I'm actually thinking of calling up the ex gf to say merry

>Third times the charm, right??

Wrong

>>17889975
Pattern recognition is weak with this one

>>17889975
It's the holiday fever that's making you think you need to with a warm body, even if that body is an ex. Ask yourself why you broke up in the first place.

>I mean, I gave her a chance
I find it very interesting that this seem logical to you. Relationships aren't something people owe one another.

>>17889993
Can't be that bad? She left me for temporary fun when first started dating. Whatever it was died out or didn't work, comes back wanting to start over. Tell her she needs to earn my trust and respect if this would even work, lots of sex and not really taking it too seriously until 6month mark. End it cause i don't really have that emotional connection from the first time. Now I kinda miss her but meh probably more the cuddles and company

>>17890004
This mostly. The crazy was slowly seeping out and I kept falling into the mindset of damn this will only get worse. In the end the communication wasn't all too open either

>>17889987
this totally

op you are falling into the yo-yo syndrome

please get over it, find some other gal before you completely fuck up again & waste more time

if you really like some things about your ex then find those same things in a different gal