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I'm a guy and when my girlfriend got her IUD placed, I'd say the pain was 0/10 for me.

I actually just got one a few weeks ago. I got the paragard because I didn't want to pump a bunch of hormones into my body. The implantation is painful but it only lasts a few seconds. The rest of the day and the day after kind of sucked because I was cramping. It wasn't horrible but it was pretty uncomfortable to the point where doing daily stuff was difficult and I just stayed in my bathroom. I couldn't go to sleep that night until around 5 the next morning. Ibuprofen didn't do much so I got some Naproxene and that was better. I just got my first period after getting it in and they really do get heavier, a lot heavier, I'm probly gonna switch to bigger tampons. And the cramps were much worse too, but they will hopefully lighten up over time, otherwise I can deal with them.
Overall it was completely worth it, I very much enjoy not worrying about a condom (though me and the bf still aren't comfortable with coming inside) and the low maintenance. I would say if your period cramps are already pretty intense and are sucky to deal or if you don't do well with pain with I would consider other alternatives. My cramps were mostly pretty light and that's what made me more confident about getting one

>>18599200
I had the IUD for 3 years. I have the hormonal one.
Pain was a 6/10 for 20 seconds and then a 2/10 for the next few days (like a mildly annoying period).

No side effects. I skipped a lot of periods.
It was TOTALLY worth it. I'm a pregnancy paranoid and the fact that it is 99,99% safe is amazing. I also love not getting periods.

That'd be a dick move. Talk to your neighbors or the neighborhood association.

Well I guess if you live in the US it's okay, but, would be even better for your neighbor not to find out, or, even better, to tell him that it bothers you, or, if it really is a problem just sue him for like trespassing your property or shit.

Are they acting aggressive? Either way, try talking to your neighbor first. You do anything before that and you're a class-a dick.

>>18598909
>be me
>boyfriend gives me hard anal
>feels good af
>by cums as he took out condom there were spots of blood

Should I go to doctor? Also how long should I wait for having hard anal again?

>>18598936
Your fine

I can't wait to finish my degree so that I can get a job and leave my selfish bastard of a husband.

How many places do you apply to a week? What's your resume like?

It is good to work a basic job first before getting a career oriented one so you learn basic work skills and get any related mistakes out of the way. Not sure if it's 100% needed though.

Again though outline what you've been doing to find work and me or other anons can probably give you some direction. Now that you're in College you have a competitive edge over high school students (depending on your study habits and grades), so finding something shouldn't be too difficult.

>>18598759

It happens. Just change tactics for a while. And try to do something to buff up your resume. Like volunteering.

>>18598759
You shouldn't feel worthless just because you don't get a cb. It's probably a resume issue. Maybe go to a workshop? Hiring managers only look at your resume for a few seconds, it's not an evaluation of your worth. Ignore the turboconservatards who will inevitably reply to this thread saying otherwise.

Keep on applying to jobs and in the meantime, try to do things that would look good on a CV. Volunteering and shit.

>>18598741
It's easy, I've done it hundreds of times.

why would you want to lol

>>18598771
Teach me your ways

details pls

>>18598721
Basically, when the public school system decides you're not fit for it, your parents will get one of two options; either send you to Juvie or get you diagnosed with something. My parents chose the latter as I was just a wee lad.

The reason I was kicked out to begin with was due to struggling with my emotions, (things like embarrassment or anger would consume me) but I was also given a diagnosis of Autism. I don't believe I have Autism but spending extended time with people who have the disorder made me pick up on their habits and way of acting. The first school I entered basically just made me act like a shit for four years. Awful experience.

The second school was run by people who really liked money and didn't prioritize rehabilitation so much as keeping you in line. I am not rich or wealthy, but the school itself was in Connecticut and had a lot of money due to the overall jewery. I gradually improved as a person there through mostly myself.

Third place was the last and I like to think I became a good enough person there.

The issue is that despite becoming a good goy most of my life has been wasted away and I'm terrified of people knowing once I move on. I'd change my name but that probably won't help.

move to a new city, get a new fresh start, everything will be fine as long as you wont show your "struggle with emotions"? (my english is broken)
If you meet girls dont be too honest, wait till you could trust them and only then tell whole story...

You should be consulting a doctor and an insurance agent.

>>18598690
If you're in the US you're going to struggle to find a doctor willing to perform the procedure unless you already have kids or are over 35.

>>18598690
>>18598690
"Hysterectomy may be looked at as the quick, long term medication-free answer. We live in an impatient world. On the doctor's part, there may be the perception without thoroughly discussing with the patient, that the woman is unlikely to tolerate the medical therapy, frequent office visits and sometimes minor biopsy procedures that would be needed for the condition complained about.

The best protection a woman has from an unnecessary hysterectomy is an informed education and consideration of all of the treatment options

What can I expect after hysterectomy, aside from the effects of whether the ovaries are functioning?
As best I can tell from both experience and the medical scientific literature, hysterectomy alone, without ovarian removal in the premenopausal woman, or with ovarian removal in the menopausal woman will result in:

a change in sexual response during orgasm, but not an adverse change
increased tiredness for several months after the hysterectomy
in general a recovery time of almost 6 months be complete return to preoperative function."

- got from wdxcyber.com

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>>18598644
either you dont remember deflating a volleyball with your ass or you have cancer

>>18598644
that kind of mass smells of mucinous cystoadenoma, most likely benign stuff.
anyway until they remove it from your body they cant tell if it's benign or cancer, anyway it's unlikely that it's the latter

Ur pregnant stupid slut

>>18598634
Every single day there is a cry for help on /adv/ from someone who was homeschooled and thus never learned how to socialize or interact with others.

>>18598634
18+ to post.

>>18598634
Homeschooling is for evangelicals, drop outs, and kids in the brief period of time between leaving a mainstream environment and beginning outplacement.

>>18598473
Feel you so much OP
I'm literally in the same position, I've debated my own sanity, in some situations I literally have to concentrate on keeping my lips together, professionals would probably help

There is talking to yourself and then there is having the perception of an alternate personality or conceptual 'other' or being ordered around and told to do things that you do or don't want to do. Like many layers of weird.

Like I sometimes rehearse conversations when I'm alone. Sometimes I'll make weird repetitive noises because I like the sound or sensation or the acoustics are particularly interesting where I am. I consider this slightly strange, but not worryingly strange, like having voices in your head telling you that you are a piece of shit who nobody will ever like or that you need to abduct the neighbours dog to prevent satan returning to the earth to stop the second coming of jesus christ who will prevent nuclear war with the godless chinese communists all the time.

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>>18598560
>or that you need to abduct the neighbours dog to prevent satan returning to the earth to stop the second coming of jesus christ who will prevent nuclear war with the godless chinese communists all the time.

Why don't you want to go?

>>18598344
Why deny it?
You get to meet her at single friends
And you also get to see them in bikinis

>>18598349
I don't like aquaparks and I don't want to go with his normie friends

>>18598252
yeah make it your first question you ask my nigress

guys who do that are the worst

>>18598252
I'm actually 6'2. Date me pls

>>18598283
im 6'2 and a half do i say im 6'2 or can i lie about half an inch pls respond

brb putting my height into a dating app going to wait for results

>>18598202
What a stupid point of view to have. You're set up for success dude, and thats not jist to your own benefit. You could help others by not being a miserable piece of shit. Get your act together and aspire to mentor someone and help them turn their own lives around. If you honestly feel that you WANT to hit rock bottom then I assure you that you are very out of touch with reality, perhaps delusional even. If you've never been hit in the nuts you don't need your friend to steel-toe your grapesack to know that it sucks. Get a grip and quit being a dumbass.

>>18598202
try not to shower and brush teeth for a 3-4 days, sleep in your garden and drink from your private lake water, you will realize pretty fast that being a hobo sucks

>>18598202
yup but, me is poor who want to be rich... at least to the point where my parents had enough money to provide me with decent education... childhood was shit, cause every kid went to after class activities which werent that expensive, but I was always alone, because parent prioritized puting food on table instead of those after school activities, they always told, that when I grew up I could do whatever I wanted... Yup I grew up, now I hate everything, used to do creative shit to get attention, now its not working... Feeling like a piece of shit also introverted, due to lack of socializing in childhood. I'm not even at my worst, but I dont recomend to ruin your life. Since you were given all that money, you could donate a little bit for those poor childs like I was once.

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Teach me how to feel Senpai, I think I've tried to repress all my feelings for a while, thinking they were an obstacle, that they made me weak and vulnerable , thinking being cold hearted would make me deal with shitty situations easier and get ahead of others, but it's only made me miserable.

The other day I almost cried to a song, but I was on the bus and tried really hard not to cry so the other people there wouldn't see me. Never felt something like that before.

How to feel and how to express your feels toward others?

>>18597813
its a feeling, go down into your heart and think through it. most ppl are firmly in their heads and ignore their heart.

so like when someone dies, they will rationalize not mourn. when someone talks, their main skill is to analyze (brainy.) this helps if you're studying, but not to enjoy your life.

try to listen to piano music and bring everything into your heart area (ignore your head, where the analyzer is located), this will train yourself to locate it and be happier.

>>18597789
What are the odds of finding a guy who has traditional values but doesn't want kids? I feel like these two things are at odds with each other but I'm not really sure.

>>18597797
What do you mean by "traditional values"?
I've met a couple of guys who want a long term relationship and despise casual sex, but do not want kids. I've never met a man who wants a housewife but doesn't want kids.

>>18597818
Looking for marriage, a relationship built on mutual love rather than sex, maybe a guy who's willing to be the primary earner as well (but I wouldn't mind if we both work, that's fine). Pretty standard things, I guess?