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Donald Trump is an idiot.

>>17517100
Dubs confirms.
To be fair instead of building a wall or pushing for insane levels of gun control, there should be more focus on the problems that bring these shallow remedies to light.

If we can improve the quality of life (after lowering some of the States' national debt) we'll have better international relations and humanity as a whole could improve.

But what do I know

>>17517100

not only that, but he is also dumb AND bad. wow

>>17517033
Yes, you should, but realistically you'll have to learn to live with them. It's most likely one of your dirty ass neighbors keeping an unhygienic home that keeps the bugs thriving in the walls between you, and good luck getting them to change.

Your best bet is to buy some raid and spray every crack, corner and crevice of the place, behind each appliance and especially in your bathroom.

>>17517033
Bugs only show up if there is food.
So clean all that food off the floor and set traps.
In a few months, they'll be gone.

Also don't kill any spiders. Spiders are directly related to how many bugs you got

Setting traps and changing sheets helps your frame of mind but what I've said are among the few things to really change things.

If you're really paranoid, bake your sheets then put your bed in the middle of the room with small bowls full of water under each foot. Then you're guaranteed bug free as you sleep.

>>17517056
>>17517054
Good advice, thank you. They just sprayed a week ago, so do you think it is too early to go back and say there are still bugs?

Yeah, pretty much. Just ask her if she wants the dick.

Just approach her casually, ask if you cam talk to her for a minute, then throw open your trench coat and wave your dick at her.

>>17517009
I think my situation is dual to yours. My neighbor two doors down has a daughter around my age, I once met her and the daughter in the lift lobby and she told me I am really good looking. I however have no romantic interest towards her daughter, who is an attractive voluptuous young girl, but I'm having a crush on another girl.

>Is this my problem, or hers?
Yours, 100%. She's told you what she wants out of this (or rather, doesn't want). It's up to you whether you want to take it or leave it.

>>17516962
I'm not blind to what you're saying, but isn't there some sort of hypocrisy in it? Like, it's more of a relationship than some relationships, and yet it's my bad if I think of it as such?

I feel in that the ball's in my court to accept or deny, but is it petty or stupid to deny the (essentially) relationship on the grounds that she doesn't want to think of it that way?

>>17516983
>isn't there some sort of hypocrisy in it?
Sure, but she's flat out told you that she doesn't want to be in an arrangement that's labelled as a relationship, and she probably doesn't have feelings for you anyway.

>is it petty or stupid to deny the (essentially) relationship on the grounds that she doesn't want to think of it that way?
I don't think so. I don't think it's fair on you to stay if you're not getting out what you want.

>>17516881
Because yellow fever

you're either insane or talking about one or two people you know and they're prettier and have better style

More desirable = held to higher standards.

you should try desperately yo suppress your horniness. seriously. it's a sexual urge, primitive, a lowly passion, and the pleasure is comparable to snakes coiling together in a smelly dumpster.

meanwhile, the pleasures of love for others are comparable to frolicking through a field of flowers and it lasts much longer, and can be much stronger than any sexual dark passion.

>>17516866
I'd honestly prefer love.

>>17516856
It's not especially dangerous but I just find those people fucking insufferable. They're all like grown up theatre kids who are into corsets and fedoras and shit. Or they're fat old people looking to spice up their marriage. I dunno man, make a fetlife and find groups local to your area. See what strikes your fancy.

>>17516851

gen eds are 100% normal for a first semester. you havent figured out exactly what you want to do yet, that puts you in the same category of 60% of college freshman. You are the norm. Spend this semester trying new things and thinking about what you want to do next semester. Take it easy. Take some time to adjust to your new environment.

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>>17516888
Also take the time to look into that... what's it called ALICE shit. Where they try to anticipate which areas will be hiring more workers at the time you plan to graduate. If you're not hung up on needing to LOVE your career then it's a good starting point.

>>17516851
I'd say think about what you want to do and make long term goals asap. If you can't decide, DO NOT go to college. Take a gap year and take some time off and have a plan for yourself. Taking pointless classes will just lead to boredom and debt with no benefit.

If you do not plan on doing STEM, accounting, or something like that. you'd be best not going to college at all. Go to a trade school or be self employed

I dream way beyond this county. I want to eventually create, and own cybernetic engineering company, and I'm specifically interested in the Direct Neural Interface.

How will I get there? Money from a stable job. Investing it into the stock market. Knowing my shit. The question is: which job?

I'm groomed and prepped for Law Enforment. The thing is, my parents BELEIVE that THAT will be my career. That I'll be in for many years, and retire, wither away, and die. That I'll meet a nice girl, and have a good, comfortable life.

I wat the exact opposite. I'm fine with becoming LE, but preferably not. With the shit going on in the news? Also, I don't want to do something I'm not 100% into. They pay high here, however.

My parents are not happy that I'm not going to submit and go into LE. I'm not sure what I can do in my community college- local employment is like I said, shit. I can stay with them as long as I like, they say. (I will, at least until I can hold my own.)
I'm not 100% sure what I'm asking.

•/adv/, should I move? If so, where? States? Countries? What's the best major to get into for the location? How can I prepare myself for the future I want in cybernetic technology?
•What do I tell my parents? They're making making it seem like I MUST do LE.

I recently got redpilled as fuck on colleges and universities (for profit shill ones, and community colleges, etc).

I'm willing to learn languages if the job in that country pays enough for me to eventually start my dream.

I'm just not sure how to get there. I hate this small town.

Also, I am aware that Law Enforment has different jobs.
Hell, a helicopter repairman makes $90,000+ a year. But that is a career. Many of those jobs are career jobs. You dont just do it for 5 years or less, then leave. I'm trying to make a lot of money in the shortest amount of time, essentially. I want to get started with my career as young as I can, so I can live to see my effects on my selected field, and the world. Cybernetics is an emerging technology.

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Shameless self bump.

>will i smell
Yes
>will i stink up the room I go to
Probably not unless the room is tiny and/or really poorly ventilated

>>17516793
depends what you smoke out of, if you smoke a joint then yes you will smell, however, if you take a couple hits from a bowl then you're fine just take some water out with you or some juice to cover up the smell on your breath

>>17516820
And wash your hands

Send them my way.
Fat little tranny boys are always en vogue.

OP, I have literally never heard of this group. I did a quick google search, read through some reviews and websites...

and then I asked myself why I was doing your job for you.

>>17516924
Im serious. I'd like some help.

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>>17516701
OP here
calling the gril T btw
> she's like 3 lueges above me
> hanging out after school w/ her
>trying to work up the nerve tYo ask her out
>we're talking and this 25ish Y/o dude runs into us
> she knows him
>they start talking
>"alright anon nice talking to you"
> leaves with the dude
>alone
>call my mom for a ride
> she picks me up and takes me home
>text T
> im emotional AF rn
>ask her if any of it was real
>nope
>stop talking to T im depressed AF rn
> go to school next day
>apparently some kid committed suicide
>dont think much of it
>go home im on facebook
>start seeing "rest in peace B" posts
>omg
> left a note on IG saying it was because he had no freinds
>Level 99 guilt
>throw up multiple times from crying
> deadinside.jpg
>Age 17 parents divorce
>been through so much it doesent even bother me
>fast forward to now. 18 y/o full time work/ full time college
>started talking to this girl that i used to be freinds with back in 8-10th grade (call her E)
>we relate on a lot of things
>i highly doubt she's into me, im fat, depressed and socialy akward
>cant stop thinking about being with her.
> i know it will never happen
>listen to surrender by billy talent alot
>cant imagine any scenario where i dont die miserable and alone
>haunted by my childhood
>miserable and depressed for a good 2 years but no one knows
>i want to die
>refuse to commit suicide bc my little brother needs me
>level 99 dead inside
sorry for my horrible spelling and grammer. first time posting on 4chan theres obviosly more shit i went through but it would take too long and isnt very interesting.

Jesus, that's rough dude, I'm sorry you had to experience all that shit

>>17516863
thank you for your support. theres people that have it way worse than me.

cont...
>(her words)
>"mmm I LOVE you. sorry if i woke you"
>"Hey my bear"
>"I miss you so much"
>"I just miss everything"
>"Good. had a bon fire with the family" (I WAS WITH HER)
>"I can't wait till i can have a fire with you"
>"You need some fun babe" (Only ever called me babe, or so i thought.)
>"your amazing"
>"I'll bite you hard and pin you on a wall"
HIM>"mm please do"
back to her
>"I will I promise"
>"mmm i want you"
>"what wouldn't i do to you"

this guy is out of state and they haven't seen eachother in 2 years i believe


Now that I caught her I told her to take her stuff and get out. Her mother already came and got her. We tried to have a conversation. She told me she felt ignored(i have epilepsy and cant work b/c of it. I play video games 3/4 of the day, the other quarter is either spent with her or my friends. more with her than them), and I explained that going to another guy instead of talking to me was what she needed to do. She keeps telling me that I'm the one she wants to be with. I feel like she doesn't motivate me enough (i want her to bug me to do stuff, because it doesn't really bug me at all. it shows me she's excited to spend time together.) to do things with her. There's nothing to do around here but go for walks and utilize home entertainment (netflix, board games, etc.)
Neither one of us likes to pick things. I don't like picking things out of fear she'll be upset with my decision and get grumpy on me. If I do one wrong thing then she stays mad at me for hours. I ask her what's wrong and she wont communicate. I really try but I feel like I put in more than what I get out.

I don't know if I can trust her again. It's been broken twice and this time the words "I love you" are involved and it scared me when she said >"had a bon fire with family (again I was there with her). Can't wait till I can have one with you."

You're being gaslighted and the fact that you're venting to an anonymous forum really speaks to how damaged your relationship is. If I were you I would ultimatum, and if she doesn't play ball drop her like a bad habit.
You won't listen to me because you are blinded by oxytocin

Dump her ass anon. I would have done it after the first time, you're a better man than me to give her a second chance. But don't give her a third.

At this point it's not worth believing she can change. Her words mean nothing and letting her slide again at this point will only serve to tell her that it's okay to do this as long as she can talk her way out of it again.

You have the right to be with someone who's faithful to you.

>traditional gender roles?
expensive, unpleasant and clearly arbitrary

>>17516576
because traditions get boring, especially when it's a tradition that permeates every aspect of your life.

why don't people go to puppet shows anymore? because there's other stuff to do now. same thing.

it's more like "why are there so few puppeteers." because almost nobody wants that

I know you don't like lying, but you won't have to.

Just find a reason to be busy and get her a sentimental, personal present and/or alcohol. Actual adults don't really make birthdays a big deal. If you don't overreact, she won't.

>>17517185
What's a good "reason to be busy" though? I'm a shut-in so it's not like I have any events that I'll be attending. Also, it's her 21st.

>>17517214
For fucks sake! What's wrong with you people? OK, you have a a couple of weeks so lay the groundwork this week.

Toothache - do a couple of social media posts saying your tooth is hurting. Tell person you want to avoid you're going to dentist but he's busy and you really hope you can get it sorted before the party. Tell them you've seen dentist and he's put you on a course of aerobic and non aerobic antibiotic. You can't drink while taking them. Most people know this. They make you feel like shit for a couple of weeks. They don't stop you completely functioning so you can still work but you'll be tired.

Learn how to lie convincingly. It's pretty much essential in today's society.

>>17516549
Fuck off i thought you were referring an actual mythical beast.

Bumping because I would like some responses.

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>>17516549
>I've never been terribly good with women
W-uh HO! WHAT AN UNEXPECTED TWIST!