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Long story short, I feel like I made the best out of a undesirable situation. The colleges in my state are shit. My state is shit.
I have constant panic attacks and anxiety about moving to the college I chose. I've talked to my mom about this, but she spins the conversation around and says she doesn't want me to move far away. I don't know what to do. I think about offing myself because I feel like there's no way out.
What the hell do I do? I want to go to college, but not this one. The fees and some tuition has already been paid so I can't leave without wasting thousands.
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plz respond
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>>18489484
Which state and what major
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Its one semester. You can always transfer after, dont stress out over something that is so small in the larger scheme. Try to make the best of it and you might actually really enjoy it
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What would your response be to discovering a friend's parent would say
>"I may not like you or what you do, but I'll always love you"
to them since they were able to read?
Have a friend with significant Mom issues and she threw that at him out the blue. Apparently it's been something she's said to him since he was a kid. Am I alone in thinking that's pretty fucked?
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No. It means she doesn't approve his ideas or lifestyle, but she will always love him because that is her son. It's not fucked up, it's growing up and realizing you can't control your child in some situations.
Is this really the first time you're hearing this?
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But to say frequently to a kid who's misbehaved? Think of how that would feel growing up to accept your Mom only loved you through obligation alone.
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>>18489255
Sorry, browser fucked up and lost half my response. I can understand such a thing in the context of an adult offspring. As you say, it's loving your child despite their divergence from your expectations of them.
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Long story short. Fucked a chick cus I was horny, don't want anything to do with her now, she's super clingy and won't stop texting me. What DO you DO?
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>>18489234
Man, I wish I met a clingy girl who's actually interested in me.
It actually sounds fun/exciting.
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Call her back and ask to put it in her asshole, that usually sends them running. If she likes that then get a new number and run away.
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>>18489246
It's all sunshine and rainbows until you can't play games or hang out with your friends without a "You there?" if you haven't responded in ten minutes.
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My sister is dating someone with a charge for fucking a minor and it's driving me crazy. He was 21 at the time and the victim was 14 or 15. She moved out of state to be with this clown. He claimed he was rich, that he was going to take care of her and she was going to live happily ever after. He's not, he isn't and she won't. When confronted about his charge she completely denied it, but mentioned that he told her that people claimed he had charges against him when he didn't. There's several sites mentioning his charges with comments that he can't be allowed near schools.
She's being an idiot, but as her sibling I want to protect her. I want to ruin him. I don't know what to do.
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You can't do much or you'll risk pushing her away further. Just try to be stable and supportive so when she realizes that shit's going downhill, you'll be there to help her out.
How old is she?
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That's what I'm afraid of. I have to bite my lip every time I talk to her, or erase my messages calling her an idiot because I don't want to push her away. She's one of the most important people in my life and I want her away from him.
She's older than him by a couple years, in her early 30s. She's old enough to make her own decisions, but she's done something similar before with a guy who has done something similar. She doesn't learn her lesson.
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>>18489271
>early 30s
WOAH fuck. I thought you were gonna say like 19, given his creepy predilections.
But yeah, I guess all you can do is just be there for her. Maybe invite her along on family trips and stuff and make sure she doesn't distance herself too much from you and the family, without antagonizing her about her shitty bf.
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How do I stop watching Porn /adv/
Went a week with out watching, felt great
but the urge got me
Advice ?
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Really you just need to keep yourself busy enough to where you don't even think about it. That's it. If an urge does surface, kill it immediately by finding a distraction. If you decide to just "take a quick look" it will take an act of god to stop.
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>>18489219
Go out, buy some hiking boots (Keenes), be easy strolling through nature. That's what works for me.
Keep yourself busy, make a mental list of all the shot your going to get done today.
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>>18489219
have sex
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>Be me
>Total fucking loser nerd who looked anorexic all of middle and high school
>Basically had no friends and no one talked to me
>Senior year of hs start working out, dressing properly, and having a decent haircut
>Two years later now sophomore in uni, look swole and handsome enough (imo)
>Working shitty summer job
>Stacy I've known since elementary school started working today, used to have a crush on her in 5th grade
>Turn into sweaty spaghetti man and start dropping shit and struggle to concentrate on work
>I can see her looking at me and fixing her hair, seems to avoid me
>On the stairs we ran into each other, I looked in her eyes and she put her eyes down immediately
>Decide to talk to her, I just say her name and say she looked familiar, and jokingly say the vacuum I had was a piece of junk and she giggles and agrees
>I then leave work and want to die
Why am I such a fucking failure when it comes to communicating and conversation? It was so fucking hard to even approach her and talk, and I can't help but feel inferior because I was such a loser in HS and she was some Stacy who was friends with everyone
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I was a lot like you, and now I'm dating my middle school crush. I'm not gonna claim to be swole or alpha or anything, I just learned how to have decent social interactions through trial and error. Don't aspire to be "alpha" or "normie" or whatever, just be friendly and chat with everyone you can. Work is a great excuse to do this, especially shitty jobs where everyone hates the actual work. It's better to talk to people and come off as friendly and autistic than to not talk to people and come off as scary and autistic, lol. After a while it gets easier and you learn how to feel comfortable. Just be nice to people (without being a doormat).
And don't worry too much about the girl. There will be more. Just be nice to her and see what happens.
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Where do you work OP?
The only job I ever had was a shitty grillcuck position at McDonald's. I worked with fat mexican ladies and it made me want to chug a gallon of bleach. I wouldn't mind work if I actually had coworkers my age.
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>>18489218
well shit time to fix my posyure
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Is there a way to tell if a girl wants to be with you for more than just the summer before they go back to school, or do you just have to go with the flow and not think about it? She has bad anxiety and can't guarantee anything but wants to make it work. She also cited how busy she'll be.
She definitely does have anxiety and is treated for it, but I'm still skeptical. Just sounds like she wants to have fun then it's over when she goes back. If you need any more details or questions to give me proper advice on this just let me know. I can't be the only one going through this dilemma right now
Also is it unethical for a girl to have a predetermined point in time when the relationship will end without telling their SO? If she ends it when school starts up I'll have a really hard time believing in her reasoning & will likely assume this was her plan the whole time (barring a miracle)
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i dont see the harm in asking, "do we have a future together" or something, anon
go ahead and ask her before it itches your feelings any further
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it sounds like yall are kinda uncompatible to begin with. you don't trust her, and she seems kinda iffy about the whole thing.
>She definitely does have anxiety and is treated for it, but I'm still skeptical. Just sounds like she wants to have fun then it's over when she goes back.
or she just has anxiety. I think it's bad for her to have a summer fling without being clear to you that it's just a summer fling, but that might not be the case and it seems like you're already demonizing her in your head in anticipation of that. Seems messy all around.
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We've talked about it and I've asked her a few times already. She said she wants to make it work but doesn't want to hurt me or guarantee anything. Makes sense I guess
I asked what if she had to go back tomorrow (this was a week ago). She said we'd call and text and take it from there
>>18489220
>I think it's bad for her to have a summer fling without being clear to you that it's just a summer fling
At least I'm not going crazy, cause it'd starting to occupy my thoughts when I'm with her. I'm just trying to assume this is a summer thing and enjoy the time I have with a cute girl. But then I think about the stuff we do and her going back and doing it with other guys and it just makes me furious
This is my first relationship as an adult (20) after losing 100 lbs and so I just don't want to be weird about it...but damn man why can't I just be happy?
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Does anyone have a journal where they write down times when they were depressed and the cause of the depression?
If so,can you share it? Im interested in what you wrote down in it so I can cope with my depression.
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I doubt anybody will share their actual entries, that's pretty personal.
You just write down all the shit you think and feel. Not exactly rocket science dude.
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>>18489198
I think that request is too specific. Just go somewhere like r/depression or r/depressed or whatever. Alternatively, literally google 'depression diary' or something.
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>>18489198
I've been using an app called Stigma. If you can, you can download it and you can view some of people's journal entries that they make public.
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So I'm with this adorable girl. Short, cute, satisfying in bed, caring, patient. But I'm still miserable quite often and even though we've only been together for 9 weeks I feel like I want to be alone again. I get sick of sharing my time with her (rarely have alone time) and doing anything on someone else's terms (even though I'm the dominant in the relationship and we already pretty much do what I want, I'm very impatient otherwise). I almost want to break up with her but she's so sweet, it feels impossible. Not sure what to do.
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dump her cause you sound like a stupid asshole and she needs to date someone who is not a stupid asshole
sorry guy
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sounds like she deserves better
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>>18489169
How much time a day do you need for "Me time"? speak with her about how you require your own personal time to recharge. If she's smart she'll give you as much as you need.
I've been taking steps to improve my depression, like exercising and forcing myself to socialize. It's been going pretty well, even managed to go out and enjoy myself on independence day yesterday. I felt depression free for the first time in ages. However now I have a new problem, I've been "high-strung" all day. I'm excited, can't stop thinking about what I'm going to do in the future, and can't really relax in general. This is in many ways even worse than depression. I can't just go out and party non-stop, and my two main hobbies (reading and composing) both require calm and collected thought. I at least had clarity with my depression, now I feel all mixed up.
What should I do? I've tried meditating, it helps while I'm doing it but the effect fades quickly.
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>>18489157
It's only been going on for a day so there's no need to worry. That sort of thing happens to me sometimes.
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>>18489157
First off, congrats on coming this far. That's not an easy thing to do. However, have you tried seeing a specialist and getting some medication? It really helps even out the highs and lows, so you can think with a more clear mind, and figure ways to deal with it while depression and anxiety are not in full swing
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it sounds like you're actually improving. just keep this up, go out and do things, meet new people. eventually you will get over it
I'm being stalked because I posted my info on the wrong side of the internet. He repeatedly sends me info about myself and my family members who have nothing to do with this. This has been going on for a year. It's affecting me and my family. My mental and physical health are really bad now. I used to go to parties all the time a few years back, but those dreams are all over. I can't even hang out with my friends for 2 or 3 hours. Even weed gives me severe anxiety problems when it's potent(?).
The police won't do anything as there's not enough evidence of finances to support the case. I know who he is, but he lives oceans and oceans away from me. What do I do? inb4:
>go to therapy
Not enough money and there are none near me in an hour radius (i live ~30 minutes away from the nearest town)
>get over it
I've been trying.
>exercise the anxiety away
Already have a home gym, and it makes me feel more self conscious about my body more than ever before.
>talk to a friend about it
They shrug it off.
Sorry for bad English. Please help.
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>>18489129
Lol. You played your hand
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>>18489307
So you're saying I should deal with it? This has been destroying me, though. It's not just some girl, it's my information and life. He's even sent threats.
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get a concealed weapons permit for a gun
or not into that a knife with pepper spray
having a weapons gives you a lot of peace of mind
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just moved back in with my parents, lol
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How should I arrange my bedroom? #1....
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or #2? or something else? Website is roomstyler.com if you wanna make your own ITT.
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I think 2. The space between the end of the bed and the wall in 1 is kind of weird.
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I looked after 1, 2, then 3 kids. Spent my late teens early 20's with kids and girl. Was sure kid 2 and 3 were mine. Abusive father of child 1 comes back. He want's custody of child 1,2 and 3. In Texas first thing the court does is paternity test of potential dads. They're all his. She had been cheating for years, and letting me be daddy. Got to find out in a court room. I'm 25 and drinking. Didn't make this shit up.
Moral of this story?
Demand a test the day the kid is born.
If women think you can take more care of the kids then their real dad. They might just ruin your life for the sake of the kids.
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What the actual fuck. Feel for you man. Does she have sole custody?
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>>18489002
Look at it this way,at least you're free from a heartless woman and child support payments
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>>18489008
Naw he gets them every other weekend. And, I'm out of this shit.
>>18489011
I'm good. Going to Dallas on the 12th to get out of this bum fuck town and begin my life. I'm gonna love the city.
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where can i get a legitimate iq test?
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Mensa
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IQ is a term anyone can throw around for any reason. its kind of like aksing 'where can i get a legitimate rating on my looks?'
there is none. that being said, the most sought after is MENSA, who kinda started the IQ test trend, and they are the ones who decide if you are a genius or not.
from their website:
The true Mensa test must be administered inside a controlled environment at an approved testing center. The exam takes around two hours to complete, centered around questions based on logic and reasoning. The testing fee for this exam is $40.
so the best you can do is take it in person
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thanks, dudes
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Ok i need help because. One i tried to commit suicide because i went through butt fucks of bullshit and no sleep for 3 days. And i made a huge gash on my arm and i want to know if i can go to a clinic and have them heal it? Will i get sent to a mental institute for suicide ? Or not? Like my arm is oozing out shit and i really need to know
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Go anyway. They'll probably send you there but it's better than dying from gangrene
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>>18488898
This!
Even suicide is better than dying from gangrene
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>>18488892
why wouldnt you want to go to a mental Institute? they'll probably help a little bit, if that's what you're looking for.