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I'm not having the best of luck with women what can I do 4chan 2017-08-16 07:05:08 Post No.18627384
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I'm not having the best of luck with women what can I do 4chan
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2017-08-16 07:05:08
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what did you say after she said sorry, you did good till that point
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>>18627384
Fix your appearance and play guitar/other instrument you can make funny clips with
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>>18627477
This.
That's the best I've seen someone take rejection on /adv/ in a long time.
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Tell me about your first serious breakup /adv/. How it was? How do you feel about it? Was you the leaver or the left? How do you cope the grief? Did you she that person again? How it was?
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>>18626750
i have never had a girlfriend
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>>18626750
I have also never had a girlfriend and probably never will.
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>>18626759
Shit anons. I'm posting on /adv/ not /r9k/. Get yourself together you guys.
I've been depressed for about 3 years now, a while ago I realized that there is no meaning behind anything including myself. I'm not upset about the meaninglessness about my existence, but it did bring into question everything else I had known. Religion (Obviously I don't believe in it any more), life, ethics, morality, etc. I feel so empty and I realize that there is no meaning to do anything any more. The only reason people go to school is to prepare themselves for a job that will bring them money which will in turn bring happiness however that person sees fit, whether it be a hobby that pleases that person or entertainment that just distracts the person with stimulus (This is how I escape). But I don't know what to do or why I'm even doing what I'm doing right now.
Please help
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I was like you once. Then I found the answer: opiates.
Now I just exist and observe. Life is good.
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>>18626751
I can see that as an option but I'd rather not risk the arrest for a minor momentary escape.
And besides I already have plenty of escapes right now.
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Sorry I fucked up on grammar
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I want to start saving up to move to a 1 bedroom apartment. Although here in California everything is so fucking expensive I've been considering moving to oregon. Would Oregon be a good place to live? I've seen cheaper and better looking homes there
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Fuck America bro
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>>18626712
Then don't come on an American site or use American words.
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>>18626699
Portland won't be much cheaper and anywhere out of the valley is going to be redneck country. You could try Eugene, it's an odd mix of hippyville USA on the brink of hicksland. Bend's been growing too. I've never been there myself it it will be sunnier out there if that's a thing you want, but it's pretty isolated. Most of Oregon is small town. Portland has been getting annoying with all the young "creative types" who have been moving in and pricing is out of town.
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>tfw college grad unemployed for years and now can't even get an interview for a supermarket job
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Take your degree off your resume and try again.
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>>18626522
> gets a degree
> Doesn't know someone who has 1 year work experience will get a job quicker than as someone with a degree
Lul
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>>18626535
Sadly, this actually works under some circumstances. If the job you're applying for doesn't require a degree, don't mention you have one.
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How realistic is it to think that I might meet a friend of mine that I talk to online? I'm a guy, she's a girl. I'm in my early 20s, but she's also about 5 years younger than me. We get along really well, and to be honest, I only talk to her. She really likes me and we have a lot in common, but I am also never sexual to her. I keep thinking about the future and if she will still be around. She doesn't do much like me, but she still has a lot of friends apparently and mostly guy friends. I am the jealous type so I get kind of jealous whenever she is with some guy. She doesn't live far from me, but it's not like I can also go up and see her at this point for reasons.
When she is 18, she plans to leave her house. We always talk and joke/serious about her staying with me in an apartment, but how realistic is that? I've also talked to many girls online, and I never clicked with any of them, but it feels really different with this girl and we have been talking for quite a while. More than a year or two. I can't just break ties with her. She is like my best friend.. but I'm basically a loser. Am I going to be severely disappointed at some point?
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>>18626500
>Am I going to be severely disappointed at some point?
Sounds like it. Get a life outside of her.
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>>18626502
But I don't know. I can't. My life is really garbage. Nobody fucking likes me and I can't help but be asocial. I really like this person. I feel a strong bond, whatever it is.
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anyone?
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Should I pursue this girl? I have a crush on her, but I'm not sure if I want to deal with her mental issues. She is a Schizophrenic and has depression. Everything else about her is amazing though.
The reason I am unsure is cuz my past relationship was with a girl with BPD (Borderline personality disorder). She cheated on me. I don't want issues like that to happen again. What do /adv/?
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>>18626090
Borderline is a totally different animal from Schizophrenia or depression, but maintaining a relationship with someone who has a mental illness characterized by destroying relationships is still going to be hard.
As far as I know Borderline personality disorder is like the the most hated and feared out of all of them. It makes people impossible to get along with and makes them act in a way that others would see as straight-up evil.
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>>18626090
Just fuck her and nothing more.
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>>18626107
I forgot to mention she take meds for her schizophrenia. I have talked to her about it and she may be able to live without the medication eventually. My main concern is that if I do get with her is the chance my kids will get it(If I ever get that far.) Her family that she lives with has it as well. All in various degrees of severity. Her mom needs to take meds for the rest of her life and her brother lives with them and seems to be uncapble of living in his own, since he is 32. Only the dad doesn't have it.
Another thing I forgot to mention we are both 18.
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My gf is coming over soon to let me take her virginity
What should I prepare for? [being a virgin myself]
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shave balls, and wash yourself very good
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Start slow, lots of touching. Foreplay is important, eating pussing, fingering , etc, don't bite the nipples too hard unless she's into that.
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>>18626034
she's already seen my balls and sucked them dry
I've already ate her out like a doritos tacos locals
we've never gone far enough to fucking but she said she'd let me today if I want
Questions
>Is there blood?
>How much blood?
>After how many strokes does it stop hurting for her?
>How many strokes till I cum?
>What If I get soft out of shock?
>There's two holes, how do I know which one?
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How do I get over the fact that my fiancée sucked dick for weed in her teens?
She's cute, friendly, cooks and cleans for me, doesn't bitch about anything, absolutely dog-you-grew-up-with tier loyal to me, wants to fuck wherever however whenever I want, doesn't care about the horrible shit I say, takes care of me hand and foot, doesn't care when I'm broke and can barely buy us dinner, doesn't give a shit if play video games or browse 4chan all day, and loves me to the point she'd die for me, but I feel like I can't love her back the way she loves me.
On one of our first dates I asked her what's something she most regrets in her life and she said she blew anywhere between 1-9 guys for weed when she was younger cause she was extremely depressed and had no money, pot was the only thing that helped with her insane anxiety attacks she had (and has when I start thinking getting upset about this and start implying I'm going to leave her without telling her why). I never asked how many but I once asked if it was less than 10, she said yes. I don't want to know the exact number desu.
It just makes me sick to my stomach. She's only ever had two real boyfriends, one cheated and left her, the other was an abusive friend of her fathers 12 years her Sr. that pretty much groomed her when she was 15 and finally got away from at 18. I don't like the guy at all and hope he dies a cartel death, but it still doesn't really bug me when I look at her.
But when I see her face in the morning or something I just think about her sucking dick. She offers me blowjobs and I say no cause I can't stay hard picturing other dudes she's blown for weed. I feel like I was brainwashed by years of /r9k/ and it's ruining my relationship with an otherwise perfect woman. Is my only choice to break up with her over something she did years ago and leave her feeling like a shell of a human because of some dicks before I knew her?
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>>18625927
>trying to turn a ho into a housewife
anon pls
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>>18625927
Remember that we are all as ripples on a pond. No matter how long it has been, the ripples still emerge from their source. So are your thoughts. So is your fiancée.
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>>18625927
>How do I get over the fact that my fiancée sucked dick for weed in her teens?
Why did you ask her to marry you if this bothers you so fucking much dude? You were planning on leaving her from date n° 1.
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This is my first time on this board.
My wife told me today that I am not allowed to see my own mother (really). I would drop her, naturally, but we have kids together. I live in Jew York, meaning if we split, she will invariably be granted custody, regardless of the situation. I have to choose between my mother, and my children. Neither have done anything wrong, and don't deserve this.
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>>18625882
call her bluff. i doubt shes going to want to divorce you over something so simple as you seeing your mother without your wife there. if she is, shes going to divorce you down the road anyways so id start bracing for that impact.
id also consult a divorce lawyer NOW so that you can stay ahead of her when the time does come.
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>>18625882
Why did she say so?
In general - just go see your mother. You're your own person and your wife doesn't need to give you permission to do things. If she says anything, just ask her how she'd feel if in the future someone kept her kids away from her.
If your wife and your mother have conflict, maybe talk to your mom and try to help them solve it.
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>>18625882
i would start discreetly hiding your assets, anon. seriously. this is only the tip of the craziness iceberg. one of my uncles married a woman like this. he "hasnt been allowed" to contact his family at all, including his ailing (see:94, had stroke, not doing so well) mother, for many years. dont be like uncle bob
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I've already posted this, but didn't get much advice. My 2nd cousin and I used to be very close, but for certain reasons we haven't seen eachother at all for years, that is until yesterday. When I first saw her I was blown away by her beauty. We have a lot of things in common and she is a genuine, loving, and funny person. When I'm with her I actually feel happy, which is rare for me. I think I'm in love with her and I don't know what the fuck to do. She also seems really flirty and stuff but I may just be misreading that.
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>>18625793
>we haven't seen eachother at all for years, that is until yesterday
>I think I'm in love with her
Oh fuck off.
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>>18625793
>When I'm with her I actually feel happy,
Dude, you only saw her once. You can't say this.
>which is rare for me.
Oh, now it makes sense. You are overattaching to her because you are running away from something else. Don't believe your own lies, you are not into her. You just have to face your real problem.
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>>18625803
Its just how I feel, I can't really explain it. You clearly have never had the feeling.
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I'm in Oklahoma Norman. And my girlfriend was taken to a mental institution called red Rock. They've held for a week. And she's done nothing wrong. They told her she had to take these meds. Antipsychotic antihistamine and litheum after sitting with her for less then 2 min. And if she doesn't take them which is her right she will be detained longer. She's been taking them and doing everything right. She's been real good. But today they said there keeping her for another week. I don't know what to do guys.
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There not even giving her mom any information. Shes going to lose her scholership but I don't even give a fuck about that. My problem is this is against her will and she didn't do anything to deserve it
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>>18625626
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=65uNCLBTje0
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>>18625626
Duuude! Hurry and get her out before they labotimize her and is used as a sex doll.
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How to survive SJW uni? 2017-08-15 07:32:43 Post No.18625503
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I'm at uni, it's being completely SJW'ed. How do I survive this as a straight white cishet male aka satan himself?
Everytime I see them with retarded banners or doing a sit-in to protest rape, or whatever braindead shit they do, I want to punch them and I really need to bite my tongue not to just start a shouting match.
Changing uni is not an option and that cancer is everywhere anyway. Do I just tear into it or do I say nothing and focus on my studies?
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omg who cares. people are stupid. you aren't the first generation to deal with stupidity or violence. literally who cares
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Just ignore it and remember that Trump is president so technically the big war is won.
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>>18625503
This is a wild and crazy idea: ignore them and go about your day normally. Don't talk to them. Don't engage them. Don't make eye contact with them.
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Why do men rant about not dating enough girls or having more women approach them? Yet when you do try to flirt, or show interest somehow, they're utterly oblivious?
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Men feel intimated if you try to flirt with them in my experience. Myself I'm into it, but most men dont like it for some reason. Probably insecurity, maybe they think you're just joking.
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>>18625494
try being more direct
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I don't think you're serious. That's why.
- men of the world
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I'm 18, 182 cm and from Poland (if that changes anything)
Can I still grow taller?
I'm fucking sick of being such a shortass
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No, you stop growing at 18 because that is when your bones stop developing.
Must suck to be you.
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>>18625390
Probably not. You may grow a centimeter or two in the next couple of years, but you're most likely going to stay like that.
Whatever the case, I don't know what's the average in Poland, but 182 cm sounds rather tall to me. Not huge, but definitely not short.
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>>18625551
About 25 till men reach muturity, its about 18 for women
You may spurt a inch if your lucky OP.