How strange is it that I love this part-time job of mine? I found the job during my gap year and I work at this company once every year. The job is unrelated to my major and I doubt my work experience there is that beneficial to me due to its lack of relevance. When I tell other people how cool I find the job nobody else cares.
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Who cares? Do what you enjoy, life's a lot simpler without trying to justify everything.
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>>17394000
>When I tell other people how cool I find the job nobody else cares.
Well, neither do we.
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>>17394000
Be happy you're happy.
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This makes me want to cry. I live in Ontario. So if I live with a girl for a year, without have kids, without marrying. She can take half of my bank account?
This is so sad it's pathetic.
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>>17393984
Yes, don't date people who are poorer than you.
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Sorry pol triggered me. I think I found an answer:
Common-law rights upon break-up
Region: Ontario
Answer Number: 123
Unless you have signed a cohabitation agreement, common-law spouses generally have fewer legal rights than married spouses upon break up of a relationship. Under the Ontario Family Law Act, a man and a woman are living in a common-law relationship if they have been living together intimately for at least three years or if they have been living together for less time but they have had a child together.
Rights common-law spouses do not have
There are two important rights which married spouses have if they separate which common-law spouses do not have. First, common-law spouses do not each have an equal right to live in the family home. Second, common-law spouses do not have an automatic right to equalize their net family property acquired during their relationship. In most cases, both the home and other property go to the person who is the owner. Each person usually keeps everything they personally own and nothing more.
Where one or both of the common-law spouses has made a significant contribution to the property of the other, there may arise a right in respect of property based on principles of trust or unjust enrichment. Generally speaking, the longer the relationship between unmarried cohabitees or common-law partners the more likely there is a remedy. In some circumstances, it may be possible to be given the right to live in the family home or the right to divide property. This involves going to court and convincing a judge that you made a significant contribution to the home or to the property. It is best to consult a lawyer as this is a complex area of law.
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>>17393984
Wait, if I have a GF in Canada, I have to give 50% of my assets??
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what is your view on this situation?
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>be me
>think girl in one of my classes likes me. lets call her girl
>have a friend who is going out with a friend of girl
>friend of girl tells my friend who tells me that girl is in love with a different friend of mine
>i still believe girl likes me
>notice girl looking at me in class
>make eye contact for millionth of a second because girl looks away awkwardly
>shestartsblushing.jpeg
>later find out girl does not like other friend anymore
>contemplating speaking to girl and possibly asking her out
>hereswheretheplotthickens.png
>already really like a different girl lets call this one crush
>crush and i talk a bit
>also have reason to believe crush likes me
>dont like having feelings for crush because she speaks to heaps of guys and doesn't really have many female friends
>issheaslut.gif
>dont trust crush to maintain a proper relationship without ripping my heart out in the end
>girl seems to be a more wise choice but don't have real feelings for her
>crush could hurt me
> dont know what to do
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holy fuck OP just DO SOMETHING DOESNT MATTER IF ITS RIGHT
JUST FUCKING CAPITALIZE SIR
8 YEARS FROM NOW IT WONT EVEN MATTER SO JUST ASK ASK ASK
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>>17393995
Kek soz bout the caps nigger
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So because she talks to other guys in a friendly manner you know longer want feels for her?
That's sad and pathetic. That's my take on this situation.
Either man up and ask her out or move the fuck on. That's your choices so get to picking and stuck to it.
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Is it wrong to be impatient?
I am 25 and I am pissing off everyone around me because I get frustrated about their productivity. I JUST got a certification and now I CAN NOT stop until I actually earn a title. I have wasted several years of my life being lazy and accepting crap jobs and now, the people working with me are like 7 years younger and its painful.
All the websites I've checked are not definite and they all mention "being afraid of something" and that's why I'm a pushy dick. Well, I am afraid of being a big fat nobody before I die.
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Well shit OP, are you me?
The only remaining friends I really have moved away because they realized they couldn't stay in this state anymore and wanted bigger better things for themselves. I feel like I'm the only one left.
The only people I hang out with are the ones at my job which they have no drive so I'm stuck on some lonesome hustle.
I lay awake at night wondering if I've made the right choice or should I have moved away sooner. Or if I've wasted too much time. When do I too abandon ship?
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>>17393982
When you get sick of it.
I was delivering pizzas one day, stuck behind a stalled train. Some shit kids walking their bikes along the side of the road feigned throwing a rock at my car. I was so pissed, I finished my shift, went home, then signed up for online college.
It was scary, yeah, but I went with it. Because I have enough self-respect to DEMAND respect.
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>have tinnitus
>read up on pitch listening to reduce
>listen to 12 hz
>tinnitus lowered but right ear feels full
Did I end up damaging my hearing further? It feels full and when I hum with my mouth closed I can hear its bass within my ear and it feels really full. There is also a slight hearing imbalance.
Gp couldnt find anything but has assigned an appointment to audiologist. Any thoughts whats up?
I dried ear drops this morning and nothing.
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Anyone?
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A good idea is to not fuck with your ears ever.
Your audiologist is the only one that can determine what is going on.
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>>17393945
I know it sounds weird, but the fullness thing can be related to tight neck and jaw muscles. I have problems with those muscles and i have minor tinnitus and soreness/fullness in the ears.
Anyone here used 7cups? Why are so many of the listeners from India? Is this task outsourced to India?
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I tried but the wait times were crazy. I passed out from drinking before ever getting anyone.
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Used to be a listener.
It worked well about a year ago but it has definitely slipped.
India has very cheap outsourcing. The website may have paid for listeners for a short time in order to keep themselves afloat when all the volunteer Americans lost interest.
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Crisis Text Line is good.
Is it strange for a 17 year old to date a 21 year old? Obviously there's the main things like maturity differences and social stigmas but if both people feel it's right should they go for it? Or is it just too much of a weird thing and should they forget about it?
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>>17393931
Are you that girl from New Zealand who wants to fuck her coworker?
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>be 17
>have a 21 yrol partner
>we both love each other
>guess we have to separate cuz some stupid conservatives think its weird
lul feg
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>>17393934
Not sure who you're talking about and I'm not from New Zealand but more or less sounds like me
I've had an open marriage for 4 years. Both my wife and I have had multiple sexual partners outside of the marriage. The only sticking point has been an encounter she had with another couple when we were first married that she did not get prior approval from me for. But she has has always maintained that she never fucked the guy. The fact that she fucked the girl never bothered me but that suspicion of her fucking a male behind my back has always stuck with me. Last night I caught her in the lie, after her having denied it for years. She says she was drunk and she's never done anything like that since. I know that our marriage is unconventional but I feel like my trust in her is shattered. I have to wonder if this HAS happened since and she has kept it secret to avoid confronting me over it. Contemplating divorce.
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Trust is a delicate and important thing, especially in an open relationship. Talk to her about it calmly. Hear her out. You two love each other.
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Yeah I love her, she loves me. But not really sure if I have the energy to keep going without being able to trust her.
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You dug your own grave, degenerate. Enjoy bring buried alive, you disgusting pieces of shit.
Hey /adv/, recently I've been thinking frequently what I wanted to do as a career choice, something I would enjoy doing in the future or at least a kind of job that won't make me feel absolutely miserable everyday. Thing is, I have no idea what I want to do, like I don't see myself in a worthwhile job at all and it's freaking me out a little bit. I work at a Japanese restaurant as a sushi chef assistant, I thought I wanted to be a sushi chef master as my career choice but I've realized it wasn't for me. Recently I find myself dreading coming into work everyday and I want to quit really bad but I have no backup plan. Tell me /adv/, what should I do?
>tl;dr
>Don't know what career I want
>Thought I wanted to do sushi chef job but hate sushi chef job
>pls help
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Go Be a laser technician.
Shit I don't know anything about you what do you expect from us.
Quit your job if you're unhappy and can afford a couple months job less.
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What sorts of things do you like doing? Do you want to do tech shit? trades? Something more social?
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>lists one job
>it was my dream job, but now i hate it! :'(
>doesn't tell anything about skills, past trades or other jobs
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I went on an escort site and it says 1 hour - x$ and 1 finalization - x$. What it means?
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Don't get an escort
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anyone pls
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>>17393912
It means you either pay by the hour or by the orgasm. Plan one gives you 60 minutes of her time, whether you come not at all or twenty times. Plan two gets you one orgasm, whether it takes 5 minutes or 5 hours (though I suspect there is an upper limit).
Should my metalcore band wear masks?
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>>17393902
Yeah, then you can hide the fact that you're in a metalcore band
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Is dating in highschool necessary to be able to fit into the dating scene later on? Did I miss vital experiences that would make my next years easier?
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Yes.
The people who say sex or relationships in high school are not important are the people who've had sex and relationships in high school. They don't know what it's like to be a virgin above 20 and the insecurity and loneliness that comes with it.
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>>17393906
See but I also feel like everyone is up their own asses exclusively in hs. Or maybe exclusively in the one I just graduated from.
I cant help but think people are better than that in college bacause everyone is fucked over equally
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>>17393915
It's all about the experience. It's easier to get into relationships in college if you know how to attract others, how to have sex, know to be confident, etc. Your relationships, as in the people you've dated and fucked, don't matter. But having the experience of having a relationship and losing your virginity and not being a fat ance'd NEET that sits at home all day is important.
That being said there's plenty of inexperienced people in college you can fuck. Your options are just slightly smaller. After college is where it really starts to get hard.
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Anime girls and /r9k/ have ruined my expectations of women. I'm unironically finding myself ranting about 3D women very frequently.
I'm 20 this isn't okay, how do I fix this? Is it okay to have very high expectations of women?
How do I get a gf when I hate all the girls I meet when I step outside?
I had a gf before, for 3 years in fact and my entire life revolved around her but she broke my heart so I kind of turned into this shortly after that.
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maybe stop posting on shit boards like /r9k/, a board where majority of the people posting there has had less interaction with women than a literal toddler
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I don't see the problem here OP
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>>17393859
Y know, real women are actually 4D. 3D is more for blowup dolls imo
Anyway, try figuring out what you like about the 2d girls you like. Don't just say "looks". Be specific. Maybe youll also find girls with similar traits to be attractive.
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How do you get over the feeling of longing?
I'm a 21 year old guy that has never had a girlfriend and carries with himself about 8 rejections from girls. I'm autistic, if that counts for anything.
I just have a really strong longing for romantic companionship and it's taking up more and more and more of my day. I have a hard time going to bed even. The normal thoughts run through like "what's your excuse for never never GF" and "You weren't good enough for them" and it's starting to drive me mad. I've picked up hobbies thinking it'd help, but they don't.
My greatest fantasies are just me with a woman that loves me and i can't seem to evem get a yes on a date. They've all let me down nicely and with respect, so I can't really complain or be angry at them.
TL;dr
How to unfuck my mind and make myself stop caring about companionship.
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>>17393832
Dead Kennedys kick ass.
Asperger here. Romantic relationships are awful sometimes, and I've learned that the best thing about being in a relationship is sharing myself with another person and helping, not what my partner does for me (though that's rad too).
You must learn to love yourself, and enjoy your own company. I'm sure you're alright. Do you have hobbies?
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>>17393849
I garden. I go crabbing. I collect cigars.
I once got close to having a relationship but she had to move, and it was the best feeling i've had in the world and I remember it like it was yesterday. I was 17.
I don't really enjoy myself. I don't think much of myself, and honestly, I don't like myself. I'm trying to make myself into a better person and whatnot. I've never loved myself, even as a child. It's just an alien concept to me.
These thoughts are getting excessive however. I just want someone I can love and blow time away with.
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>>17393832
>8 rejections
>8
Only 8?
So i was at the supermarket and realised I had left my wallet at the house. But I still really needed to buy my shaving cream. So I just put it in my hand and headed for the door, but on my way out I heard a yell of "Hey!" "You stop now" and i freaked. I sprinted down the escalator then out the door into the car park, she was chasing me down the esca;ator but didnt follow me out. What will happen now? Im 18 but im still in school. I can be treated as an adult. I didnt have any school related stuff showing, but I did have my school bag and it was shortly after school ends, so what will they do? They have the cameras recording, will they send it to the police? Call around to the near by schools and ask them to identify me? Please help, im freaking out. I was thinking of maybe going back in the morning and asking to pay for them and apologise and hopefully they wont pursue it further.
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Do you legitimately have mental disorders
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>>17393807
Why do Black people think shit like this is acceptable?
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>>17393833
They lack fathers