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>be me
Wat do?
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I'm really sorry op
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>>17905367
This is a website for humans
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Push your age to 18 and ask again afterwards.
You're a young littel pupper, you have your hole life ahead of u...and ur too yung.
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I have a very debilitating mental illness but I'm terrified of going to the doctor and getting a prescription for it (have a huge fear of people thinking I'm lying and judging me for it). And also I have been denied public health care such as therapy due to the system. How do I get over this and get the proper help?
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Why do you care if they judge you
So what? You know you are not lying. I doibt the doctor will think you're lyig unless you're trying to get like xanax or something, but then he'll just test your diagnosis to find out what you need.
Then go to another doctor if he still thinks ur lying
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>>17905307
How do you know you have the illness if you haven't been diagnosed by a doctor? And if you have been diagnosed, why hasn't the medication been prescribed?
This sounds a little too much like "I just know I have something wrong even though doctors say I haven't and I won't be satisfied until I get some medicine"
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>>17905307
wtf
is mental illness the new troill meme ?
last 2 weeks about 50 threads on this crap
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how do I come to terms with being a disappointment to my parents?
Namely my mother. She's an amazing lady. She did everything for me, but I still turned out to be a loser and it's not her fault. I so want to make up for all the shit I put her through, so I do everything I can for her; I buy her gifts all the time, take her on trips, call her every day, do her chores. But the only thing she wants after dealing with my shit for 25 years are some grandchildren.
Now I'm finally in a stable relationship, with decent income, in a perfect position to have kids really. But the problem is I absolutely despise children. I hate how they sound and how they act, and when I hear a crying baby I just want it to stop breathing and die. Suffice to say I would be a really, really shitty parent if by any chance my child survived my inevitable post partum depression.
So I have to deal with being an eternal disappointment and knowing my mother will die not having known true joy in her life.
Make me wanna kill myself, not gonna lie.
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Adopt
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>>17905301
When it comes to children, the well being of the child comes first.
So, you have a kid which you hate, just to please your mother. The kids life sucks because you had him/her for an ulterior reason. This makes no sense.
Your mother is choosing to be disappointed.
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>>17905302
hurr
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Should I warn girls/friends/family of my ex that he is abusive? Physically and emotionally.
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Why do you freely assocuate yourself as having a negative relationship with an ex-relationship partner?
That's not a personality trait, its a problem you haven't solved.
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>>17905315
What the fuck does this post mean?
Anyway op, i guess it depends on the gravity of his actions. If he did bad stuff you should at least talk about it with some friends, you're not talking shit if you're just telling the truth.
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yes you should
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>2 yr IT degree
>little-related job experience
>weak resume
how do I go about looking for an entry level IT job? do I need to go out and get a+ cert or ccna to go along with my degree?
what kind of job roles do I even qualify for with barely even work experience? call center meme stuff?
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Almost all IT operations people start out in help desk, apply for level 1 help desk positions and work your way out to your preferred path from there.
CCNA isn't required for your first job, A+ can't hurt but its very basic.
You do want to tackle as many certs as possible in your first few years of your career though, network+ and server+ are ok for generic roles and CCNA is a highly sought after cert but some people find it very difficult when just starting out.
MCSA is a good one to start with if you find the comptia certifications boring or too easy.
I've been in IT 10 years currently network and security operations, any other questions?
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>>17905326
I have my sec+, net+, ITIL and a 4 year IT degree with experience but I still feel like I know nothing. I don't get to do much besides monitor and report for my job and I want to move up or out of this company. I've been here for 3 years without any changes in responsibility. What's the best way to go about this when you're starting out in the security industry?
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Yes, I've done some help desk work for a few months, but that's about it when it comes to any related work experience.
Should that be the only thing I mention as for past job experience on my resume?
As for progressing through the IT field, I would eventually like to do some sysadmin/network admin work and perhaps later move into security related stuff.
How do I move out on $1,100?
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1. Pour it all into bitcoins
2. Wait 12 months
3. ??????
4. Profit
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You really don't if you can help it. If you must, find a shelter and start busting your ass for literally any job you can get while you save money by cutting every luxury out of your life. Not a good path to walk in life.
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>>17905286
Craigslist a roommate who already has an apartment with cheap rent and utilities. Continue working and saving up to pay your bills. Eventually move out into your own apartment (maybe studio or efficency).
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>Took a shower 20min ago
>Walking back to room
>See rolled up sock in front of roommates room (F)
What does it mean?
I stood for a good 10 sec staring at it.
Did she drop it by mistake & I didn't see it before?
Is this another Cinderella?
I really like my roommate but she knows I'll never tell her,
almost feel like running out and grabbing it before she wakes up.
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Stick sock in pooper
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Gr8 b8 m8
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This is some kind of copypasta, or I don't know what the fuck.
Tell me more about the first "cinderella" en counter you two had.
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Im in a really tight situation, I turned 26 not to long ago and need to get off my parents insurance. But I need work, problem is, im epileptic and cant go 6 months without a seizure. I tried ssi last year once but they denied me and every job Ive applied for dosent call back because I cant drive. I might lose it all soon and if I cant get my meds I die.
What the fuck do I do?
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learn programming and advanced math
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>>17905271
I dont live in a place with any real tech jobs, its all retail and factory work around here. Anything like that is in the next city over.
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>>17905275
work remotely
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Fear of Being Affectionate!!!
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28 year old man here.
I like physical affection but I am really scared of initiating/advancing it or touching women in general and I also feel like I should ask permission before even trying but that would just make things weird and awkward.
Examples:
>watching movie with female relative or female friend and they lean on me or grab my arm but im too afraid to lean into them or put my arm around them or maneuver into a more comfortable position, im pretty much scared stiff.
>when i pose for a picture with a female i prefer to put my hand on their shoulder instead of waist cause it seems less "wrong".
>i only bother hugging females when its the customary greeting and with the exception of family i only ever use one arm.
>if im sitting next to a female and any part of her comes into contact with me i try to subtly move whenever possible unless im like stuck next to them in a car or bus.
How do I overcome this? My female friends and relatives dont seem to mind touching me (and some seem to actually like it) but I get petrified. There are also other times when I really feel that a little affection could cheer me up but I am too scared to make the first move.
Even when I am out on the town and drunk as fuck I consciously avoid it.
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You're not alone OP.
30yr old male here.
I've been dealing with this problem since I was 13. I've had girlfriends that I've kissed, held hands, cuddled, and had sex with but it took me months to even be able to hug them. Idk why but if there's a woman I start having feelings for then all of a sudden I get like an anxiety attack if they sit too close to me. But if I have no romantic interest there's no adverse reactions. The only reason I'm with my current girl is because she is forceful when she wants something.
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>>17905347
OP here
I dont get anxiety the same way you do. I just feel weird and a bit afraid of showing them that I am enjoying their touch.
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I have no advice for you OP, but you're not alone in this. Intense aversion to intimacy isn't all that uncommon.
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Is this "mean spirited or cruel" ?? I sent it to my grandmother who is acting very strangly and aggressively over the last decade.
>Please get help. You are out of control. I saw what you wrote to my mother. You went out of your way to directly insult my mother and I. You are not well, this is not the behavior of a loving person. This is the behavior of an unwell person.
>Why on Earth are you so defensive when someone tells you something is wrong? Its not an option, you can't just say "I'm not sick" when the symptoms of sickness are right there for anyone to see and you outright admit to them. We don't judge you for being unwell, no one does and no one has, but its illness. Nobody wants you in some loony bin, everyone wants you to be happy and healthy, which you are not.
>The last thing you wrote to my mother was so devastating, its just terrible.
>You need help. Grief counseling, Anxiety counseling, something. Go get help. I will help you find help. I will take you to go get help if you need me to. I understand you are unwell but this isn't something time will fix. You told me you didn't know my mother's phone number but you called her today and I saw her call log so please don't tell me you didn't.
>Go get help.
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>>17905255
why would you write sth like this to your grandma kek she's probably demented
u go get help
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>>17905255
Based on my limited background knowledge of your situation I'm going to assume you grandma is acting batshit. So yes I think it's fine.
I have relatives in a similar situation and what helped was confronting the issue. The relationship isn't fixed but they can now atleast be in the same house together.
>>17905257
Dont listen to this guy.
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>>17905260
I think she suffers from narcism and dementia that was accelerated by my grandfather dying suddenly in her arms three years ago. My uncle had she started acting strangly when he visited her in 2005. Since then, shes become more paranoid and aggressive than ever before and its just getting worse.
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How do I tell my girlfriend that she looks stupid in the clothes she dresses up in. Usually if a female asks we how she looks in a certain outfit I'll pretty much always say they look fine. But my girlfriends outfit ideas look like a bimbo outfit. It just makes he blend in to "stupid" girls. I feel like she can do better.
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>>17905192
try to push her towards outfits you like
>hows this look
>ehhh its alright, but i think yuo look gorgeous in the purple one or maybe the skirt and boots thing (note: i dont know what girls actually wear)
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>>17905192
Take her shopping op. Buy grilfriend 2 outfits you like and she'll probably start basing her style around clothing like that. Helped me in past relationships. Didn't realize I was dressing like a dork until ex bf took me out clothes shopping a few occasions.
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I feel like you're just trying to get me to buy you clothes, NICE TRY JEANNINE!
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>bi
>male
>never actually done anything with a guy beyond flirting and sending pics online
>have a gf now
>i want to experience the homosex
>don't want to cheat on my gf 'cause I'm not a piece of shit
>she likes the IDEA of threesomes but says she probably wouldn't like it irl
what do
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>>17905180
stick wiht the girl until you cant take it anymore. then leave her.
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>>17905180
If it's a fresh relationship I'd say to leave and explore your sexuality. Guys with baggage of unexplored sexuality is an awful thing for a girl to become tangled up in (vise versa).
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>>17905180
just go suck some dick or get a strapon for your ugly ass nigger gf you gigantic autistic FAGGOT
GET FUCKED IN THE ASS
RIGHT
NOWWWW
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I've been sent home from work twice this month for being too drunk or hung over to be of any use. People have started asking me how I'm doing, and what they're really asking is if I've been drinking, and they only ask to see if I'll lie about it.
I know this because they always did the same to my dad. He died from this.
I always think I've got it under control and then I fuck up again, but forbidding myself from drinking at all still feels like an overreaction and I give up on it soon enough and the next thing I know I'm vomiting wine in the staff bathroom at 6 AM.
What do I do?
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>>17905158
if you're reaction to trying to quit is comitting wine in the staff bathroom at 6am, then quitting is by no means an over reaction.
you clearly have a problem. maybe not for life, but taking a long break shoudl help.
why do you drink?
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You're addicted. You need addiction treatment. It's affecting your ability to work.
Some people like AA, but it's pretty heavy on the God shit, so you could also try getting a professional.
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drinking affecting you badly so stop
you have to want to a lot and it's possible that you're not there yet. but bring able to have the mindfulness that some shit is going down is better than most people. best of luck
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>haven't hooked up with fuck buddy in a few weeks
>been too tired/busy
>she texts me begging to fuck
>tell her I'm sick
>not really sick, just feeling weird
>kinda wanna stop seeing her
>kinda wanna look for a normal relationship and stop hooking up with women who are complete shit
Anybody know this feel? Am I going to regret doing this? I told her I'd see her in a few days instead.
I'm so sick of dealing with stupid immoral nonsense. I don't even wanna have random casual sex anymore, it's just a pain in the ass. You worry about pregnancy, STDs, false rape charges, ect. ect.
I'm just too tired. I just wanna focus on work.
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>>17905153
then focus on work. you dont need casual sex, and you dont need a relationship. focus on work and relaxation until it overflows in you and you're dick / heart will tell you what to do next.
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>>17905153
>I'm just too tired. I just wanna focus on work.
>browse 4chan
keke
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>>17905160
4chan doesn't consume much time and you get a lot of good insight on this website on pretty much everything
>>17905156
I should also add that we had a slight pregnancy scare. Her periods got all weird and fucked up so we got a pregancy test, which came out negative. A couple weeks later her period returned to normal.
After that, I was like "yeah okay pre-marital sex is a fucking meme. Fuck this shit". Way too stressful. I don't want a baby with her. She's hot, but insane.
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How do I get out of the friendzone boys?
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>>17905125
there are two ways out
>ask her on a date
if she says yes, you did it! if she says no then
>tell her you cant hang out anymore
congrats, no more friend, no more zone.
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>>17905149
I've been on like 3 dates with her
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>>17905198
were they dates? or were they activities where you suggested something, she agreed, then you did it but didnt kiss her?