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Just found out that my GF is a whore 2016-08-31 07:15:48 Post No.17517562
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Just found out that my GF is a whore
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We were dating for 2 months. She's from 300 miles away, studying in my city. She gave me the login and password from her social network long time ago. After a recent fight she changed the pass. I tried a couple of similar passwords I succeeded - found out she's dating another guy. I was shocked. So all the time when she told me that it's her mom that calls her and demands her to be at home at 9 pm - it was actually him. It was him who called during our sex so she jumped off me and talked to him, telling me that it's her mom. Jesus
So I was just an affair in this city so she won't be too bored here. But for big plans she has another guy. Honestly she was surprised of my reaction like what did you expect? I'm having sex with you so it's obvious that it's just an affair, if I wanted something serious I'd act accordingly. that guy told me that he didn't even hold her hand for the whole year of dating. Let me explain - there is a tradition in our ethnic group - if a decent girl dates a guy she shouldn't even let him kiss or hold hand - only after marriage.
I tried to msg him via the same social network but she has a login+password of his account and she blocked me from there, then she deleted her own account. I contacted to one of his friends on that social network service. I got his phone number and send him an SMS with short description. He called me back and we talked. He asked about everything, didn't question any of what I said and he was pretty friendly even though he was shocked. He said that she denied everything at first but then started telling things. But she still denies that we had sex, she only admitted that we had oral sex - I did for her. Her brothers are very close friends of him so he's very mad and wants to let the brothers know - he wants to come to my city with them and ask her about everything in front of me and also wants to see if I can repeat my story in front of her. I have a feeling that they just want to beat the shit out of me. What do I do?
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They'll probably kill you desu.
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>>17517562
Seems like you don't stand to gain much by pursuing the contest. Dump her.
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>>17517562
Bring your own friends for an all out brawl
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Incoming wall of text, the life of an anon 2016-08-31 07:04:41 Post No.17517546
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Incoming wall of text, the life of an anon
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So, /adv/ I have a question. I'm going to be 21 in December, and I'm starting to look into going to college. Yes, I will be a Freshman. I already know that CC will probably be my best bet then just transfer out, so I'd like to just state that before I continue.
Anyway, I did absolute shit in High School. Like graduating at the bottom of my class shit. My grades ranged anywhere between solid A+'s to incompletes. I was in various CP classes, and some Honor classes only because it was a small school and the teachers and counselors knew that I wasn't a driveling idiot,(I just had no interest or self-motivation) so they gave me a shot. I also got a 1600something on my SAT going in blind, rawdogging it.
My initial plan was to wait a year or two, work, and find myself before going to college... which would be CC so I can start from a clean slate. But life happened, I ended up out on my ass and homeless a year after I graduated highschool but worked a pretty comfy job that paid little but enough for me to survive. Which I had recently lost. Now, I am aware of special occasions with four years accepting people for a myriad of different reasons other than the statistical bullshit they preach on their admissions pages. Varying things decide this and it's almost by chance, so I decided "Why the fuck not?" and apply to four years to see what happens. Now, my question is as someone who's not right out of HS how the fuck do I even manage that? Just let me pull a recommendation letter out of my non-existent principal's asshole. I can't find any information on where to start. On top of it, would Anon think that it would make an impressionable essay to introduce myself by the hardships I faced as a young adult blind in the world, setting myself straight with no outside help, and touch on my aspirations to close it up tying in whatever the fuck I learned about living in my car and starving half the time until I could find a place to stay in a disgustingly expensive area?
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Continued
Also, yes, my family is dirt poor... and no they cannot help me in anyway besides giving proof that my father or mother currently has no income on the FAFSA. Would it also be an advantage if I were or were not a minority? I feel as if I were swarthy it'd help me even more.
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>>17517550
dude, you had it right when you said you were gonna go to CC and make a fresh start then transfer over to a four year
do that, it's there exactly for people in your situation
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>>17517546
Professor writing here.
Things are not as bleak as you may feel. First of all, you are not alone. Colleges are used to encountering people who screwed up as teenagers and are now getting their act together, and they are sympathetic and supportive.
Second, your age is not an issue. College isn't just for 18 year olds any more, and probably at least 25% of the undergrads will actually be older than you (and thus graduating in your mid-20s won't be unusual or a handicap).
Now, your biggest problem is the lousy high school record and lack of references. Were there ANY teachers you did well for and who would remember you? It might be worth writing them, reminding them who you are and what you did ("You might remember the paper I wrote on XX that you said had original ideas. I can send you a copy if it will help") to get reference letters from them.
If not, you will need your HS transcript of grades, and you can use part of your essay to explain where you were mentally then and how you've changed.
That said, a year in a CC is still a good idea, to establish your fresh grown-up identity and achievement. In some states, transfer from a CC to one of the state universities is guaranteed.
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Anyone else here find the concept of communicating to people through only hints and signals to be so ungodly offensive?
It's just so dishonest, condescending, and deceitful; and makes it really difficulty to listen to pretty much anybody speak and trust what they're saying at face value. It, understandably, leaves one to be not only suspicious of people in general, but also judge them harshly over the most insignificant things.
I also find it prejudice to assume that *anyone* would be able to read your hints and signal. Because they're probably not from a race, culture, or upbringing that recognises said cues. The only way I see that working is if you two have already known each other.
What's a good way to react to somebody you can tell isn't being upfront and direct with their communication? I'm thinking of just flat-out ignoring their cues until they are clear and solid with whatever if it is they're trying to convey. Or calling them out on it, and making it heard that this means of communication will not be respected, is not acceptable, is flat-out inexcusable, and will not be taken wholeheartedly.
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>>17517516
Communication is mostly body language and tone, OP. You have to learn to pick up on these signals.
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>>17517516
>I'm thinking of just flat-out ignoring their cues until they are clear and solid with whatever if it is they're trying to convey. Or calling them out on it, and making it heard that this means of communication will not be respected, is not acceptable, is flat-out inexcusable, and will not be taken wholeheartedly.
That's called autism honey.
Communication is more than what people speak. It's a lot more complex and involves things like body language. If you start 'calling people out' on communicating in a more complex way than you can handle, you're just going to alienate yourself.
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>>17517516
A person being sly about their communication has more to not say than say. You can safely disregard statements made without clear intent, at least.
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I need help.
I need to hook up with a girl soon or I'm gonna lose it.
My job sucks as it is and I literally have no money for hookers. Strippers yeah, but only for literally 5 minutes of attention.
I'm seriously going to turn 28 soon and considering suicide. I can't fucking keep trying and getting forever rejected.
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>>17517493
I fucking know your feel man. I'm 26 and in the same boat. I just don't connect with women like normal people. I've thought a lot about hiring a prostitute, but really I don't think what either of us want is it? I know for me, I want to feel accepted by women and sex is a symbol of that. Acceptance is an emotional action taken by someone else willingly. You can't buy it, it will probably only make it worse. The worst part about this feel is it's out of our control ultimately. Virginity is something that is taken by someone else, and rejection is especially powerful when it does happen because it's not just an individual rejecting me its everyone that's ever rejected me, it's the lack of ever being accepted that really hurts.
Sadly, all I have to offer you is an 'iktf bro'. I hope it helps to know there are others out there. Please don't kill yourself.
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>>17517694
Being poor in a capitalist nation is a major catch 22 due to media, essentially. You're old enough to buy girls drinks in a bar, the only legal form of rape available, so why not give that a go if you still have no pride?
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>>17517702
Like I said, will that actually give me what I need? I doubt it. The lack of having my penis inside someone isn't the problem, it's the lack of any real emotional satisfaction of being accepted by the opposite gender in an intimate way that causes the bad feels, in the same way as buying a prostitute would be unfulfilling, getting a girl hammered and fucking her also would be unfulfilling.
I'm on vacation, and I got this gorgeous singer's number. I'm here for the week for a bachelor party. She's flatly incredible. I'm here in town until Monday.
I'll take any and all ideas, but should I try to start with texting her, or just call her? If I call her, when?
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>>17517480
anytime you want, m8, i'm sure you'd be placed in the waitlist.
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>>17517480
Why are you asking 4chan instead of your friends?
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>>17517490
>friends
lol
I want to fuck a friend but I love my bf alot and want to live with him forever.
It's just lust. How can I get over that?
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>>17517445
Fuck bf more/differently
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>>17517445
Stop talking to your friend and spend more and better time with your boyfriend.
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Do you even know what love is, you vapid cunt? Just cheat on him and kill yourself. Totally worth it.
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My roommate and I are 25 year old women who live together alone in a sort of old, rickety house. We have been best friends since the 4th grade and have lived together since January. My roommate has had a few service industry jobs and has always claimed to make better friends with the males rather than the females. She has been working at this new place for about a month and a half, and met some new friends (two males) and has invited them over regularly (2 or 3 times a week) to smoke pot out back or drink until about 4 in the morning. (I am not a smoker/drinker) Once, without warning, she invited them over to spend the night. They slept on the couch. I was frustrated, but realized she has just as much ability to allow people over as I do, and so I left it alone. One day, she had her weed dealer come into the house to sell her some weed. Fast forward. Today she invited one of the same previous men over. I was trying to be polite and began talking to him about random things. He mentioned not being able to vote because he is a felon and I played it cool. I went into my room a short while later and googled his name. He has been arrested 4 times in the past year for theft, burglary, and violation of parole. Now I feel very uncomfortable, and a bit unsafe, but do not know how to approach the situation without appearing judgemental. Please help.
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>>17517414
Tell her that you feel uncomfortable with felons in the house that you do not know.
Make sure that your friend is ALWAYS home when the felon is over, and keep your eye on him.
I find it weird that you're best friends with someone who seems to be totally different than you. A friend of a friend is usually trustworthy, right?
Consider giving her the benefit of the doubt, maybe that felon isn't so bad after all lol
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>>17517414
I'd just tell your roommate "hey, you know that dudes a burglar, right?" and she'll be like "yeah, but he's cool now, blah blah blah" and she'll probably continue to be trashy.
I'd probably have a lot of fun with such a roommate, but as a straight edge you're in a tricky situation. Just roll with it, and put your foot down if it gets too bad. Keep some mace or a knife on you and keep your valuables hidden.
You half to walk the edge between knowing that it's unfair of her to make you feel uncomfortable in your own home, and knowing that it's unfair for you to assume that someone is dangerous because they're a thief. So keep your options open.
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Never, and I mean NEVER allow drug dealers into your house
What are you, stupid?
Just because he's a drug dealer doesn't mean he's stupid, but the fact that he's a felon means that he'll happily look through your shit and notice anything of value
NEVER allow drug deals to go down where you love unless you like shitting where you eat too
Want some advice? Change a lock or two and tell your cunt of a roommate to buy shit outside of the house or at shops if it's only weed
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Why the FUCK doesnt Quick Reply work on this board?
How do i fix it
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for the whole site or just /adv/?
because it doesnt work for just /adv/
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>>17517421
Just /adv/ I believe, but I have it off for the whole site
Never had a girlfriend, but I am not a virgin. I dress preppy but I have a nice/cute face. How do I look like a fuckboy and get girls?
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>>17517393
>How do I look like a fuckboy
I dont think that'd work with your face m8
>and get girls
go for the rich Chinese businessman vibe.
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Be a man, set for only one and go just for her
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>>17517432
I'm a little too young to be dressing like that, I feel. I'm only a freshman in college, but like I said earlier, I just go for the preppy look at the moment.
>>17517435
How do I "be a man"? When I'm a closeted MtF? I transitioned for a few months but stopped so now I just look like a male. I'm ultimately unhappy and depressed because i am a male. I thought losing my virginity would solve things, but it didn't.
>inb4 mentally ill
How do I become a high-functioning sociopath?
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>>17517304
Why the fuck would you want to?
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>>17517412
To manipulate women and break them.
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>>17517413
You've already lost the plot of being a sociopath, so there's no hope for you.
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Should I ask him out? 2016-08-31 05:20:05 Post No.17517244
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I am from Cali and I recently started to attend this German language group. There is a kind of cute guy who is German and he is here for work. I want to ask him out, but I'm aware of the fact that he works as a senior manager at a bank and he earns a lot of cash. I don't think he will pick someone like me. I do look average. I'm not being modest here - I had my photos rated on numerous websites.
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>>17517244
Shoot your shot.
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>>17517249
Sorry English is not my first language (I'm from Argentina) so I didn't really understand this.
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>>17517256
You should ask him on a date, worst case scenario is hell refuse.
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I felt like I just ruined a married couple's relationship unintentionally through cultural misunderstandings. Made this 17505108 thread here a few days ago.
The run down of what happened was that ultimately my host father thought (and probably still thinks) that I cheated with his wife. I have been blocked by the both of them. I don't know what has been going on, but they seem to have returned back to their appropriated schedule to meet need's end for the time being. I was able to contact one of their sons and he has been very open and understanding, and has answered some questions to the best of his ability that were bothering me a lot. He also told me that his mother would contact me again "in a while," so now that is the only thing I have to look forward to in terms of getting closure on this. He has assured me that no violence has occurred nor will they get a divorce, which is a relief (no violence is honestly the biggest relief) ...
I've been back not so long, so my English skill has dropped a little as it would when you immerse yourself in another language, and also I've been tired as of late, so please do excuse my use of words―or lack there of―and sentence and/or paragraph structure.
This is really just a thread for myself. I'm not expecting people to post, but if you have any questions, skim through the old thread first at least before asking. Otherwise, I'm just going to be updating this thread for the sake of writing down thoughts or recording actions...
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Got in contact with one of my other previous host brothers whose really cool. He has been willing to help me out in any way possible, which is great, but he has to keep quiet in order to avert any attention.
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>>17517240
are you south east asian ?
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>>17517269
No.
What the fuck is wrong if everything in your life is great and you lack nothing, but you still keep feeling like something is missing, and are not happy?
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>>17517206
Hmm, I don't know. I've never had my life that together. I doubt many people in /adv/ have. I need more info to venture a guess:
How old are you?
Do you watch your thoughts very often? If so, do you obsess over fantasies, anxieties, things like that?
Do you have any ambitions? Maybe you want to help miserable people or become really good at something?
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What makes other people happy doesn't necessarily make you happy
Sounds like depression. Your life might be great but if your brain chemicals decide to fuck you over, you could be king of the world and still feel unhappy. Synapses and shit. Get some melatonin and a therapist
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>>17517206
This could be a variety of things. If you drink every day or extremely often, then you're going to be depressed (even when you're not drinking) because it's a depressant.
What are you eating? Are you eating manifolds and not much else? Your body relies on that nourishment to create energy, and chemicals you need to be happy and healthy.
Do you work out? Or do you sit at a computer job? Or do you sit and watch TV as your 'unwind' time?
HELP! This is an emergency! So short recap
>started actively showing my interest in a girl
>thought she responded well to it
>made a thread asking how to progress this, was told to coast along until the weekend when we will both be drinking together again
So I've been doing this. I've still seen her and replying to her text but she friends with my suitemates so we've been playing cards for a bit after classes.
Well today she didn't text me, which by itself wouldn't have been a big deal; she had a lot of classes and work to do. I still asked if she wanted to come watch Sunny with us though, and when she came to the dorm's TV room, there was a spot next to me on the couch, but she chose a chair not once, but twice.
This got me thinking, what if I've been misreading everything? Please, how do I figure out before the weekend if I've been finding signals when there were none, and how to keep things together for the rest of the week?
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Please ignore the spelling and grammatical errors, accidentally posted before proofreading.
Also, if there is anymore info you need please ask
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>>17517196
Can you confirm if she is fucking one of your suitemates ?
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>>17517215
They are the room right next to me and I never hear anything, one is gay and the other doesn't seem that way with her. That said, they went to the same highschool together so who knows
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>bought my 16yo son a new queen bed
>for a year and a half he slept all over it, this side, that side, different place every night.
>at 17 and a half years old he got a girlfriend who stayed over a lot (don't crucify me, I convinced him to use condoms, & would rather have it happen under my roof, rather than somewhere they could get in trouble or wouldn't have protection ready)
>they were inseperable, went to school together, went and did everything together
>for the entire time they were together, they slept every night cuddling, with him always on one particular edge of the bed, her beside him, and the rest of the bed on the other side of her
>when he's 19 and a half years old, she cheats on him and dumps him
>He was tore up for probably 3 months but now I think he's taken that relationship ending fairly well, he's 21 now (living with me while he's going to college)
>He hasn't gotten another girlfriend since her, says he wants to focus more on school
But
>he still, to this day, sleeps on that particular edge of the very wide bed
At this point is it just a habit or should I be worried he's having depression or something? Haven't asked him about it because I guess I don't think it's common to ask people why they sleep where they do on a bed, but at the same time it's weird/bothering, I mean when you've got a 5 foot wde bed I don't know why you'd only use a foot and a half of one side.
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>>17517193
Hollywood directors might be interested in this
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>>17517207
Sad eh?
Is it legal to sell stories of your kid's potentially depressive behavior in exchange for college money? Lol
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& before ppl start asking we live in a 1bed appartment so his bed is in kind of an open area off the kitchen like intended to be a dining room I think,