 4: (Sugar daddies, guy she fucked while drunk, not sugar daddy but guy, but guy she fucked and lied about being in love with so she could get some presents while she scopes out a guy in Layer 3+ to date/fuck)
>LAYER 5: (Guy friends, orbiters. Maybe an occasional guy in this layer gets a pity fuck but thats it).
>LAYER 6: (Guy below her attractive requirements. No chance of fucking, only rape)
What's the point of dating a real 3D woman when you know these are the 100+ "guy friends" she has on facebook/instagram/twitter?
>Oh anon, he's just a friend! Oh that guy is a friend too.....yeah these are all just FRIENDS anon you don't have to feel intimidated that I have so many guys on my social media!
What's the point of it all. What's the point of it all. What's the point of it all. What's the point of it all. What's the point of it all. What's the point of it all.
At what point do you un-redpill and escape from this? Or should I just wait until A.I. and sexbots become viable at this point? Or move to Japan or some shit and marry an oriental woman?
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Do you actually seriously believe opposite genders cannot be friends?
You should kill yourself if you do.
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>>18453316
Female with a ton of guy friends detected. Every guy who is "friends" with a girl wants to fuck her. Period. (except for homosexuals)
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>>18453307
Just go for a raw diamond, they are usually easy to identify and work her up, but not to fast that she doesn't get hooked into feeling only you will truly love her.
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Should I break up on not? 2017-06-24 11:20:21 Post No.18453263
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Should I break up on not?
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long story short, I'm 22 and Ive been with this girl for almost a year. We always had some fights, but now they have escalated to the point that no 4 days can go by without a fight. The cause of the fights varies, but it's usually little things that escalate quickly. I would have broken up but i dare the thought of realising i was in the wrong because i really love her. Should i just end it? ask for specifics.
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Sometimes even when you love someone, you know it won't work out and you have to end it. Honestly man, if you guys can't even go a full week without arguing, let alone about small things, you should break it off. No good or healthy relationship has that much fighting that often and survives. Can you honestly see yourself living the rest of your life that way? And on top of that being happy with it?
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>>18453263
Try to remember the initial big fight and talk with her about it, sometimes there still a grudge on both parts from such first conflict.
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What are your fights about?
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Been dating this girl for about a month now and her bday is tmmrw. What should I get her? I don't really know her well enough to pick out present. Is a cake good enough?
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>dating a girl for a month
>still dont know what to get her for her birthday
what the fuck
do you just fuck and leave her or something?
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>>18453251
flowers
candy
a CD of her favorite artist
dinner
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>>18453259
This. Are you sure you're not just fuckbuddies?
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Talking too much with a girl 2017-06-24 11:14:12 Post No.18453234
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Talking too much with a girl
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I've been talking, strictly platonically, with a girl for two months straight, day and night. We both really enjoy talking but I'm afraid I won't be able to keep this up when I get back to uni.
Is it better to slowly taper off a conversation with someone over time or cut it off abruptly? Neither of these choices sit well with me but I know I must make one.
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>I'm afraid I won't be able to keep this up when I get back to uni.
Why are you afraid of this?
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>>18453242
She's already expressed concerns of not being able to talk to me as much. When I went on vacation last week she got real sad.
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>>18453272
Then quell her fears with plans. Establish a schedule, connect via several sources of communication.
Her phone number, her facebook, her house address for when all else fails.
Sounds like a lot of both of your worry is that you'll stop talking to each other, but it also doesn't sound like you have a reason to stop.
So just continue talking.
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So im a rookie in the domi/daddy relationships. Right now im the dom/daddy of a sub/little. The first months were the easiest and we never had a problem but the past 2 or 3 months have been rough. It looks like im losing my edge, The most recurrent issue has been "you don't dominate me that much anymore" and "you don't relly make me feel like a little".
Any advice on this scene? Besides the obvious "you just have to keep on top of it" "you have to keep working on it" and "u r a faget go kill yurself"
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disgusting
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>>18453198
>little
what's it like pretending to be a pedophile while your partner pretends to be a little kid? you guys are weird as fuck and the only thing weirder is diaper furs.
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>>18453198
No specific advise as such, but sounds like you need to keep it up or risk being swapped for someone else who will provide what you won't.
Speaking as someone who has just left a 4 year relationship, the attraction was not quite what it used to be and as a result the sex suffered.
This, however, did not make it any less hurtful when she started fucking a new guy not 7 days after we broke up. Shit happens I guess
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Guys I'm a med student with social anxiety. I'm about to finish my second year. They say we are gonna have to perform some stuff on patients next year on a daily basis like taking blood or checking blood pressure, The problem is I get super excited when someone watches me doing something like this. My heart starts beating like crazy, hands shaking, sweating like an animal. I don't think I'm fit to become a doctor. Don't think I realized this only now. I never wanted to choose this path, my parents forced me. And now I'm thinking of dropping out. Do you think it's too late? Or should I wait to see how I will do next year and then decide?
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>>18453195
I'd just wait and see how it goes. Usually the best way to fix things like that anxiety is through exposure.
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>>18453195
can you give me some tips on taking the MCAT?
I'm junior year undergrad.
Also, it's way too early to tell if you'd be a good doctor or not.
Don't just quit medical school because you don't like it.
If you are going to quit, you should quit because you've found your true calling.
And be 100% sure it's your true calling before you quit!
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>>18453208
I'm not from the US unfortunately. I don't know anything about MCAT.
Thanks for your support though.
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A friend of mine is about to get an operation with 50% of dying 2017-06-24 10:43:25 Post No.18453138
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A friend of mine is about to get an operation with 50% of dying
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>Be me
>Be 17
>Go to boarding school for one year
>Gets best friends ever
>One with heart troubles
>School ends in hugs and crying
>Goes Home
>Friends with heart problems texts that he got 50% of dying in an operation
>Never been in a situation like that
>What should I do
>What should I say
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tell him that 50% is a really good survival chance considering that his sperm beat the 1 billion other sperm. if he can beat those odds then 50% is easy.
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I'm sorry, but your friend is now in a Quantum Superposition state, in wich he is both dead AND alive. Next time you hear from him, the universe will split and break the superposition, one in wich he survives, one in wich he dies
If it makes you feel any better, you can only experience a universe where your consiousness is allowed to exist, so it's very likely that, from his POV, he survives and makes it to a universe where he lives
Or his brain will produce a powerfull drug for 3 years, wich will result in him dying, but living in a dream
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Thank you it's really nice to get replies and help here
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Looked at ex boyfriend's social media 2017-06-24 10:41:05 Post No.18453123
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Looked at ex boyfriend's social media
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Now has a profile picture of him kissing the girl he left me for in a photo booth.
Ugh. I feel like I'm going to crumple and vomit.
Why did I do this to myself?
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>looking at an ex's social media when they left you
I'm sorry, but what were you expecting?
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>>18453128
This. Ex leaved me because ''I don't want that relationship feeling anymore''. Check her Facebook, and WOW! A PICTURE OF HER HOLDING HANDS WITH ANOTHER MAN!
Sure, he was his brother, but still, never do it, it will only boil your veins
Just move on, he probably wasn't even that good after all
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>>18453128
They had been having issues and were close to a breakup, so I was kind of hoping to see the opposite - evidence that things were still going south or that he was now single again.
But I guess they solved whatever problem they were having.
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Family doesn't pay enough attention to my dog 2017-06-24 10:40:41 Post No.18453122
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Family doesn't pay enough attention to my dog
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2017-06-24 10:40:41
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How can I help my dog out? My family usually never pays much attention to him unless they want some kind of amusement from him (tricks, showing him off, etc) but when it comes to actually maintaining the needs of the dog, they just dump it on me. I don't mind this, but I can't be around the dog all day without quitting my job. Nobody except me plays or exercises him for the most part, they just sit on the phones to the point that the dog could walk in the room, start whining from pent-up anxiety, and they just ignore him. I'm getting really worried for him, and I'll be away at university come September. What can I do about this.
> inb4 put the dog up for adoption
That's literally last resort. I'm looking for ways for my family to take part in helping care the FAMILY dog.
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Normally I'd take this as a given, but this is /adv/, so ...
You have talked to them about this. Right? I mean like a serious talk, not bringing it up briefly and letting it go when they brush you off.
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>my dog
Welp, sounds like it's not their responsibility after all, eh champ? If you can't take care of your fucking dog, give it to a family who will. Retard.
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Realize that not everyone has the same empathy for lesser creatures as you.
Though your wording is weird. Is it YOUR dog or is it your FAMILY dog? Have you established this with everyone else?
If it's YOUR dog, then shut the fuck up you little bitch quit complaining because you obviously made these conscious decisions to watch over a dog knowing you have little time to actually do that
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I need to live alone. I'm currently living in this flatshare with old ( I'm talking early 20th century) doors which leak shitloads of noise. The thing is: the flatshare itself is very cheap for the city I live in and it's super central.
However the noise leaking from both my roommates is killing me. And I'm autistic at times so I hate making small talk and I'm bad mannered in the mornings when I don't get sleep. I never feel like I can really retreat and reload my batteries, so to speak.
Thing is: living prices are so damn expensive that I'm not able to live in a single studio apartment. What do?
>right door is similar to my two
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left door I mean
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>>18453110
You need flatmates who are like you. Even though I'm not as autistic as you seem, I also hate living with people I don't get along with.
What will solve your problems is moving in with people who understand you and aren't rude fucks.
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>>18453110
apply for more scholarships and grants to help cover housing with the money from a part time job. An essay a day keeps the landlord away.
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I shower daily under my foreskin, however I still produce a lot of smegma. It occurs when I fap, as I rub my dick my penis oils roll up into pieces of cheese.
I've never had a problem with smegma before, what the fuck is going on? I'm 22, is it perhaps the summer weather?
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>>18453068
I bet you dont wash your dick properly after you are done with fapping.
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Are you using regular soap? Just water? You need to find a ph-neutral soap with very little perfume.
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Are you sure you aren't rolling wet skin? It happens with me on my ankle, but it's not normal on your dick
Anything moist related down there requires precaution not to get a fungus, which you can do even when you're a virgin. Try to pull your foreskin and let the head out during the day
I would ask this on /biz/ but they're too up the ass of cryptocoins, so I will ask it here.
I'm trying to get a job and literally nowhere will hire me. I have given applications to almost everywhere I can get to (no car, and no insurance to get car, and no license to get insurance, and no money to get insurance, etc) and they didn't give a shit. I've had a few interviews but got nothing. Not even a warehouse wants me. I went to the temporary agency in my town too and all they did was steal my information and then get mad when I asked them about jobs. Nepotism isn't really doing anything for me either because all I really know are my mom's church people and they're either old, disabled, or struggling at their jobs too.
I'm running out of options. I'm a NEET and I have been since I dropped out of college for Environmental Science. I'm not joining the military. What do I do?
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Your mom doesn't have a car you can borrow?
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>>18453085
No. She works. Plus, I'd need the license. No insurance = no license in my state.
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>>18453063
Even flipping burges is nit working? Manual trades?
As far as vehicle transport go, tried bicycle? Get new education in something you can actually finish?
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Is it slutty to have nipples showing through a bathing suit?
I'm going swimming soon and the swimsuit I got looks similar to the one in the picture. It's not too bad since it's black and the nipples only show if I'm cold, I haven't seen what it looks like wet yet....so is it slutty? and how could I make it less noticeable?
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No one should be surprised that you have nipples hidden away under there. If you're concerned about them, get some pasties or stick some bandaids over them
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>>18453062
Wait... Girls have nipples??
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>>18453062
Slutty? Christ, people can't help if their nipples poke through. In the off-chance this isn't bait, look for some water-resistant bandages and put those on over your nipples, because it's still embarrassing for you and uncomfortable for others.