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>>18624094
If you're asking that question already then you're gonna break up with her whether it's a month or a year from now.

We can't tell you when is best to do it but you're probably avoiding breaking up because of the sex and company. Find something else to keep you preoccupied and on the look out for other people to fuck. This might seem callous but it will motivate you to break up sooner, which is kinder cause she's prolly more invested than you.

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>>18624094
>Extremely fickle and objective
My answer is probably going to differ, but really anything that makes me believe that a time-consuming relationship such as the ones I get into aren't worth the time I'm investing into them.

Not to say I don't think about how it'll benefit or not benefit my partner, I consider that too once I begin considering breaking up with them. I figure out what the benefits and negatives of a possible breakup would be like on both ends and if a relationship is worth it for either of us.

A deal breaker for me is mental instability (though this can vary as I'm not perfect either), a general lack of caring for your own physical health and by that I mean severely overweight and/or just extremely unhygienic, and some other things I'm probably forgetting.

As for you. If you don't feel love for her and she's practically just a nuisance as this point, what's the point in staying with her unless there is legal trouble associated with breaking up with her? Doesn't seem very practical to me, OP. Not here to judge, just what I think.

>>18624094
Waiting on my gf at her apartment and started going through her things. Not really looking for anything just killing time and came across a bag, seemed heavy, but it was a nice bag. Inside was all types of sex paraphernalia and she has never mentioned or showed me anything. Thinking I should run.

>>18624087
Ewww no

Is she hot?

Lets get that out of the way first.

>>18624133
7/10. Got some nice tits tho

/b/ is the only board worth browsing, now fuck off

You spend a year or two lurking /b/

get out while you still have a chance.

>>18623995
you mean to say you don't even know her name?

>>18623998
Shit, that's the problem here. I didn't get to hear it - if she even told it at all- because of background noise. Fuck family vacations man. I should've sat directly at here table but, you know, family and friends ruin this kind of things

no name, gonna be difficult. maybe some FB expert stalker can weigh in here as I'm out of ideas.

only location to go on is not promising unless she's from some village of 200 people.

there isn't a trick to be able to break up with your partner, to gain the willpower to.
You obviously know this relationship is a toxic one, and that you aren't happy. And of course breaking up is the hard thing to do.
At the end of the day, yes she may not really have a place to go, well a good environment rather, but your situation is also harming her as well, what with the unfaithfulness and the distrust you have on another.
Just think of it like this: break up and be sad for a while, or stay together for another 5 years and be sad for the entire duration of that period. The choice is yours.

>>18623892
Just let her go, but help her find a place so she doesn't feel you threw her out. If she is an asshole feel free to throw her along with her shit to the curb

>>18623905
Part of the issue is she's completely happy. She has more now than she's ever had. She won't sit down and reasonably talk, just goes straight to the silence and crying. It would take her 1-3 months just to move out smoothly if she even cooperated.

What. The. Fuck.

>>18623848
I really don't get it, explain this ''agreement'' better for me, how you are allowed to touch her in worse places but not in the feet?

>>18623848
>Mainly her pelvic region, chest, butt, and tail
I want to see pictures of your sisters tail!

>>18623794
Listen to him.

>>18623795
my sister room is messy too and my brothers and they get away with it

pick up your clothes

Eh, maybe? How serious are you guys

>>18623783
Bad idea.

tell her youre not getting married as a test.....

and see if she is suddenly getting married to someone else in the near future

6 months is not a long time

Go through nd change every 4th or 5th word with a synonym

I plagiarized a few papers freshman year of college. These were classes that I did not give a fuck about and we're those gay liberal arts classes for history and English.

I a decent writer and bullshiter, I just took paragraphs from various essays on the internet and restructured them to how I talk.

If your plagiarizing classes that are the essence of your major however, you have some severe problems.

It's LAUGHABLY easy for professors to tell you plagiarized. Especially if you're turning your papers in online. If that's the case, you may as well give up and take the F because that shit will get you kicked out of your class. You have a slim chance if it's on-paper only, but your professor pretty much reads everything that they can find on their topic of expertise, which is part of their job of course.

>>18623600
No, your brain is just wired differently like a pedophile, necrophiliac, gay person, transgender, or furry.

>>18623608
so in other words everyone is wired differently

>>18623600
No, it just makes you an animal fucker. Your standards are so low that you'll settle for a literal fucking pig.

TL;DR: No. Love has no boundaries. Go ham.

https://www.betterhelp.com/helpme/

Do you work out regularly?

Bring an easy-to-eat packed lunch to work, eat it on a quick break, and use your lunch hour to change and actually go on a run.

>>18623344
>online counseling
This makes me uncomfortable
Does it work

>>18623349
I run three days a week and lately I've been doing light bodyweight exercises on the off days. It helped when I had a less consistent schedule at uni, but when I'm coding 8+ hours a day it doesn't do shit

>>18623260
Go Rambo and kill the motherfuckers.

Drug them, throw them in a car, book it

get out of the way

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>>18623004
You cant marry, fuck or make family with friends. Just lay low profile until he gets in touch with you again.

And now the real question: why dont you have your own partner to keep yourself busy and less dependent on your friend as source of attention as social interaction?

>>18623325
What about bros before hoes?

When he's depressed and lonely he wants to talk every day, then as soon as a woman validates him I'm no longer interesting. I always gave him my time, emotional support, and trust.

This makes me not want to make time for him either out of spite and downgrade him as an acquaintance. Then when this girl takes "his" social circle away when shit goes down, he will then lost his only real friend as well. He clearly has no problem abandoning me.

Not sure whether that is reasonable/healthy or not.

To answer your question: I'm asocial. It's the principle of it. I hate being the third wheel, the second choice, the backup support, and being used.

>>18623004
Become his gf

>>18622967

what kind of job?

>>18622973
Cashier. I know it's nothing but I'm more outgoing than I ever was. Talking to clients and coworkers is really helping me.

>>18622983

Cool, happy for you stranger

>>18622957
>>18622957
There is a big difference between political outrage and political activism. If you are emailing your senators for instance for a cause or are actively pushing for things and hence want to be informed so you can commit to action then by all means it is worth it for you. If you are not actively voting, writing to politicians, helping out campaigns, discussing politics, donating money, protesting, etc. there is no need for you to harm yourself with political outrage. Usually, the really politically informed people aren't in modes of depression or anger bc they realize its been the same shit since forever.

>>18623113
pretty good advice I think, basically OP, if you want moral superiority in discussions its better to stop because even if you loose friends and win an argument the society will still be fucked up... if you actually try to achieve somehting by being politically aware them it is, maybe, good to keep on it, we need more people like that

>>18622957
Let the hate fuel you. Tell your officials to suck eggs and run yourself. Unite your country under a totalitarian government and smash the degeneracy and welfare state.