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>>18460174
she is definitely on drugs
you should get a safe and lock up any valuables you have. she will steal them otherwise
also you should move out. your possesions and sanity are at risk. you cannot help an addict, they can only help themselves
source: experience

>>18460174

Ask what she wants instead of giving her money so you know it's being spent on what she needs instead of on more shit.

>>18460193
I don't have much of worth, and she's never shown any signs of kleptomania before. Seems out of character.
>>18460202
The first time, she said it's to pay the internet bill. This time it was $5 for gas. And there was another time that I forgot. In total, she's now $35 in debt to me. I'm thinking the wisest thing is to tell her I'm uncomfortable with how much she's taking and refuse unless it's an emergency.

>>18460172
>what do I do?
disregard and move on
over 9000 retards have been where you are, and the result is the same every time

>>18460172
Let her try for her girl.

>>18460172
she thinks you're queer cause you're a touchy-feely faggot.

next.

>>18460104

>move there and wait for her

That's a great way to go if you want to go insane and/or be a stalker.

>>18460104

>met girl online
>never met her
>shes literally perfect

Ya nah she gave you the time of day and now you worship the ground she walks on. You legit dont even know her. You never met her. You dont love her - you love the idea of her.

Move on. Itll never happen with her. It will happen with someone else. Your problem sounds like you are completely relying on outside factors, such as other people, for your own personal validation. Focus on yourself. Workout, get an education, advance a skill - develop things that you can be proud of so that you wont give a fuck if other people like you are not. Happiness has to come from within. You have to earn it. Sitting on your ass feeling sorry for yourself cuz life is hard doesnt work, you know this. Its a long road, and it will suck and be full of failure. Thats the only way you can grow though. By failing, and trying again even though you are hurting inside and want to give up; pushing forward through the bad times until they become good.

Not tryna be a dick dude. I get it. I know the feeling first hand. You probably feel heartbreak over this. Its an emotional pain that is so intense that it physically hurts. Theres nothing else like it, and nothing that dulls the pain. You gotta weather the storm and find happiness from within though.

Good luck dude. TLDR; move on and develop yourself. Dont be afraid to get hurt or fail. Be afraid to never try at all.

>>18460119
yeah I probably shouldn't move too near to her. but I want to leave the shithole I live in anyway, maybe I could live farther away for a while but still keep in contact. oh who I am I kidding it's never going to happen. why did I even ask. I wish I could stop caring about it all but it seems impossible.

Very similar situation here OP

She's 18. An adult. Nothing you are doing is legally or morally wrong. If you knocked her up that's one thing but if not then her dad can fuck right the fuck off. Stand up for your love.

>>18460091
The biggest mistake anon, don't fucking do it separate yourself from this girl with everything at your disposal. Get a new phone number, go on vacation for a month somewhere, I don't give a fuck about your job, go inawoods just get the fuck outa dodge.

I was legitimately in your shoes, you are her Virginity loss baggage and based on what you posted she's yours too.
If her father's really that fucking protective and she's already slept around (with other girls no less) there's some crazy in that dna, just a little bit.

Buy a fucking fake vagina, fap, then get her the fuck out of your life. Don't be thinking with your dick man, beat that fucker raw and punch the balls after for even making you think about her again.

>>18460156

This won't last forever and we are both smart enough to know that.

>>18460162

She's definitely weird and a little crazy, but so am I. She's also -incredibly- attractive. Also, her parents made her life hell because of me, and that made me feel awful. I don't want to put that on her.

>>18460008
How bad was your childhood?

>>18460016
OP is like 13 years old, what the fuck are you talking about

>>18460029
I'm 21 and the same way ya dip.

you dumb or you just don't care. there's no help for you either way, don't worry about it

>>18459940
I cannot be dumb though. I don't want to say why here since some people might accuse me of bragging.

For starters, this is pretty normal. I've been experiencing this myself lately.

Are you possibly depressed/having some sort of anxiety?

>>18459892
>I was raised in a family that prioritized Christian values and prohibited boy/girlfriend's, and I want her to be raised no differently

Why though? Do you think you're some shining star example of a good Christian upbringing?
Many of the old Abrahamic ways of Christianity aren't applicable in today's society.

If you haven't set these boundaries with your child yet, doing so after six months won't change their behavior and would just worsen it and make them fighting against your "good traditional family values and Christian morals" that you're so desperate to push onto others because it was pushed onto you.

>>18459892

>hi
>my daughter's been doing stuff for almost half a year
>and just now I decided I wanted to put a stop to it

You won't.

Kill yourself

>>18459851

if its anything like this post its probably because you did not provide us with the information necessary to actually fucking respond you twat.

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lurk more newfag

>>18459851
Because in your last show, you were a cartoon persona who always had something positive to say, but in your new show, you're always negative, and people can see the c*nt you always really were.

(Sorry, but pic related was perfect)

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Maybe you just want to be a tranny yourself? Maybe that's it?

>>18459845
Uh, I can't really answer why or whether there's something wrong with it, but I can vouch for the fact that I feel the same way. Chicks with dicks are a fantasy of mine, but I have absolutely no interest in men.

Honestly, I'd say that makes both of us a bit gay, but who fucking cares? It's the current year, and you're now a protected LGBT citizen. Get out there and persecute some straight white men

>>18459845
just repeat this.
>Traps and shemales are men, and I'm not a faggot.
Repeat it every time the urge appears, use negative reinforments every time you get the idea to fuck a tranny.

More details required

>>18459766

if there was a one size fits all you'd know it. tell us what you did and lets dissect it.

>>18459766
>>18459777
Noice dubs. Sorry. I couldn't resist.

OP, we need more details if you want a specific approach to rectifying your past misdeeds.

A general answer is that you can never get over their guilt and grief over past events. Most people become trapped by them. They're locked in that moment in time forever, doomed to repeat it, like Purgatory or Hell -- I forget which.

Although, you can ask for forgiveness. Sometimes, you will never be forgiven. And that's just life. All you can do with the time you have left on this Earth, is to learn from your mistakes, and do positive things to make up for the bad. Karma may or may not exist in a metaphysical sense. But psychologically, it will definitely help YOU to get over whatever it is you're having trouble getting over, by putting goodness into the world.

The past is already written. The future is all that matters. -- Game of Thrones

Then maybe you should actually do the work and you won't get fired after the trial period.

Think of a business idea that will work and dive headling into it.

However, like the anon above said, if you work hard and are a good coworker, companies should want to like to keep you. Nobody wants to go through a hiring process woth a 50/50 chance of hiring a person who would...work hard and be a good coworker.

>>18459751

MTGTOW is essentially just men giving up on having women because they are too difficult to get with because these men are ugly, uncharismatic, or just awful.

so the job version of that is choosing to be homeless just because you dont want to go through all the struggles associated with not being a good employee.

>>18459710
lol

>>18459720
thanks for the advice, definitely appreciate it

>>18459710
Dude, you aren't the first to fall in love with your therapist. Just keep in mind that she went to school for 4-10 yrs just to learn how to listen to and understand you. Most of the time the don't really even understand you though, she's probably thinking of the black cock she just had last night and if her husband would think the baby is his. Don't fall in love with someone you're paying. Bad news

>>18459703
1. there is graduate school
2. you could figure out why you aren't getting hired (maybe it's not your fault), and fine a solution, considering you understand economics
3. would you be a snob for trying to do blue collar work? no, you would not be a snob.

becoming skilled in a trade takes several years (kind of like a bachelors), and mastering it takes even more (kind of like a masters)

you might be a snob if you think blue collar work is all super easy and low investment

>>18459718
1. I graduated with a 2.8 GPA so it would be tough for me to get into a master's program without work experience. I have no intention of ever going to law school or getting a phD.

2. I went to a top-50 school in the country and didn't put my GPA on my resume. I have to idea why a company would take somebody over me. Maybe companies discriminating against white males due to required quotas really isn't just a meme?

3. Yes, I understand there are years of training and I would be willing to go that route. I'm not some snobby hipster faggot nor was I in a frat, I get along just fine with working class men

>>18459823
It seems like you are at a crossroads here.

You can A.) try to brain up as best as you can, using what you learned in school to figure out why you're not getting a job and what you need to do to get one (not just, "It was the blacks," because I would fire a person working for me for saying something that dumb).

I'll tell you a little bit about what I know. An acquaintance went to Drexel. (Is that a top 50 school? My snob friends criticize it for not having a real library.), and he works a customer service position at Bristol-Myers Squibb, hoping that one day they'll move him up into a better position. That's a tiny glimpse of what the market looks like here in New Jersey. If I were him, I'd see a Masters as the ticket to being competitive when it comes to hiring.

Your other option B.) is to basically hang up your thinking cap and put on your working cap, switching to more concrete physical work instead of abstract office work. The benefit to this is that more people are cut out for it, and the demand for it is probably higher, meaning everyone who works hard at this will get paid $$$. The downsides are that people around you are more likely to be degenerates (being rude towards you, offering that you drink alcoholically with them and do drugs), and that you are way more likely to damage your health.


So there are your crossroads. If I were you, I would try to wise up and make Econ work, since you always (at least in the next few decades) have trades as a backup option.

Same

>family left me for dead
>girl fucked the entire town while I was finding a place to live

I drank my ass off and got three years worth of benzos from a reptoid doctor. I didn't even know that the benzos were so risky...foolish. Now I have chronic depersonalization from the withdrawal.

Alcohol has been compared to opiates in philosophy, in that people do the stuff just to feel okay with a life/mental state that is shitty.

>>18459702
27, 3 times

>Walked in on girlfriend sleeping with friend

>Dad told me he wished I was never born

>Failed out of college due to partying too much

Nearly drank myself to death, pain stopped after a while.

>>18459783
>dad told me he wished I was never born
unless you did something warranting this sort of response, your dad is probably a miserable douche who's opinion you shouldn't value

>walked in on girlfriend sleeping with friend
thot. plenty of people cheat, but cheating in this way just makes her a nasty horrible cunt.

>failed out of college due to partying too much
okay I would actually feel bad about this one, especially considering it is your fault.


did you feel like the first two things were your fault, or that they would never be okay?

when my girlfriend who I really loved fucked the whole town, I blamed myself somewhat and also thought that I would never be with someone as attractive as her.

I wish I just saw the light instead of becoming miserable and drinking.

>>18459691
That'll depend on your MOS.
They want it so when you finish bootcamp you can immediately go to AIT.

I went Infantry (11B) and from enlistment to shipping out was like 1.5 months.

The Army isn't too bad, but REALLY look into it. I'm enjoying myself, but I got a shitty duty station. It's long hours of hard work and for me it's in 95+F.

Look into the other branches.
Or pick an MOS that won't require backbreaking work

>>18459691
The ENTIRE timeframe tho, including ASVAB and medical screening... probably 2-3months.

Try hard on your ASVAB so you can have a wide selection of jobs available. Don't be afraid of white lies at MEPS, if it's not in your paperwork they won't find out about it.

The recruiter might seem like your friend and he might be cool as fuck... but just remember this is his job, he deals with dozens of you. He just wants to get you in the Army.

I'd say pick a relaxed job, Infantry might look and sound cool, but there's so much bullshit that comes with it.

It's up to you if you wanna treat it like a 9-5 job... if you do, pick a relaxed job.
If there's a job you want and it isn't in your list of options, don't settle for something.

I chose infantry and got the hell out of my small town, but I could've picked literally any job that I wanted... it's whatever.

those in the military or have served, how much free time do you get? I understand you have basic training and MOS training, plus being stationed, but Ive had to live at home for the past few years and want to experience going out and partying every once and a while since im still in my 20s
will I get to do this? I cant ask a recruiter for obvious reasons