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You got something called insomnia go see a doctor. No way to fix it.

>>18490034
I live with my parents and I'm not sure what I should do in order to see a doctor because I never have. also I'm not sure if my insurance will cover the rx. Can I look it up?

How old are you if you do not mind me asking

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>>18490021
Break up with her. Polyromantic bi and weeb are all red flags. She was with you just to get some emotional support while she's banging some random guy/gal.
Not all weebs are bad, but most of them are just thisty for attention/dick.

LMFAOOOOOO you went to a fucking anime convention you fucking faggot

>>18490038
Already broke up, I'm just unsure if what I did was the right thing. Thank you for your post, though. She was incredibly emotionally unstable, so this post makes sense.

>>18490039
Yeah I did, I'm a fucking faggot. I accept it.

>>18489968
>Is it normal to have these doubts?
Pretty normal.
I'd say if you find an opportunity you feel comfortable with to "embrace your gayer side" as you put it, I'd say go for it. At best it'll increase the size of your dating pool, at worst you'll know you're not quite as bi as you thought.
The big thing is that you've got to feel comfortable about it, if you don't, then don't do it.

If you're bicurious and open to explore why not just go for it? Always practice safe sex especially with men, though.

>>18489968
Women are disgusting, horrible creatures. If you're able to get your dick hard for literally anything other than female humans, I recommend pursuing that as much as possible

>>18489945
Get an income, become independent and then do whatever you want. You have failed yourself and your child by making yourself entirely dependent on another person. Stop being fucking useless and make a life for yourself.

>>18489949
What should I do to go towards that goal? Right now I have to stay home with the baby due to daycare costs being high.

Would doing online school be worthwhile or are all of those a scam?

>>18489958
Have you been employed in the past?

If yes, go back to similar field and become independent.
If no, go to trade school and then get like an office job or something.

(2/2)

Small things that add to the difficulty:

A and his gf are both part of another group which are going to go on a holiday this summer. We would split them up too

B is moving away this summer, waiting would make the social situation easier.

The relationship between A and his gf will likely not last.

Making a decision should be unanimous, if I were to go off and tell A that would likely make matters worse as far as the group is concerned. I hate to admitt to my own superficiality, but i would also likely lose from that myself, because I betray the people who told me and would be seen as responsible for splitting up the group.

We also have no way to punish A's girlfriend. B got a LOT of flack for this already, he has shown remorse too. The girlfriend has in the past played it off to the turbulence of their relationship at the time and knowing her, she will likely be successful in playing it off like that if publicly exposed.

What would be a good course of actions? We also wanted to look into giving the gf an ultimatum, "you have a week to tell A or we will tell him".

And perhaps we won't even tell him at all, as bad as that may sound. If we are content with not telling now, there should be no trouble in never telling. Telling after they break up would only hurt A more as he learns not to trust us.

Dude, just fucking tell the guy. He deserves to know. You're a douchebag that's just as bad as the cheating slut and asshole if you don't.

Seriously OP, every second you don't tell the bf is just adding to this injustice. FUCKING TELL HIM. If you don't, you're a bitch coward who would rather "keep the peace" than acknowledge your own friend's trust.

>>>/pol/

>>18489899
They garnish your wages, put liens on all current and future property. There is no limit to how far they will go to get their money. You cannot shake student loan off, even in death.

Ignoring it will be the worst outcome, because it will ruin your financial life, and the lives of anyone who is tied to you (spouse, kids). You'll never get loans for a car or house. You'll even be denied a career level job, if you are being considered in many positions that conduct credit checks on potential employees.

>>18489899
Imagine not going to a community college where your entire degree is covered by the Pell Grant

Go to a board of a subject that you feel can help either you or your future and lurk.

>>18489864
Do you have a job?

>>18489870
Yes. Cashier at Wal-Mart.

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>>18489780
>working for a living is ass
Compared to what...?

>>18489780
fuck you.
I work 50 hours a week for 32k after taxes. I support myself fully and pay for my own anti depression meds. Cooking is not hard.
Learn that you work to support the rest of your life.
Grow the fuck up and get pyschiatric help. You can certainly afford it.

>>18489780
>working for a living is ass
No shit dumbass
Have you ever met a person that actually wanted to work
No, they just want money
Hell they don't even want money they just want the shit money buys
If people didn't have to work they wouldn't

>>18489746
I have the same thing. apparently the people here say I should fuck doggy, but I have trouble achieving that. we're both in a shitty boat with a weird solution

>>18489746
Reverse. Cowgirl.

>>18489746
you lucky fuck. Easy deepthroats.
also, reverse cowgirl.
At least you don't curve up.

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>>18489743
This is what she feels

>autistic gf

Yes ik

it just looks like a bug bite that was scratched too much.
at this point it will probably scar.

>>18489743
Use a hot cloth (tap water hottest setting) and do 3 sets of compresses 1 minute each time. The increase blood flow to that area will destroy the poison.

>>18489736
What usually sets you off? Have you had any fights or bad incidents at school or wherever?

>>18489751
Nah man nothing that sticks out to me.... I mean my girlfriend broke up with me but it was still going on before that... but I mean I do get fucked around with at school sometimes...people being dicks and shit but I don't fight or anything

>>18489736
Sounds like you need to get into sports. Try to channel your rage into lifting or team sports.

>>18489728
you're gonna have to work on your inner cuck, mate , cause the same pattern will just happen again and again. kill the beta inside you./

>>18489728
it's really up to luck along with picking women who are traditional and have morals. You can marry someone from church and they can still fuck you over. I picked someone seemingly traditional and loving but he has grown uninterested and uncaring throughout the years. You really just have to be lucky to end up with someone who continues to care for you through the years, and I hope you are lucky.

>>18489728
>3 months
You married a slut, didn't you?

>>18489712
Neet because you're extreme introvert?
Anyway

Sleep well
Stay hydrated
Wear good looking clothes
Eat well
Groom
Work
Save for a used car (think long-term - took me 3 years)
Study after work
Think about better income - how much would you have to make to live on your own? Roommates?
Be a man, get your own place
Run/lift/do push ups/play a sport

You're in a rut but it isn't permanent. You got a hard 3-4 years ahead, but if you want it, you'll get it

>>18489712
>started neeting way before 4chan
>18 years old
You're not a NEET young faggot

>depressed cause mom is pregnant and not poor
Wow. That's a fucking stretch of a reason for depression

Lemme chalk it up kid
>stop browsing 4chan
>eat less but still enough to not starve
>get a job wherever the fuck you can
>save up for a car
>go to school
>get a more convenient job

if there aren't any jobs then it's time to move out. Use any connections you have for a temp place to stay while you work.

You're young as fuck dude. Get the fuck off of 4chan. it"ll only drag you down and steer you towards becoming an actual NEET

>>18489738
It's always weird seeing people suggest other people to quit 4chan while they're on 4chan

>>18489702
in nyc is the intended area

>>18489702
Any festival or hippie hangout ever

>>18489711
any festival or spot in particular? I just moved here

>>18489691
Just talk about it. Next time she acts that way, ask her why she always does that after sex

>>18489696
literally the best fucking advice possible for your situation

she says "I"m fine" bug the fucking shit out of her until she spills the beans. If she refuses to acknowledge the way you feel and work towards bettering the relationship drop her. You're clearly not a priority for her

>>18489691
I know this will sound counter intuitive, but if you become withdrawn and detached in general, she'll perk up to the change in behavior and respond accordingly.
The harder you pull and pry, the more violently she'll push away.
Let her breath, a little room, she'll open up