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>>18601486
She is. Go ask her out tomorrow and have fun togheter.

>>18601486
So ask her out

>>18601496
>>18601497
What if I was wrong?
I doubt she'd give me rides home.

OP here

I should mention that after my last breakup, I can't trust being in amother relationship again.

This has basically ended my excitement for the future. I feel like temporarily quitting work and living with patents to figure out my depression

>>18601458

Never had a gf. Women hate me.

Just happy to be alive.

>>18601459
If you move back home you'll just feel like more of a loser and get more depressed.

Breakup depression doesn't go away, trust me. I'm living with a girl who absolutely loves me and is 9/10, but I still don't really care about her. I'd be sad to lose her because she's very convenient, but I'd still drop everything to get back with my previous girlfriend who I really loved.

PS: new girl is way hotter, but it doesn't change anything

>>18601292
>why am I like this
>browsed pol, adv, b
Mmm I don't know op must be the weather.

>>18601327
I was insecure and paranoid before visiting 4chan, but understand they were just a product of my own insecurities

Now I feel like I have actual reason to be worried. I just want to be happy

>>18601404
Women dont like being treated like shit, they like men who are confident and don't look like they need help to make basic decisions in life.

If she broke up with him because she got treated like shit and she isn't a slut, dont expect her to go crawling back. Dont be a pussy and be sure to visit her at least every other week.
1.5 hours is not that long of a drive. You can do that, go to dinner, fuck, and go home. Keep your presence up and show some compassion. Dont wait for her to make plans because you'll wait and wait. Be spontaneous and keep after her or she might forget about you

>>18601265
Leave a text right before you kill yourself, don't give her a chance to respond or for you to see her response.

>>18601270
What should I say in my text to her?

>I don't want to force her to carry the weight of my death, what should I do?
Then don't text her. Sending "I have a crush on you but I'm killing myself rn lol" is not a compassionate thing to do. It will make her always wonder if she could have saved you by responding quicker.

It's fucked up and selfish. If you're going to kill yourself, just go out quietly and erase yourself. Or maybe you actually don't want to kys and you're trying to cry out for help. Pro tip, it's not going to make her like you. How about confess your feelings normally and see where it goes first, what do you have to lose at this point?

If you want ro be a self taught pianist, there are plenty of method books you can pick up. I taught myself how to play with one of them, so it is possible, you just have to really stivk with it.

Another thing you can do is search on YouTube for tutorials but be sure to actually focus on theory and sight reading early on or you will regret it.

As for that sheet music, you may want to pick something a bit less challenging up for your first peice.

>>18601252
>a bit less challenging
like what?

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I thought of this yesterday since hearing these songs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1sBUDPyvxs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4XEPdYO5mM

If you like it, just buy a piano, learn to read music and play away. It seems easy to learn.

Women do like BDSM, but it's such a broad field that you need to narrow it down more. For example, what do you mean by submissive? Matter of the fact is that a lot of self-proclaimed submissives are actually just bottoms. What is the difference? Submissive entails wanting to adhere to what your partner wants to make them happy and satisfied, a bottom wants to have things done to them (this can include being whipped, verbally abused, pegged, tied up, etc). Which one are you? This is important because some women do like the idea of being in control, but they believe entails being the leather-clad dominatrix stereotype, which can push some away.

You need to find out what your wife doesn't like about your sexual preferences. What have you tried together?

BDSM is looked down upon is not something new.
FSoG changed that a bit.
What kind of play you usually do?
YKINMK.

>>18601305
>Which one are you?
I like doing kinky stuff to her and having her do what I say

>What have you tried together?
>>18601307
>What kind of play you usually do?
bondage, pet play, toys... You name it, we've done it.

>>18601136
You're not a sociopath.

>>18601136
First of all, you don't question whether or not you're a sociopath

>>18601143
>>18601146
How can you know?

>>18601113
patience is a virtue, is all i'm saying; in short, it's better to try and fail, then to not try at all.

Save yourself the trouble, she's either genuine or using that as an excuse to let you down easy.

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Been going out of my way to show commitment to this chick, helping her with her flat tire, etc. She stated to in a bad mental health. She attempted suicide maybe 4 months ago.

Well the fact that you're posting here means you have some interest in here. Express that to her in no uncertain terms.

>>18601101
>rejection101

>>18601098
She wants to be your squeeze dude. You need her to do an interperative dance too? Perhaps grab your dick and ask if she can play with it? You'd probably just ask her why.

She wants you. Durr.

>>18600841
By understanding that a job is just a means to an end. I drive 2 miles to work, work 8 hours, and drive 2 miles back, where all housework will be done, all bills will be paid, dinner will be ready, followed by a wife who is ready to have sex and a night filled with whatever I want to do. The job funds all of that, as well as gives me and my family health insurance for dirt cheap.

>>18600841
I'm so depressed that I don't really enjoy anything and work occupies me and helps me get some social interaction.

>>18600841

I can fart on demand and have made it my life's goal to crop dust a billion people. I work in a busy restaurant so at work alone I cropdust hundreds of souls.

You have to find a silver lining in work OP. Mine is farts.

you already lost

>>18600826
idk my only hope is that the guy shat himself at a party last year so she might be too embarrassed to have a thing with him

>>18600803
leave

album.

is this socially or alone?

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>>18600709
>>18600712
Deja entendu or w/e I have it on vinyl

and to the second guy I drink every night I'm kinda scared
I didn't almost drink a whole handle to myself last night? like 20% of it is left and Idk if anyone even drinked with me I don't think so but I fell asleep my ex gf came over here who doesn't want to be with me so we got in a fight while my roommates were sleeping I drank 2 more shots and threw up.
What scares me the most is the fact I could even drink like 80% of a handle of liqour

First of all, are you SURE she's pregnant? Have you seen the test results?

>>18600588
Condoms are never infallible. You probably knew that and decided to risk it anyway, so now you make sure that the kid is yours and start saving money for child support.

>>18600590
Two tests/kits. Yes.

>>18600520
Anti-depressants are almost always a short-term solution, even if they work. Get her to a professional psychiatrist (not psychologist, as they can't prescribe medicine), have follow-up visits to make sure the medicine is working as intended, and then finish it off with regular therapy from a psychologist.

>>18600520
anti depressants are not going to help the libido issue at all

>>18600551
Honestly while it stings i can survive her libido issues, i just want to see her get better.

>>18600528
I'll ask her doctor for recommendations for a good psychatrist in the area, i just hope i can afford it.

Another issue is that she wants to move to the west coast as she loves it there and we currently live in the shitty midwest, trouble is im only just getting my foot in the door career wise out of university and she has no college degree so i know moving is pretty much off the cards at least for the next few months. Problem is she wants to leave before november which i dont think is doable, but telling her this is going to fuck her up even more.

I know I'll need to tell her the facts of the matter i just want her to get some help before hand...

Thanks for the help.

Do a flip.

>>18600496
Nothing in that car is irreplacable. You can get a bike at Walmart for 100 bucks, so you can find another bike in a garage sale for even less. Replace your PC with a cheap laptop. I'm talking to you on a Vaio with 4GB of RAM and a 1st gen Intel Core i3 that I got off ebay for 80 bucks. TV can be replaced last, as a phone will cover most of what you want to do. Depending on the job, clothes are cheap. You can literally get 6 hanes v-neck t shirts for 15 bucks. Guitars can also be had for cheap.

Figure out what you NEED first (rather than WANT), then figure out what you need most, start replacing your shit, one thing at a time. At the top of your need list should be a cell phone that can replace anything you need to do on a computer. Another need should be a bed or a futon (which Walmart sells for 100 bucks - not the best quality, but it works, and you can upgrade the mattress with a memory foam one later).

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>>18600496

The next part is where you go after the theives in your underwear, beat the shit out of them, and take your stuff back along with theirs.

Jokes aside, I know it feels rough, but technically your're in the best position you've been in your life. You have earnings potential which can get you replacements for everything, and more. It's just going to take a little time, so you have to have patience. In the meantime,
>>18600513 has excellent suggestions.

Personally, I had my brand new, representing-all-my-money vehicle stolen a few weeks after I got it, in Jan. Got made redundant within one week of that. Am $1000 in overdraft right now, and last month, my debit card details got stolen and was used to take hundredsl, which I'll likely not see again.

But I feel ok. Because I know in the end, I'll be alright -- because I'm capable. And you are, too. Finishing uni while living out of a car (engineering, no less) is badass as fuck. You got through that; you'll get through this, too.