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So I've started a new job, my first job since finishing school, and I can't take it. It's the first thing I got offered and I took it and it's terrible and I hate every day. My family, friends and coworkers are all really happy for me and would be disappointed if I up and left it but I feel so depressed and anxious at work every day.
What should I do? I plan on giving it a few more weeks to see if it gets better but I'm scared of disappointing everyone if I leave. I really don't know how much longer I can tough it out though. What can I do?
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Why don't you like it?
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>>17517863
>total opposite to what i was looking at
>dirty as fuck
>hazards everywhere
>employers dont care about safety at all, no fire extinguishers in sight and they skipped the safety induction at the start
>fast and loose with almost every rule
>still no word on what my official wages are
>fored into situations that im not trained in and have no knowledge of
>forced into situations that i have phobias of
Among other things. I'm trying to handle it but I'm wearing out fast.
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>>17517869
What are you even doing? Do you have some sort of employment relations authority you can get in contact with?
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So I've known this girl for a long time. Like, 10 years.
I met her at a music festival when she was with another guy but I was flirting with her and she was loving it, flirting back.
A couple of years later, when she'd broken up with the guy and was single, we got together once - made out a lot, she blew me. But then was kind of it but we stayed in touch
I saw her a couple of years later when she was at Uni. She had a boyfriend of about a year at the time but invited me up and we had some drinks and I stayed over (on her floor). The next day she was telling me that she was tempted to come downstairs, see me and kiss me.
I don't see her often (we live in different towns) but I do talk to her A LOT online. Like Facebook, Snapchat etc. and it's always pretty flirty/sexual.
We've talked about sleeping together and how we've "always wondered how it would turn out" together. I've even sent her dick pics on Snapchat and she's latched on (not sent nudes but kept sending me Snaps back, telling me how she liked the pics).
However, she's with the same boyfriend from Uni and they've been together for like 7 years now. That's why she's been flaky when we've talked about meeting up and her staying over for a night or two.
I don't want to force her to do anything she doesn't want, but at the same time I REALLY want to fuck her and I think she would go through with it if she actually followed through with coming to visit me.
We still talk and I still talk about sex and I still now and then send a filthy Snapchat. Haven't talked in a couple of weeks because I've been super busy and so has she, but we've started again.
The conversations aren't always sexual but there's always suggestions in there and it does come up most of the time.
So my question. How do I fuck this girl? A part of her is obviously interested but how do I get her to follow through? Do I talk her into leaving her boyfriend?
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>>17517795
Stop sending her snaps if you're not getting anything in return. She uses you for validation. Focus on your shit; you've let her know you want to fuck, it's up to her to reciprocate or not. Since she's not, go fuck some other girls. Either she'll come around, or she won't.
>Do I talk her into leaving her boyfriend?
Do you want her to be your girlfriend or do you just want to fuck her?
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>>17517795
She is using you m8. Hatefuck and dump or just fucking block and move on.
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>>17517805
Validation as in she's thinking "That guy is sending me nudes so that makes me feel good, and I'll just run with it"?
I don't know what I want to be honest. Not just a one-off fuck. Friends with benefits? Maybe a relationship?
Extra facts: she hasn't slept with her boyfriend in over a year and always avoids the question when I ask how things are with him. If I don't message her for a week or two it'll be her that chases me. If I act a little distant I know she'll come running. Does that change anything?
How do you find a girl like Hila?
I'm not a Chad, more like a 7.5 Brad, but shy and goofy girls are obviously hard to find and reach out to for a reason
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>>17517727
Ew wtf.
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>>17517732
Yeah, OP, do you know what horse-face is?
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>>17517734
>being this shallow
Have you even watched h3h3Productions videos?
I love goofy girls
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Motivation to be cute. 2016-08-31 08:47:27 Post No.17517719
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Hi. I'm pretty in the face, but unfortunately I am a fatty. Not faaaaat, but I'm fat. It's the truth. I've been depressed for like two years and kept going through this cycle of..okay I'm gonna starve myself..okay nevermind I just wanna get so fat and get diabetes and die of something related. And then go back to, okay starvation! And then back to where I was.
ANYWAYS. I'm kinda over it now and I just wanna be healthy and be a size 8-12 and stay that way.
Not looking for thinspo of sickly white girls. Just want advice on how to stay motivated to eat healthier and be more active. And fun things to do to get me there. Like...soccer..or dancing or something. I wanna be a 10/10, not just a sad 5.5/10.
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motivation whatever. it's about establishing habits.
for losing weight: take your weight in pounds and multiply it by 11. subtract 750 from that number and eat that many calories per day until you're at your target weight. readjust the formula as you lose weight. 750 is a pretty big deficit, so don't be surprised if you're losing double digits within a month.
again, I just fucking told you how to do it.
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>>17517719
Over the course of the past year I've lost 100lbs. You will never be able to feel motivated into weight loss. If you're relying on motivation you'll do exactly what you're doing now. It requires discipline and new habits. People tend to flip flop between extremes when they get frustrated. I found the phone app "MyfitnessPal" to be useful in tracking calories. I usually aimed to be at least 400 under my goal. Don't starve yourself, that makes it harder to lose weight. You need to eat better, but if you only eat kale and boiled chicken you're in for a bad time and you'll quit. Start slow and replacing foods you currently eat with foods you like which have less calories. You will be hungry for awhile, it goes away. It sucks but if you can muster through it, it's worth it. Just remind yourself when you're hungry, that it's the feeling of losing weight. Once you lose the first 10-15lbs it gets a lot easier, the motivation comes from within at that point and it's self propelling. Don't allow yourself to reach the goal and go back to your old habits. Good luck and godspeed.
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>>17517719
If you want to lose weight I'd suggest you start by making some significant changes in your lifestyle.
First, eat one third of what you currently eat. In about a couple weeks reduce that to another third. Then start counting calories after another 2 weeks. As for what you eat make it simple but don't make it boring.
Start some light exercise. How about walking for about 20-30 mins for the first month? Don't stroll, keep your pace and get your blood pumping. If this isn't enough for you then you may want to try running but depending on your weight it may not be good for your knees.
I could go on about this but you should start with small but solid steps. Remember that losing weight for good takes time. You could lose weight quick but it will rebound if you are not really careful.
Also visit bodybuilding.com or /fit for more.
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so, regarding being homophobic, I'm also anti any .....phobic similars that not
genuine ly liking that people who is you marriaging though I don't believe in marriage.
people should be together for good reasons not... for whatevers not good.
Also, can people not take mental pictures of me when I walk in public? like I'm a kangaroo pubesecent teen and people are taking revelling naked pictures of me when I'm out. Don't look at me - this is to the sharing of pictures, digigtal pics that younger than 18 girls take and being interesting to look at... and girls only want .... dunno who llooking at it they. want.
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>>17517710
What, if anything, is this post about?
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>>17517861
It baffles me that someone actually took the time to type this out and post it.
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>>17517866
what don't you get?
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I'm starting to drink to avoid the pain of being alone.
I'm dealing with the of the women I love disappearing from my life. Left without a word.
Dealing with the fact I threw her away for someone who I now hate.
My mental state is slowly deteriorating. Over the course of the last few year because of this. Turning into mood swings and depression.
I can't even get close to other people because I'm so focused on the thoughts of her and my mistakes.
Should I just drown myself in liquor and press on? Because I consider myself a pretty emotionally resilient and stable guy. Generally peacefull and happy upstairs. But this is destroying me.
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Supposedly, there's something like some religious cult that picks and chooses who it wants to save called AA that you could try.
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everyone makes mistakes and has regrets, it's a fundamental part of being human
learn from your mistakes and move on, don't wallow in your regret and try to turn back the clock because you can't. You say you threw a woman you loved away for someone you hate, ok well that sucks, but this woman you were in a relationship with is not the only woman on the planet worth loving, there will be others.
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>>17517664
Distract yourself. Do something to break your obsessive thinking and you won't need liquor. It could be something as simple as going to the movies a lot, or working out at a gym.
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I'm really just so confused and need help. 2016-08-31 08:06:19 Post No.17517657
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I'm really just so confused and need help.
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I don't know why, but I feel the need to keep posting this since I'm not getting many clear cut answers here.
>Girl rejected me Mid-May
>Told me she wasn't able to "have feelings for someone right now" since she was "on emotional tilt" cause her boyfriend cheated on her around the beginning of March.
>Not entirely bullshit cause she rejected like 3 other guys and asked me for help rejecting another one at this point
>I talked to her for a week after, had a major crush still so it hurt, and broke off contact almost 100%.
>It's been 3 months of no contact, from mid-May to last week.
>Check facebook cause I have 5 notifications - all are from her
>She's messaging me now the rest of the week like first. Not blowing me up, but enough to show she seems to want to talk I think
She's never, in the entirety that I've known her, texted or messaged me first, it was ALWAYS me. I'm caught off guard because all these messages I'm getting are from her first and seem like the sort of messages I'd use to find an excuse to talk to her. "Hey did you hear so and so is teaching this class? Hey dude I just did X what are you doing today?" sort of messages. What catches me even more off-guard is that I'm being cautious with this - I'll respond half-interested with "Oh cool!" or "Hopefully that class isn't too much trouble." She'll respond 5 hours back with little to no interest, so why the fuck is she even messaging me in the first place? And before you go "lol attention", she's got like 7 guys who loyally follow her around everywhere, so she doesn't need attention from me - she didn't need it for 3 whole months.
God I hate this, I spent 3 months getting over this crush and this girl is creeping back into my head almost immediately just by sending me a facebook message.
What do I do, I need help :(
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>>17517657
One of the many differences between men and women is that women sincerely and innocently believe they can reject a romantic relationship and still remain friends, while men tend to get so hurt that they want to break off all contact.
She's not deliberately tormenting you, nor is she trying to start something romantic. As foreign as the thinking is to you, she simply feels "Well, I turned him down, but that's no reason we can't be friends."
If you can handle that level with her, be polite and friendly. If you can't, ignore her messages or just say "I really can't handle this. Please leave me alone."
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>>17517715
Yeah but like... why now?
I'd understand that she wants to be friends, she emphasized that, but fuck it's been 3 entire months with next to no contact with each other.
Why is she fucking messaging me now? She had the entire fucking summer vacation to talk to me, but she chooses the last week to torment me? Whyyyy...
Sorry, this is semi venting. Would still appreciate some insight as to why it's been 3 months with no contact and then her randomly messaging me.
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One last bump, really need help.
The 3 months no contact is just fucking with me.
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How do you fuck someone in the ass, what about poop?
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>>17517647
You use a condom, lube, and go slow.
Are you a Mormon?
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>>17517656
No I'm not Mormon why would you ask that
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any combination of the following:
you shit an hour or so before you fuck, you take fiber supplements so you know that when you empty your bowels they're completely empty, you use an enema repeatedly until the water runs clear, you use condoms lube and go slow
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I feel really sad and lonely because I have no girl friends whatsoever. I have friends but they're all guys and they are all friends of my boyfriend and they don't like to hang out anyways. I try really hard to make friends that are girls, even if it's online. And it feels like it's impossible because they either don't want to talk much about anything, they start hating me for no reason, or they just drift away. It makes me feel awful because I don't like being the girl who has nothing but guy friends. It's even putting a strain on my relationship because my boyfriend feels jealous that I'm playing games with online friends who are guys.
I feel awful, I just want a girl friend who wouldn't be mean to me and would actually want to hang out with me. I even try talking to the girls at work but they ignore me completely. And it's not like I'm some sort of stinky, ugly, awkward girl, I'm just slightly shy at first but I can still manage a good conversation. I've even tried meeting girls from apps like yikyak but they're so fucking sketchy.
I don't know what to do, I just really miss having girl friendships..
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>>17517646
>who wouldn't be mean to me and would actually want to hang out with me
sorry, but that's a guy
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Same
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>>17517649
No I'm a girl.
Girls want other girls to hang out with them fyi. And girls are especially mean to eachother... It's been since high school (3 years) since I last had a female friend.
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Good morning /adv/, first-time posting here in awhile.
(TL;DR - Is "buying" a spouse that bad of an idea?)
I'm in my mid-twenties, and have spent most of my young adult life working to build on both my academics and finances. Unfortunately, this has left me very little room to create a lasting bond with someone special. Two of my closest friends are set to be married by the end of this year, whereas it's been several years since I ever held some semblance of kinship between another person. I took a stab at Tinder and OKCupid, but I was disheartened that a majority of women only wanted temporary relationships, and had no interest in something more permanent. Their tragically millennial sensibilities seemed to keep them darting from man to man.
Anyhow, the other evening, a friend of mine joked that I would have to settle for a mail-order wife before too long. I quickly dismissed his comments, yet for some reason, the notion of doing something like that seemed oddly appealing to me.
From what I've read (which admittedly isn't much) it would seem that most of the women involved in these "services" are merely seeking a better life here in the United States.
Considering the fact that I am of sound finances and capable of supporting both myself and another person, as well as being able to afford the investments involved in actually meeting one of these individuals - is it really that far-fetched of an option?
I've been fortunate enough to have enjoyed the benefits of moderate wealth, and it would be wonderful to give another person that opportunity as well. We could learn about our different cultures, travel between our home countries, and perhaps actually build some kind of lasting relationship.
Can I do something selfless for once in my life and help someone find a better life for themselves, with the chance of there being a romance between us? Or am I simply setting myself up to be taken advantage of?
I'd be happy to answer any questions.
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you really think marrying a stranger is going to make you happy? you're an idiot
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Have you considered
>you'll be judged
>you'll probably feel embarrassed about it
>you'll be exploited
>she won't make you happy
>you might get scammed
>what if she runs as soon as she gets permanent resident status
Etc. There's a reason it's really not that common
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>>17517695
Quite right. Love is for fools.
You've tempted fate by courting loneliness and now you want to see fortune swing.
You behold a catalogue of willing brides. I don't know what stops you from picking your favorite and going with it, I truly do not. Truly.
And hell, if you're wealthy enough to order out for a bride, you're wealthy enough to sic a PI on the case when she goes out for unplanned errands. I mean, come on. Do I have money wrong?
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I need to study non-stop like an animal, so I can get a shot going out my third-fucking-shitty-country and have a life.
I don't care about my life, only my grades matter. I want to study so hard I get convulsions. Please, help. Ideas of cronograms, apps to help organization, methods of study (I'm a medical student), anything is very welcomed.
I'm alredy taking Ritalin to improve performance.
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meditate for 666 seconds once a day. the clarity you'll achieve is outstanding.
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>>17517623
Have you ever tried meducation?
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>>17517631
Nope, what's that?
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20 year old virgin here. been dating this girl for over a year and want to have sex, she's into it, we both feel ready. We both live with our parents. Where can we have sex where it can be enjoyable and also where we don't get caught? I only really want to experience it if I can do it regularly. Should we just give up and wait until we move in together?
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Hotels are made for a reason
Im guessing you're under 18
Car seats recline all the way back for a reason
If you don't have a car you aren't ready for sex.
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>>17517618
What parent is so involved in your life that you can't bang in your house? Wtf, are you still a child or something? 20 fucking years old and your parents aren't okay with you having sex? "Get caught"? Would your parents actually punish you, a supposed 20 year old, for having sex?
What 20 year old doesn't have enough money to rent a room at a hotel for one night? What the fuck man? What the fuck?
This has got to be a troll thread. Either you are trolling, or lying about your age.
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>>17517643
>What parent is so involved in your life that you can't bang in your house? Wtf, are you still a child or something? 20 fucking years old and your parents aren't okay with you having sex? "Get caught"? Would your parents actually punish you, a supposed 20 year old, for having sex?
Because it's weird for parents to know that their child has sex under their roof
>What 20 year old doesn't have enough money to rent a room at a hotel for one night? What the fuck man? What the fuck?
If he lives with his parents, maybe he doesn't
Also, maybe he can't stay away at night
WHen you live with your parents, you still have to follow their rules
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I'm kind of worried that my gf is stressing too much about school. Her volleyball coach made all these stupid rules about who she can study with and now she's studying like 5 hours a day. Sometimes twice a day or more going over there. She gets really crabby if she can't go study and she's always exhausted afterwards from working so hard. is it stupid of me to be worried about her stress levels?
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>>17517601
Fuck off and watch her succeed, you little shitcunt. It is a cult practice to manipulate those under you and to control who they're friends with. Coach knows better than your psychic leech ass, so fuck off and watch the cunt win.
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>>17517606
I'm not trying to control her, I'm trying to be supportive. Hence my concern. I want her to succeed.
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>>17517601
Oh my God! My girlfriend is studying! How can I save her from this awful fate?
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how to break the ice?
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>>17517590
quit being a bitch
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>>17517590
with fire
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>>17517593
So
"Hey, so we matched on tinder, which means you think Im attractive, and I think you're pretty cute, so do you want to come over to my place and have sex or something?"
Is that ok?
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Started taking naps in the afternoon since Monday. Sometimes they last 2 hours, sometimes 5 or more. I just get sleepy at that time.
Invariably, I keep waking up from wet dreams, and it's semi annoying. I'm too tired to fap right beforehand, but I also don't want this to happen if I fall asleep at school or somewhere public.
Maybe my libido has just increased somehow? I'm getting more raging bomers at random times in the day, to the point where it hurts. Somehow I thought this shit would stop when I finished being a teenager but apparently not?
Way I see it I may have to end up drinking lots of coffee and never fall asleep when I'm not at home.
Does this go away over time? Do I just need to get laid?
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Unfuck your sleep schedule. Go to bed before midnight, set an alarm for 7:00 AM, and fap before / after sleeping if you have to.
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>>17517586
Thing is I do wake up at 7 am most days. By 7 pm though I feel tired again.
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Help pls, googling this gets me nofap threads, and I'm just trying to avoid having a wet crotch in public