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Can eating a lot of sugar make you have muscle pain?
Here's what happened.
>used to be 321 lb in Feb. and i would eat a bunch of sugar all the time
>now i'm 274 lb and i haven't eaten any sugar since March
>this past weekend i went on vacation for four days and i decided to eat just like i used to because i think i earned it
>no problems until the 3rd night
>my lower back starts to hurt a lot and i started to get a migraine
>i find this weird because i haven't been doing anything that's physically demanding
>i went to bed and i hoped that i would feel better in the morning
>i woke and i didn't feel any better
It's been two days since then and i still feel like crap even though i went back to my diet.
Will i feel better after a few days of my regular diet or should i do something else too?
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>>18462217
You raped your kidneys. Sugar is bad for you why the fuck would you go back?
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You are way overweight. Of course you will get back pains and migraines and even organ failures. Can't eat nothing, but added extra sugars beyond about what normal unprocessed food tend to have aren't a good idea at all.
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>>18462217
Holy shit.
I'm not a doctor but you're not getting enough sodium. Random muscle pains is usually as a result of atrophy or salt. When I skip the gym for months my forearm atrophies the most/fastest and begins to hurt, leg cramps happen to me despite activity level if I've had no salt.
You've cut sugar do not cut salt completely, DO NOT fall for the eating fat makes people fat.
Aren't you worried about stretchy skin??
>Currently have a pretty successful job I just keep climbing up because all it requires is my core skills.
>Never had an actual taste of South-west farming.
>There's a lot of ads on Craigslist to become a Farm-hand.
>Debating if I should just abandon what I have and accept a simpler life.
The problem is I'm not sure if this is a mistake or not, one hand I don't want go out there and find out I hate it, on the other I feel like putting my job on hold here will only fuck me over in the future.
But I just don't click with people out here because I'm so emotionally distant.
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I guess a simpler question is, how do I cope with life even if a slight taste of success wealth isn't leading to anything new or exciting?
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You sound like you'll be happier living a simpler life and that's not a bad thing at all. I sometimes wonder about that kind of lifestyle myself, I'd love to have farming skills in case I actually need to produce my own food someday, and it'd be nice to be isolated from superficial society.
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How long can you hold out for in your current situation? In my opinion it's a lot more rewarding if you save money doing something boring for a few years and then not having to work for a period after.
You could save money now and lead a simple life later, without the insecurity.
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A girl just told me I'm a 6/10 when it comes to sex. What? I've never felt more emasculated in my life. I carry a good sized piece so maybe i've never had to try to hard, but 6/10?? That's bullshit. How can I get better?
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>>18462060
1. Did she orgasm every time you had sex?
2. Do you have a good body?
3. How much time was spent on oral for her?
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>>18462060
We really don't care about size. This is something only guys care about. Anything bigger than 6" hits the cervix which freaking hurts. I would much rather have a 5" that knows how to please me sexual ly.
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Have you tried asking her?
How do I get a guy who looks like this with a great personality.
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>>18462037
Look like the female equivalent of that with a great personality
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>>18462037
Make yourself worthy of a guy who looks like that with a great personality
No one deserves anything. He's not a fucking trophy m8.
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>>18462037
Are you a girl or boy?? Serious question.
Anyway, male would be more horny than female in general, so if you could arouse your target with his preffered fetish/kinks, you're good to go.
Also "just spread your legs" is bullshit most of time. With lots of masturbation tools available nowadays lying on bed, leg spread and act like dead fish won't cut it anymore.
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I have mediocre tits (saggy/deflated, not big enough to compensate for the sag)
how do I stop letting it get me down?
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>>18461988
Wear uplift bras and go for the bubbling-over-the-top look
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Don't wear bras. Do some research on the negative effects of bras.
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>>18461991
This is more about what they look like out of a bra, I know bras make them look better when I'm in clothing but that doesn't make me feel better about them.
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I just shaved my crotch for the first time and there's red bumps around my hair follicles.
What's going on??
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Wrong move brother. It's normal but you should apply a moisturizer after shaving down there.
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>>18461968
any specific type of moisturiser? and thank you
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>>18461971
Not that anon, but you could use some generic aftershave over the counter moisturiser. Even Gillette is fine
Next time use having foam/soap and don't forget the aftershave when it's done.
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Sort of love triangle 2017-06-27 02:55:59 Post No.18461932
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I know this is pretty dumb but I'm hoping you guys can help me out.
I (male) am good friends with A (female). I like A a lot and was planning on asking her out. I believe A is or at least was interested in me at some point. I haven't done anything up until now because I'm recovering from being a total recluse for the past few years and am still pretty socially incompetent. Yesterday I was having lunch with two of A's friends and one of them mentioned to the other that A was really interested in some guy I don't know. So I guess I'm in a sort of love triangle.
I already feel pretty discouraged because A is very outgoing and sociable and leads a fast and exciting life. Every weekend she's off on some crazy adventure. I'm the complete opposite, my life is very routine and most often lead in solitude. I honestly don't know why she even bothers with me.
I'd like to be more like her and am trying to be, but it's going to take time. The other guy, from what little I know of him, is more like her and would probably fit right into her life.
I'm not desperate for a relationship in general, it's her I'm interested in. I'm rarely interested in people.
Seems that taking this all into account I have three options:
1. Go for it.
2. Bury my feelings and keep being friends. I don't think I can realistically do this, I'll just end up jealous and bitter.
3. Stop being involved with A at all. This presents two complications. First, a lot of my friends are through her or at the very least know her. It would damage my social life as a whole. Second, A is such an incredibly kind and compassionate person that if I do this, she will try very hard to figure out why and "help" me. This will be painful. Again, I have no idea why she cares this much.
So what should I do? Seems like everything except successfully romancing her is going to cause me a lot of pain, and that seems to be an unlikely outcome.
Sorry this is long and quite possibly pathetic.
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>>18461932
Bury my feelings and keep being friends
Stop being involved with A at all
Something in the middle of this,it would be great with you could jus go for it, but you seem already have made your on mind.
If she's so special you could give it a try and change yourself to be more like her even if you both don't get in a relationship, seem like you want to change to something you consider better and should try be that person no matter what.
Also,
>Sorry this is long and quite possibly pathetic.
Be better than this
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>>18462292
,it would be great IF you could just go for it*
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This is not a love triangle at all, since none of the other two are even aware of your existence. That's two people and you sperging around them.
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Is it normal to feel after university is finished and you've settled into your career that all that's left to do is wait 20,000 days or so to die?
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Well, in a way, yes, though maybe you due earlier.
In another way you should be looking forward to the many happy moments you can experience.
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No, it's not normal. Now's the time to enjoy life.
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>>18461910
There's always room for advancement in your career. Don't settle so soon.
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How to ask a girl out while socially autistic 2017-06-27 02:35:11 Post No.18461881
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How to ask a girl out while socially autistic
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I need help asking a girl out. I know it's the usual/lame crap you get on this board but I appreciate your advice..
So there's this girl, all I can say is and as far as I know, is that when we see each other she happily says 'Hi' or ' Good morning', etc.
I had only spoken to her once before. But a couple weeks later, we and a few others were watching a presentation and she was in the room. When I walked into the room, she smiled at me and I smiled back. But because I'm so introverted and I don't really know her that well, I just sat on the opposite side of the room (about 2 rows down, 4 seats across) because it was more open space.
So she gets up and sits right next to me, and talks to me for about 5 mins before the presentation started.
I don't know if she is normally this friendly and open with people or just me specifically. I don't want to be that guy who misreads a situation. (It's happened before and I don't want to make that mistake again).
Thank you if you've read this far, all I ask is, what should I do? How can I simply ask her out to lunch (or a date), without making it too weird?
I know she's also mentioned to me that "I haven't had my coffee yet". Was that an opportunity? Fuck...
Last time I had some feelings for a girl (5 years ago), I was too scared to do something and I missed the opportunity. I don't want to make that mistake ever again.
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>>18461881
Did you grow up with a single mother?
Also when you disagreed with you mom or voiced your own opinion as a child, how would your mom react/ say?
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Next time you see her tell her you think she's beautiful and ask if you can buy her lunch and talk.
It's that easy but you're so autistic and weak you're never going to be able to do it. Enjoy that regret for the next 5 years dood.
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>>18461902
>Did you grow up with a single mother?
No, but I come from a culture where dating isn't really popular. But I moved to another country when I was young where dating is more popular. I've had to find out the hard way.
>Also when you disagreed with you mom or voiced your own opinion as a child, how would your mom react/ say?
As a child I don't really remember, my mother wasn't aggressive or mean. Nowadays I just disagree with her about pseudoscience shit.
Now do you have some actual advice, cunt?
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>Parents got divorced when I was 4 (I'm 20 now)
>he was an abusive alcoholic; frequently beat my mom and me so naturally I've been resenting the idea of ever reuniting with him
>been living with my mom and grandma ever since, only spoke to father when he'd call me on my birthdays
>about an hour ago I received two text messages and an unanswered call from an unknown number
>read the messages
>it's my fucking father
>there's a picture of a little girl attached
>"She's in a hospital right now and I thought it would really cheer her up if you called her. She knows she has an older brother. Here's her number."
>mfw
How the fuck do I deal with this shit?
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>>18461858
Dunno. Your choice if you can meet with your father and stepsister or not.
Pick what will bother you less. I personally would probably agree to meet the kid. He's got good bait there. Maybe he isn't alcoholic anymore. Or you'd probably feel guilty if it turned out to be the same for your stepsister with you as adult never even as much as complaining about his alcoholism.
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>>18461858
You could see your litte sis and still hate him
Do it for the girl not for your dumbass father
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>>18461917
this
Be a part of the girls life and ensure she has family she can go to for anything.
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Fucked myself financially and I don't know what to do 2017-06-27 02:19:25 Post No.18461851
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Fucked myself financially and I don't know what to do
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Long story short:
>Decent with money, always have spare funds
>I want to make people happy and I try to assist people in any way that I can
>Friends and family come to me for "help"
>End up loaning out over $3,000 to a handful of people
>Been weeks, I keep pestering these people
>"Yeah, i'll get that to you Monday."
>Monday rolls around, the date changes to Friday
>Friday rolls around, date changes to Wednesday
>Rinse and repeat
On top of that..
>Went camping last weekend
>I'm the only one with a licence/car
>Bring 9 people with me as they all said they would pitch in and help with supplies/money
>All but one did not
>Another $600 in the hole
I'm a goddamned idiot and a sucker. I was warned by many people that I would dig a huge hole for myself and they were completely correct.
I have rent to pay, car/insurance payment, etc. and all together I need to come up with something like $1,500 by next Monday at the absolute latest. I get paid next week but that will only be about $900 and it won't be until Thursday. I have already sold off any item of value that I had that I did not need.
What the fuck do I do now? I'm contemplating whoring myself out on CL or something but I'd really rather not..
Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.
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>Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.
Stop considering yourself decent with money, you are not.
From there, stop giving out money unless someone will literally starve or die without it. Being friends doesn't mean you need to pay their way.
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Guilty trip them. Tell them how much you need the money and that you may have serious problems(exaggerat as much as possible). If this doesn't work i suggest you pick your frend better, as for the camp you should have checked if they had the money beforehand. Never camp or do anything that involves money with others unless you KNOW they'll pay
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>>18461851
Why didn't they pitch in with camping money and why are you going anyhow if you can still expect to pay like $100 that you can ill afford?
Keep your life cheap or yes, do jobs. I personally find prostitution just okay, but YMMV on that end, and so may your society's opinion. So maybe sell some of your shit instead.
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I'm """interning""" at a nonprofit over the summer, but I don't do anything other than check and fix things in client profiles for hours everyday. While it's referred to as me interning here, and I can presumably say as much on a resume, it feels more like I'm just a volunteer, compounded by the fact that I only work here 6 hours a day twice a week. If I feel like I'm not really getting any valuable experience out of it, what ought I do? I haven't signed anything binding, but the thought of having a new reference is nice.
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>interning nonprofit
>feels more like I'm just a volunteer
>I feel like I'm not really getting any valuable experience out of it
>a new reference is nice.
That's exactly the point. Don't be like me and skimp out opportunities for new references.
What you're doing may seem useless, but the reference is worth more.
Make sure you get someone who works there, manager, boss, etc. who can give you a reference (presumably a good one) to put that in your resume.
But if you think it's too taxing and a waste of time, you are free to leave.
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>>18461834
Are you making at least minimum wage?
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>>18461866
Nay, it be unpaid. I originally was looking for volunteer hours for something.
Hey /adv/, I need your help.
My gf is really fat, like 100kg. She hates it but I can't get her to do anything about it. She has been whining for three years almost every week about how all the other girls are so pretty and she can't buy dresses she likes.
We argue A LOT about how she has to do something but she always finds an excuse. She doesn't want to go to the gym because she thinks people there will judge her and she will cry seeing herself in the mirror, and after three years of telling her how bullshit that is, at this point I think she needs to see a therapist or something. She would rather kill her mother than go to the gym for five minutes.
She also doesn't want to do sports because reasons, she doesn't want to go running with me because reasons and she doesn't want to go on a diet because she loves food.
What the fuck do I do? She has mental issues but I really want her to do something about her body because she's becoming a whale and it sucks for both of us. Any way to convince her? I know she wants to lose weight because all she does is whining about it but how do I get her to stop crying and actually do something about it?
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Nothing you can do if after 3 years you have tried with no success. Move on or put up with it.
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>>18461802
Whether she consciously knows it or not, the reason people of both genders want to look attractive is to attract mates. It's likely that as long as she can keep you around, she won't feel like her weight is big enough of an issue to work on it.
I'm not saying she's a bad person trying to exploit you, I'm just saying that's literally how humans are programmed to function.
>because reasons
Those are nothing but excuses. If she wanted to lose weight bad enough, she would do what she needs to.
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>>18461802
I also used to be the exact same. My boyfriend literally told me "either do something about it or shut up, because you're not a victim here and you're unhappy out of your own decision. I won't listen to you complaining about something if you aren't working to solve your problems".
I was about 100 kg and I lost over 40 kg now, I've been dieting for 2 years.
I started exercising when I hit 70 because I was too self conscious before.
Honestly being on a diet made me love food more. I cook like a pro, and make tons of healthy stuff. I appreciate eating unhealthy food more since I do it more rarely.
Therapy helped me tons too.
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Is it weird that I just gave a escort 1500 dollars to hang out for the day?
She's 19, short, long hair, tight body and dresses like a girl next door. We just hung out, I ordered food and then I fucked her as many times as I could.
I'm 25. Feelsweirdman
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If you feel it was worth the money, then nothing weird about it.
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>>18461790
You seem to have enjoyed the hanging out more than the sex, and you could have done that part with a non-pro
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>>18461790
it was weird until you added the part about fucking her a bunch of times. Then it was normal.
i got laid off work and cant afford rent this month im already 5 days late to pay im stressed and dont know what to do
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>>18461770
Focus on getting a new job
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>>18461770
Also build up some saveings for when this shit happens.
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Don't clam up, don't wait. You NEED to get in contact with everyone you owe money to (Utilities, the bank, the credit card company, most importantly your land lord) and explain your situation.
They'd rather get paid late or get paid less than not get paid at all and have to waste money evicting you/cancelling your services.