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I live in the UK, where the age of consent is 16. I've fallen for a sixteen year old, and she's fallen for me, and we plan to be together. Both of us are thinking about the long term for a relationship. The problem is that I'm 19, and usually when I'm in relationships I'm the younger one, having dated a couple 22 year olds last year.
How morally sound is the relationship that I'm getting into? Should I be careful? I still live at home yet plan to move out in the first half of 2017, so that should help things along, in theory.
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>>17886589
>I still live at home yet plan to move out in the first half of 2017, so that should help things along, in theory.
It'll help you along realising that you're both children, and you will soon (hopefully) be less of one than she is. When I was turning 20 I can't even imagine talking to a 16 year old like an equal let alone thinking I was in love with one. They are a child and are concerned about their A-Levels and what sweets to buy with their pocket money. In short, you are pathetic.
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>>17886589
Nice bait you fag
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>>17886660
Cheers lads, nice. You're aware that this is /adv/ and not /b/, right?
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Girlfriend was more adventurous with previous boyfriend and it's really starting to bug me.
The biggest example that annoys me is that she has a large amount of nudes taken from the past for her ex. She has sent me a nude picture once and it was one of the ones she took for her ex. She tells me it's because she feels uncomfortable doing it because she hasn't been working out so much recently. (I think her body still looks amazing and tell her every chance I can)
I just keep coming back to the thought that she did all this stuff for her ex who she always bad mouths and tells me I'm so much better than. But she won't do the same things for me that she did for him
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Just tell her to her face. It's a pretty shitty move, specially because she sent that to other person and you know it. It's like gifting you with somethig she got from him.
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>>17886504
Just remember she's with you, not him, so clearly she thinks you're better. That's something special!
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To give me context with my advice could you tell me how old you both are?
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Talking to girl. Yesterday at party someone dared me to kiss her and she didn't want to, I didn't want to do it without her wanting to. Subject is coming up, should I ask why she didn't want to do I?
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No I'll tell you, its because she didn't find you attractive.
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>>17886465
Aw shit
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Don't
No matter what the reason was, she was put in the awkward situation of rejecting you because someone tought it'd be a good idea to set both of you up without her knowledge. Asking her why will just put her in yet another awkward situation.
I'd recommend you apologize to her. Obviously it wasn't your fault, but you'd come up as a better person to her eyes if you were understanding of her position af the moment. Something like "hey I'm sorry the guys put you in that situation in the party, it must have felt awkward to you. Just wanted to let you know this wasn't my idea, ok?"
Whatever reason she had, it won't do good to anyone if she lets you know. Doing as I say, on the other hand, will at least put you as a understanding guy and good friend. It's not as good as a kiss but it's still better than knowing why she rejected said kiss.
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What does it mean when a girl says "You couldn't handle me." After you ask her to be your gf?
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"sorry, I'm not interested"
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>>17886439
This more than likely, very very off chance she has mental health issues.
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She thinks highly of herself and lowly of you
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Is this sexual harassment?
>a girl at work cut her hair off (girl A)
>her sister (girl B) tells me, "it's dumb but she's going down this gothic path"
>I say, "you sure she's not going down a lesbian path? Lol"
>Girl B says, "lol no way. If she was then she would have went down a long time ago lol"
>she walks away
>I turn to this coworker next to me (Girl C) and say, "you never know some people are into scissoring and lesbian action"
>Girl C laughs and says, "true you never know"
>Girl B misheard what was said and thought I was asking if Girl A likes to scissor other girls and was trying to sexually harass her. She told my manager that I was sexually harassing her about her sister.
I only suggested maybe she was going lesbian. And when I brought up lesbian action, it was to Girl C after Girl B left. Never was I trying to harass her or make feel uncomfortable.
I have to apologize to her but I'm afraid if I tell her she misunderstood me then she'll get defensive and try to make things worse. But at the same time I don't want to apologize for saying something that I didn't say or mean with bad intentions.
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It could get you fired in the current year, but IDK if it would stand up in court.
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You made a series of inappropriate jokes infront of or regarding 3 women in the workplace.
How retarded are you? In the current year?
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>>17886429
I wouldn't go as far as calling it sexual harassment, but it sounds like she interpreted your "scissoring" comment correctly. You were speculating about girl A's sex life, which is a dumb thing to do when her sister is within earshot. Also dumb, in general, to talk that way about your co-workers while you're at work.
She really didn't misunderstand you, so just leave it at "I'm sorry" and learn from the experience. If you try to justify the stuff you said you'll only make it worse
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I am unsure wether to save for a year and buy a high-end PC or get a credit to buy a high-end PC knowing I will end up paying a lot more in the long run because banks are thieves.
I really want that PC, I'm fucking tired of shitty graphics, low FPS and old games, and no, I'm no bandwagoner, I've been a gamer for a long time, fuck in lan parties my friends had to keep themselves from playing the new games because my shitty toaster won't run them.
I'm at a lost here.
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Just build your own. You can build one that'll run every game for under $700. Won't max settings or anything, but 60 fps+ with mid settings.
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>>17886401
If you can't drop couple hundred bucks on the shit without thinking, maybe you should use your time for something different than mindlessly pushing buttons?
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>>17886404
Of course I am building my own, sorry if I made it seem otherwise.
My problem is that, due to exchange rate, 1000USD (my target build) is a lot of money.
>>17886407
I don't plan on dropping a couple hundred bucks, I want something expensive, however as a mexican the exchange rate really fucks me hard and the forecast is that the exchange will get worse which is why I'm thinking of getting a credit.
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Lawful Permanent Residence
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Can we please brainstorm some ideas how I (a white European in case you're wondering) can get a green card?
I love America and I don't really care for Europe.
I've tried the green card lottery for the first time this year, hopefully I'll win. In addition I'll go on vacation in the US soon and hopefully I'll be able to make some grill fall in love with me, knomsayin. I don't have a college degree btw.
Do you have any other ideas?
>inb4 we're full
>inb4 Anti-Americanism
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>>17886371
go for a gay dude instead, they're a lot more willing to greencard marry.
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>>17886375
but I'm not homo and it'd be hard af to fake
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Would you be homo for a green card though.. homo isn't that bad
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My gf and I had sex like 10 times over the weekend. About 7 out of those 10 times I wore a condom. I never came in her. I watched her take the pill every day. She is now 3 days late for her period. What are the odds that she's pregnant?
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>>17886355
odds dont matter. even if we said 0% chance of pregnancy you'd still eb freaking out.
go get a test and see what happens.
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>>17886355
you should get a pregnancy test at Walgreens it's like 12 bucks
i had the same thing happen literally last week
she was 5 days late and her boobs hurt (classic sign of pregnancy)
i was freaking out too
until we got the test
Then she got her period 2 days later ( 1 week late)
best news ever btw
a negative pregnancy test is like music to your ears
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If she is just marry her and start a family, there are private and public programs you can use to support a family.
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Hey /adv/
I need a helium tank, how can I get one without raising suspicion ? I tried using balloon time but they're only 80%
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If you're going to kill yourself at least do it by cop, kill societal dregs like drug dealers and welfare leeches.
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>>17886315
I'm not an American citizen
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My local gas dealer BOC says it has balloon gas.
Says only 4% impurity. Although it could be another trap. I'm not sure what I can do though.
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girls don't actually care much about dick size and it kinda sucks 2016-12-24 05:01:37 Post No.17886258
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girls don't actually care much about dick size and it kinda sucks
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So I realize size isn't a big deal to most, especially girls (gay guys care more)
And it kind of sucks because it's really hot when someone finds the idea of large size hot etc, and size related dirty talk
Feels like 1st world problems to complain about this but yeah. Do you recon this is true ?
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Theres a maximum size, most girls can't handle more than 7.5 because it hits the top of their cervix, most of making a girl cum is clit manipulation and hitting the g-spot.
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>>17886262
Was about to post this
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>>17886258
I can't handle a 6.5 most the times. Sucks man.
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>want to be loved and adored and sexually desired
>get super fucking jealous of chads that look like pic related
>cut myself
>girls say "b-but anon he might have an ugly personality, appearances can be deceiving"
>they still fuck him anyways
>will always have an inferiority complex for not being able to make girls wet just by looking at them
>"you're not entitled to women anon"
>shut the fuck up
>cut mysef more
>now I want to cut others
Why fucking live? Why why why why play the fucking game and why fucking live if I cant be pic related? Why the fuck shouldn't I lash out and hurt people since life is otherwise meaningless? What the fuck is all that "stoic be a man" bullshit it never fucking works???
Just why?
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if you're average looking the only thing that's holding you back is yourself. you probably have some weird fucking tendencies or absolutely no confidence cause you sike yourself out so much.
frame>looks by da way
u cut urself, that pretty much sums up this entire post
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>>17886229
You sound like a faggot
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>>17886229
You have stupid fucking problems. Grow up.
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>Take out older woman
>She rejects me
>FWB instead
>After first session she admits to being a lesbo (but moreso bi since she blew me)
>Also admits to have a girlfriend too
>Play with her a little more, but feel bad and call her out for cheating
>I told her I dont wanna talk to her unless they break up
>We stop talking
Did I do the right thing, /adv/? I miss talking to her, she was really cool otherwise.
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Are you literally retard
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She rejected you. She isn't interested in you romantically apparently.
Of course she isn't going to break up with her girlfriend for you. Stop pretending you're more than entertainment.
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Imagine trying to convince your lesbo girlfriend that the child is hers.
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For 2017 I want to stop coming to 4chan and stop wasting my time on useless things that don't benefit me.
HOW. Tell me how. Please ,I don't want to be a loser anymore.
I'm so ashamed of wasting my time. Everyone I look up to doesn't waste time on retarded bullshit. They make the most use of their time, they're efficient, they're thorough.
How can I do it.
Everyone, EVERYONE has merely 24 hours in a day, even billionaires or other successful people. Why can they maximize their day and I can't? How can I match them? How do they do it?
Do they keep a journal? A notebook of goals and tasks to do? Do they track all their activities to ensure maximum productivity?
Please. I'm losing hope. I need a way. Break it down for to terms suitable for mental invalids. PLEASE. I WANT TO MAKE IT.
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>>17886178
Get banned
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Baby steps, try one day of not using the computer, shave your face and go for a walk, maybe walk to the corner store to get a bottle of water or something. Read a book on your front porch.
Or maybe one week of not watching porn.
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>>17886189
Pretty much this. Start small then work up to bigger projects. Get creative!
When I was in your shoes I began interspacing internet time with movies, vidya, and reading. Very quiet activities of course, but the point is getting into a pattern of being more impulsive. So pick up new hobbies, even if you're not rich you can start drawing , writing, taking pictures with your phone, and will yourself to practice them, even if you suck or lack confidence/motivation. One of my faves was walking down the train tracks through the industrial park -- great stimuli for the imagination.
And of course your going to want to sit around doing jack all, so allow yourself to indulge once every three or four days. Alternatively, you can relegate downtime to a certain time period everyday, such as from dusk till bedtime.
>all succesful people use machine-like time-management
Not true at all. Many ambitious people rely on idling to remain productive in the long run.
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I regretted opening up to some people
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I don't really have best friends up to about two years ago. I met my best friend coincidentally at a party with other people in college. We talked and shared a lot of things. I find myself being completely comfortable around her, I can laugh yell or tell her any stupid thing without the thought of her judging me.
Everything is fine until recently we have a chance to work together. I step by step seeing her true color. She always sounds like an innocent girl and a naive one who asks for advice all the time. I didn't think she could be this way. She treated me like someone she would look down and making fun about, she bitching about other girls, she show up as a jealous girl who thinks all the girls except her is not pretty enough and/or can't do anything but put on some makeup. She bring me food and give it to me like I'm begging her for that. I felt offended. I can feed myself up if that's what she thought when she brought me some food to work. I just don't have time to get it myself at that moment. I started questioning myself that is she ever considered my as a friend or is she looking down on me the whole time?
She asked me to do my job even carry her part just for her to have some spare time playing with her phone. I know she introduced me to this job but I feel like I can't be there any more.
I'm feeling sad cause I lost a job and also lost my best friend.
What should I do? Please help.
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how old are you OP?
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>>17886271
I'm 25
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>>17886147
OK OP thats fucked. You know people do change as they go through life and people you thought were great do not turn out to be. You are in tough position but there is a lot you can do. Its not going to hurt to say "look, I have known you a long time, and I fell that.." Make sure you use only "I feel" or "i think" not "you did" or "you didnt". See if you can talk this through. If she doesnt really make a change, you should fin your self a new job- that way, at least you may stay friends. God Speed OP.
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I used to jerk it to 2d trap porn when I was 16 and a degenerate and my sister caught me now blackmails me about it. Should I beat her up? Whats the best way to punish a blackmailer?
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Oh and FYI this is 7 years later
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I recommend finding something to black mail you sister with.
Give em a taste of their own medicine
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>>17886127
Find out a secret of hers and tell everyone