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>>17391665

What is your definition of normal?

>>17391665

Y-your asking on an anime image exchange weeaboo site?

>>17391662
>I don't know if this is becoming alcoholic or what

Yes it is. You're dependent on alcohol to provide you with happiness and comfort. It's incredibly unhealthy and you'll develop a nasty addiction, kill your liver, and end up depressed and desperate for another drink.

Either learn how to function without the aid of alcohol, or have fun developing cirrhosis and dying alone with a bottle of gin by your side.

You are alcoholic.

>>17391687
Okay, I drink 2-3 shots about twice or three times per week when I'm at the job and have nothing to do other than feeling depressed.

However, I thought it might become handy drinking everyday if I procrastinate too much. I guess you are right.

>>17391689
Lol, this is like saying my father is alchocolic for drinking some wine after a work. It's actually normal to drink wine daily where I'm from (Europe). Some even consider it weird if you don't drink a beer or two, glass of wine per day. Especially in summer. So I'm far from being alchocolic, but just wonder where this might lead to and if it is normal to function like that.

>>17391661
record yourself

tl;dr

>>17391661
I have a friend who is really good at it, I don't know how he does it. But, even if I have a story to tell, I'll start it up, and let him take it away.

>>17391650
Break into their homes but don't steal anything. Repeat this a few times. They'll lose their minds trying to figure it out. Also once you get bored you can leave like a lava lamp and it'll totally mindfuck everybody. Even the police

Why don't you just tell us what they did that's got you so butthurt, and we'll tell you why being petty and vengeful is a bad idea.

>>17391650
do you want them to know they're being messed with? or are you talking about stuff like spitting in their milk and them never finding out?

4 years is a long time
I have done things 3-5 years ago that I regret now, I am a different person and those mistakes from long ago made me learn a lot about myself. I learned a lot of lessons in 5 years.
You are the type of person who gives me anxiety, someone who only sees the me from 5 years ago and not the present me. It hurts.

>>17391651
>someone who only sees the me from 5 years ago
Yes, I know. That's exactly why I created this thread, so someone help/advice me to see her present, not her past. I know I'm very proud of myself and resentful. But the thought of her sleeping with a bunch of guys is killing me. I just need to get my shit straight.

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>>17391631
>I started dating about two months ago, I know my girlfriend loves me very much

>>17391607
it gets old quick

>>17391612
Dont listen to this anon. It's one of my favorite feelings in the world. The opposite is equally wonderful.

>>17391607
not as good as you would think. alot of cuddling positions are uncomfortable. i love the idea of sleeping in the same bed as my gf but the actual act of it is uncomfortable,i end up just wishing i was in my own bed, on my own. the guy in that anime pictures for example probably has a dead arm.

>>17391603
you stop the meds
or
u look at an alternative cause for your dead cock
simple as

>>17391603
Tell your doc it's her fault you can't get hard, so it's her responsibility to make you hard :^)

What is the problem?
Do you still get morning wood?
Aroused when watching porn, or through thoughts fantasies?
With a partner?
If no to all, viagra won't work, its not a arousal medication.

>>17391594
I just recently was on a bit of a furniture hunt.

New furniture stores don't really haggle on the price much, and if they do it's still overpriced as fuck IMO.

We needed a new couch, and possibly coffee table.

Went to about 3 different furniture stores. One we were haggling with on a couch, and he was actually biting a little, but only came off like 50 bucks.

Ended up finding a great near new couch on Craigslist and haggled with them for over $100 off.

Benefits of having a pickup truck and another friend there and ready to move it out with cash.

It talks.

>>17391604
OP here.

I guess i always thought there was more room to haggle furniture prices. It's not like everyone goes out and buys furniture on a frequent basis, so wouldn't it make sense for them to cut me a break in order to make more sales?

I'll probably end up taking the craigslist route when something decent pops up.

>>17391711
Yeah, that's kinda the approach I was thinking.

But, I guess with all the financing options, and repo's they're seemingly always getting money, and their furniture back. So, I'm sure it's a pretty steady flow.

The one that was willing to haggle with me was a small furniture store in a run down outskirt part of town, and he still didn't budge as much as I needed him to to purchase his couch.

Cash talks to people. But, stores that regularly finance people without cash, and repo their stuff back get paid, and their furniture. So, I can see how cash talks less to them.

Hey im hungry want to get some dinner?

Throw a pokeball at her when the circle is smallest. You might need to feed her a couple of razz berries first to make her like you.

>>17391591
>How do I end up actually asking her out? Do I try to do some small talk or can I just be like "Hey are you free on Friday/Saturday?"
I think what works very well, is just being plain and forward about that type of stuff, but it's pretty case specific. (depending on ur interaction, if u flirted at all etc...)

If I leave him for my friends will I truly be happy again?
If I stay- should I be at least honest about my feelings or keep it to myself?

I really think Ive grown as a person since I met him when I was 20, my friends helped me realize my personality and sense of humor...my Fiance is nothing like my friends...this is why I cant stand him near them, is that selfish of me? I feel horrible about it.

I desperately need advice I will wait.
In the mean time I will continue to respond to other questions on this board.

Do you think it's a problem that your fiance is not like your friends? Do you think it's worth ending a long relationship?

Sometimes different people provide different comforts to a person. I really like being around my friends because we can just take it easy and have fun doing just about anything. I really love visiting them and make trips out to see them semi-regularly. My SO has met them and occasionally comes with me, but I mostly go alone.

My SO is my partner in life. We solve problems together and share a lot of the same hobbies. We truly look out for each other and love each other. Sometimes I get anxious about how I feel like I should live my life more like when I'm with my friends, but that's not a good forever plan for me.

http://www.postloop.com/invite/Hedonologist

It won't make you much, but it's stable, and anyone can do it (forum shilling for $0.10 per post

it pays to paypal too

>>17391677

what forums get shilled?

what kind of shilling is entailed?

>>17391708

It's just to make the forum look like its active, when in reality many of the users are just paid to post.

Well Canadians are inherently racist. They're a predominantly white country and white operated business will do their best to keep you out and not trade with you.

In otherwords they are alot like Australia and their policy of "fuck off were full". Just tell your dad he will be miserable there and have no one to talk to. People will hate you and your family.

Just approach him with your concerns and see what he has to say.

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>>17391533
>Well Canadians are inherently racist. They're a predominantly white country and white operated business will do their best to keep you out and not trade with you.
I just told my dad this, I hate shitskins as much as anyone else but my dad thinks that Canada is a "progressive and welcoming place".

He literally just used the words "sell everything and move out and get a job" and I'm genuinely mad, he's a fucking sick 53 year old guy with no high school degree, he just basically ignored me, also he clearly doesn't give a fuck about handing me his business even though I'm his only son and I got into my shitty career just to inherit it after he retires.

He just fucking lied to me, I asked him if he was talking to someone from an embassy and he's just talking to some random people "that work with the embassy", might just be a scam.

>>17391531

Sure, you're "allowed" to, but it's a shitty thing to do. If she's going on a second one, she probably likes this dude too.

Why didn't you just nut up and ask her out before? Regardless, sure, ask her out, but don't come back here bitching about sluts and whores when she turns you down because she's already seeing someone.

>>17391557
>but don't come back here bitching about sluts and whores when she turns you down because she's already seeing someone.
>projecting this hard

>>17391531
if the guy is a friend don't if you are just an acquaintance ask, but you better be quick or he will be slipping that dick in.

One reminder. Just because you believe she checks all the boxes you require doesn't mean she views you the same for herself.

>>17391523
I'm not sure what the best way to do it is, but throttling your bandwidth evenly between the 3 of you might be a good solution.

He's probably embarassed over torrenting porn, op.

Just tell him to do it at some other time. Or one of you go use up the wifi at starbucks.

>>17391523
Quality of service

>>17391520
Seems like shit, anon. Family can be brutal sometimes and complicated. If you don't have a job already, try getting one. If you can, spend less time with the family. Take hobbies, make more friends, etc and generally get air more often. I've been in the situation where it was basically impossible to get away from family, but it helped when I made more room to breathe, moved away, etc. If they've been like this for their entire life, they're probably not going to change on their own. Have you tried suggesting family therapy? Parents can be assholes and a lot of them forget that their own kids have legitimate lives and feelings. Try reaching out to them if you havent already.
Good luck bud

TL;DR
Separate yourself sometimes for a little air
Suggest family therapy
Express yourself if you haven't already

Should I just tell them that if they want me gone then they can arrange me a nice suicide kit? or that's a bad idea cause they're going to send me to their looney bin.
They're the kind of jerks which only love you for being their kid, not for the qualities you have as a person. Some of them are genuinely mentally imbalanced and don't know what they want or how to get it.

They're geeks pretending to be intellectuals, but they can't read the simplest things in a person's mind. Quite frankly they're disabled at being psychologists, they can't help a person emotionally if they got paid 10 billion dollars. They don't know how to react, how to make you trust them, make you truly believe in them. They come off as a bunch of sociopathic hypocrites who don't know themselves what they want: mmhmm maybe I should forgive him, mmm maybe I should kick him out of the house and then call him back 1 month later.

Hey, OP. My father, grandmother and probably my great grandfather all have (had, in the case of my great grandfather) bipolar disorder.

My dad never said abusive stuff to me, but I dealt with his extreme shifts a lot and it hurt. I managed to cope by moving to another city, but not too far away. We've slowly patched things up from a distance.