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going to court in a few days.
Aussie
Was denied assistance to legal aid
going to represent self, tips?
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Look up how the court process works.
You miiiight actually have a chance then. Unless the other side has a lawyer.
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Dude threaten the judge with a knife they will respect you
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>>18447916
Just kidding, but do why are you going to court?
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She keeps messaging me even though I ignore her? 2017-06-23 06:57:30 Post No.18447604
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She keeps messaging me even though I ignore her?
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>Be 6 months ago, match with girl on tinder
>Break up a month ago because I found out slowly that she is too immature (Barely knows how to do anything for herself, can't handle a lot of social things, gets upset and frustrated easily.) And from a traumatic past, she had too many intimacy issues for me to deal with.
>Also found out she had mental problems, suicidal thoughts.
>I break up with her over the phone because I can't take it anymore and I'm not going to drive an hour and a half one way just to do it in person.
>I make it sound like I have too much on my plate right now in my life, because I'm not gonna tell a suicidal girl that she false-advertised her qualities on Tinder (Said she played piano for six years, but only knows two or three elementary school jingles, that's one example) and she's a 13 year old in the body of an 18 year old. I figured that would be easy.
>She messaged me once, I had to tell her that we aren't going to start stuff up again when she gets to my town (She's coming here for campus)
>She continues to message me, has made it seem to others that I myself was suicidal
>She told me she's harmed herself, thought about checking in to an institute but hasn't done it
>Messages me with random things
I constantly leave it unread
>menial shit like "They played your favorite movie at work today and it made me think of you."
It's not even a huge inconvenience on my life because I know I can just block her if need be, and it's probably dumb to ask this about an unstable person, known for being unpredictable, but WHY does she continue to message me? And what do I do if she tries consistently communicating with me on campus this fall?
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>She's 18
>She's unstable
>Women seriously suck at dealing with rejection
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Any good paying jobs in the UK? 2017-06-23 06:52:36 Post No.18447594
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Any good paying jobs in the UK?
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I live in Sheffield so obviously I can't do any work involving water/sea, I don't know if I'm strong enough to do construction, and I'm terrible at maths. I feel like I'm screwed.
Pic unrelated.
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I have borderline personality disorder (BPD) and I do shit i college. i started with 5 classes this semester, i dopped outof 2 and failed another one due to absences.i dont know if ill pass the remaining 2. I'm worried about my future. what can i do?
http://www.roanneprogram.com/blog/borderline-personality-disorder-in-college/
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>>18447567
get an IEP it will let you take longer on tests and assignments. Does your college offer that?
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Alright, I don't know if this is the right board for this, but I need to talk to someone about this. What should I do on my birthday? I'm going to be turning 18; problem is, I haven't had a friend since I was 12. I'm so tired of being lonely on my birthday, and I want to do something with my family to take my mind off it. Thing is, I'm gonna be turning 18. I mean, growing up you're taught that this is supposed to be a big milestone of some kind, like you're finally going to become a man, do some crazy shit with the lads. But this one is shaping up to be just another year. Wake up, family says happy birthday, do nothing all day, open the gifts you already knew about, eat the cake you had for the last six years, fall asleep. Just another day. I've had this hollow feeling in me for the last week and a half, knowing that this birthday is gonna be the exact same. How do I change it? What can I do?
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>>18447553
Catan and Betrayal at the house on the hill are good board games.
Same kinda thing happened to me, get a job asap. Save up for something you actually want. You can only choose what happens next mang
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On my 18th birthday I woke up at 5AM and went to work unloading a truck and stocking the shelves at a supermarket, then going home to finish my college assignments before I go to sleep.
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Yeah well my family was busy the whole day and I was at home laughing at myself every time I started to really cry. I still haven't had a good fulfilling cry.
And now i'm a NEET
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Alright guys so I need some advice. I'm currently 1.5 years into my major at a community college. They now have a bachelor's program in cyber security. I tried engineering but failed. This means I only have something like 65 credits left in my degree to get a bachelor's. Right now my grades aren't the strongest but I'm working on them. I really want to go into the military and it has always been a dream of mine. I'm trying to decide what to do and which plan to take. Plan A is to finish college where I'm at now in 2.5 years and do the reserves while in. Get some military experience and finish college at the same time. Plan B is to somehow go to the university here and join the ROTC and get in that way. Problem is I don't have enough money to attend the university and my profile is not strong enough to win a scholarship. I have to work in order to pay for stuff. I'm currently working in retail and I have just feeling so trapped these last few months. Plan C is to go active duty and then come out and finish a degree from the gi bill. Do anyone have any advice on what I should do?
>Inb4 no inb4s
>Inb4 kill urself OP
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>>18447552
Go with plan A,Education is always the right choice.Keep trying in school and don't overwhelm your self. You will do great, good luck.
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How do I know if I'm going through postpartum or if I'm just still sad at the same things I was before? I feel like crying all the time and just taking off for a drive for a really long time or something. But those are things I used to feel before and during my pregnancy.
Am I just a pathetic sad girl or are my hormones being out of wack really to blame? How do I know?
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I've been working for this woman who takes care of feral cats for two years. I come every morning and clean from 9am until 12-2pm. I love cats, and I feel a connection to this woman and these specific cats, but I'm getting bored. I have BA in English and I feel like I should be doing something more ambitious with my life, but I can't leave this job because this woman can't take care of all these cats by herself and we don't have anyone else to take over if I leave. I feel like if I left then she would die and all the cats would die and it would be my fault, but I just want to do something else with my life... what do you think, /adv/?
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>getting cucked by Toxoplasma gondii and cat lady
Get a life instead of wasting it on a women which will end up alone with her feline parasite distributors. Avoid cat women at all costs. A healthy woman would have gottenc hildren instead of getting cuckhold by lower animals.
Sterilize the cats and let them live their life outdoors. She doesn't do it for the cats but for herself as she obviously lacks healthy relationships.
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Should I cut my mother out of my life? 2017-06-23 06:13:51 Post No.18447531
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Should I cut my mother out of my life?
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I don't mean 100% but perhaps never talk to her about anything of substance.
Recently I found out my mother talks behind my back and has been doing it for years.
She also always sides with my sister and her long term bum boyfriend.
Literally I can "do no right".
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Fuck it I'll avoid the bitch.
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>Leave my house in the morning
>Lock the door
>Try to open it to make sure it's locked
>Get in my car
>Pull out of the driveway
>Suddenly unsure if the door is locked
>Know I locked it, Know I tested it, but I am still afraid I somehow did not lock it
>Get out of my car, walk back up to the door, and test it again
>Without fail, I locked the door the first time.
I do this every single morning.
What's up with me? I just can't drive off without being totally sure the door is locked, and apparently this bizarre set of steps is what I need to do to feel this way
Are other people like this?
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>>18447488
Is it locked now? You probably forgot to turn off the lights, the refrigerator is slightly ajar and you left some perishables out.
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stop smoking the devils lettuce OP you crazy cat
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>>18447488
Sounds like true sympyoms obsessive compulsive disorder. Should probably see a therapist about this.
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>22
>Got a great offer for work, but its an internship and I won't be paid for a while
>I'll make pretty good money if/when they hire me
>Essentially broke right now
>Got a second job working at movie theater
>Have girlfriend of a year who wants to move in together and I would love to, but I don't have the money
>Even though I love girlfriend to death, I really just want to die every day
That took a turn, right? Anyways, I'm fucking struggling bros. Everyday I just think about finishing it, and the only thing that keeps me from doing so is my girlfriend.
I'm overworked, broke, depressed, list goes on. The only good thing I have going, is I'm not in debt.
How do you guys slog through the shit that is life? There is never a time where 5 minutes have gone by and I haven't thought about just ending myself. I'm completely fucking miserable, except for when I'm with her, and I feel like I'm just going to continue being miserable forever.
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>>18447477
Internships that are unpaid are illegal. That shit is literally beneath everyone. Do not perpetuate the bullshit.
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>be a 18 old fag
>wake up
>go to the bathroom
> jack off then finish
>3 hours later my aunt comes to visit me
>goes to the bathroom
>i strat paniking internally bc i don't know if i clean it
>she comes out after 2-5 mins and when she got out she acted normal
>i then went to the bathroom and there was a small drop semen in the corner
I don't know if she pretended not know if i jaked or not bc she didn't act repulsed or anything
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You have to be 18 or older to post here.
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1. Why the hell didn't you clean it up? You disgusting trash.
2. If she didn't change her behavior, just let it slide.
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Asking a guy about feelings? 2017-06-23 05:43:49 Post No.18447461
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Asking a guy about feelings?
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Hola /adv/ I'm a little confused at the moment.
I'm a femanon, and this is my first chance at a relationship that isn't online, so I don't want my social autism to fuck it up. We'll call this dude Jack. I like him a lot, but I'm unsure if he likes me too or is just angling for sex.
Jack and I met through some friends a couple months ago and it was very easy to talk to him, and its enjoyable. Fast forward a bit we make an innocent bet on a board game, which culminates with us making out while drunk at a friend's house. Later he asks me to go see a show with him and jokes that its a date ( never ended up going ). Again jump ahead to a couple weeks ago when Jack started to get a bit more explicit about what he wanted to do with me in bed. Okay thats fine, I'm down to expiriment since I'm still a virgin. We haven't done anything yet.
He's kissed me a couple times since we made out, usually when we say bye after chilling. Although when we text he'll give one or two word answers instead of trying to converse. I want to ask if he likes me or not, cause i have no idea. Is it a good idea to directly ask (in person or over text?) and if not how do you figure it out?
tl;dr I can't figure out if a guy likes me or is just trying to get laid. Is it okay to directly ask is he likes me too, and if so, when is it appropriate?
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if you tell the guy he will almost definitely go along with it because it's easy. what type of convos do you have? what do you talk about? there's not really much info here for us to get a read on him. it's definitely possible he's trying to get laid but it's possible he might like you too.
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Convos in person are generally joking / teasing or about anime, martial arts, work, or world events. They flow well and are easy to sustain. Silence is comfortable occasionally.
Over text its me asking a question or two to get a convo started, but him responding in one or two words. If it gets teasing, then it is directed to sex / what he wants to do with me. Its hard as hell to maintain a convo over text, I feel like I bother him. We talk about once a day over text for a few mins, longer if we make plans.
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>>18447461
I like the part where he asks you on date and you refuse, but kissing and fooling part is ok with you.
To me, it seems you want just sex from him. Try to date him more and "fool with" less until you decide/learn what he wants from you.
As far as the texting go, normal people dont like texting much, simply because it is super boring. Also as far as dating goes, /adv/ice is keep texting to minimum and dating on max.
>ask directly if he likes me
That is typical bullshit tier girls question. Dont listen to cheap words, look at actions he does. Would he done all these things if he didnt like you?
Ask him on date. Ir at least dont refuse one lol.
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alright anons help
>be me beta cuck
>girl i like randomly texts me
>never really texted sat next to me in a class
>asks about one of my friends
>have 3 hour long convo about friend
>asks me to be her "wingman" and help her get with him
>me doesnt know what to do so i say yes
>now i wanna die
what do i do?
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Be a wingman. Use that experience with chicks to figure out how to be someone other than a wingman. Any positive female experience is something you can use. Don't catch feels for this chick and be a bitch. She doesn't want you. But you can learn from her. Use that to your advantage, since you have zero skills or game otherwise. Having a girl in your corner can be a very helpful tool. Just don't be a fucking idiot and catch feels for her. the girl you want is somewhere/someone else. Use this chick to build the skills to get that other person.
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>>18447448
alright i'll help my fag friend out might aswell seeing as he is a proper retard
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If guys can pls help me i got red dots on my dick,i only had 1 sexual exp with a friend of mine and we foragtte each other for 2 min
I will post dick later if i may
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>>18447417
Fordyce spots
60% of the population has them. Women and men
No one likes them
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you have chlamydia congrats