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i wouldnt say youve done anything permanent. the biggest risk at this point is if you fall over, down a staircase, hit your head etc. drink something lighter of aybe add some fruit juice to your wine, sangria baby

>>18597481
I'm very paranoid about these things, especially when my movements are impaired.

>drink something lighter of aybe add some fruit juice to your wine, sangria baby
I'm not saying you're wrong, since I've never tried, but I have always been of the impression that the more alcohol I have to drink the more I will feel nauseated. Usually I drink it in one sip (or 4-5 if it's whiskey) and immediatly after I drink ice tea (otherwise my stomach would feel too hot).

youre showing signs of alcoholism (obviously), not the best trait. just cut down mate.

solution: drink less alcohol

all the best

Ghhhh

are you trying to stand out here this way? try again

>>18597463
Yes

>>18597432
how about you try talking to her before, after, or during class

>>18597546
Talking? In a social setting? With another human being? You must be mistaken, Anon. Girls are beyond human and must be treated as such.

give her an origami dick

Is it reluctant acceptance or a perffered lifestyle?

If you truly don't want to ever be in a relationship, there should be no problem. If you actually do want a partner but you think you can never get one then you're wrong. There will always be someone that wants you back. I know it sounds like something a cheesy normie would say but I believe it

>>18597476
A little bit of both, but I guess reluctant acceptance more-so. I think the main issue is I'm in a big city for work and school hundreds of miles away from my friends and family. I'm living in a shitty cramped apartment and feel socially isolated whenever I have to leave the house. I probably wouldn't even be too upset about not having a relationship if I was able to be in a better, more healthy environment but that's not the case. So going out in public surrounded by hostile or happy people in relationships makes me feel awful.

You can start by not larping on 4chan

>>18597375
Talk to the oldfag. He'll eventually take the lead and end up fucking your brains out.

>put your hair in pigtails
>wear a short tennis skirt and no underwear
>eat a lollipop
>talk to him in a baby voice and call him daddy
That's literally how easy it is to have sex when you're a 6/10 female younger than 24

>>18597327

>7zip or any zip opener
>steam
>razer cortex / game booster
>winDIRstat

It really depends on what u plan on using the PC for. I.e. Games / work

Malwarebytes, Spybot, CCleaner, WinRAR, and a web browser with an ad blocker extension. Ninite.com has a mass downloader/installer you can use

>>18597327
winrar. I like having gimp on my computer if you're not going to pirate photoshop. If you're going to watch anime with it get a codec pack like CCCP or KCP, but if anime isn't your thing I'd suggest just getting VLC player.

NO!

get a vaporizer. arizer air is a good one.

I do it.
My asthma isn't super bad though - If you're the type to need your puffer daily, I don't recommend it.

Find a good warehouse, cunt.

What field are you studying and what is your GPA like?

>>18597274
Let haters fuel your ambition, then you will find the drive to keep working towards success. Think of success not just as good for yourself, but also as a giant 'fuck you' to doubters.

k. keep me posted.

Any thoughts of wisdom?

how would you reach out to him anyway if you dont know his name?

Have you ever seen a therapist? Sounds like it could be something like ADHD (which can manifest mentally as opposed to physically). Possibly with some executive dysfunction?

A lot of people just throw around "try meditation", but in your case I think it might be able to help.

You also need to come to terms with the fact that you're never going to be able to do anything. So, might as well make sure you do -something-. It doesn't have to be perfect. I have so many things that I want to do but there's a few things I keep falling back into no matter what I do. I chose to revolve my life around those and it's going better than when I tried to do everything or anything else.

>>18597230
*never going to be able to do everything

Whoops, kindof an important distinction there.

>>18597221
>'s to damn much. I'm simply overwhelmed by this everything and end up doing nothing and looking like (and in fact being) a shy, lazy, bored faggot that doesn't go anywhere, even though I want to go everywhere.

Try meditation

But I also think you need some structure and a plan of attack.

it may be a big field but you can section off work ,break it down into executable steps to help you learn and get your goals done.

Always be working on a finishable task instead of going cowboy and mindlessly tackling every aspect of the problem without any sort of objective.

Use a task list

Chemistry is one of those things that you can't really describe unless you've felt it. "I didn't feel any chemistry" isn't a bullshit excuse, it's real. You'll know it when you see it.

>>18597202
What someone personally finds attractive is a lot of what goes into chemistry. There are objectively attractive people in the world. But that doesn't mean they're mate-material to everyone. Some people actually like unconventional or otherwise normal looking people. Couple personal preferences with a personality match and there you have it: chemistry with the person across from you.

>Is "chemistry" bullshit?
No, it's not. It starts as physical attraction and goes deeper as you get to know the person. So yeah, being attractive helps, but so does being an interesting person who's pleasant to be around.

>>18597180
Fuck her man, she knows what she did.

She clearly has no respect for you so why should you her needs ahead of yours?

>>18597180
Nah fuck her dude you are making the right decision you don't want someone like her in your life until you're emotionally detached from her.
Stay strong

shes not your friend, you dont owe her anything

>>18597172
As with any medical inquiry directed to 4chan, I wish to say "See a fucking doctor you idiot".
> I am currently waiting on my medical insurance to kick in
Instead, since you have an actual reason to not to, I will say "Contemplate the costs of a quick clinic visit just to get some kind of medical opinion NOW, versus the potential costs of an unknown infection doing permanent damage to your dick".

Fag.

>>18597172
Damn, anon. Does your BF not wear shoes when he goes outside? Filthy

But, looked at more dispassionately, friendship isn’t in any real sense faithful to love. Friendship with an ex does a grave disservice both to the memory of the relationship at its height and the merits of intimate friendship. It’s at once a betrayal of everything a good relationship was and a slight on the ideals of friendship, which shouldn’t be built out of the remnants of another, more ardent condition. What we should replace love with isn’t friendship but that far more honest state: polite distance. That and a real assurance that the relationship, in its best and most enduring light, will always live on in the one place it can safely always do so: memory.

>>18597173
fucking sad bro. saaaaaad as fucckk
relationships feel eternal at some point. moving on is a sad process, i still cant get over the fact that something as beautiful as what i had with her just popped and dissapeared. and i cant get into my head the belief that it is possible to feel the same again about someone else.

thinking that all those good moments are gone and that i can only remember them is brutally sad.

>>18597382
This too shall pass my friend.

Been there.

>no

>implying you even know what game theory is about

>>18597146
Not being a sperg is an actually viable way to get yourself a GF/be successful at dating.

Step 1 of not being a sperg:
Stop wondering if Game Theory can be applied to get you pussy.