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A long time friend of mine, whom I know mainly through Facebook, appears to be avoiding contact with me.
The last time we talked was mid-July, when we messaged each other. She mentioned I should come down to visit her to where she recently moved, and even stated that she would pay for my ticket and expenses. I expressed interest, but said I would have to wait a little bit due to other obligations right now. The conversation carried on like normal until one of us logged off.
After that, it seems that she's ghosting me. All the stuff I've sent on Messenger are all marked as "read," but not replied. Any comments I leave on her posts, she'll just "like" or respond to each and every single comments but mine. LITERALLY. Every post on her Facebook BUT the ones I make get responded to, "liked," &. Absolutely everybody else, just not me. Enough for them to stick out and warrant making this thread
And, I don't know why, it's kind of making me worried; or at the very least perplexed. My gut just keeps telling me something is up. And I don't want to lose a long time friend.
She and I are both in our early thirties.
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Just stop liking and commenting. Then see what happens.
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>>18630131
Any theories on to what's going on with her, though?
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>>18630091
Just give her a call WTF
To hell with facebook. You got balls so use them once in a while
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>get emailed for job interview tomorrow
>have nothing to wear to it
>sent email asking to push the interview date later
>realize I could've just lost my chance at a job
How fucked am I?
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This is a common thing
Ive pushed back a few dates and still got the job
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>>18629959
I will not even interview someone who reschedules unless it's a damn good reason like a death or illness in the family
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>>18629997
Oh fuck. Its over isn't it
So I'm being pressured into joining the military by my family. I've been out of work for a few months and haven't tried getting back into college, though I know I have to do something. Family can't help with college so they started recommending I go military to get it taken care of, and then it snowballed to now where they are pressuring me to get in heavily.
I have no real desire to do so but benefits seem okay. I'm no pushover but I'm a bit apathetic and don't take well to people telling me what to do. I'd also choose prison time over being shipped over seas, I refuse to fight in a war. Wat do?
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>>18629883
> military desk cuck
> free college and shit loads of free money
Just do it op
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Get a job?
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>>18629892
>implying a desk cuck couldn't still be deployed
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I've been depressed since I was 12. I'm 25 now. It is holding me back in literally every aspect of my life. I'm bipolar and over the last two months I've successfully tapered off my anti-psychotics. I'm med free as of 3 days ago. But I'm still very depressed!
I figured since I've been depressed 12 years getting off the meds wouldn't help with it, I just wanted to do it to prove to myself I could and it's healthier that way.
I have a good diet, meditate, exercise daily and go to therapy, but the depression still lingers, and strongly.
I don't know what the fuck to do! My hope is so low and if it keeps up like this I'm going to end my life soon.
Only thing that has helped me thus far is xanax and my psychiatrist won't give me it.
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>muh mental illness
When will this meme end?
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I am in the similar position. Get some animals, move away, keep taking xanax. You don't need to cope with everything. Right now surviving is the key.
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>>18629744
Hard times build strong men.
I sold a car through the 5 miles app. I signed the title and took the money.
My friend asked me if I took the pic of the title, or the pic of the buyers license or if I took out the number plates from the car.
He told me that Im the biggest fucking retard on the planet and stopped replying.
Can somebody help me out here? What could go wrong here? Can he misuse the number plates? I've lived a very sheltered life bros. Don't have any family either. Please go easy on me. I have no idea about the formalities. Thanks
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>>18629675
Oh boy
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>>18629718
Oh anon I can't even.
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Is it possible to date a fat girl and convince her to take better care of weight and herself?
I would imagine they would be unwilling to change, even if their partner was willing to work with them.
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Why would you start dating someone if you're not interested in their body? Date someone you're attracted to.
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>>18629641
IF you find the right angle it possible but it will be hard work. But can be worth it.
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>>18629641
No.
Or you can date her and get her into really active hobbies but then shell begin to gain confidence in herself and probably leave you
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A bastard got legal paternity for my biological son. He knows it's mine but he's threatening to take legal action against me if I try to prove it or even attempt to see him. I don't know what to do.
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>>18629579
What kind of legal action? What grounds does he have?
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Dude if the kids your biological son and you can prove it then let it go to court. You have fucking evidence, facts that cannot be denied.
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He claims he's going to get a restraining order for harassment. He's a 6 year convicted sex offender he even went so far as to change houses without registering his address so I don't even know where he is.
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>first day of uni
>decide to at least introduce myself to a grill during the obligatory first day ice breakers
>she seemed shy (straight out of high school) but friendlyish
I've not made a new friend in years. How do I keep this up? hoping for friendship, maybe casual snusnu if I can
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>>18629541
pic related. Girl kinda looks like her except bately 18 and brunette
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>>18629541
Don't overthink it. Talk about the thinks you're interested in and listen to the things she's interested in. If they match, you're likely to become friends or something. If they don't, well, there's nothing else you could've done.
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Get her info, talk to her, go to a party together or something.
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SO IT HAS COME TO THIS 2017-08-16 11:55:10 Post No.18629470
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i tried to prevent to post that shit on /adv/ for weeks now, but i cant anymore, since im also drunk and all that. anyways
>theres some girl
>me and her study together and are flatmates
>we watch netflix alone a lot
>months ago i noticed she likes me a lot-lot
>dont want anything more of her
>it gets more touchy
>we usually lie arm in arm, with her head on my chest and such
>sometimes i fondle her tits and thighs because she has very big tits and i enjoy it
>always watch out not to hold her hand or stay over (even though she wants me to) because i dont want to get her hopes up
>i like her but i keep telling myself im not crushing on her or anything
>make up retarded excuses for myself (you dont really like her, shes fat, you dont have a lot in common)
>suddenly, everything is kinda strange
>ask her one time whats wrong
>she confesses she banged some dude that studies with us as well
>realize im hopelessly in love with her
>all my chances are gone
>its all my fucking fault
>my one chance at happiness gone
what do
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Pls respond
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>>18629470
Top kek, cucked even before the relationship started. You could try an hero anon
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>>18629470
LOL
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Getting a boob job in 3 days. Will men think I'm ugly for having fake tits, or do they not care? It's to fix a deformity, not just to make them bigger.
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>>18629364
Uhm, honestly I wouldn't mind with or without fake tits.
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With technology nowadays they look so natural it won't even matter. Good luck with surgery and have a speedy recovery!!
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>>18629373
Look up 'tuberous breast deformity'. I have a mild to moderate case of that. It's so uncomfortable and revolting to look at.
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Does knowing many languages make you interesting to girls or people in general? Will they be impressed? I personally don't think it's a big deal, but I hope it's interesting at least, I speak Spanish, English and I'm learning French and Portuguese, knowing two of the most popular languages (English and Spanish) isn't impressive of course, but what if I learned more in the future?
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Haha what? If you're not an interesting person overall, knowing any amount of languages isn't going to help. Languages are cool, yes, but it's not going to make your personality more interesting.
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>>18629386
I don't know, don't girls say "hey, he's pretty funny, and he speaks __ languages!"
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>>18629410
Not even once
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Why do I nearly always look really good when I look in the mirror but I look completely retarded 99% of the time in pictures. It always looks like my face is much rounder than it actually is, my skin looks a bit yellow and my eyes look soulless and dead.
All my friends seem to look really simillar in photos and in real life.
What's telling the truth, the mirror or the camera?
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No one has a completely symmetrical face, you're used to seeing the mirror orientation which is horizontally flipped. Everyone else is used to seeing your actual orientation, which is why people in real life and cameras look basically the same
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>>18629319
Yeah but if I horizontally flip pictures I take I still look like shit.
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In painting there is a trick where if you want to find mistakes in the things you are painting you just flip the whole thing horizontaly.
Because you are used to seeing your face in the mirror when you see it flipped horizontaly you notice all of the imperfections.
Just a guess tho
Are my calves disproportionately small compared to the rest of my body? I want to lift but don't wanna look more disproportionate.
Also are my legs crooked? I thought I had bow legs but went to the doctor and the x ray didn't show anything.
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>>18629192
No. You have a nice body.
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>>18629192
You look OK to me.
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They look a little small, but the rest of you isn't big either.
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Retarded religous people annoy
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So there is two guys at my work , making pretty much fun of me cause i dont believe in god. Both didnt even pass high school even the easiest subject. I always tell them that they believe in something that doesnt exist. But they are annoying af and keeps on harassing. Im not a fucking pussy who tells the work leaders that they are annoying af. What can i do? Im about to burst and fight them. They are muslims i was one as well before. Thats why they are cracking on me easier.
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>>18629028
I'd ignore them and not really know what to do
So anyone who helps OP is also helping me (but I'm never going to fight someone)
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>>18629028
Get aggressive. Not in a physical sense, ever. But tell them to fuck off and ask where was Allah when they were failing high school like idiots. They'll be shocked as hell and likely won't no what to say. But you need to make it obvious it's coming from a place of real anger within you. That's what I'd do anyway.
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>>18629042
No don't insult them
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>meet shy girl through mutual friends a while ago
>see her at gatherings a couple times a year
>every time I learn a bit more about how similar we are
>she's the same kind of autist as me and we share a very unlikely set of uncommon interests and preferences
>mutual friend who's known me forever sometimes say we're a perfect match
>too shy to talk to her one on one with other people around
>no opportunities to talk to her alone due to the nature of our gatherings
>she doesn't flirt or send signals of any kind, but neither do I
>could be my imagination, but I believe I notice her glancing at me sometimes, when I'm not looking
I'm a virgin in my mid 20s and pretty insecure, but I'm willing to take my chances with her. Would it be weird or creepy to ask her out through text out of the blue? Should I wait until we see each other again and do it in person, in front of people? Any general advice? Experiences with similar situations?
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>>18629025
I'd say go ahead..
Which do you prefer:
1. To feel bad from not doing it and regret it forever? (If only I had tried....)
2. Take a chance and maybe have something meaningful with someone at fucking last?
It is a given that you might not succeed, but if so , what? You say you don't really see her much anyway..
You will probably regret it if you don't try. I think you should do it and see what happens.
Fucking ditch the regrets. There's not enough time for regret in this shitty and short life.
You go man.
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I asked a girl for their num and got it today. You learn to destroy any chance of regret by fucking taking the chance. What's the worst that could happen amigo?
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>>18629069
You misunderstand, I definitely will try, and I will do it without overthinking. Honestly, even if we don't click romantically, I'd love to be closer friends with her than we are right now, so I'm not gonna allow myself to catch feels before I know where this is going.
I'm just not sure if texting her out of nowhere is the right course of action, after knowing her for more than a year and only interacting platonically in group settings.