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Need help now. My cat got me a bird. I stopped her from eating it but now I see the bird is really damaged. Do I kill it to stop him from suffering?
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>>18454946
You should not stop that cat from his/her nature happiness in the first place
give it back to your cat
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>>18454968
Shut the fuck up weirdo. He does this everyday. Today I catched him doing. You are not the one cleaning his mess after.
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>>18454973
I will cleaning everyday because i love my cat
you should understand your pet more than this
do not mess with the way of nature kid ;)

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i think i have a big problem in that whenever i get alone with a girl im pretty boring and unexciting. i just tend to talk to them about more personal things rather than the usual friendly stuff, but im never able to actually make that into something more

how do you become exciting in this way? what kind of things should i talk about, what should i do, even any canned lines, jokes etc. should i use? or even, any good books on this kind of topic? open to anything

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1) Being chill low energy but confident is better than being a clown. Sometimes it's better to be able to stand silence, it makes you look confident if you do not overdo it.
It's better to show that you are good confident man, rather than good entertainer.
2) Jokes can be occasional when you really see a chance to shine, say it with cold face and ironic tone
3) compliment everything you want beside her looks, it would make you look creepy,
example: better to say you like her earring and touch her hair to get a better look
4) escalate with more touch like touching her arm or closing your ear when she talks
5) eventually go for a kiss but only when you feel 100% beast mode, even if she refuses you can be cool about it then, and if you are not sure, she will smell it before you get to her mouth

So far this works for me. Everyone has his own style.
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Also: Red Pill
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It does not matter what you talk about, it matters how you talk.

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> Make out with chick at bar
> Couldn't close
> Next morning she texts you 'Thanks for taking care of me last night!"

What do _you_ say to her?
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I did?
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No problem, i enjoyed that. We should go drinking sometimes again.
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wanna meet tonite? imma take care of u real good bb gurl

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Can you guys recommend me a good E-book reader?
I was thinking of Amazon Kindle Oasis, is it any good?
I would prefer physical copies of books, but I got limited space, and buying hardcover would be quite expensive over time (I'm a student at the moment).
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The thing with e-readers is that they can be a bit error prone or delicate. Like in my experience they freeze easily or the screen with break with a little pressure.

Then again I bought from Kobo. Never fucking again. Maybe Kindle is better.
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>>18454903
I love my kindle paperwhite and had one that broke (my fault) and Amazon still discounted a replacement.
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>>18454907
>Never fucking again.

Why? Not OP tho.
I saw a thread in which they talked about the "compatibility" with other ebooks besides the ones bought in the E-reader store. Does Kindle supports books donwloaded from the computer?

I don't live in the US and here is hard to obtain some books that I want to read so I plan on getting them from b-ok or something

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I have a lot of things I guess I have to admit to myself. One of them being bitter feelings towards women. I try not to to be bitter but I am.

I am 27 now and have not experienced a relationship. I have tried and failed many times. Not failed because I am weird or a creep but failed because the women just didn't like me. What makes me most upset is how easy women have it in the dating department. It's hilariously easy for a woman to get dates. I get that life isn't fair but still. It is upsetting at the least.

I would actually be okay if I knew why these women didn't like me. Like "your eyes look like shit". I would be okay. But most women give me that answer of "it's not you, it's me".

Basically, what can I even do at this point? At this rate, the only women left in my age bracket will be obese single mothers who abuse drugs. Help me.
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>>18454859
>the only women left in my age bracket will be obese single mothers who abuse drugs
Criticising women for not being attracted to you, or dismissing you, and then doing the same to another demographic is pretty hypocritical man. If you want to live in a world where people are more compassionate and open minded re romance, start with the man in the mirror etc.

Moving on to why they don't like you, let's work it out.
>first post a pic
>what do you do/earn?
>how do you live?
>which country you in?
>where have you been looking for women?
>are you autistic/ other social/psychological issues?
>what do you do when you like a woman?
>what are your hobbies and interests?
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>>18454859

I am in a similar boat as you, and I am roughly your age as well (26), but I may offer some perspective.


I mean it in an oddly empowering way when I say this, but in all honesty no one gives a shit and the world owes you nothing, nor would they be interested in delving into why you are the way your are. But keep your chin up because at least you can be certain of the outcome.

You care about this because in one way or another, you hold women highly in your value system, it could be because of loneliness, fear, rejection etc
Often times this fear of failure leads people to not try, and the subsequent failure just affirms their initial prejudices.


Here's my advice. Take everything at face value, you may not ever get people to like you, its a harsh truth, but that's okay... at least you have certainty at your side.

Do what everything you can do in life that makes you happy (this doesn't necessarily involve people btw) because the only person who really matters to you is yourself.

Bring your dog with you and travel your country if you can, because you can guarantee that you will never see the people you meet ever again, you'll find yourself open up to people little bit more than you normally would, and people may receive you more warmly (maybe more than you're normally accustomed)

If you don't think it will work, live your life as a recluse and hermit my dude. It isn't that bad if you can get a job as a park ranger or something, but as ling as you can wake up to greet the sunrise, feed your dog, have breakfast and let out a sigh of relief because you know deep down that you're happy.
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>>18454920
I won't post a pic but I can answer other questions.

I make about 40k a year.

I live in a studio apartment

I live in the USA

I have not really been looking for women because I just don't know where to meet them in a location that isn't weird.

I don't think I em autistic either. I do hate extremes though. I feel like logically I should have had a girlfriend by now but RNG seems to be my enemy.

I usually do nothing when I like a woman I am a total stranger to. If I know her, I might say a few words to get to know her more.

My hobbies include the gym, working on computers, video games, listening to heavy metal and playing the harmonica a bit.

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She I get her pregnant and let her raise my kid alone?

She uglier than girl in this pic by a few points.

I would love the kid but I couldn't love her.
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Should*
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>>18454756
Depends, is this her OP?
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>>18454765
No

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Does anyone eIse on here ever get vagina envy?

l'm not sure l really want to be a woman, but l look at my dick and just wish l had a vagina sometimes. I hate having a refractory period. I realIy wish l could have multiple orgasms. Good sex and masturbation just seem so much more pleasurable for women it makes me deeply depressed... lt just feels Iike both biology and my body have betrayed me. Anyone know this feeling?
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You fell for tumblr memes and now you think you want to be a woman, purely for additional sexual pleasures. How fucking shallow.

Envy is normal. Some people are envious over money, some envious over size, some envious over sex, aka you.

Just accept you're the superior gender and don't be brainwashed by literal cock sucking faggots online.
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>>18454732
The grass is always greener
Multiple orgasms aren't a guaranteed thing for all women
75% can't orgasm just from penetration
10% can't orgasm at all
Don't be fooled by porn where the women moans at the slightest touch
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>>18454732
Were you born as heir to a top 20 billionarie? I guess your lineage has "betrayed" you if not. Lel.

Shit, if you're a normal healthy human in terms of sexuality, be glad. You could have lost the biological lottery with a lot of possible defects and issues and dysfunctions.

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How do I resist the degneracy on /gif/?
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Don't go to /gif/
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>>18454751
how?
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>>18454767
Install StayFocused extension
Block /gif/ for max time
Enjoy your degeneracy free life

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Title says it all, background;

>Army ossifer
>Works exclusively with men (infuntry hurr)
>Men that are steel eyed, cold-blooded killers w/ multiple combat tours/missions
>Toasty-A1-pussy had these men alcohol dependent and crying at a corner somewhere in a fetal position

How do we prevent this from happening? I ask because its funny until it happens to you. Now I get that I dont want to be in a relationship while in the military, but this quiet desperation and loneliness had me catching feelings for bitches I aint supposed to.

I dont ever want to feel like this. Ever. Help.
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>>18454689

BUMPing with story time:

>Had an RTO
>Strong kid that lifts, and is smart af, I guess not bad looking
>Was about to get out so he can go to college full time
>Had a local GF to occupy his time and to chill with
>GF somehow got knocked up
>They get married
>No more college, have to stay in so he can feed the family

We promoted him to CPL before sending his ass to Fort Carson after BLC. At least they still married.
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>>18454689
Go on /r9k/ Women Hate threads and realize they're right. It worked for me.
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I think you need to get yourself a quality waifu; please consult the anons in /a/ for further assistance.

I jack off to videos of my girlfriend getting fucked. Am I a fucked up?
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>>18454620
Does she know you are her bf?
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>>18454623
yes

her previous 2 bfs made vids of her fucking them


it was in a shared onedrive folder in her laptop that she doesn't know exists. copied it into a usb and been jacking off to it since
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I can help make more material for you to watch, op

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Is it ethical take on a date a 16 year old? I am a 20 year old guy in Australia. I've known this 16 year old girl for a few years, since I was 17 and she was 13/14.
We used to talkas freinds online allot a few years ago and occasionally see eacother at parties and concerts every now again, have common mutual freinds.
I saw her at a concert a few nights ago. She came with her family. We got a bite to eat and sat at top of the grandstand. It was really cold outside, at one point she touched my face and commented on how warm it was. We were sitting closely to eachother, legs touching, and i was feeding her bits of my churros. I accidentaly grabbed her chin and she didn't even mind. then her ex boyfreind and mum was looking for her and called her down and they went home but she hugged me goodbye.
Anyway I asked her on messenegr to hang and she said she might be keen to meet up this weekend.
I don't have feelings for her, but I felt like there was chemistry between us that night building before we got interupted. she says she still has occasional flings with that ex (who I know and talk to whenever i bump into him at gigs and stuff).
I also remember us having somewhat lewd and also personal emotional conversations a few years ago, but nothing on that level now after we kinda stopped talking.
The context is, she is a 9/10 petite bombshell, and she has like dozens of beta orbiters. I was one of them for sure ahaha, main reason I didnt try anything is because she was either with the boyfreind or i felt shes too youn.
Now shes legal, and feelin that chemistry build, i wanna see where tis goes.
i aint looking for a realtionsip,
I feel filthy and dirty about fucking her because of my age. I wanna take things really slow. I'd be happy just to hold hands and maybe kiss.
Shes like imtimidatingly pretty. I know she finds me attractive. but is this right?

pic unrelated lol, i dont want any of her freinds seein an actual pic on ere, but ses fuckin hotter than the pic lmao
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>>18454604
Who the hell cares really? Just fuck her tough, I would never date a fkin 16-year old that shit gets annoying real fast
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>>18454672
Just broke up wit a 17 year old girl.
"Drive me here" "Give me attention" "Im broke buy me food"
Like fuck off.

16 year old girls are clingy. she might not know what she wants.She probally is attracted to you, but might not want to take it further because shes 16 and sixteen year olds dont know what they want
Just respect her and dont try and force her into sex straight away if you care about how she feels.
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>>18454604
Why wouldn't it be ethical? A fairly conservative 16 y/o is the age of consent in your place anyhow, right? Just hook up and fuck if she is okay with it.

> I feel filthy and dirty about fucking her because of my age.
Lel, why?

> I wanna take things really slow.
Doesn't need to be really slow, just slow enough that your partner never feels much pushed into a direction they don't want to take.

On the other hand, it's not like she hasn't wanted to fuck for years, probably. If she hasn't already.

>>18454720
All the same problems with many older women. Though I guess you might better be able to pick financially independent ones.

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I'm having a hard time getting the strength to do something with my life. I've been home doing almost nothing for this semester, although I need to get money to college and whatnot. What can I do to force myself to really focusing on studying and working? From where can I draw the strength to help myself?
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Don't look for motivation, you need to get disciplined.
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>>18454589
Fuck, I hate discipline. Anyways, how do I get better at it?
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Cold turkey on 4chan, yt, porn and other procrastination shit - there is a software to block it.
Physical stimulation, exercise to increase dopamine.

DISCIPLINE

Write your time budget in excell daily, and control the amount of hours that go on procrastination. Try to reduce it every day.

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I found out not too long ago that I'm a basically just a fucking back up and a food source and got fucking cheated on. But I don't know what to do at this point since I still love her. So what do I do now?
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>>18454536
>I still love her

If you can still love someone who used you and cheated on you then you are a cuck. In this case proceed loving her while she rides cock carousel and lives on your money.
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>But I don't know what to do at this point since I still love her.
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>>18454536
introduce other chicks into your life, fuck some of them if you can, i sincerly doubt you are at the moment but try
your mind is having image of only one chick as a representation of "love", sex, intimacy and much other shit, because of that it is scared of losing her as it connects it with losing all of those mentioned above, she is not special, you are not special, there are numerous of girls out there, and same thing would happen with all of them in a given time
it gets easier to control once you go through certain number of chicks, as you realize non of them is special

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I have major depression, severe social anxiety, Complex-PTSD, agoraphobia, tardive dyskinesia, and conversion disorder.

What that basically means for me is that every day I suffer from sadness, loss of interest in pretty much everything in life, I am VERY uncomfortable around people, I keep having repeated flashbacks to horrible events in my past, I am scared to go outside, and I don't talk. When I am put in social situations, my head twitches side to side involuntarily, my neck tenses up a lot, my left side of my mouth will grimace, and I hyperventilate.

About a week ago my mother called the cops on me because I text her that I want Physician Assisted Suicide. I don't live in a state where that's legal and I don't have a terminal illness where I'll die soon. The cops ended up having me sent to a mental hospital for the second time at the same place as last about 3 years ago (when I had my first suicide attempt).

I stayed there for 5 days. I refused taking medication and going to group sessions because I already did that in the past and it did nothing for me. I explained to the staff there that I've been through about 15 different medications and been with numerous doctors and therapists in the past 3 years and they still tried to push me to do the same thing I already tried.

They almost court ordered me to stay longer, but I agreed to get Electroconvulsive Therapy even though I've already been consulted about it and don't want it.

I just want to fall asleep forever, anons...
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>>18454533
It really makes me wonder why God puts people like you on Earth
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You need help, and sadly not many places and many people will be attentive enough to help you. But keep trying: if those therapies don't work for you, you need to keep searching for the right one. Try connecting to people, it can be an anonymous group since you have trouble with people; I know it should be hard, but once you get to know good friends, you'll feel a lot better.
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You have whole eternity to sleep, enjoy the pains while you can.

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I can't help it, but every time I get into any game with a lot of content (TES, Fallout, etc...) I feel compelled to thoroughly loot all the locations I discover and read all the material, even if it's unrelated to any quest I'm pursuing. I also need to do absolutely ALL the quests even if they don't make sense for the character I'm roleplaying, and sometimes discover all the locations.

I've enjoyed doing that for the past few years but now it's seriously getting in my way when I try to enjoy a game. I get bored and it all feels pointless, and then I quit. I also have little time to do anything else given that I can't play all day long. But when I do pass up a location I've just discovered to concentrate on my quest, then I get profoundly unfulfilled. How do I get over being a completionist?
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>>18454504
Stop playing open world games. They are designed to addict completionist autists who don't see anything wrong in wasting their time to collect some crap.
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>>18454617
I like to play open-world games, I'd just like to know how people do it without checking out 100% of the things in it. I'm not even in this for trophies, just for personal accomplishment, otherwise I feel like I've wasted the game.
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>>18454504
>>18454617
This, open world games can't be finished without you wasting hours more on it than you'd have if you played a linear game. I'm doing more and more older games who had semi-open world levels like Crysis.

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