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What do women really think of bald men? Does being bald make a guy less attractive to women? I'm balding and feel kind of self conscious about it

Femanons, help

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>meet girl online
>we get along great
>we verbalize that we're interested in each other
>I visit her for 3 days earlier this week
>get a hotel room and sleep in the same bed
>we hold hands and cuddle, which was great (I didn't expect anything sexual and didn't mind taking things slow)
>last day as I'm dropping her off I kiss her but she didn't seem to like it
>entire drive back it's eating at me
>get back and we text a little bit but I had gotten back late and she fell asleep
>anxiety levels out of control, and I can't sleep
>sperg out and send her a wall of text talking about my feelings for her and that I just want to know if she was just shy or was uninterested
>the next day she says she didn't do anything she didn't want to
>ever since then she's been really distant
>used to call me at night but hasn't done that since then

What do I do?

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My roommate does porn. I'm so uncomfortable with that lifestyle and it's in my life every. single. day. How do I not just go crazy about how disturbing it is that someone would want to live like that? Do any of you have friends who are otherwise great but do things you consider so detrimental to themselves? How do I even communicate my discomfort without being an ass? How could anyone feel good about themselves when their worth is lowered to getting paid for being fucked/playing with themselves on camera?

I don't know what to do guys, I can't stand it. It's so weird to me.

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A friend wants me to come over for the holidays, its usually fun hanging out with them but they get depressed this time of year and theres a chance that theyll have some sort of emotional breakdown or suicidal episode and Im really just not trying to deal with that so I lied to them and said I couldnt. Should I tell them the truth and see where it goes from there or maintain peace and the lie? I mean its not guaranteed theyll get that way, but it happened last year and like I said, dont feel like handling that tonight. What do you think /adv/ ?

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I sort of want to make a vlogging channel. Not the teen screaming into mic about politics kind.

I currently work between 80 to 95 hours a week for paychecks (Several jobs in same industry), and I also run my own company on the side. All my money is invested into it.

It seems like the workaholic entrepreneur archetype is pretty popular. I always liked the idea of documenting my life, ideas, and thoughts, as an open diary, and I find cinematography and making videos fun.

I will have time on the weekends to put videos together. I don't have the days completely off, but I have plenty of hours I normally just jack off in and I want to fill them somehow, but with something entirely different from what I usually do.

Should I go for it? Is there anything I need to consider?
Something tells me making a weekly / daily vlog is a bad idea.

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Hello /adv/,

I was kinda hoping 2016 would be my last year. I'm a 20 year old virgin, I'm ugly, no self-esteem and I'm just awkward around people (especially strangers). It's bad to the point where I just can't function like a normal human being. During the course of this year it kept getting harder for me to attend classes and right now I just don't feel like hanging out with friends anymore. The only thing I really enjoy is doing drugs (amphetamines, Xanax, cocaine sometimes).

I'm just a tragic person and I decided that I don't want to live to see 2017 but I'm having trouble making actual plans to end it. I'm pretty sure I want to use a suicide bag with Nitrous oxide perhaps (I don't know if that works).

As a kid I got diagnosed with PDNOS I think, and it'd explain why I have so much trouble with others. I feel the need to be with others but at the same time I suck with them. It's like a curse. I know I won't get better and that my life will get worse and worse as time goes on. That's why I don't want to live anymore. I'm a huge disappointment and the list just keeps getting longer.

I'm kinda hoping you guys can push me over the edge and take my hesitation away.

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hey guys, need some help. I was walking on the street with my mom on the way back from church and we were talking about the evening. I stupidly said shes ruining my Christmas but in a sarcastic tone because she said that all we are eating is fish for dinner tonight something i really wasn't in the mood for and basically i was acting ungrateful the whole walk home. The ruining my Christmas remark really got to her and she started to cry on the street while hitting me,hits didnt hurt ofc but seeing her cry almost made me as well. she went on a rant about how im a terrible son and that i hate her. so she demanded i leave her alone and after several attempts to reconcile with her i left and here i am. What would you guys do /ADV/? i feel like shit

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I realized in most cases of me having to get over an ex, deal with just being friends with someone I liked, etc. My sexual feelings towards them brought me down much much much more than my romantic feelings. Yes the romantic feelings do get to me and bring me down, but sexual feelings towards people really really really gets into my head and fucks with me. It has me worried, is there something wrong with the way I perceive sex. There has to be something very wrong with me if not getting laid is bringing me down this much

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Long story short,

Met this girl (19) while I (23) was doing delivery for my parents bakery. Things went well and she gave me her facebook. I talked to her a bit, build some comfort and the conversation eventually led to her doing yoga and I asked if she could show me some stretches. I don't quite remember what she said but I didn't go out with her.

A few weeks go by and she initiates conversation. I do the same strategy and ask her if she wants to go for a walk at one of our most scenic parc in our city. She said she had many end term exams but will get back to me when she finishes. That was the 28th of october.

Now, out of nowhere, she wishes me merry chrismas to me and my family. Is that the part where I just ignore her and hope it will provoke a reaction?

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DAILY REMINDER THAT THIS SITE IS TOXIC AS HELL AND YOU NEED TO GET OFF IT.

Stay positive my dudes, you're gonna be fine. Merry Christmas :)

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25 medical student female here.

I used to be truly fat during childhood and teenage years. I went full /fit/ two years ago and now I have a decent body, but I can't function as a normal human being - I'm terrible at wearing make-up, choosing clothes and approaching guys. I used to think I was asexual, but the truth is: the low libido was due to depression.

I met a boy, he is 19, almost 20. We have the same political view, he likes several things I like as well, he even was born in the same city I was and studies on the same university. He is single, but has several female friends. We talk about pokémon breeding almost everyday.

The thing is: I think, for the first time in my life, I like a boy. How do I confess? Is being 6 years older a problem? I don't know if he likes me and I can't talk to mutual friends right now because it's summer vacation in my country.

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I'm 29.
>Can't go into yard outside without telling parents first.
>They track my location using my phone
>Eating is controlled- especially junk food, max 2 cookies a day. Sometimes I'd like to make the bad decision to eat more.
>Strict bed/wake time without even 5 minutes flexibility (10pm-8am. I can be in the middle of working and not be allowed to finish, lose my save file) regardless of weekend or holidays. No naps.
>They expect grandkids, but I wasn't allowed to talk to guys until college and never had a bf. They want to freeze my eggs- I don't want kids.
>They read my emails, texts, whatever screen is open on my computer.
>Constantly ask what I'm doing. If they leave the house for 1 hour, they call and ask what I'm doing.
>I put a do not disturb sign on my door, and they ignore it. Walk in on me getting dressed.
>Sometimes I stay in the bathroom for peace and they lose their minds.

I've never done drugs/smoked/drank/partied/ or neglected school or work (no judgement of those who do), so I wish they'd trust me. They don't wish me ill will but are worried/OCD. They're retired now and rarely leave the house, so it's worse than before. They don't have other hobbies.

Some exacerbating factors:
>I'm their only child
>I'm not medically well
>Robber broke into our home once while I was home alone, it's partly my fault
>I'm not financially stable

I know the solution is to move out, but is there anything I can do to make my situation better until that's possible in however many years?

Thanks if you read all that. Happy holidays.

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I'm worried that I don't have what it takes to go through college.

I am diagnosed with a learning disability. I'm going to explain to you what learning a new concept is like for me. I want you guys to relate my experience to how it is like for you guys to study and tell me how big the difference is. Because if i'm only a little worse at studying and just getting in my own head about it that would be good to know.

If I open a page in a book and look at a paragraph explaining a new concept i'll usually understand what it's trying to tell me. However after I read it and I give myself some time, I can't verbally explain what that paragraph was saying later and I have to read it all over again. Even if I put in effort to remember it after I read it the first time.

After about 15 to 20 minutes of reading, I burn out and it doesn't matter how many times I read a new concept. It doesn't stick then.
If it's something I can actually practice like math then even if I do 100 examples of the math problem i'm learning, I will forget what that math was in a few days.

I can't tell if it's because my studying methods are just really poor or what. But making a new concept stick is really hard for me. If this is just too much of a handicap to have any chance at college I need to know now so I don't go into debt on a wild goose chase of higher education and do something more practical like trade school instead.

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/adv/
Long time lurker here.
I am filled with anxiety right now. I guess I am not asking for an advice. I am just here, to share this with you guys.
I have been in a relationship for like 6 years with her. 6 great years. It was perfect.
Then I had to go offshore, moved half a world away from her. We decided to do the long distance thing, it was working well so far. I even went home to see her and stayed there for a month.
Then came this part where we both realized that it is not gonna work out this way. I wont be going home for atleast 3 years now. She aint coming here as well. She told me it will be wise to stop this thing.
Deep inside I knew it was a right thing to do so even though I wanted to be with her, I couldn't stop her.
It is over I guess.
I feel empty as fuck.

I need your words /adv/

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>Have long distance girlfriend
>Play WoW together all the time
>Mastrubate with each other a lot
>She's fuckin pissed and stressed about Xmas and her family
>Already bought her a new pet in game

I wanna do something else special for her to make her heart melt and cheer her up, what else can I do for her that's not in game? I feel bad for her and I just want to help her to have a fun and relaxing night.

Help me guys.