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FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>>17887847

I still would like to know some opinions

>>17887839
Hehehe, I don't know but I kind of made me laugh seeing that FAQ answer quoted here (I'm actually the one who wrote that)

Anyway,

Not a chick, buuut, the consensus is, there is a hierarchy that goes something like:

1.) The best thing is always the thing that fits your face best.
2.) Most women prefer shaved with light, five o'clock shadow of stubble
3.) Clean shaved comes after this
4.) Trimmed/maintained beard
5.) Full beard
[...]
20.) Neck beard/patchy beard

However that order is not concrete. Most girls seem to find beards annoying, because they're itchy as fuck to kiss, but there are also some girls that really dig them, and there are some guys that just always look better one way or he other, universally.


I for example, used to be completely clean shaved. One year I did a Movember, and people just kept telling me to keep it. So I figured why not. And now whenever I shave it off for Movember, people always ask, what the hell? How did you get so young? You look weird. Even though I wasn't exactly bad looking back when I didn't have it at all.

I know even my girlfriend, who used to HATE beards, vastly prefers me having it to not.


Pick what you can pull off as a priority, fuck the rest, because people all have different tastes, and that shits all surface to begin with.

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I'll save you fifty replies of LONDON and fifteen year old betas trying to give you advice

Pursue any hobby that has at least some amount of heterosexual men in it, then just find groups of gatherings to do it; there will be men there and by virtue of being a woman you will receive male attention

Don't pick something retarded like video games or furry porn though because you will nobody worth passing on their genes in those settings

>>17887828
This pretty much.

Also are you cute? if you're cute I'll date you.

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If you're at least a 5/10 just go to anywhere where people congregate and you're done.

What kind of alternate reality do you live in where woman have a hard time at dating?

>>17887737
Yo chill

She's probably busy today

It's not just today. She's done this several times now.

I'm sending her a message and I'll get a response like 38 hours later.

I'll try calling her but she won't pick up.

It's weird as fuck man.

Last time something like this happened with her it was because of me blatantly ignoring her to test her and she eventually messaged me, 4 days in, "GIMME ATTENTION PLS".

Probably ghosting you then.

People are shitty like that.
Too cowardly and thin-skinned to simply say what needs to be said.

Sucks.

>>17887727
>that girls are somehow better

they are if you are male

otherwise do all those things whatever because they are healthy

>>17887775
I don't take interest in them. I'll probably just do it enough to get girls .

Also , I feel like loosing muvCard to a girl is somehow more validating than with a guy. I feel like an idiot saying I got a bf.

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Nah, you're looking at it all wrong.
You have to test out if you have fag tendencies or not.
If you drop this and go for girls you'll always keep wondering. It will always be in the back of your mind.

This is what you have to do:

If your bf is a reasonable person voice your doubts to him, tell him that you're unsure of your sexuality and that you can't promise anything or commit until you see if you enjoy doing stuff like guys. This doubles as being fair and transparent, but also creating an escape plan for yourself if you figure out that you don't like to diddle men.

After that it's pretty simple really, you have to try it out.
After you try it out all your doubts will instantly vanish and you will be sure of your preference.
You've had a gf before, so after this experience you'll be able to contrast and compare.
After that you can make the final decision.

Be honest with yourself OP, you're probably just scared and you're being kind of a pussy.
Well, I can guarantee that running away from this won't alleviate and of your fears and doubts.

Good luck, fag.

>>17887666
I'm a woman and don't know what the fuck you're talking about.

>>17887673
No shit
You do it naturally

>>17887666
I'm a man and I have no idea what you're talking about.

Yes, just do squats, compensate with nice legs and ass.

>>17887620
My hips are square so no matter how many squats I do I'm still gonna have a square butt

And my legs are short and stubby

>>17887622
Have you tried it? I assure you they will look better.

Just be ready to pay her

>>17887503

How? I mean cash I know, but like in an enveloped? Folded up? Do I just hand it off first or after?

>>17887510
set up a date, have $$ in your pocket & give it to her when you 2 are in the bedroom or when she asks for it

He left a towel at my house and I washed it and told him I did. He said "Oh so it's probably not too grody then!" Like nope it is actually not "grody" at all because I washed it I literally just told you that???

that sounds annoying as fuck
tell him

Is he doing it in a post-ironic way

no don't

>>17887470
Nah


Never maintain any form of contact with her and move on to a better gf.

>>17887470
No

You're holding yourself back. You're still in love with her because you're an idiot. It's clearly not meant to be and she was smart enough to accept that and move on.

You deserve happiness and you're too stupid to let yourself have it.

There is so much more to this great, gorgeous girl that you've just meant who wants to fuck you other than the fact that you have a lot in common. You don't know if you share the same feelings towards her because you're not letting yourself find out. This really is self sabotage.

Stop being a dickhead, stop obsessing over somebody who isn't relevant to you or your life and please see this girl as a human being.

You're choosing to be an idiot and it's making you sad. Get to know her. If you really want to be the weirdo who obsesses over that one ex he had years ago for the rest of his short, pathetic, meaningless life then please tell her because she really sounds like a wonderful girl who deserves better. You know, as a human being with thoughts and feelings and memories and a unique personality that you don't know and appreciate.

Stop being like this. If you can't stop, seek professional help before you ruin your own life.

Cut her out completely

>>17887565
This

And the only cure to it is moving on. If you're not willing to, you're stuck, but by your own option

>>17887451
If you trust her, no.

Of course you should.

>my bf is going to a strip club, should I be worried

>>17887455
>trust her

Kek

Two bottles of beer is all I need for her to consent.

>>17887419
That's fine. They assume the ratings will be high - after all, he wouldn't choose you if you were going to low-rate him. They want to see if there's a pattern and if any of their red flags go up. For example, unless it's a sales job, an 8 or 9 in verbal communication won't hurt him, but anything below a 10 for moral character will. An 9 in self-confidence or driving won't hurt.

>>17887444
Yeah I was thinking that a highly positive reference wouldn't appear as out of the norm to an employer

>>17887444
And I'm not quite certain what it means by driving habits

Maybe Jaybirds X2 used them for 1 year now, the cord are getting uncomfy lately. Probably because of lots of sweat + washing.

>>17887426
I dont want earbuds

>>17887414
go to amazon and search for headphones sort by price then read the reviews

pick some model then do internet search for more reviews

>>17887405
>I don't want to end up like that.

too late

you're already addicted to very serious narcotic that will totally have negative health effects in 1-2 years you will need mmore & more to get that buzz

get some professional counseling and stop the drugs don't start booze etc

there are legit prescription meds for anxiety etc

>>17887405
>the pace of a normal working life wears me

It sure couldn't be the habitual opiate use...

>>17887405
Shoulda just stopped at alcohol abuse like the rest of us

>>17887375
Does she masturbate? She needs to work on herself

Jam it in

>>17887375
This doesnt sound like a hymen issue. It hurts for girls the first time usually because they're young inexperienced and probably not wet enough. Not hymen.

Your girlfriend sounds like she actually might need a doctor or professional advice if you can assure me shes adequately wet.

Source: watched and fapped to late night sex ed shows every night for years as a horny teen. I was friends with an actual sexologist and could keep up with her in knowledge.

Not exactly an expert but i certainly know shit.

Might not be helping if you got a huge dick.