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Hey there guys, i have seen ppl here to search scorts on the internet on other countries, but in mexico,on the north, Durango state, i cannot find scorts trough there, any advise?
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>>17392833
Self-bump
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Not only are you going to Mexico, you want to access the scandalous part of it? Sure hope you aren't white.

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How can any guy stop giving up on girls ?

It sucks that most of today's girls are egocentric and entitled.

Don't get me wrong, I like girls/women (I'm not a misogynist)

The problem is that I just don't see the point of all the effort and resources we need just to keep her/them around.
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>>17392748
>I'm not a misogynist
saying that doesn't make you less misogynist in the eyes of women when you say "most girls are x"
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you are thoroughly a misogynist
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Sleep with guys maybe ?

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Need help finding a job with a mental disability and a 2-year resume gap. I have my Bachelor's in English and Master's in Information Science. What computer skills can I teach myself to be more marketable to employers, or break into a lucrative profession? Are there any easy start-up fields to break into with no start-up cash? I have some marketing & communications experience, some admin assistant exp., and I have worked in several libraries and archives. I am socially-awkward, so I'm looking for something with minimal interaction with the public
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Calling a work agency and just taking a full time general labor job is the easiest thing I can suggest if you don't have any post secondary education. I know some companies have policies to go out of their way to higher people with disabilities, may you could look into that if physical labor isn't for you.
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>>17392738
General labor doesn't pay much more than I'm getting on disability, and I've done enough of that type of work when I was in high school, that I'd rather take something that makes use of the skills I got in post-secondary. Maybe if nothing else comes through, I'll look into it though.

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I didn't want my girl to go hang out with her friends so I told her that she isn't allowed to go. She ignored that and so I mixed regular milk in with her glass of almond milk (she is allergic to milk, it causes bad stomach pain and constant trips to the bathroom when consumed.) she is in a lot of pain now. What do I do?
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You keep your mouth shut and help her deal with it.
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Reconsider your choices in life and tell her that you gave her real milk instead of almond milk

I really hope that this is b8
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Tell her you're a possessive asshole and leave her so she can be with someone who won't knowingly cause her harm to prevent her from doing something.

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This girl broke up with me more than a year ago, and all the gash in the city isn't making me miss her any less. The worst part is probably that every time I go on ig I see something I wish I hadn't. Today I saw her post a screencap of her facetiming this guy. She was holding a pink toy gun I got her one day, one good day, and he was holding a real one. I recognize the guy I think, from this other pic of him sleeping in the grass wearing this nice ass watch. He's definitely an upgrade. I guess I'm happy about that. Idk. I got laid proper last night, by a cute girl, and I still just want to kill myself. Everywhere I go there's more hurt. I try not to think about her, I really try, but sometimes there's just a flash in my head of her moaning for somebody better. It won't go away. It won't shut up. I wanna buy a shotgun and push it out of my head. It would be nice not to have to go out into the world anymore. Looking at people. Looking at myself. I'm not special anymore. I never was. Someone please help me get out of this hell, or at least close my eyes to it.
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Holy shit you need to get someone to help you man

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Got cheated on.

>girlfriend in shower
>look over at her phone as she receives a message
>guy happens to be explaining mutual attraction
>she gets out of the shower
>I ask to talk about this
>everything gets blown up
>she says I can read her phone
>call her bluff and do it
>they're calling each other pet names
>planning a meet up

I don't have much to say. We were together around two years. I walked out at 6 AM and didn't even look back and she was saying sorry from the balcony.

I don't have anyone to talk to and just kind of needed to get that out. If anyone has stories, I guess they can share too.
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>>17392689
Hey bro, sorry to hear about your situation, i would say try to dwell on other things but i know it's not that easy and it takes time.

There are two routes you can take from my perspective. Route A) Dump her and move on (Sounds easy right? Its not, well specifically the moving on part especially after 2 years of being together) Route B) Talk to her, found out the extent to which this is really going outside of text and either choose route A or try to make amends, maybe there's a reason for her stupid behaviour. Not to say it's your fault, i just don't know the whole context from a few lines of greentext.

The one thing i wished i could have known after breaking up with my gf of three years after i found out she was kissing some other guy behind my back is why? but all i got was the vague "i dont know it was a mistake" bullshit. So i left her and 6 months down the road i'm here, still trying to get back on my feet a little, maybe that'll change if i get to uni we'll see.

I've always been the first to jump the gun and burn bridges, but it's not always the best route and can make you isolated from other things that are going on at the time, i don't know man the whole situation has still fucked me up to this day.
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>>17392689
You did good anon.
Were you living together? Do you have a place to stay 'til you get on your feet again? Any family or good friends nearby?

I suggest you hang out with your friends and family the next coming months. Don't disregard all women just because of this rotten egg, but don't be in a rush to find a new gf either. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Also, sink some time into a rewarding hobby - like working out, self defense, playing an instrument, music production or drawing. Don't rot in front of the computer for too long. TV and video games are good entertainment but they can't be the sole focus of your life.

t. anon who dumped his gf two-ish months ago and feels pretty great
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>>17392743
Final advice: delete and block her from all sorts of social media. She will possibly try and guilt trip you into taking her back.

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When I kill myself what do I leave behind? What do I do about my family?

(If you don't care about me at all just skip the next paragraph, I need to spill retarded thoughts right now)
I absolutely hate myself and even worse my entire being. I wish I hadn't been born at all. I've felt like this for years, everything in this world is just gray and dark to me.
I have stopped participating in any hobbies I used to have. I don't draw or take photos anymore, because who cares? They're terrible. Everything I get my hands on ends in misery. I used to express all my feelings and thoughts in any kind of art. That allowed me to stay who I am, and kept me alive.
My passion for music is gone. I feel nothing when listening to music, no emotions what so ever. Everything I eat tastes like cardboard. I get drunk daily to numb my pain. I tried anything to fight it but it was never enough.
My friends are terrible, I feel like they feel absolutely disgusted by me. I have no intentions to live if I have no future plans and have no reason to go on anyways. The world is trash. All I do is staring at my wall all day and only stand up to drink something
I just can't go on for one entire life.
Impossible

None of that matters, I just wrote that if anybody questions me. When I off myself I have no idea what to do about my family. I don't know what I'd do if somebody I know commited suicide. I need your help. What would you want from a person who killed themselves? A letter, a general explanation, some recording? I have no idea what to do about my Mother and my sister, I love them, but I can't keep up. I'm so sorry. I feel absolutely terrible, but there's nothing I can do anymore
What do I do?
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Have you tried going to the doctor for your depression?
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>>17392662
Exactly what I was thinking
OP should definetly do that (If they obviously havent done that)
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>>17392662
This. We are not qualified to diagnose, but your case looks so much like a duck, walks so much like a duck, and quacks so muck like a duck that I'm going to go out on a limb and say that, in my completely unprofessional and ubqualified opinion, it's probably a duck.

You're not well, OP. What's been keeping you alive is the simple fact that you don't want to die. I know the voice claiming otherwise all too well, but you have to realize that this is your disease talking. It isn't you.

>What would you want from a person who killed themselves?
I would want them to not be dead. I would want to have been asked for help when there was still time to give it. I would even want this of people I hated: from people I loved, I would want it even more.

>I feel absolutely terrible, but there's nothing I can do anymore
You are mistaken. This is no surprise: I know what the voice whispers in your metaphorical ear, and I know how seductive it can be. But it lies.

>What do I do?
You go to someone you love and trust, you yell them what you are thinking of doing, and you ask for help. That is what you do. There are no other answers.

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How do I stop my ex from killing herself?

I'm assuming it isn't just for attention. I've mentioned getting her to see a shrink and going on medication but she's in another country and I have no way of enforcing it.
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>>17392636
tell her you're gonna kill yourself if she does it
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Why does she want to kill herself? Is it because of recent events, or is she depressed?
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>>17392690
Because I broke up with her and I was her only friend. Also her first boyfriend and we're both 24 (yes really).

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Ok guys.
I'll be on a plane soon. I am absolutely terrified of planes. The simple tought of being inside a plane fills me with panic and terror and each second i spend in there is absolute hell, specially if i am flying over oceans\seas.

Are there any ways to cope with plane phobia?
I'm tired of being terrorized by it. I can't travel around like i always wanted because of this fear (since planes are the cheapest form of transportation this days, at least, inside europe)
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Get a window seat, focus on the beauty of being in the sky and try to get some rest
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>>17392687
>Get a window seat, focus on the beauty of being in the sky and try to get some rest

If only it was that simple
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Grow a pair

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>be 19
>Conscription in my country, didn't go.
>sit at home like a faggot for 2 years, losing friends and falling deeper into depression.
>finally start university

basically, I started feeling bad at home, I live with my mom and brother, and they constantly fight like a married couple, and it feels just like my old home where mom and dad used to fight.
Now I don't feel like staying at home anymore, I feel locked in my room, totally uncomfortable with sitting out of my room. I try to go down just when I want to eat.

I never feel open here. Like if I had a girlfriend, I would prefer to go to her house instead of mine every time.

Even from my brother I feel alienated, he's just a shit bag that smokes all day and doesn't do jack shit with his life. always spending money on crap, and that's why he keeps fighting with the parents.

Lately I've thought about moving, I can't really study at home with all this drama, but everyone doesn't like the idea. They think I'm too young or I couldn't manage living on my own.

I would like to hear your opinion on that.
It's true that I barely know how to do chores around the house, but I believe it's worth it so I can live alone and feel like an adult finally.
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>>17392612
You're 19. You're not too young.
Get out.
Reckon your mum and brother gonna fuck while you're out?
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btw It's pretty expansive to rent apartments here, not sure it's worth it.

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Please just tell me how to suicide.
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Pls dont :/
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>>17392608
ignore this faggot, OP
do what you want
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>>17392609
Im sorry
Go ahead OP, kys
Is this better?

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Long story short - would appreciate the advice.

I'm 26, just landed my dream job, and everything going great otherwise. However, just broke up with my GF of 4 years whom I knew since college. She was incredibly hot, but obviously bad for me, and it would have never worked out. My family hates her guts and she cheated on me early on. We also live 100 miles apart. It's been four days and I'm very sad.

Things had been going south for a while. She became distant, and stated she was unhappy about things (Ie I don't show enough affection, etc - things that are workable) and some mutual friend had weaseled his way in and started hanging out with her. I confronted her, and she BS'd back - "hes' just a friend" "hes the only one who listens!" and "not everyone just wants to fuck me!" - while I was certain she'd jump on his dick right after we broke up or already had. She called me to break up the next day. An hour after our breakup call, I was a mess, but the dude snapped and they were hanging out having a blast. She had changed clothes in a later snap and they were out, so they obviously fucked. Seeing them hanging out hurts a lot. She must be a genuine sociopath not to feel guilt at some point about this.

I was livid, but have been getting over it by not talking to her for the days since. She had mentioned that she wanted to stay friend with benefits. This is my first big break up. How do I handle this? Should I stay FWB with her? Be friendly? Or ignore her and live my life, 100 miles away, and move on? Any opinions? Thanks for the honest advice.
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>>17392597
>Should I stay FWB with her?
Absolutely not. She can't have her cake and eat it too

>Be friendly?
Stay polite/civilized, but don't be her friend

>Or ignore her and live my life?
Yes

Cut off all contact, bro. It's the only way to move on.
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>>17392610

The sex is drawing me to it. She was right in that we're better as friends who fuck occasionally. The other dude thing hurts so much. I tried to put myself in her shoes - I'm totally cool with her doing whatever the fuck she wants. But you don't chill with another dude an hour after breaking it off unless something had been going down and thinking about that hurts so much.
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>>17392610
This. You have all the answers you need
/thread

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Hey guys. I'm an american and I'm really ashamed of that. I wish I was Irish or British. They have such vibrant and interesting history but we don't. We are all walking stereotypes and over half the memes are true. How do I overcome this?
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Fuck off and die for starters.
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>>17392588
Why?
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>>17392577
You could actually read a history book.
There's many aspects of US history that you dont learn in school.

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i have to do a project for my uni with a girl which has been radomly assigned to work with me. i googled her - fucking hot. no way i could seduce her. what to do? she propesed that we met. (pic not her, but as hot)
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>>17392571
meet her and do your project together, without being creepy and trying to seduce her.
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>>17392571
Think of her as your coworker and just try to be as professional as possible. If doing that creates a very boring atmosphere you can try being more casual and layed back.
Don't even think about seducing her.
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Get a little drunk and nail the shit out of her (with your dick and not literal nails)

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/adv/, here is my situation
>Meet q tip π in foreign country
>both live in US
>tfw she lives 2000 miles from me
Is long distance possible and should it be done? She isn't toxic and we have been together for most of the duration of our stay, but we both leave this weekend. Wat do?
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Forgot to mention we are both students, so can't move quite yet.
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>that pic

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