I got ghosted by an online friend three months ago but it still hurts. We talked everyday for a few years. Any of you ever experienced this? Do you think the feels will go eventually? I don't think they'll come back so it just sucks that I still feel sad about it.
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I am the one who ghosts. I move around a lot in my life, I'm friendly and sociable, so I make connections with a lot of people. I can't just keep in contact with all of them forever. I've left a lot of friends behind, or cut them off if they couldn't take a hint
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>>17424973
I'll be your replacement online friend. :)
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>>17424973
I actually did once, but he came back. Just said he didn't have access to a computer for a few months, or some bullshit like that. Don't know if I believe it, but didn't complain at the time, was just happy to have him back.
>>17424992
>ghosting
Why don't you straight up tell them you fucking pussy? I really hope you're a woman, no male should act like this.
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How do I smooth out wrinkles around the eyes and generally make my skin look younger? I am a dude, 27.
I've heard drinking a lot of water helps. Anyone actually try this? Any creams that you know work?
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Make-up
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>>17424957
I'm looking to clear them up, not cover them up. Would like to know ways to keep skin healthy in general.
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>>17424955
Start taking a daily multi-vitamin if you don't already, and water does help along with greens like spinach. Also, vitamin a cream with retinol helps diminish the appearance of wrinkles.
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So, long story short, it's over. Or is it?
Been together with a girl for about half a year, then she said she doesn't really love me as much as she used to. I got mad, threw her out of the house. We're not a "couple" anymore.
BUT
She still wants to be friends and begs me to fuck with her.
I made the mistake of shagging her multiple times, but it just felt like stress release I guess?
I decided to ignore her for a while, still felt like loving her, but now I just see her doing various stupid shit on facebook, like taking dance classes or whatevs. She started immediately after breaking up with me, said I was her only thing in her life and she needs to do something else too to "fill the gap".
I have no fucking idea what that means.
Anyway, now that I think about her and seeing her having "fun" or whatever, I feel absolutely mad. Everything about her makes me mad. She writes me on fb, but I just answer with several words, not even holding a proper convo.
I'll see her in a month, wondering what to tell her - last time she said she wants to be "friends with benefits" - which is kinda good - I get to fucking dominate that bitch every time, I slap her, choke her, pull her hair, cum inside - which is really, really great. She loves it. But on the other side - I don't really know what to feel about this.I just want to be truly loved.
So, wat do?
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>>17424930
>Been together with a girl for about half a year, then she said she doesn't really love me as much as she used to. I got mad, threw her out of the house. We're not a "couple" anymore.
Its over.
>She still wants to be friends and begs me to fuck with her.
Terrible idea.
>last time she said she wants to be "friends with benefits" - which is kinda good
No, its bad.
>So, wat do?
Cut off all contact.
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>>17424962
Guess you're right, thing is, I'll definitely get to see her during the next school year.
Also, I really don't get her. Everything was so great until this point, I don't know. She started saying how she's a terrible person, coming up with her own trivial problems that she made up herself, various stupid shit in general. I just was there for her, to help her get through it.
It's almost like she enjoys feeling bad? But with me, she had little to no problems to deal with. She kept saying how safe she feels with me, but when she's on her own, it's suddenly terrible. I don't know, she seems to get along just fine, after a month of almost no contact from my side.
I just think I didn't do anything wrong, well, until that point I basically told her to fuck off if she doesn't love me.
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>>17424930
Leave it alone. You're an ass for dealing with her feelings by throwing her out. You don't love her, your reaction to her shows it.
On some level you realize you have some power over her, being that it was you who ended it and you are the one who decides whether to get back together. That's some manipulative bs you need to watch out for - don't get used to using people's feelings against them. If you get used to it you'll ruin your chances for a happy life with the next person you fall in love with. Cut contact. She will do things to reach out or to get your attention because she's hurting. Let her hurt, ignore it. It'll heal. You'll both move on.
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>be me
>19 years old
>Virgin with a few friends
>Social anxiety
>Look young for my age, little facial hair, always get ID'd and mistaken for being 15-16, my parents friends patronize me with it
>No profile pic on fb cos too insecure
I feel trapped in a bubble guys, I cry myself to sleep a lot because of how lonely and empty I feel. The thing is I'm a decent looking guy I just have no confidence because I was a late bloomer and was always teased for being short/squeaky/young looking, now that I'm actually a decent height, fairly muscular built, starting to look closer to my age my mentality is really holding me back from talking to girls and people in general. I don't know what to do.
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>>17424917
Fake it till you make it buddy.
Fail forward.
Just be yourself.
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>>17424921
Thanks for the inspiring words man, I do try, I just see all of my old classmates happy and getting on with their lives and going to clubs, festivals, banging loads of girls etc and I envy that a lot.
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>>17424949
The grass only seems greener.
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Why cant they develop happy pills? Is it because the world would devolve into chaos if everyone was happy all the time?
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>>17424915
Because sometimes people need to feel unhappy in order to survive, grow, and thrive.
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Being happy means being gay. The world doesn't wanna be gay.
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>>17424925
but if we're in a good enough environment where survival is a default state (unlike the hunter-gatherer era) wouldn't this just be the solution to life?
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Has anyone rented a room from craigslist before? I have never done it before and I just emailed a bunch of posts saying that I am interested in checking it out tomorrow. Except I'm not sure what the procedure is exactly. Do I go in look around and just ask general questions about parking, laundry, utilities, and stuff, then sign papers?
One guy agreed to let me see one room tomorrow and he said "please bring a $600 deposit if you like the place." Is that normal? I don't want to give that amount of money without receiving "collateral" first. I can't move in tomorrow as my out of town school starts in 2 weeks, the whole reason why I am looking for a room.
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>>17424900
Are you afraid of being mugged? Just bring a check.
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>>17425006
Yeah, but beside that how can I guarantee I'm not just forking over $600 for no reason? What can I do to make sure I don't get swindled?
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>>17425028
He said bring it if you're interested. If you like the place, then give it to the guy and continue with the process (signing the lease, etc.)
And as far as your question goes, yes. Craigslist is a great place to find rooms or roommates.
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Male friend says I owe him for his advice 2016-08-03 23:20:29 Post No.17424894
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About a year ago, I was close to being homeless and needed a car for my job. A friend of mine I was venting to about it gave me some great advice and encouragement that lead to me getting a new place, a used car and a new job. When I got the car and place, I asked what I could do for him and he only asked for dinner at my place, gas for his car for a week and just that we remain good friends.
We were good until he found out the job offered me more money than expected. Instead of being happy for me, all he would talk about is how much money I was making and how I owed him big for everything he helped me with.
I didn't really know how to react to this except that I told him I appreciated him being there for me and that I'm always there for him if he needs my help for anything.
That was about 5 months ago. I didn't hear from him until about a week ago. He calls up wanting to catch up. The conversation leads him to demand I go switch to his bank, insurance company and mechanic. When I told him I was good with what I already had, he went batshit and told me I still owe him for "getting" me "everything" I have. He's "casually" mentioned his girlfriend not having sex with him anymore and needing a loan for a new car so I'm thinking he wants favors along those lines.
While I'm grateful for his advice, in the end, everything I did was with my own money and effort. But still I don't know exactly how much thanks I am actually supposed to give him. If I help people with things I'm usually good with a thanks or them helping me out when I ask but I've never asked anyone for money before.
I'm starting to feel like I stepped into some kind of trap with him and I don't know how to get out of it without being ungrateful. I'm not going to have sex with him and I don't have enough money to help him get a car so what do I do, guys?
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>Male friend
Found your problem. You can pay me for finding it with sex, thanks bye.
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What was the advice?
Just give him the same advice if it was so good and tell him to fuck off.
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>>17424894
Your male friend is a giant piece of shit. Cut off all contact with him immediately. End of thread. End of story.
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What should I study in university. What is the best major?
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>>17424884
Engineering, comp science, medicine, mathematics, physics.
Also, google "god tier majors" you will find the answers youre looking for.
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Does anyone actually genuinely experience the feeling of happiness while sober or is that a myth created by the anti-alcohol people?
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I think you've confused "drunkenness" with "happiness." and I'm not anti-alcohol at all
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>>17424888
I don't mistake them or consider them one and the same. I've been upset while being drunk. I've just never been happy while sober.
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>>17424902
>I've been upset while drunk. I've just never been happy while sober.
I'm gonna make money off of this.
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I borrowed my roommate's playboy, just to try fapping to something not on a screen. It was in the magazine stack in the living room. I set it aside mid-fap and got a little water on the centerfold (Not cum) but it kinda looks like I came on it (which i wouldnt do) what whould I do? Put it back? Make it disappear? Fix it somehow?
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Bump, please don't make me ask /b/!
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>>17424869
Get a scalpel and cut out that page.
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tellhimthatyoumadeaplaymatewet.
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How do you deal with having good quality of life if you work a night job? Specifically, for jobs from the afternoon to midnight?
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Give more info. What days do you work, just for starters?
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What do you mean by "quality of life"? Do you mean a social life? I worked that type of schedule (2nd shift) at a 24 hour call center. I simply made friends with coworkers who were on the same shift as me, and all was well.
If you're taking about just general life quality, then I don't know what to tell you. I loved working 2nd shift. Sleep until 11 most days. Have time to squeeze in appointments, errands, or school before work if you need to. Go grocery shopping at midnight when no one else is around. Avoid ALL traffic.
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>>17425578
5 days a week. 8 hrs a day
>Be me 5 weeks ago
>19 year old college student
>family problems
>no friends
>completely isolated from any meaningful human contact
>extremely stressed out
>on the verge of suicide
>actually planned on driving to my hometown on sunday to have a final nostalgia trip before ending it
>Used to play baseball at this park when I was a kid so I thought that would be a good place
>after class one Thursday
>sitting alone on bench
>girl from my class sits down next to me and asks me how my day is going
>Respond to her with a chuckling, "horrible"
>She does that maternal comforting thing women do when they know you're down
>we start talking about school, etc
>conversation goes really good overall
>next day in class she sits next to me
>she seems to take interest in me
>we start talking every class
>get to know her quite a bit
>start to fall in love with her over the next 4-5 weeks, she's smart, kind, funny, ambitious, quirky, and has a great smile
>first person who genuinely makes me smile whenever I see her
>first friend I've had in 4 years
>first person I've known that I actually could loosen up and be myself around
>yesterday I finally mustered up the courage to ask her to grab some food with me
>she accepts
>meets me at a local deli
>It was all the usual chit chat until she tells me she is leaving in 15 days and taking the final early
>heart sinks into stomach
>She continues talking but I don't hear her
>This chick is probably the only reason I'm alive right now
>I will most likely never see her again in 2 weeks
>Just try to finish my food so we can leave
>walk her to her car, hug her and leave
>drive to some empty parking lot and just break down into tears
>I just fell asleep in my car while sobbing like a little bitch
I really don't know what to do, life won't give me a break. She will probably never know what effect she had on me. She was the only reason I got out of bed in the morning.
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>>17424799
Maybe this should tell you something. If all it took is a bit of kindness from a stranger to turn things around for you, maybe your problems aren't bad enough to kill yourself over. She's not the last person you'll ever meet who'll make you feel this way. And maybe next time, the timing/circumstances will work out better.
Hang in there, anon. Everyone wants to kill themselves when they're 19. I sure did. I'm glad I didn't do it.
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>>17424799
Maybe you could find a way to keep seeing her, that you could stay friends or whatever you are (over internet even).
If not, your problems were obviously due to loneliness.
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>>17424828
>If not, your problems were obviously due to loneliness.
No shit
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Guys quick question
can you record abuse without the abuser knowing in Georgia?
Maybe you have a recorder on you in the middle of a fight, do you have to tell them?
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If someone is wombo comboing someone in their own home, you can record it. It's completely justified.
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>>17424842
thanks amigo, what about verbal abuse?
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My friend from college a massive douche, what should I do about it? 2016-08-03 22:22:23 Post No.17424768
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My friend from college a massive douche, what should I do about it?
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>Will go out of his way to tell you that the music you are listening to is shit, even when he listens to Limp Bizkit, Linkin Park and Korn unironically
>Calls himself a "cynic" because he's a dick to everyone
>Super fedoradrone that will scream "bullshit" or "god is fake" at any mention of religion
>Will talk about how he has "higher intelect" than me because he scored higher on a test or some shit
>Is extremely egocentric and think everyone but him is ignorant
How do I deal with this WITHOUT punching him in the nose?
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sounds like a narcissist. some people say that people with personality disorders need our love and acceptance, I tend to disagree with many cases, ones like this included. drop him
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>>17424784
One of my teachers asked his mother if he was autistic. I seriously hope not because i'm autistic myself and I don't want to wear the same brand as this dick.
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>My friend
He's not your friend, he's just an asshole
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>Want to get into writing poetry more seriously
>Only really feel moved to write when I feel like trash and just want some form of outlet
>Afraid to show anyone because what if its bad or makes them think I'm depressed or what if its bad and makes them think I'm depressed
>Not sure how to get better without input from friends
What do I do
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Like poetry poetry or that freeform stuff?
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>>17424777
I don't really know a lot of complex rhyme schemes desu so I have no idea if the way I'm going about it is actually good, I just try to make it sound fluid in my head
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>>17424757
I write professionally for an online company. I had trouble finding inspiration/motivation, the same as you. But I find that if I'm given a deadline by someone else, ie my boss, then you bet your ass I'll find some motivation. It's my rent payment, food, etc. on the line if I don't.
You'll never get 'serious' into writing unless you have some big incentive. Think of it like a cliff: unless you jump off, you'll never get the skills to fly.
So, as you guessed, I quit my day job and became a full time freelance writer. That got me going, that's for sure. But I forced myself into a crisis situation where I needed to hustle to make money and become better at writing.
So unless you do that OP, you're not going to get anyway with poetry writing.