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>>18459134
bump.please

>>18459134
>Anyways, what are some good movies to watch to motivate/inspire/provide good self help?
Watch Rocky, Rambo, Alien VS Predator, anything with Arnold on it.

>>18459494
>Rocky
>Arnold

Nigga what

i general yes, bitch. you, no.

>>18459129
depends. if you're generally happy doing thing by yourselves, it shouldn't pose a problem

sex is a must for complete hapiness. so, no.

What the fuck. How could we possibly know any better than you. Just take a half tab and find out

>>18459088
thanks for uploading a picture of your palm print with visible narcotics.

Based on this pic I'd say the dosage is 3 squares

wtf u talking about, there's so many people online talking abotu comics cartoons and i guess some underground music, unless you mean in real life, idk, be glad you don't have my tastes though, i can't even find enough people who are share interests to talk about online

especially in a conversation just with one person, fuck dude i'm so alone, so i feel ya i guess

>>18460228
what do you like anon?

>>18459063
read the front page of reddit

>>18459027
Leave her on read for one. As soon as the convo turns south leave.

Be the one to chase.

Its over. Move on. If you dont believe me give her a call and ask her on a date.

>>18459046
It's worth mentioning she's also working 2 jobs now, she wasn't last year. I asked her on a date last week but she said she was busy until the weekend, yet her snapchats say otherwise. Also worth noting, I'd been flirting with her, and she seemed into it, subtly flirting back. Also sets me up to invite her places, like my baseball games (I play college summer ball). But nothing ever really happens

Only way to get over it is to stick your head in the microwave. It wil reactivate your neurons to the same activity level as a kids.

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>>18459032

>>18459024

it's no the IQ or whatever, you don't have an disability. It's just 10 times harder to achieve it.

As an adult you don't have the time and patience to sit for 8-10 hours a day doing the same thing I find myself getting nervous when I do an thing more than 40minutes. Zero patience.

Let alone the problems that occur in everyday life. You need to have some stability financial, emotional, time , to invest to new things you will then find yourself that you can learn new things 10times faster than you did when you were in school, then repeat and repeat.

Also things like dancing, cooking, learning programming, guitar etc are easier if you just have some introduction lessons in some local meetups or go to an teacher and pay for it.

>>18458970

go sleep with a guy or two. if you dont enjoy it, stop worrying. if you do enjoy it, stop worrying.

get to know someone who is actually gay and you'll know the difference. But I do thing you might be gay if you're emotionally attached to guys enough to worry about it

>>18458970
The fact that you care enough to make this thread means you're at least a little gay.

there's no such thing

"get a hobby" is shit tier advice from tge internet that will never solve major issues

Anything you are actually passionate about.

Seeing people talk about stuff they really care about is 100x more interesting than hearing some pedantic fuck drone on about shit he thinks will impress everyone

>>18459098
You can't get a gf if you have no hobbies though
And if your hobbies involve outside interaction you can meet potential gf there
It's pretty useful

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>>18458884
>Stop paying attention to the news
you'll be so pleased to discover how much of it has nothing to do with you.
>Go out into nature more
it is peaceful and calming. I actually chose my career based ONLY on it being mostly outdoors (forestry)
>read some buddhist or stoic philosophy and meditate
There may be no such thing as a soul, reincarnation, Karma or God, but their philosophies and methods are extremely practical for dealing with a world that doesn't go the way you want it to
>spend more time with friends
There was an entire Greek philosophical school that was about checking out of life and kicking it with your friends on the grass because everything that society claims is important really isn't that important at all--and it thrived for CENTURIES before ultimately being forcibly suppressed.

And then of course meme things like good diet (not just a 'decent' diet) and regular exercise are known to improve mood.

That's what helps me.

Yo OP I was just about to start a new thread and it was almost exactly like yours haha
What keeps me going? Well for starters I'm afraid of death and too much of a pussy to kill myself. And I don't want to hurt my parents since I'm their only son.
But besides that Idk I mean yeah everything looks bad, tastes bad, sounds bad. The world is turning bleak. My dad says he felt the same way in the 80's so I just tell myself that this decade sucks and that I will enjoy the 2020s.
What keeps me going is that curiosity. But I don't really have the drive to do anything in the present so I'm stuck there. My life is meaningless as well and I fear getting older too. I'm 24 and I feel old as fuck when I see adult actors are younger than me. Everyone I know irl hates their job but they find joy in the most mundane stuff like Netflix and drinking beer with friends. I have """friends""" but I'm not close to them anymore. I don't have a job or a gf. I want a gf only if it's that one girl that doesn't give me the time of day and I think I don't want a job even though I should get one, because I feel like "what's the point? I'll just be more depressed and more tired".
/rant sorry

>>18458884
Everyday

reposting, as I still don't get it:

(not a dating problem, just a genereal question)

so is it a common behaviour? Can any femanon relate?

>meet grill via some chat
>she's 19
>start vanilla flirting
>she definitely likes me
>says I'm handsome
>says she wonders what I taste like
>sends me many photos (never nudes, but still photos of herself)
>shows me logs from chat with her friend, where she says I'm cool and sweet and handsome
>(time passes)
>she teases me saying she has somebody, evidently to check whather I'll get jealous

>when I finally say I can ride half a country and meet her in person, she tells me not to rise my hopes,

like, what? why would she flirt with me if she doesn't want to fuck?
girls, do you understand?

>finally get a match on tinder
>she's not ugly, actually she might be pretty cute
>never message her
>delete account
What the fuck is wrong with me

>>18458903
I can't tell you what exactly goes down in her head but I can think of scenarios. A likely one is that she really enjoys talking big game when she feels safe behind her computer, and in reality is much more timid and insecure. The reason to feel hesitant towards meeting you in person can be due to multiple factors, ranging from being afraid she is not attracted to you in real life and cannot follow up on her provocations, to fearing you feel provoked by her and carry resentment or whatever else.

It's shitty but there's a lot of people that consider these kind of internet dynamics not just a way to interact despite the difficulties (like not being able to speak face to face) but rather to take on a persona, try out social behavior they find too intimidating in real life and so on.

Also in general - no doubt partly because sex is more often a mixed pleasure for women - girls tend to more often enjoy flirting for the sake of flirting and not be as focused on actually going all the way.

Buy Takata stock.

I guess "work hard, give it your best".
It's bad advice because:
-There's always luck involved
-The results often aren't as big as the effort
-If you give it your best and work as hard as you can AND still fail, it just proves you are useless. Otherwise, if you don't give it your best at least you can think "well maybe I could have done something different, I must improve myself for next time"

I agree about the books thing btw, it's like people try hard to sound all edgy and cool and 2cool4schoolyo but in reality you have to actually read to learn shit sometimes, and everyone knows that real life is not like the books, it's obvious

just have fun

holy shit so bad

Your mother already left... your father have to understand this fact and move on.

How old are they, and with whom is she cheating with?

Seems more logical to talk to your Mom and tell her to stop being a whore

>>18458786
>wife disrespects you in the worst way possible
>you give her a car

what the fuck was he thinking? Is he retarded?

>>18458684
yeah, she cooled off, you might did everything right, maybe someone better came along, maybe her ex contactd her or whateverthefuck, dont sweat it

you dun fucked up

>>18458684
Did she save your number or not, or just "oh good I received the text okay"?
Since it's a double date it might be just a courtesy from her, so she won't be seen as a bad girl.

I think you did good, it's just something that's not meant to be. Simple. Don't overthink it too much.
If anything it should confirms that her interest on you is just that way, nothing more.

>>18458548
>follow all the instructions on pic related

>>18458548
get on pills, live as normal life as you possible can, stay away from drungs as they can make it much worse

>>18458673
I am not sure how to live normal life.
>>18458670
That pic is actually around 50% about me. I have doubts that I do have spd, but I guess can't argue with doctor.

I feel like I COMPLETELY understand that shes just drunk and horny and wants to get a nut, she doesn't want the energy of sex, she doesn't want me to rub her or lick her, she just wants to get it done as fast as possible. I DON'T understand not being involved at all though, at least let me watch and not cover herself completely, at least lay your head on me, at least involve me in some minor type of way like some kisses while you cum or something? But then, even if I was treated as I was invisible, that would be better because she actively tried to HIDE that she was masturbating and covered herself completely and acted like it wasn't happening when I was showing my discomfort and asking her to stop. I was expecting some of my words of discomfort to lead to a convo about how she can do this while not making me feel bad but that wasn't the case

I just don't know what would have to be going through my head to have her lay next to me but go under the blankets and beat off while pretending I wasn't doing it. I can't imagine it. I feel so unwanted and low and disrespected its unbelievable. Its never happened in our 2.5 year relationship.


Please be honest here, am I overreacting, do you want any additional details, etc.

You are overreacting. It is called masturbating it is a solo thing to do.
The kissing and cuddling afterwards was your invitation to start something but you were an annoyed little bitch about it.

Girls masturbate too, don't make her feel bad about it.

yeah, you're overreacting and overanalyzing this far moo much
sometimes i would jerk off next to my gf just cause i didn't really wanna go through all the sex, or mutual mastrubation hustle
as for ignoring you, you were obviously killing her vibe with your bitchy needines