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looking for a Sugar Daddy 2017-08-07 06:52:20 Post No.18598824
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looking for a Sugar Daddy
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Hello advice I am a 20 year old boy and starting junior year of university next week. Problem is I am lonely and I need cash, The school I am going to is in a rich area so I hold out hope for that, Everyone I have met tells me I am handsome, I have blonde hair and blue eyes. So what are my chances and what should I do?
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That's a big step. Do you have any experience with sex work?
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>>18598835
No but every Sugar baby I have talked to says that sex is negotiable but sometimes expected. Most of them were there to listen, look pretty and make the daddy look good.
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>>18598845
Starting Junior year of university you may not have the time for that tho. Have you thought about camwhoring? Sex work is work senpai, and it's not easy.
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Relationship problem, kindof. Am I the bad guy? 2017-08-07 06:39:04 Post No.18598806
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Relationship problem, kindof. Am I the bad guy?
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ive been kindof a loner all my life and my family have talked about being worried i could never find someone.
a couple of years ago i did find someone and we are still together today. however, the last seven months or so i have not been happy at all. its nothing specific, and i do care for her but all the love from my end is gone and i have concluded i'll be happier by myself.
every time ive thought about breaking up ive told myself to wait a week to see if there is anything left to gain emotionally instead of just a rough day, and we have the same interests and gets excited for the same news so there is always some excitement within a week, but ive more and more realised it is as a friend.
back to my family, my grandmother was diagnosed with cancer four months ago and was told she just had a couple of weeks left. we are very close and she keeps telling me how happy she is ive found someone. the very same week she was diagnosed was the week i had completely decided to break up and thought i should wait a couple of weeks so that she (my grandmother) could die being happy i was with someone and happy despite everything thats happened in my childhood and my lonely nature (which isnt what this post is about).
and well, four months have went by and she is still alive getting told every day she doesn't have long left, and i've been postponing my breakup again and again.
i dont feel like i can talk about this with anyone i know so what do you guys think i should do?
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>>18598806
I think everyone needs more motivation to be with someone than emotions, because everyone's feelings about a person adapt or just disappear after some time.
Being with a woman because you want to get married and/or have kids is a good reason. Being with a woman because you have a more dependent personality is...arguably a good reason. Being with a woman just because you feel you should is not a good enough reason.
Be a man who acts based on logical motivations. Date a woman because it's a good idea, and stay with her because it's a good idea. Don't date a woman because you're being pressured into it, just to leave when your "feelings fade" or some shit - that is womanly.
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i would sortof agree but when the emotions shes giving me is more negative than positive i think its better to break up
and i have decided to break up, i shouldve specified in my original post that what im wondering is wether it is wrong of me to wait or not for my grandmother
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>>18598834
That's all too vague for me to comment on. I don't even know what you mean about waiting for your grandmother.
I agree that the relationship shouldn't be making you feel outright bad overall. I would talk to someone irl about this, if I were you, someone who knows what you want in life, and who can get all the details from you.
Try to re-read what I wrote. I'm basically just telling you to operate on logical principles. I'm not suggesting whether or not you should stay with her. That's your personal decision, isn't it? I have no strong opinion. Nobody on 4chan should.
Hi, 4ch.
I'm 24 and i'm fucking tired of my live.
I live in fucking deep hole in post-USSR country.
My parents ruined my adolescence and all my life.
I have an OCD and i've never had a gf.
When i see photos of my friends in instagram (they are smart people, really hard workers) i usually get very aggressive thoughts of them. I hate them for their successful life, hate them, because they haven't lost their time, 7-10 years when i got depression and my fucking mother has been shrinking me day by day.
I'm visiting therapist, but it doesn't help, because all around me it's a hell.
I don't know how can i help myself.
I really need to escape to another country, but it's not easy. I really want to feel that i'm not worse than my friends, but, objectively, that's bullshit.
I don't see any good way to fix my trash-life.
Over and over thoughts about t*rrorism or m*ssacre. I'm thinking it's the only way i can get value.
Yes, i'm really crazy, but i can't see any ways to become a better man. A huge chasm between me and my friends makes me feel fucking angry, makes me plan bad things.
Sorry for wasting your time. Thanks for any replies.
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Stop valuing yourself based on the success of your friends, stop comparing your life to theirs.
Objectively, you can't say your life is better or worse because there's more to life than just material wealth, and thats the only thing you're looking at right now.
Fix your OCD. Work out, eat real food, get a consistent sleep schedule, filter your water, etc.
Stop using instagram and social media in general, it makes you compare your worst moments to other peoples' best.
Go to church, meet a nice girl, date/marry
Its hard and it'll take years but its 100% doable if you put in the effort to fix your life
GL anon
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>>18598793
>terrorism or massacre
>good value
theres a good chance this would accomplish nothing or worse
You said it yourself OP. Things around you are too shit to feel better, even with therapy. The answer is to fix your life. If you don't know how, you had better start figuring it out. For me, it was moving away from my parents. I don't know what it will take you.
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Moving to another country or another city is realy hard. Me is eastern european. As someone sugessted delet your social media accounts, they wont do any good to you. For biches there is one realy good and effective opportunity - working in hotel as housemaid, some hotels provide accomodation so you basically need money for the trip. My sister worked in Germany and Austria that way, also male staff can also get accomodation. Dont know what they do, but you get the point..
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So is it true that YouTube male dating couches or blogger are really using there channels to talk to woman. But not only that some record some pretty steamy conversation that lead to this Chad blog? ?????
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>>18598730
There are youtube dating coaches?
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>>18598745
Don't act like you don't know what I'm talking about
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>>18598752
I don't. Link me one.
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>she: [innocent joke about me being a pokemon, fits in context]
>me: I'd prefer to be your trainer
>she: Hummmmmmmmm yea? Wanna be in charge?
Convo with a girl I've met in Tinder, we'll have a date in a few weeks cuz of travel schedules. How do I answer without fucking it up
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"I could show you my poké balls"
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>>18598696
(Name), I'm part of the elite 4
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>>18598696
"No thanks. I just discharged."
Dont know if a girl is playing hard to get or just not interested. She gives me some signs that she is interested irl, but on social media she ignores my texts and comes up with excuses to hang out. How can you tell if a girl is playing hard to get or if she is not interested?
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>>18598577
Be different about what you want. Take the reins or like long enough to become the cuck.
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>>18598577
That's kind of a tough one. Make a move the next time you hang out. I don't mean confess your feelings like a lil faggot. I mean flirt with her and try and make a real move.
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faggot
think this is some forum for 14 year olds. That question you asked is a boring question and common too. Girls nowadays are 100 times more slutty than in 90s. Focus on money first, then hookers .
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I've made a few decisions this summer that leave me dwelling in shame and guilt, and I want to make things right. It's a pretty weird and long story, lads, but I'm asking you to read it and slap some since into me.
I dated my first love for almost five years. I found out she cheated on me and lied to me multiple times, then I cheated back and we eventually split up. We continue to hook up. Healthy stuff!
I saw other people casually, she started dating someone seriously. We continue to sleep together, even though she goes through two serious monogamous relationships over the course of two years. At this point she tells me she's cheated on every one of her seven boyfriends.
Her old friends, whom she's no longer very close with, invite me to hang out. I start getting along with them. One of them, whom she used to be very close with but no longer is, starts hitting on me. We start to sleep together after I find out she's in an open marriage. I also sleep with a third woman occasionally.
Ex gf sees my hickey, so I tell her. She playfully hits me and congratulates me, then we continue sleeping together despite her monogamous relationship. She fluctuates between sleeping with me, saying she loves me, and pretending I don't exist for weeks at a time.
Even though my ex regularly cheated on me and lied to me, I feel like I betrayed her. She says me sleeping with her old friend doesn't bother her, but it bothers me. I keep thinking about how I probably ruined things between us, while my rational side tells me her cheating and lying (and being in another serious relationship) already did that.
Her friend keeps sexting me, and even though she's in an open marriage, it still feels wrong to me.
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I feel like I've been acting like a dumb manwhore, and I'm ready to stop. Even though I've started a new career that genuinely saves peoples lives, I feel like I'm a piece of shit. I can't stop thinking about the romantic choices I've made and how bad they are. Meanwhile, all of my guy friends just think I'm a player and are jealous of my "game."
I want to do right by the people in my life, even if they've wronged me. I just want honest and loving relationships, and I feel like I've ruined every chance at them. I'm thinking of just disappearing from both their lives and focusing on my new job in EMS, working out, and meditating. I'm not mentally healthy and neither are these relationships.
Am I overthinking this?
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Use her in any way that makes you happy and move on in your life. That's what she is doing to you. If you do not enjoy anything she has to offer, cease contact. Plow at your own risk of heartache
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>>18598489
Dude, you have to fucking ABORT this mission. It's going to hurt for a while, but it's far healthier than what you're doing
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Ways of moving around the country without money? 2017-08-07 03:23:55 Post No.18598482
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Ways of moving around the country without money?
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tl;dr How can you move and work in different parts of the country with no savings?
Are there any Britfags here that know of a way to basically get a job that provides accommodation so you could, in theroy, move straight there without putting a deposit on a place and having to scramble about finding work. I want to move but I have no income or savings to have some kind of security while trying to find work. A couple of my friends found jobs that accommodate you while you work for them and pretty much managed to secure the job without having an interview. Is there something specific I should be searching for, how could I get away with this?
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>>18598482
Work in hotels OP, they can give you staff accommodation, most likely if you are wanting to move to a tourist area
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>>18598544
Yeah this is basically what one of my friends did. I'm just wondering how I would go about applying though. There's jobs advertised obviously but would I just call up every hotel in an area and ask if they are hiring and provide accommodation?
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busking?
learn to play an instrument.
magic show
comedian
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Finding someone the middle of nowhere 2017-08-07 02:49:59 Post No.18598425
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Finding someone the middle of nowhere
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I'm starting to get worried I'm approaching loveless singularity.
A year ago I started embracing traditionalism and I've been trying to work towards becoming as good of a future husband and father as I can be - I became a Christian, started studying STEM and try to be less dependent on my parents. However, in terms of actually finding a partner I have made zero progress. Since I want to fulfill my role in marriage as well as possible, I want to find someone who will want the same, someone who wants to be a mother first, let me be head of the house and supports me so I can focus on feeding the family, the whole nuclear family scenario.
Unfortunately I'm having a hard time finding someone who feels the same way. That is not necessarily to say that there are no women here who think that way, just that I can't reach them. In my church the average age is 50 and I'm seemingly the only one in their 20s who attends. Any local events and parties are filled with basic bitches and I don't think the type of girl I'm looking for would like them either. At university I'm not interested in the girls because I'm not interested in a someone who wants to spend their best years in a cubicle. I tried an online christian dating site, but from the very few people within a 50km radius only one replied and although we talked for a bit we drifted apart after I realized she was full of drama and really self-conscious about previously being a self-destructive party girl.
I know very well there are lots of women interested in a traditional marriage but between my sparsely populated location, my standards and my lack of social interactions I feel like I've shielded myself from any chance of finding a partner.
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>between my sparsely populated location, my standards and my lack of social interactions I feel like I've shielded myself from any chance of finding a partner.
You made a bunch of rules before even starting to date. Of course you have trouble finding someone that fits i to your already built niche for her.
You gotta relax mate.
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>>18598425
>At university I'm not interested in the girls because I'm not interested in a someone who wants to spend their best years in a cubicle.
You're at uni and that's not what you want, why would you assume everyone else wants that?
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>>18598425
Does your school not have religious groups? Look for those. Even if they aren't super practicing st my own school a lot of them are pure and go to school to get married. Or they want to enter the workforce but are teachers/humanities etc. it's not too bad. Don't judge people until you know them.
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>Fucking around yesterday in dorm room
>literally just sitting at my desk
>move leg
>feel like I just got cut
>look at leg and it's bleeding
>wtf.jpg
>Apparently there was a loose screw that was sharp from someone trying to screw it in/out so hard that the stripped it and the stripped ends were pointing out
>look at it closer and realize that although the screw is silver the stripped ends that I cut myself on are brownish in color
>immediately think rust
>immediately think rusty screw+cut=tetanus
>wake up today w/ a slight fever
>how fucked am I?
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When was the last time you got vaccinated for it?
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>>18598306
9 years ago.
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>>18598288
go do you vaccination, anyway you will start getting paralized if it's tetanus and that will make you notice, and it's curable even then
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>23
>Just about to finish uni
>Feeling great
>Suddenly for no reason, over the course of a few days, start to get really anxious about my life decisions
>Feel like I've fucked up and made all the wrong choices
Literally feels hard to breathe. I don't know where this is coming from. I have a job, a long-term gf, future looks decent enough. I feel like I need to hit "reset" and change everything.
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>>18598271
You are finishing uni, a very long process that tales up a lot of time in your life. It's normal to feel anxious over it.
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>>18598271
Maybe see a school counselor and talk to them about these feelings. They're rather common, but a professional can help you deal with them better. Good luck, anon!
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It's more to do with work and social life than school. My uni just kind of ended with no fanfare, which actually doesn't bother me at all. It's the fact that my job is boring, my relationship is boring, and my social life is boring. I feel like the life is being sucked out of me and I just noticed it.
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Is college worth it? I keep signing up for classes and failing them because I don't go. First semester went well but now I just don't seem to care. My parents are going to disown me for this but what can I do?
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> I keep signing up for classes and failing them because I don't go
Yah you really have to stop that, you're going to hate the debt you've accumulating from it. That and it might be destroying your GPA/transcript depending on how you're going about it.
It seems like you're going to school for the wrong thing. What are you going for and why do you think it doesn't motivate you? What sorts of things are you actually interested in or can see yourself doing?
To note, you're in a sensitive time of your life now. You still have some time, but the longer you delay completing post-secondary education or training the longer you'll delay the start of a independently, financially secure adulthood and career.
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Is college worth it? For some, yes. For most, probably not. Guess which category lackadaisical truants fall into, and there you are.
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>>18598165
I don't pay for it I have it paid for already. When I was younger my parents paid 5 grand for something that may cost over 80k so long as I went to an instate school. Also did my AA degree in highschool so I didn't pay for it then either. I guess I'm some silver platter asshole. I don't have any burning passion for something I would.liie to do yet. I just want to be financially secure in the future no way u could afford a house making even 30k a year
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I can't meet women in my current lifestyle.
I don't want a girl from the night scene and coming to one feels like a literal watering hole of flesh and desperation.
Soi want to try online dating apps. But I can't help but feel it's dirty too.
What's your opinion on getting a gf from dating apps? Is it desperate or widely accepted nowadays? What sites have decent girls of all shapes and sizes?
Do you have any tips for going into it?
>P.s. please no Tinder
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Why do you think you find these things dirty?
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>>18598125
It's mostly tinder that gets a bad wrap in my.mind, I don't know why. Its probabily irrational.
Ever since I saw that Family Guy episode when Quagmire got addicted to easy sex from Tinder.
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>>18598136
Here's my take. Maybe I'm wrong, but jear me out.
A bar and a dating app are things, places, where people don't hide that they are looking to get laid. They make their intentions clear.
And if you want to get laid, you'll have to learn to make ypur intentions clear without feeling dirty yourself.
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My little sister is the female equivalent of a manchild: stays in her room, 0 ambition, room full of plates and cups, bit overweight etc.
She's lucky she has her old friends from when she was a kid and through high school otherwise she would be a total loner.
Anyway long story short one of her best friends is interested in me. I've known her platonically for years, she slept over our house heaps when I lived there, you know hello, goodbye, how are you, nothing major. Not sure why now all of a sudden she's interested in me, but she just wants to be casual and wants to fuck me this weekend.
Anyway I can say no to her, I feel like it's the right thing to say no to her. But then I think and I realise that if my sister wasn't such a total fuck up that this wouldn't bother her actually, and that it's being protected from anyway risk of her feeling bad that has her in this place in the first place, I should treat her like I would any adult.
Anyway any advice? Not just looking for validation to fuck this girl, just want to know how other people deal with fuck up siblings who feel sorry for themselves all the time. I keep telling her the military but she won't budge.
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>>18598113
She likely wouldn't be allowed in the military anyway. They do have standards.
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Is she single?
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>>18598124
Yes of course, which she also always complains about, I know you're just memeing but it's fucking annoying too that me and my youngest sister have to tread so lightly when talking about the opposite sex for fear of making her feel left out.
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It's been a while since I noticed how little I care for those who were my friends a time algo.
We're still friends and meet each others...but everything have change between us.
We think differently, we're losing themes to talk...
We've changed in the way of growing up...
They're colder with me, like we refuse to admit the truth and continue to fake our friendship to not be alone...I don't know really.
The point is that I hate this....Should I broke my relationship with them?
...It's hard to me because they're actually my only acquatainces I know to go out and talk...and It's really difficult to me to make new friends because of my shyness...
The only person I talk with honestly is my partner...
Should I try to meet someone before breaking my relationship with my friends?
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>>18598107
that's probably what happens to everyone when getting older
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>>18598107
I would say meet new friends, then screw the others and live happily for the rest of your life, OP
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>>18598172
Have you feel the same?