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>>17890144
im sorry but i laughed so hard at "my ex just came and beat my ass for christmas"

>>17890144
Sue him and or hire someone to beat him up

>>17890144
call the police instead of thread on 4chan

What makes you suspicious?

Could you perhaps take a day where they think you are at work/school, but actually you are basically going to tail him?

>>17890148
Thats too much effort, anon. How long have they been dating?

I believe op should break up if the cost/benefit of this relationship doesnt have a good output. Thats too much stress you can do without if that is the case.

To put in the most minimal effort, why not gift him a phone that has spyware installed? Kinda expense, but no need to tail niggas

>>17890155
Well, correct that they should break up. But I think the OP was more concerned with letting the others know.

I'm the same but with guys. Asexuality is the only label I've been able to find that comes close to describing how I feel.

>>17890134
I am sexually attracted to the rest of the girl though. romantically too.

Yep I'm exactly the same. I feel normal attraction until genitalia is involved. Not sure why.

You dumped him right before the holidays? That's brutal

>>17890086
ugh

well this is life either sacrifice yourself for some guy you don't really life or dump him and find somebody better

most likely he will recover & find somebody else

you could wait a few MONTHS (not days not weeks) try to contact him & apoligize for something or other but this may make thiings worse

just try to accept this and move on

i guess

>>17890089
We're not really christmasy people. He's also in a tropical country with his family for 3 weeks so I legit felt the timing was good because he'd get a nice get away from everything in this cold snowy shithole. I do understand that it kind of sucks, but i really did not want to hold my feelings back any longer.

please respond

>>17890075
yugioh

Uno and a thousand games just like it.

See, even now no one is responding to thread. Same thing that always happens

>>17890077
i don't know man i have no fucking friends either

>>17890033
make friends in games maybe, thats what i do

>Third times the charm, right??

Wrong

>>17889975
Pattern recognition is weak with this one

>>17889975
It's the holiday fever that's making you think you need to with a warm body, even if that body is an ex. Ask yourself why you broke up in the first place.

>>17889951

So you're attracted to the female form but prefer male genitalia?

So you're into traps mostly?

So you're bisexual?

>>17889951
way to go to start being the creep

>>17889955
no traps are disgusting

>>17889956
rude

>>17889938
You probably are really stupid for complaining about these things.

For me i drank a lot of wine after eating only junk food the past days which overthrew my belly and mass produced acid and now i am sitting on the shitter since yesterday and throw up every now and then.

Merry Christmas Faggot

>people got me shit
>let me bitch and moan and shitpost on 4chan about it

>>17889945

Binge drinking always takes the stupid cake, sorry friend-o

>>17889922
If you dont like the sit don't come to it. What kind of person spends all day talkin a out something they dont like u belong on /pol/

>>17889922
Same.
Fucking weebshit site this is

I'm sorry, Jesus. I am weak and quick to anger. Absolve me.

This isnt hormones she just has feeling like every other person on earth

>>17889915
I don't get it then

you don't need to "get" it.
you need to FEEL it.

So stop giving her compliments for a while. People don't appreciate what they get all the time they only appreciate things they had to work for. If she doesn't get herself dressed up don't compliment her. If she doesn't put in an obvious extra effort don't give her the prize. Women are odd in that if you're too nice to them they assume it fake or lose respect for you.

>>17889858
I guarantee if that hot male acquaintance told her the same she'd be wet. She doesn't value your opinion

Maybe she can't take a complaint well and so she responds that way as a defence mechanism.

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I also feel I see art in a way different way other people do, I feel art truly is the meaning of life, and all great artists are aware of it and they try to tell it through their art, but i'ts hard to see. Human communication is flawed, you can never express yourself through words (fuck you books!), you must do it in another way, in a fictional way.
Reality must be represented with fiction to be truly understood. There is no bad art when it's created with passion and love. If your motivation is money or something materialistic, it just doesn't work.

Fear is such a weird idea. Fear benefits humans in so many ways, but it's like a double edged sword (like basically everything in life from love to hate). I fear being insane, being wrong, doing all this research for nothing; if life's a game, I'm not playing, I'm trying to find out why would I be playing. I'm reading the rules, over and over while other people are enjoying themselves. Maybe I'm not good at this game, or I just don't understand it so I don't like it. Or maybe I like it, what is liking things anyway, do I like questioning things; well I suppose that's pretty obvious, but people like cocaine and that's not good for you.
Do I care what's good for me? I feel I care more on what's good for humankind, our planet, our future, space and basically everything in the universe.
I also understand why most people don't care, because they'll be dead. I believe in some form of reincarnation and I understand how something like that is easy to call bullshit. But my ideas on "afterlife" are exactly as valid as anyone else's.
The more detailed your story (mostly referring to religions like christianity or islam), the more unlikely it is to be the reality. The more simple your beliefs, the better.
What I mean by that is this: why do people assume you only live once, and even if you did; why would you not care about the future of your children, your siblings children, your neighbours children and children at all.

You're like a 14 year old that just discovered Alan Watts and Nietzsche

Your ideas aren't original, you're not better than anyone for believing in them and you haven't done anything to even come close to proving your worth hearing. Currently you're a fool, babiling in the street but go a head and think that because you wear rags you're the next Jesus

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This picture speaks for me so much.
There's a lot of talk about a third eye, spirituality, peace and love. But for EVERYTHING you will ever do or experience, you NEED another person to experience it with. But the concept of "the one" is bullshit, that another person can be literally anyone, if you're on the same level of understanding. Everything that exists is always trying to find it's perfect state of energy, it must be the same with consciousness, how could it not?
I see this in art, but uncertainty is a bitch.
I've experienced with psilosybin, lsd, mdma and a few others and I'm looking forward to seeing what dmt does
Happiness is a construct
>>17889866
This is exactly why I can't talk about my thoughts with anyone, they're not finished and you're not supposed to share unfinished work.
But that's also the reason I NEED to talk about my thoughts, because I need other people's opinions and thoughts. I can't just circlejerk inside my own head, it leads nowhere but uncertainty and confusion. I have no one to talk to because people don't care, and (I don't want to seem rude but fuck it) when I post anonymously on the internet, the response isn't exactly helpful.
I also explained how I hate saying out loud my thoughts, because of the contradiction. I know my ideas aren't original, but there's always something that hasn't been discovered or realized.
But when I can't find answers on google anymore, what am I supposed to do? I can either ask other people or try to figure it out myself.
I've been trying to figure it out myself for a few years now and the stalemate feels real.
But sharing it with people isn't easy because I'm afraid of responses like yours.
Like I said, I fear I'm insane, mentally ill, crazy. But on the other hand I don't even believe in those things, they're only labels to put on people who think different, who don't fit the norm, who people don't want to deal with. Dehumanization is easy and fun for the whole family, no need to deal with those lunatics

Therapy or self respect if you can't figure out how to respect yourself on your own then you need therapy

>>17889825
i can't afford therapy, i do have self respect, i think what im feeling is kind of natural at this time in my life but i want to help ween off of it

>>17889831
If you're comparing yourself to others and worried about height you don't have self respect

So fucking pay attention. Don't open other shit. How is this a problem?

>>17889807
Are you asking how to watch a movie/show?
I mean, I don't know how to respond.

>>17889807
you have too much free time