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>>17392545

Perspective. Lots of people take things they have for granted, and don't appreciate it properly until it's gone.

Experience suffering and go without the things you usually have. Grateful people once had a lot less and don't expect much more.

get a shit job

I just got off my medication and have ADHD too, you won't need them after a while but eventually they'll lose their effect and fuck with your head. For me it was around ten years (I started when I was seven) before they stopped working and made me depressed. You can totally stop them at anytime and be fine. Go to your doctor and ask for meds, but don't fuck around with them. If you have to take them every day or every couple hours do it that way not whenever you want, unless your doctor says so. With appetite you won't have one ever but will be hungry, there's a difference. Also you won't be able to sleep with them, which in the mornings is helpful. Go to the doctor anon, they will help you find the right medication. Also if you start a different medication give it a month or two before changing it. It will take time to get in your system right. Good luck.

Every once in a while the medication will lose effect and you'll probably have to switch medications but after a while it will no longer bother you

>>17392538
>I've taken adderall before and the feeling is amazing.
Then either you don't have ADD or your dose is way too high. When you have ADD and take a proper dose, it doesn't feel like much of anything: other people notice, but the person taking it generally doesn't.

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I used the wrong OP image, but eh still good. Everyone likes a good crow on a spooky pumpkin head.

>>17392532
Your autism sounds fucking severe, but it can't be that bad if you can type this post. Work towards being comfortable with yourself, what type of autism have you? Some types are no different to distinct personalities.

You sound pretty depressed as well
Have you talked to an psychologist?

>>17392525
If you like math, why not do BioMed Engineering or get another Engi degree?

Good mix of science, math, and job opportunities

>>17392525
At my University Calc AB only covered the first 2 University Calc classes so you might still have more calculus to take. Look into that. If you don't need Calc you can start on linear algebra.

>>17392514
>There's this girl i have liked for 9 months ish

>9 months

You waited too long. Move on if she's showing no more signs of interest

I guess but she is showing signs until her boyfriend comes back, it just feels like she wants me around for when he isn't there

Her getting jealous about you liking other girls, even though she's not in a relationship with you, is a huge red flag my friend, imagine what kind of a relationship that would be.

I honestly hate it when guys last longer than about 5-10mins. The piv part is fucking boring and does nothing for me. Not the tiniest bit. Don't take that stupid pill. It willonly give you a hardon. You will still cum as fast as always. Only difference is that you are left with a stiff cock that's way too sensitive for fucking anyways. And she will be bored ouy of her mind after 20 mins. Spare yourself and her that shit.
Save it for the time you have a line up with 40 girls or something

>>17392480
>How do you pleasure a woman for 4 hours straight?
what makes u think u need to pleasure a girl for 4 hours straight
in my experience
20 minutes is more than enough for some girls
my ex told me sex before me was generally lasting for like 5-10 minutes
when i fucked her for like an hour, she wasn't that into it
however
my friend recently got involved with some nympho off of tinder that goes for hours and constantly wants cock
but even then it's not rocket science
u just fuck

>>17392499
That hurts my feelings because it takes me a really long time to cum and I used to be proud of that. Now I don't know what to think.

>>17392438
What was the joke?

>>17392493
She says it always. With every joke

>>17392438
It can be. Women can insult or tease you as a sign of flirting or to test you

It's kind of hard to tell since you aren't talking to her in person, but if she's responding to your messages, she might not be serious

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It could do with your weight to an extent. There are a number of studies showing that at least some physical exercise along with proper diet allows for more nutrients/oxygen to be sent to the brain, raising alertness levels.

I can't say I know how your medications affect your mood/mental status, but exercise pretty much is a cure-a-lot, if not a cure-all. Take your diet into consideration too. Personally, I know I feel sluggish and slow if I eat poorly and don't exercise for a few days.

>>17392421
> I feel god awfully alone and can't connect with people personally

Maybe that is your problem? You're trying to connect to everyone at a personal level when you shouldn't. You should only connect people at a personal level if you feel as if they are deep friends. Otherwise just associate with people as you would anyone else and don't feel pressure to do anything differently.

Don't try to "match" their personality, instead, just be yourself.

>cortisol
Take >1g vitamin C.

>>17392360
No you can't cure autism. You can only learn to control yourself in social situations.

Uhh yes.

Everyone does this.

Haven't you seen the movie high fidelity?

Not consciously, but yeah I suppose most people have songs that remind them of their SO

>>17392361
Nah, I don't watch movies.

>>17392312
Drop her.

If it's something your not comfortable with then obviously dump her. There will always be someone out there with the same goals/interests as you

>>17392312
What she will tell you:
>I love you and only you
>I only did it for the money, please trust me anon
>please stay with me I need you more than anything, you are my everything
>please forgive me I will never do anything like this again

What she did:
>prostituted herself while having a boyfriend
>had countless strangers fap to her shlicking, groping herself and moaning like a whore for them
>probably got off to it
>all of this behind your back

Judge her by her actions, not by her words. End it on the spot, there is absolutely no need to explain or justify yourself in a discussion

What do you mean what would I do, in regards to what?

I would grieve for my lost family then eventually resume life as I had. My family being killed would probably put me in a much more secure financial position so that would be nice.

Dedicate the rest of my life to accumalating information on the people responsible and then find them and slowly torture them to death.

Like maybe i'll slowly sandpaper their corneas off while holding their eyelids open. Something like that.

Like the answers like i thought if something happend to me and i live in holland i would burn down probably most of the mosks in my region

I was 26 when I got my SIA card (Britfag), when I was In class on the course people who were in their 40s were leaning too.
The longer you leave it the less likely you are to achieve your goal

tl:dr got for it faggot

Nice, I was just about to make a tinder thread.
Unfortunately I don't know how to help you as I'm a tinder noob as well, but maybe my bump will help.

My problem is, should I start messaging girls? I've got quite a lot of girls that have messaged me during my time using tinder, but it usually weren't the girls that I would LIKE to talk with. Like, girls that I liked because they were decent and I can't be too picky, not the cutest ones.
Also I don't have anyone to take a picture of me, so all my photos are basically selfies, albeit good ones. With this and my shitty bios I think I'm breaking the rules on how to create a good tinder profile. What do?

start with a funny pick-up line or something, don't start with "hi how are you?" also if they don't respond after one or two messages, move on.

>>17392254

make small talk and ask for their number to text them. go to their house to hang out or invite them to yours to hang out. bang. wash, rinse, repeat.