So here's what happened. I bought a used car off of Craigslist. Everything went fine except when I went to the DMV to register the car, the name on the title and the signature on it didn't match. Yes my fault it was my first time buying a car I'm an idiot blah blah. Anyway, I let the guy I bought it off of know what was happening. He said he would try to get it fixed because the owner of the title loved in California (I'm in Nevada.) Since the owner of the title wasn't responding he said he would drive down to California this past Saturday and get it taken care of. It's been two days now and he hasn't responded.
I asked for my money back but by now I'm thinking the guy is just going to keep the money. What exactly can I do in this situation? Yes I know I fucked up but oh well nothing I can do now.
But is the car stolen?
>>17583309
Almost definitely, meaning that it could be taken off OP and he wouldn't get the money back either
Go to a different person at the DMV. They might not notice the signatures. It could be as simple as that. Or try a different DMV. I think as long as you have a physical title you should be good.
Hey anons,
I'm slowly running of money every day even though I'm working close to full-time as a cashier/clerk.
I've run a budget calculator, despite extremely cheap rent and living with a roommate, spending money only on electric, internet, rent and food. I'm still coming out short each month.
I realized that I need to get a job that pays more. However, most jobs that I find require an undergraduate degree and I'm always getting rejection letters.
I have my Associate's degree but that's clearly leaving me unqualified. I can't go back to school because in order to get loans, I'd need my parents as a co-signer (something they don't want to do) and I can't apply for the FAFSA on my own because I'm not old enough yet.
Any suggestions? I need money and a way of getting my undergraduate.
Thanks for reading. :P
Move back home.
>>17583252
I would if I could, although my parents love me, they have the mentality that once their children turns 18, they are an adult that can fend for themselves. I was asked to leave on my 18th birthday.
I'm pretty sure you can have a local school help with fafsa -- I remember reading something like that on my fafsa info.
When is it okay to tear up?
When tears are almost out.
when you have a sad :(
why u sad dude ?
How do I bring up the topic of children to my gf? We've been together for about 2 years now. Financially stable. She's 25 and I'm 22. I want to have kids. I don't know if she does, but how do I bring it up? Would that likely scare her or put her off, or is it worth bringing up?
You've been together for 2 years and you don't know how to talk to her?
>>17583145
She's always been a bit more mature and nurturing to me, probably because of 3 year age difference. Of course I'm comfortable talking with her, but on this subject, I'd be scared bringing it up to anyone.
Wait, so you've been together 2 years and there's never been any indication of whether or not she wants kids?
My new, labor-intensive job wears me out so much. When I'm at home, all I can do is numbly surf the internet.
How do I get my personal life back?
You don't.
What job? I had the same experience the first 3-4 months on the job, but eventually your muscles will grow and adjust to the work and you'll be a lot less tired after
>>17583243
UPS pre-loading.
Damn it, I've been her for six months now and I'm still so tired all day.
What's your lowest standard(s) of happiness? I mean, what are you willing to do (and do often) that achieves an end result of happiness, be it drugs, eating fast food? Basically something you can personally attain for yourself quickly, that makes you happy. I guess, I'm kinda asking what your vices are, in a way.
Vices don't attain happiness, just pleasure. Usually only physical pleasure.
>>17583084
Yeah, I guess in this context I was using happiness as a short lived thing, so yeah pleasure, hence why I put the gluttony pic.
Furious masturbation, an Armstrong family technique passed down through the generations!
>tfw you will never be besties with Lust
pic unrelated.
How do I deal with a gf with a weird fetish that I'm really not comfortable fulfilling? She's got a great personality, and the sex is good for me, but she says she won't enjoy it until I step on her. I'm like 260 pounds and she's like 100, and she wants me to stand on her.
I tried stepping on her back a bit, and I could feel her bones popping under me. She wants me to stand on her chest and her face, but honestly I'm afraid of killing her.
I don't know what to do.
Don't do that
that is retarded
let someone else step on her
>>17583031
Just step on her
She won't break
lmao, fucking do it
So, I was on my first date at a club and my date asked a guy if he would grind on her, obviously he said yes and I stood there a like a cuck, eventually they stopped and we started dancing again and she asked the guy again. I said fuck it and left. I can't get over her. What do I do?
>>17583011
Sounds like you did exactly the right thing. There's nothing to do for her, just try and get a date with someone else.
>>17583021
It's just I have to see her everyday, in classes and theatre. And we have a lot of mutual friends. Should I tell them or...?
>>17583029
Tell them why? Serious, why? Because you think it'll make her look bad? I mean, yeah, it might, but it'll also make you look whiny and petty.
FINALLY A GIRL TOLD ME WHY THEY FRIENDZONE ME.
she told me all girls say they want a blue prince, but what they really want is a bad boy.
I'm nice guy, a little nerdy and I always try to do the correct thing. so, I don't know how to become a bad boy, or what makes a boy look bad.
please, post tips about how to change. I really want to change my personality. these tips will help us all.
>>17583008
Hahahahaha. Do you want them to stop "friendzoning" you?
Grow some balls. This proposition is pathetic.
>she told me all girls say they want a blue prince, but what they really want is a bad boy.
This is true for high schoolers.
>>17583008
>she told me all girls say they want a blue prince, but what they really want is a bad boy.
Stay tuned for another exciting episode of "Things That Never Happened."
>have sex without a condom
>didn't cum in her
what are my odds this girl gets pregnant? She is suppose to have her period next week.
bamp for classic question
Use google faggot
>>17583007
Pretty low senpai. It's theorized that precum can contain sperm but if you urinated between the last time you ejaculated and when you had sex you're probably good.
Seriously I've pulled out a lot, usually while drunk, and I have yet to get anybody pregnant.
I'm in a somewhat difficult position. I'm an awkward guy with semi self confidence issues. I tend to usually feel that if a woman in attracted to me that I'm probably not good for them. And when certain ones give me the slightest amount of attention, I tend to somewhat develop feelings for them.
Anyhow, at work there's this girl I work with, who is affiliated with us but employed with another company. She's positive, adorable, vibrant and full of life; a genuine person. Almost the polar opposite of me but someone that would be good for me.
We get along well. I crack jokes and she tells me how funny I am. We tease each other and usually gab a bit too much as there's actual immediate work to do (that starts to feel to get in the way).
My issue is I want to make this more than just some work friendship and make it a relationship. The concern for me is that I feel that I might have misconstrue the friendship and felt more for her than she does for me. This has happened a couple times before, and I make the move to ask out and get rejected.
So /adv/ I'm wondering what's the best thing to do? Carry on the friendship and bottle these feelings? Or is it worth the risk of asking her out even though this could blow up in my face again?
>>17582972
>Carry on the friendship and bottle these feelings? Or is it worth the risk of asking her out even though this could blow up in my face again?
Every time you ask a girl out you're risking the chance of her saying no.
There is no way around that.
Weigh your options. Make your choice.
>>17582972
>Carry on the friendship
No
>ask her out
Yes
>dating at work
If she's employed by another company, do it. Just make sure this doesn't conflict with work and make you risk losing your job.
>>17582972
If you feel she is gonna say "yes", risk it. But remember it's a risk, she can say "no".
How do we get her to see that she's not okay? https://youtu.be/uKb2ipnsKC0
We need to save her
She probably is past the point of no return.
>>17582959
>How do we
>we
WE don't do anything. YOU can obsess over meddling in the lives of mentally disturbed youtube girls if you want. The rest of us are gonna take a hard pass.
Saged.
How can I stop being so intimidated by attractive women?
>>17582892
Describe your situation a bit more, please. Thanks!
>>17582892
stop worrying about what they think about you.
>>17582904
this. Being relaxed and confident is more than half the battle. Start with less attractive women.
Pic is with hair tied back. i am a very anxious person and am very afraid of becoming uglier than I already am. Any hair growth tips? I have very long hair and am thinking of getting it cut. I don't think it's genetics, but me just being too rough with it?
cut it
You've gotta comb it back before you tie it, moron
>>17582922
I do brush it. I probably brush it obsessively
How can you trust a little boy or little girl about the desire of transitioning with everything they are exposed to on television?
It's a conspiracy, do not trust em.
>>17582861
>transitioning
As in gender change?
Depending on how old the kid is, I'd refuse to fund any treatments, and not allow any permanent procedures.
If they want to cross dress and present themselves as the opposite sex, that's on them.
I have some first hand experience with this. I knew a girl who had always been a bit different, and in HS she was very androgynous.
Once she turned 18 and we graduated, she changed her name and began hormone therapy. Now he's doing pretty well, and is much happier.
>>17582861
The same way you trust a child that says he wants to be an astronaut or a cowboy. Its not your responsibility to trust them.
Children cannot make the kinds of decisions as serious as permanent surgery until they reach an age where perspective can properly inform them. Even then, its all kind of a crap shoot but that goes for any serious adult decision, not just transitioning to a different gender.
If a child wants to make a change in their life you take it with a grain of salt, ensure that they aren't physically harming themselves or others and wait until they either phase out of it or stick with it through adulthood.
So long as they're not hurting themselves or others its not really your job to figure it out for them, its your job to support them while they figure it out on their own.
If I've learned anything from raising my own children its that no matter how ridiculous they act sometimes the only thing you'll accomplish by telling them who they are and aren't allowed to be is ensuring that when they turn 18 they'll leave home and never talk to you again.