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Meditation

>>>/his/

Serious

theoretically you can worship anything, even a rock. The problem is that you can't really chose what you worship. You can't decide that "from now on I'm going to believe this being is absolute and worthy of my worship" you're pretty much grown into it. You could instead find a set of beliefs and live in accordance with them. You could also try Buddhism, it's not exactly a classical religion.

>Faith is something I think people can't live without
could you elaborate on this?

>>17424704
>because he's cheated multiple times
>And i feel like i love him

lol

>>17424704
>the feeling that i'd be doing something wrong even though i wouldn't
Such as?

>>17424704
Your question is stupid and you should feel stupid for asking it.

>>17424702
Fucking keeeek XD
Tell him that you weren't conscious and all was a big mistake

>mfw I'm straight
No you're not.

>>17424702
Tell the truth. It was a one time thing, and you're not really interested in boys.

Also what did he text you?

Is... is Bill okay? He's been looking and acting like that a lot this year.

Have you tried /cm/?

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>>17424677

He's alright. Thrilled to be on the campaign trail, actually.

So don't worry about him.

>>17424587
>I sublimated with something equal
Yes, you fucked up.

>>17424587

I'm on a tolerance break right now from daily and only smoke in weekends

Luckily ai haven't slipped into the sixpack a day pattern that I did last time.

Just keep your spirits up and make sure to amuse yourself with good games that will take your mind off sobriety

>>17424587
Could be worse. I did it the other way around.

Its probably too far of a stretch, but I think it means she likes your shirt.

>>17424599
Dubs confirms it. She probably just liked your shirt. But I will indulge this just a bit further...

Did you notice her facial expressions / body language as she said it? Chances are she just liked the shirt.

chick fila workers are expected to be much kinder then most places. Boss probably told her to give complements to customers when possible. Sorry to burst your bubble mate

If you work in a gogo bar you WILL be fucking. Either convince her out of it or leave her.

To be perfectly desu I wouldn't even worry about my partner having sex in a semi-prostitution-like setting. It's all about the money. No one's gonna mindbreak her and steal her from you, but she'll bring home easy-earned mountains of cash.

>>17424579
You either trust her or you dont. You dont have to work in a gogo bar to cheat.

Girls

I have been seriously thinking of trying to seek a local girl after many years. This is kind of a height issue but it's less about "Would you date one" and more, what type of posture and body language would you think would be best suited for a small guy? 5'3 to be exact. I know that attempting to make postures similar to a 6'0 person can come across poorly, so during my interactions what should I try to be doing?

girls, how do you feel about pretty girls on comercials?

some friends talked about setting up impossible standards and all that jazz but to me they are just token pretty faces

>>17424577
I don't really care.
The biggest reaction they get out of me is "shit, this girl is really cute".

>no good raisin

>>17424533
>I know I have a problem but I'm not willing to change my behavior.

There's nothing wrong with breaking up with someone who you see as a person you don't want to be with. There is a huge problem if you want intimacy but preemptively break up with people because you think having intimacy will make breaking up more painful later. It's not like you can't just say "This is self-defeating and I'm tired of repeating this behavior over and over. So I'm going to stop it."

As far as where to start with therapy, how about finding a therapist, making an appointment, and then keeping that appointment? Does something about that seem unreasonable?

>>17424592
Yes I never break up because I want to stop seeing the person. I panic and end things early. It's never the former, it's the latter.

As for the therapist, I was asking because there are psychologists and there are psychiatrists. What's the difference? I want someone who's seen someone like me before so he knows how to advise.

I've been to a therapist before but I don't think he was right for me. I'm just looking for advice on how to choose who's right for me

>>17424520

>He didn't allow you or your brother to visit

Why? Was he ashamed of what he did and afraid he'd make a bad influence on you guys, was he in a state and didn't want to be seen that way, or was he just a jerk?

>>17424778
He didn't want us to see him and look up to someone in prison. He is a nice guy.

>>17424778
We did speak and write lot on the phone.

cant. The only way to make someone admit their lies is to basically call them out. Ask question after question related to the lie, find inconsistencies and throw them in their faces. They'll get really nervous and admit sooner or later.

I guess you can try to trick someone into exposing themselves if you ask a subtle question that denies the lie, but that won't work most of the time, at least if they're not incredibly careless.

>>17424508
My girlfriend sneaks out for suspicious amounts of time, and one of her closest friends flirts with her.

I might be being too paranoid, but I just want to make sure without outright making any paranoid accusations.

>>17424494
>admit to lying

What is the value of this

if you have the option to get a 20hr internship chose that one over the 40hr one. If your uni doesn't require you to go through an internship and you're only doing it for CV you may want to not do one at all until you get your degree and just focus on uni.

I live in eastern europe so both internship programs and university demands are different, but i can tell you that working 40hrs/week and having a full semester at college is hell and you should avoid it if you have a choice.

>>17424527

I am not required to take an internship. I am looking for one so I can have some experience to put on my resume before I graduate.

Since so far the only internship that has contacted me is the universal one I linked I am unsure if I'll have the opportunity to take the 20 hour a week ones. I applied through my campus and the recruiter said they are still haven't been filled yet meaning there is potential they might contact me, but there is no guarantee.

I really don't want to mess up my last semester of school by being overburdened by a 40 hour a week job but I also don't want to graduate without having any relevant experience to put on my resume.

I could wait... and maybe the other 5 will contact me, or new internships I can apply for will open up. But I'll feel guilty declining if it turns out this is going to be my only offer.

>>17424544
>I also don't want to graduate without having any relevant experience to put on my resume.
Why? Are you in such a hurry to make money? You'll get internships after you get your degree just as easy, at its worst it will delay you getting a "real" job by 3-6 months.

>>17424452

>dropping out isn't an option

it literally is. you could just drop out, get a job, and move out. it wont be easy and you'd struggle but its an option.

or alternatively, you can just work harder even though you dont care.

the nigger dont care about cotton, but he still picks it because getting whipped is worse.

>>17424452
Do something that you can make good money off of and enjoy.

>>17424452
same as you, OP. getting tired of sitting at a desk, doing busy-work all the time.

>>17424433
I mean, you have rights. someone can't just say you have 2 days to leave where you live, no matter who owns the place.

>>17424433

squatters rights. if you have a job you SAVE and just squat as long as you can.

or alternatively you can go live out of your car for a month or two while also saving said money.

then you get an apartment. no its not cheap, you might have to do a shared living thing where you pay 300 bucks a month to share a room with four dudes, but its not the end of the world, better than being homeless, yeah?

>>17424440
Yes they do. I don't even care about that place anymore. Nobody loves me anyway(besides my dog but I feed and care for her so she's basically forced to live me) so right now I am at the bottom two of of Maslow's pyramid. I just want to figure out a way to not be homeless and starve out. My priorities are getting food for me and my dog basically.

>>17424418
Well, it's complicated. But simple at the same time, you really need experience to understand it.

Not sure how to put it into words though.

>>17424418

many people who say 'i feel like im going nowhere in life" arent in school. and those who are tend to not love what they are studying and that make sthe unknown of the future more scary.

you feel like you're going somewhere becuase you are on the right path to go somewhere, but you are also the kind of person who can make wherever he is at 'home' or enjoyable. you tend to appreciate wehat is happening in front of you. so even when you're working a bad job, you dont feel like its soul sucking becuase you can simply talk to your co workers, and have a good (Enough) time

"I'm not going anywhere" is code for doing nothing productive. These people are very likely to be NEETs.