>Been with girl 11 months now >Things going great >Until

>>17392312
Drop her.

If it's something your not comfortable with then obviously dump her. There will always be someone out there with the same goals/interests as you

>>17392312
What she will tell you:
>I love you and only you
>I only did it for the money, please trust me anon
>please stay with me I need you more than anything, you are my everything
>please forgive me I will never do anything like this again

What she did:
>prostituted herself while having a boyfriend
>had countless strangers fap to her shlicking, groping herself and moaning like a whore for them
>probably got off to it
>all of this behind your back

Judge her by her actions, not by her words. End it on the spot, there is absolutely no need to explain or justify yourself in a discussion

>>17392312

Don't expect anything serious from this relationship. However, evaluate what you have in front of you here.

>A hot woman who you can have sex with
>She's probably making great money
>Spends it on you

Tell her that she can do it, but you want a cut. At least she's not actually fucking other dudes (hopefully). If it makes you feel better, just go on omegle and find some girl to jerk off too. But overall, women LOVE attention and compliments. I mean, don't we all? But women have been like this since the start of humanity. Don't be so tough on her, it's just the internet. Use this for your own personal financial advantage, save what you can on the side. Eventually when better opportunities presents itself, dump her, find someone new.

>>17392367
>judge her by her actions, not by her words

This right here is a golden rule

>>17392312
this is why you shouldn't be living together after only being together 11 months. To answer your question, yes you should dump her but since you came here to ask (dump is the only real choice) you won't, Enjoy the thought of her flicking the bean (and no telling what else) for any and all comers. Hell, maybe your friends or family have helped her out.

>>17392395
who said we live together lel? she was in my bed when I came back from work and caught her.

>>17392386
yeah, I don't know. I don't really care that she is spending on me, because she was doing it out of guilt. this goes far beyond my acceptable limits of skank-ness. regardless of how hot she may or may not be.

>>17392367
this is what I'm thinking.

>>17392386
>At least she's not actually fucking other dudes (hopefully)
Come on anon, hopefully. She has her regulars and likely in contact outside the little screen.

>>17392412
>she was in my bed
why not in hers then? She is doing this in your bed, what a fucking hoot

Join in. Fuck her live on the stream. That way you are cucking the audience, in stead of the other way around. Balance is restored.

What's her username?

>>17392386
t. Anon's girlfriend

>>17392412
u need to chill
she didn't actually cuck u and as much as u might feel deceived or what ever just talk to her man cmon
u could even do a show together or something, and make $$$ in case u feel left out
but if she's doing it purposefully for money
why not lol
cmon nigger yolo
u could break up in the next month u never know
u niggas gotta stop being little bitches

>>17392312
did she finish her session, there were guys that are owed a refund if she cut it off mid flick

>>17392431
kek
>>17392386
This.

>>17392430
>she didn't actually cuck u
yes she did

>>17392442
how
shes doing it for money

>>17392444
By that same logic, it'd be fine if she fucked others for money too.

which it isn't

>>17392444
>I let myself get fucked by 20 men
>I let them cum inside me and on my face
>but it was for money so its not cheating!

Are you retarded?

Honestly I think it would be fine as long as she doesn't actually physically fuck anyone else. In fact, you could join in as a co-star and stream porn together like some couples do. It's a lot of money and potentially a new type of kink I guess.

Although if you feel cucked or she refuses to do some couple cam bullshit, then just drop her. It will be unhealthy otherwise.

>>17392449
Also forgot to add, if she has been doing this for a long time then she definitely wasn't going to tell you. I wouldn't trust her anymore and probably does similar shit about other things, like perhaps cheating. Your choice.

>>17392446
her flicking her pussy on webcam for money =/= having sexual intercourse with strangers for money
if it were, she'd be fucking guys right now for more money than she is making for showing herself
look senpai
i've seen shows, i mean we all have
those girls give 0 fucks about the creeps watching and garner no sympathy besides for their wallets
get a grip lol

The fact that she was being sneaky about it instead of bringing it up with you beforehand is a very bad sign OP

If she was hiding this from you, she's likely hiding more things from you.

Drop that shit like it's hot m8, don't listen to all these cucks.

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>>17392449
>a lot of money

>>17392447
by your logic
if im showing a girl my cock and me jerking off it's = to me fucking other girls?
no.

>>17392455
According to OP, enough for her not to have to search for work.

I don't browse those sites but I'd imagine camwhores and couple shows only do a few hours a day, so that sounds like pretty good shit

>>17392455
>>17392458
they make a decent amount

>>17392457
It was an analogy to discredit your "it's for money so it's ok" argument

If you were fapping on cam with other girls on the internet while having a girlfriend, do you seriously think she wouldn't feel cheated on?

>>17392455
I don't even look at camwhores often, but a few times I've seem them make thousands in seconds.

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Alright, this actually made me angrier the more I think about it.

I'm going to call and dump her in a few minutes.

>>17392412
>yeah, I don't know. I don't really care that she is spending on me, because she was doing it out of guilt. this goes far beyond my acceptable limits of skank-ness. regardless of how hot she may or may not be.

I can understand that. It is a form of cheating if you didn't know about it. Basically at this point it's deciding whether you want money out of her or just have her out of your life. 11 months is not a long time really. It's up to you.

>>17392466
Godspeed anon, you're doing the right thing

>>17392466

PLEASE VOCAROO THIS. If you're going to dump her unleash Malcolm Tucker level insults at her please.

>>17392460
I don't care. While I think she can do whatever she wants to make a buck I don't want a camwhore for a gf. I dated a girl that had stripped but quit while we were together and I had no problem until 2 years later she comes to me and said she wanted to dance again. We discussed and there was no logical or financial reason for doing it so I told her if she does I am out. She did and I broke up with her. Tears and crying and whining and promise she won't again but for me that was it. In one of her crying, begging fits she admitted she wanted the attention more than the money.

>>17392461
if i were doing it on some anonymous camwhore site, it wouldn't matter
you guys are taking it way too personally as if the girl is choosing which guys she wants to show herself to
she doesn't give a fuck and makes her money
god u guys are babies
also
im not saying OP should necessarily just accept this, im saying that taking this personally is dumb

>>17392478
>While I think she can do whatever she wants to make a buck I don't want a camwhore for a gf.
That is perfectly fine, you have your preference, but making her out to be satan for it, however, is not fine.

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>>17392478
>I don't want a camwhore for a gf

right on anon, fuck that hoe

>>17392492
camwhoring doesn't make a girl satan

camwhoring behind their boyfriends back DOES make them satan

>>17392497
he doesnt own her fuckin body rofl

>>17392492
She did it behind his back in his own fucking bed nonetheless

U cuck

>>17392503
Nobody said he does.

But he has the right to know if she is going to sell her body for other guys to jack off to.

It isn't about "ownership" its about trust. She clearly betrayed that trust.

>>17392312
I've read the whole thread, and I want to say that, even if I understand your anger and pain, I think what happened is not really that important. What she did doesn't change anything about her feelings for you. She hid it because she was afraid of your reaction and because she didn't want to hurt you. Why are you bothered by the fact she did it? You don't own her body. She's not your property. What's really important is not that she made porn, what's really important is that she spends her time with you, likes to be around you, likes to have sex with you, and is in love with you. She gives you all that matters. She sure had a secret, but it really has no importance whatsoever. She concretely did nothing that could harm you. You're hurt for only one reason: because you take it as a big deal. But why do you take it as a big deal? For no other reason than an automatism. Just keep calm, take some time to think and rest, and you'll see, you will understand that dumping her for that would be a mistake you would regret.

>>17392504
>>17392508
fair enough
still isn't THAT big of a deal imo

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>>17392511
>degenerate whore detected

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The level of apologist tumblr tier cucks in this thread is way too high.

>you don't own her body argument, aka I don't understand how trust in a relationship works, aka I'm a basic bitch irl
>it isn't that big of a deal anon, who cares if she sells out her body to other men to get off to? don't you want to share xDDD

And the one that takes the cake. >>17392509

>You're hurt for only one reason: because you take it as a big deal

That one just speaks for itself. It is easily one of the dumbest fucking things I've ever read on the internet. You could literally apply that to anything, and it wouldn't hold any weight.

People take things differently. Maybe you wouldn't be phased by a complete and utter breach of trust, but 99% of normal people are.

You're all pathetic.

>>17392511
>>17392509
>lies and betryal are not a big deal

>>17392526

I agree. Jesus Christ. I am the anon who posted >>17392386


But>>17392509 is quite possibly the biggest cuck I have seen.

Reading this thread makes me think there really are some blm tumblrs pushing cuck shit on 4chan nowadays.

>>17392509
Imagine your bf fapping on cam for horny housewives. Imagine your bf doing that shit behind your back for months. Imagine busting your bf doing that shit in your bed!

You'd be mad as hell, with good reason

OP did good in dumping this sad excuse for a woman

>>17392509
Holy shit, the level of mental gymnastics is this post is fucking astounding

>>17392503
You're right he doesn't. He did worse than thinking or acting like he owns her body. He was trusting her that she wouldn't overstep the boundaries of their relationship with that body of hers.

>>17392509
This is DEFINITELY a woman who cheats. If not, it is quite possibly the most brainwashed cuck I've ever seen.

>>17392527
No point in trying to reason with people like that, they have no morals or understanding of decency. They are still in that childish "I do what I want" phase without thinking about the consequences of how it affects others, and if it does affect them well FUCK them, basically trash.

>>17392537
>not wanting a gold medal

Wow, all that hate is impressive. I honnestly didn't expect that. I, at least, wasn't violent or insulting with anyone.

>>17392550
How many hours did you spend on Tumblr to learn how to bait like that?

>>17392554
Exactly 0.

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Alright, she is officially dumped. She cried up a fucking storm, and told me she'd stop, but I told her the damage was done already, and I couldn't trust her anymore.

Even more sobbing ensued, and random babbling through her crying. So I just ended the call.

>>17392550
>got called on for being a fucking idiot (which you are) on 4chan and then tries to take the moral high ground

You're definitely a fucking woman. Disgusting.

>>17392550

When was the last time you cheated on a boyfriend?

>>17392561
Why do you assume I'm a woman?

Also, I never cheated on anyone.

>>17392563

I never did. Maybe you're gay.

>>17392564
Okay, I'll rephrase. Why do you assume I'm either gay of a woman?

>>17392557
Good job, OP, finally an OP who isn't a faggot.

>>17392565

I honestly found your post to be very odd and almost like you are ok with lying and deception in a relationship You come off as a third wave feminist woman or castrated nu male.

>>17392569
I'm just a pragmatist. Lying is not always unforgivable.

>>17392569
I agree with you anon. That post allowed for her to be a street walker and as long as she said she loved OP it was none of his business what she fucked

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>>17392557

>>17392573
Nothing about your post is pragmatic though. You are just an deluded person...

>>17392602
I don't see the point in trying to defend my opinion when what I say will be answered by a dozen of "faggot" and "idiot" posts anyway. So I'll just stop here I guess. It's sad, though, that you all confuse having a different opinion with just being dumb or immoral. Noone even remotely tried to understand my point of view. I wonder how you can be so sure of yourselves and closed to dialogue.

>>17392615
People only close themselves off to dialog when they see something wildly fucking stupid, which your post was. And nothing you've said is even remotely pragmatic and I had a great laugh that you described yourself as much. You're like one of those angsty teenagers that refer to themselves as euphoric because of their "intellectual intelligence".

You're the biggest fucking faggot in the world. Stay in tumblr.

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>>17392557
You did the only reasonable thing that could've been done. Nothing good would've come from such a woman in the future

>>17392615
Your point of view is that she can do what she wants if she loves him; how is that not stupid?

>>17392631
Why do you keep insulting me? Have I not been respectful the whole time? When did you see any egocentrism or pride in my posts? How can you compare me to fedoras?

>>17392641
No, that certainly is not my point of view.

>>17392639
Did he died?

>>17392647
Then what is it?
All you wrote was utter crap, how can you nlt expect a negative reaction to that?

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>>17392642
People keep insulting you because you stand for something absolutely degenerative, which makes you a degenerate and that is the only attitude a degenerate deserves.
That is just my opinion thought.

>>17392631
this desu.

you really do seem like a cumblr brainwashed faggot.

>I'm a pragmatist

fucking KEK

>>17392642
>wahh why are you insulting me

>>17392482
My point is that she can do whatever the fuck she wants, but the fact that she was doing it behind his back was not okay.

He doesn't have to accept her showing herself to a bunch of strangers on the internet. The least she could've done is talk to him about it beforehand, and the fact that she didn't shows a lack of respect for him and their relationship, to say the least.

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Am I the only one who fantasizes dating camwhores?

>>17392670
Why would you?
There is not a single positive trait being a camwhore gives her.

>>17392660
I don't really care if you insult me, I'm just trying to respond in a way that could maybe trigger a real discussion. I know, I know, it's probably not gonna happen.

>>17392658
Well, I know that on this thread I'm more or less alone against everybody, but you're the ones thinking that what I wrote was utter crap. Just saying "what you wrote is utter crap" is not, I think, a very rationnal answer. You could have just argumented calmly and politely instead of throwing insults without ever aiming for logic. That's what I expected, and it doesn't mean that I expected you to agree with me.

Now, I never said that she can do what she wants if she loves him, I just said that, even if she did some mistakes, they weren't as worldshaking for their relationship as most of you make it appear

>>17392312
Dare I ask how you caught her?

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>>17392670
No, Anon, there are namy other filthy cucks out there.

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>>17392677
Gotta give you respect for the dedication.

>>17392557
My nigga

You did good m8

>>17392677
Because people who write like you did don't think rationaly and there is no point in arguing with them, it's a waste of time.

She hid a very important aspect of her life from her partner.
Camwhores also have problems being faithful and truthful; she exposes her intimacy for money for fucks sake.

>>17392615
Let's argue then

>What's really important is not that she made porn, what's really important is that she spends her time with you, likes to be around you, likes to have sex with you, and is in love with you.

I wrote in a post above that you should judge a person by their actions. I assumed OP and his gf wanted a monogamous relationship, that they didn't want to share their partners body with other people. If in such a relationship one partner prostitutes themselves it IS important.

>She gives you all that matters. She sure had a secret, but it really has no importance whatsoever.

With her actions she shat on their relationship. "Look how dirty I am honey, yes, stroke your cock while watching me mastrubate and orgasm in my boyfriends bed. He doesn't suspect anything ;)"

>She concretely did nothing that could harm you. You're hurt for only one reason: because you take it as a big deal

People take such things as a big deal. They fall into depression and will have some brutal trust issues in relationships to come. If I had to guess I'd say OP's ex would've gone mental if he their roles had been reversed

Getting busted by her boyfriend in live stream is gold, people will pay good money for a legitimate 'caught out' video.

>>17392701
>She hid a very important aspect of her life from her partner.
1. "How important exactly" is a question I'd be willing to discuss. Hiding something is not always THAT wrong.
2. "Why did she hid it" too. For some part, her reasons might be good, or at least understandable.

>Camwhores also have problems being faithful and truthful
Maybe, and that's a flaw, but who isn't flawed? The simple fact that it's not necessarily easy for her to be faithful and truthful doesn't immediately mean that she should be dumped.

>>17392702
Thank you. I'll answer you in my next post.

>>17392702
I actually somewhat agree with the poster you quoted.
>With her actions she shat on their relationship. "Look how dirty I am honey, yes, stroke your cock while watching me mastrubate and orgasm in my boyfriends bed. He doesn't suspect anything ;)"
this would imply a sense of personal affliction with the people jerking off to her
it would imply that these are not anonymous creeps jerking off to her and emptying their wallets
it would imply that she is doing this for the sole purpose of her pleasure that OP can not give her
Again, it's about the money, not her sexual affection and or gratitude
>They fall into depression and will have some brutal trust issues in relationships to come
These people are emotionally immature and have too many expectations
Again, I'm not justifying her actions, I'm just saying she's not necessarily a bad person
We're talking about this girl being a cam whore
Not filming an orgy scene in a porno movie behind the guy's back

>>17392702
>I wrote in a post above that you should judge a person by their actions. I assumed OP and his gf wanted a monogamous relationship, that they didn't want to share their partners body with other people. If in such a relationship one partner prostitutes themselves it IS important.
It has some importance. The real problem here is measuring this importance. What I said is that some things are more important than that.
Also, maybe rethinking monogamy is not impossible. Just a suggestion.

>With her actions she shat on their relationship. "Look how dirty I am honey, yes, stroke your cock while watching me mastrubate and orgasm in my boyfriends bed. He doesn't suspect anything ;)"
You're assuming she did it without any remorse. It would really surprise me. I tend to believe she was internally conflicted.
Also, I'll have to ask you what do you mean exactly by "she shat on their relationship".
Do you mean that she didn't care about it? I'm pretty sure that's not true. Sure, she did something that was putting their relationship in danger, but that doesn't mean she didn't care, especially since people are not rational all the time; and her reactions, when described by OP, tended to show she did care. Finally, when in doubt, the best choice is not to break up right now, but to try to understand what happened in order to make a better decision later. But it seems safe to just assume that she cared about their relationship; I don't really see why she would lie about it, especially since she apparently was the one paying for gifts.

>People take such things as a big deal. They fall into depression and will have some brutal trust issues in relationships to come. If I had to guess I'd say OP's ex would've gone mental if he their roles had been reversed
Well, I don't know, and neither do you. I only know that I wouldn't have. But my point was that, even if she broke a rule, that rule being broken actually didn't harm anyone, and *that's* were I think I'm being pragmatic.

>>17392729
Hiding sexual activities involving strangers from your partner is wrong.
Her reasons only matter if they had discussed it before, that's when you draw the line of what is acceptable of anything is. After the betrayal is done reasons don't matter.

Everybody has a flaw, doesn't mean i will spend my time with whores and drug addicts; i'll spend time with people whose flaws don't have a great impact on their lives.

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>>17392742
>Also, maybe rethinking monogamy is not impossible. Just a suggestion.

>>17392746
>Hiding sexual activities involving strangers from your partner is wrong.
Yes, it is wrong. But how wrong is it? Is it beyond any kind of forgiveness? I don't think so.

>Her reasons only matter if they had discussed it before, that's when you draw the line of what is acceptable of anything is. After the betrayal is done reasons don't matter.
I disagree. Afterall, in a court of law, attenuating circumstances do exist. This term means something. It means that reasons matter, even if there indeed is a real rulebreaking.

>Everybody has a flaw, doesn't mean i will spend my time with whores and drug addicts; i'll spend time with people whose flaws don't have a great impact on their lives.
That seems a bit naive.

>>17392767
>i don't think so
Who cares? Why are you so hung up on your opinion? Adding that to you getting easily offended just makes you a huge faggot.
It is beyond forgiveness because cheaters will always cheat, people who are not loyal simply are not loyal.

This is not about a law it's about loyalty, honesty and trust; which she broke all of those things.

Go ahead and live in a crack den, they will be very happy with your awereness and will love how much a forgivable person you are.

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>>17392557
>cried a fucking storm
>sobbing
>random babbling through her crying
nice. youre a rare breed of OP who's not a faggot.

>>17392767
>Is it beyond any kind of forgiveness? I don't think so.
KEK
U
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>>17392781
>Why are you so hung up on your opinion?
We are currently exchanging opinions, right? I'm just expressing myself, just like you.

>Adding that to you getting easily offended just makes you a huge faggot.
Well, I never was offended, I just asked for a real discussion and, in order to obtain that, I tried to show how difficult it was to discuss with you when you insult me instead of staying polite and argue through logic alone. In fact, since you're the one loosing your calm and insulting me constantly, I guess I can safely assume you're the one being easily offended here?

>It is beyond forgiveness because cheaters will always cheat, people who are not loyal simply are not loyal.
That's not true. Also, you're assuming that people are essentially loyal or not-loyal. That's a very simplistic conception of the world. Are you a follower of Plato?

>This is not about a law it's about loyalty, honesty and trust; which she broke all of those things.
If a court of law, which solves fundamentally more serious matters than OP's love problems, uses the concept of attenuating circumstances, then OP would be wise to use it as well. She broke a rule, but she had some reasons to do it; her reasons probably were'nt good enough to say that she did nothing wrong, I completely agree with that, but still, they possibly made her mistakes forgivable.

>>17392731
>Again, it's about the money, not her sexual affection and or gratitude

I'm pretty sure it's a mix of all three. If it was solely about the money she probably could've found work easily. But OP said she laid off work and didn't search for a job. Sounds to me like she dedicated herself to camwhoring for more than just the money. Yes, I'm saying she did it for the sexual affection, gratitude, affection. She was basically whoring herself out behind OP's back.

>These people are emotionally immature and have too many expectations

When I'm in relationship I have boundaries, my girlfriend has her boundaries too. We talk about them, find out about them some way, or assume them. She becomes the most intimate and close person in my life, something I hold dear and cherish. This also makes me extremely vulnerable. But I trust her.
Now when this person betrays my trust and steps over boundaries in such a ruthless way, I can't just say "well her body doesn't belong to me she can do with it whatever she wants"

>>17392804
I'm not randomly insulting you, i'm trying to make you realize your bullshit, because the way you think will only hurt you in the future.

I'm not offended, in fact i'm only talking to you right now because i'm training my ability to discuss; i never had much experience in it.

The first step is always the harder, once you start it only gets easier.

Like i said, this isn't law, it's something personal which is the last thing the law wants. The law doesn't live with people or interact with them daily; it only states rights, duties, benefits and punishments. A relationship is completely different.

>>17392312
>Started to cry for no reason

It's a mechanism to make males feel bad for the female. Evolution of female manipulation.

>>17392832
>I'm not randomly insulting you, i'm trying to make you realize your bullshit, because the way you think will only hurt you in the future.
Okay, that's nice, but you should understand that your words will have a lot more impact if they look rational and friendly. Noone listens to insults from random strangers, you know? Insulting me, whether it is random or not, will only make you loose credibility.

>Like i said, this isn't law, it's something personal which is the last thing the law wants. The law doesn't live with people or interact with them daily; it only states rights, duties, benefits and punishments. A relationship is completely different.
I didn't say it's law. I said that, when you're judging someone, it is wiser to do it by taking into account what circumstances led to their actions. Let's take an extreme example, as a thought experiment, to demonstrate my point: what if she did it because someone blackmailed her by menacing killing someone? The right choice would obviously be to do what she did, since killing someone is causing a lot more harm than breaking a rule in a couple and showing your naked body to some people on the internet. So, if she did what she did for that reason, and if OP had convincing evidence of that, wouldn't he start understanding her and wouldn't he be more comfortable with forgiving her?
Okay, I KNOW, I KNOW, that's certainly not what happened. But that doesn't change my point. If you admit that this example would led to that conclusion, then you admit that reasons matter. Sure, some reasons have more impact than others, some reasons are better justifications than others, but you should always take reasons in account before judging someone.

>>17392856
Logic doesn't have much impact, persuasion does.
I'm trying to be better at insulting too.

Even then she should've talked to him but for different reasons.
You don't need to judge someone who betrayed you. You get away from them as fast as you can, betrayal is not something light.

>>17392884
>Even then she should've talked to him but for different reasons.
I agree. She did something wrong by hiding all this. That doesn't mean she cannot be forgiven.

>You don't need to judge someone who betrayed you. You get away from them as fast as you can, betrayal is not something light.
But she was remorseful. Not only she was very visibly willing to redeem herself, apparently by any way possible (begging for forgiveness, doing concrete gestures to lighten the balance, etc), but it also appears very logical in her situation, in such a way that there is really no reason to think she wasn't being honest at that point. In this situation, I really see no reason to simply walk away without listening.

Sanity is a spectrum and she's a bit lower than average on the scale. What do you want advice with? The bad feelings you're having? Those are pretty natural. Enjoy your high maintenance girl, or just ditch her.

>>17392915
He already ditched her, you're late.

>>17392807
'Hm should i bust my ass working or should i show my pussy to some perverts and make stacks'
'oh i know'
'im going to work! :-)'
Yeah. No.
>>17392807
the expectations u lay out are what end up hurting u in the end senpai

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>>17392312
OP. she is not long term material. HOWEVER, she is a slut and there is nothing wrong with staying with a slut for fun. Treat her like garbage, cheat on her, see other girls, flirt with other girls, have wild sex with this bitch. Hell get in on the chaturbate money. You won't achieve your Disney Channel dream of wife and kids with this bitch, but if you are in your 20's you don't want to settle down anyway.

See this as a golden opportunity, you now have a free pass to do whatever the hell you feel like (see escorts if you want, go to strip clubs, be a fucking prick/sexual deviant). Don't tell her. Lie to her. It will be good practice and help you get out of your nice guy phase.

TL:DR use this as an experiment to not be a pussy little bitch who gets cucked. Leave this with the upper hand.

What is your other option? Dump her and know she is out being a whore? Steal the best years of her life, tie that bitch down and cheat on her. Drop her when she is of no or little use to you. It's a great feeling. What a fucking bitch.

>>17392897
Good luck forgiving cheaters, i'm sure it will turn out great for you.

How can you know if she was remorseful? It could be just another lie or she regreted being caught.
She said she wanted to redeem herself, doesn't make it true.
Why not? She lost her bf, she has many reasons to lie to get him back.

You called me naive earlier but you are the most naive person i have ever seen.

>>17392950
>How can you know if she was remorseful? It could be just another lie or she regreted being caught.
Why do I know? Because I thought about what made her cheat in the first place. If you tried to understand what happened in her mind, you'd see that she probably couldn't have done that without being remorseful even before getting caught. It is almost certain that she was internally conflicted with this.

>She said she wanted to redeem herself, doesn't make it true.
I never said it does. I gave many other arguments.

>Why not? She lost her bf, she has many reasons to lie to get him back.
Like what? Money? She was the richer one. Love? If she loves him, then she really is remorseful and really wants to redeem herself. Sex? She probably would have no problem find sex outside of her relationship, since she was able to make money by selling her image. And any other reason than these three would be very unlikely.

Anyway, I'm living in Europe and here it's getting close to 3AM, so I'm leaving! Thank you for the dialogue!

>>17392312
you have 2 option, the way i see it
1. dump her because she is trash
2. make her do couples shows with you and you only, get paid, look for suitable gf material on the side

>>17392969
Those are all your assumptions.

OP never said anything about who makes more money.
She liked to spend time with him, doesn't mean she didn't enjoy cheating too; she wanted both. No concesion was made from her part because, surprise, cheaters are selfish.

>>17392926
So following your logic every woman should camwhore in lieu of finding a job?

>>17392452
4 real? You a girl?

Like imagine your GIRL. YOUR supposed to be Baby mama, doing that shit. Like fine is she tells you upfront. But cmon man, whats next? I felt uncomfortable asking you for money/help, so i just sucked chad's dick for 1mill, i did it for us baby, i swear.

Gtfo, i would end it on the spot.

>>17392395

Yeah, that's not really a golden rule for everyone. I knew my guy for one month before I moved in with him, and we've now been married for nearly 8 years.

That said, I realize we're an unusual case, and most people should probably know each other for at least a while before jumping into each other's house like that.

>>17392312
Dump her, she's a whore, simple as that.

>>17392742
did you miss the part she was doing her little gig in OP's bed? Now if she was a dumb dog that loved it's master but couldn't help pissing on the rug I'd give her a pass but she showed complete disrespect by willfully using his bed to camwhore for other men. Kinda crosses a line don't ya think?

>>17392897
she would have continued masturbating on camera in OP's bed had he not caught her. Cannot have remorse but can feel sorry for being caught.

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Just browsed through her real quick, and wanted to say holy fuck.

That fucker in this thread is easily one of the most delusional, backwards ass cucks I've EVER seen. It even writes like a self entitled chimp. I have never seen a cuck of this level try so hard to rationalize it's degeneracy, and then complain about being insulted on 4chan of all places.