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So long story short, this girl is fucking insane. She's tried controlling me through mutual friends, and is obsessive. She has talked shit about me for the past 5 months, and she's threatened to stab herself with a fucking katana if anyone goes against what she says. Her instagram is https://www.instagram.com/highqualitytrashhh/ and please just assess the situation. she posts a lot about how she wants to die and i think shes very mentally unstable. what the hell do i do? I'm afraid she's going to kill someone or herself.
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>>17904757
>https://www.instagram.com/highqualitytrashhh/
this person seems really young
you do what matters to you
would you rather wait and see if she gets over it or stop her without confronting her or confront her orrr
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>>17904767 >>17904757 Yea I've wanted to confront her, but its a sticky situation. She's 16 btw. I've tried to confront her, but my ex always guards her, and this girl just runs off. I want this girl to stop spreading bullshit, but I'm also concerned that my friends will end up in the middle of this.
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>>17904802
are you more concerned about this girl going batshit and hurting herself or your friends getting dragged in
for perspective
if someone was going to hurt me or themselves i'd confront them to see how bad it is one on one and then decide from there
i don't care if my friends get sucked in
if they're meanies and don't support it then they'll deal because someone could get hurt
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Instagram troll/possible scam
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Hey /adv my friend got a random pm on instagram from a girl who said she liked what he posts, she said shes from Columbus OH but in Nigeria picking up her fathers late fortune HUGE red flag for me but hes still pming her. She asked for him to buy a itunes card and pm the code so she can update her itunes acc info that was sketchy af, then she sent a selfie of her in a mirror to prove its her but she could have taken the pic from the internet. My friend is 16 and she looks like shes 22 so im thinking scam. Ill post pics of her insta and the selfie search her up and maybe one of you can cross reference some of the pics on her profile. Last thing i want it my friend gettinf fucked over by some online creep
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Heres the selfie
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>>17904753
Yeah. Yall need to get some actual proof she's real. Tell her to take a really specific selfie she can't just get from the Internet.
Best thing to do is real time chat on FaceTime Skype or whatever video chat.
If she doesn't agree to do those things, it's almost certainly a fake person.
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>>17904787
On the other hand, she could even be a real person using her own pics. She could still be fucking with him so she can manipulate him into buying her things.
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becoming too virtuous in my old age 2016-12-30 04:14:57 Post No.17904749
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becoming too virtuous in my old age
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it's easier to greentext this:
>be 32yr old me
>match with 19yr old on tinder
>mostly small talk, gets flirty at times but have hangups about age difference
>I bring up our age, she says she's fine with it
>somehow the subject of 9/11 comes up
>says she was about 6 at the time, only remembers her family talking about something bad happening
>I remember it perfectly, cause I was in college
>keep thinking about she was starting grade school when I was starting college, feel like a creep and start getting distant
>she gets the hint and we gradually stop talking
I kinda regret not going for it for the bragging rights, but I didn't wanna be that guy in his 30's going after 19 year olds. Guess I'm not looking for advice, just opinions if I was right or wrong to not pursue her.
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>>17904749
there's a difference between getting with a 19 year old and 'going after' a 19 year old.
i was 18 and regularly dated guys aged 29-32. not because i was mature but just because their life styles aligned more iwth mine. they werent nearly as clingy, i was never expected to go out and do crazy night life shit, and they were able to pay for steaks.
if a girls into you shes into you, dont worry about it so much.
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>>17904749
You should be married with kids at 32.
You're a laughable pathetic failure of a man.
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>>17904763
What if he's divorced?
Should I be a little bitch and tell a girl how I feel about her?
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>>17904715
ye
ur a lil bitch 4 bein hesitant in the first place
my friend recently poured out to a girl and she turned him down flat and he was distraught about if for a good bit
but you move forward in the way you want to define your life
do you want to lead a life where you don't make decisions because you're afraid
because this is what this sounds like
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If you suspect you have a chance, then no.
If you definitely know you have no chance and if you can't move on then yes, pour your heart out and watch her lose respect for you and treat you like a retarded puppy (at best) or a feces covered pedophile hanging around her window at night (at worst).
This will probably kill the friendship but it will give you certainty that you'll never be with her and perhaps allow you to move on to someone else.
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Fuck that
Just ask her on a date
None of this anime style confession
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Im a girl who just lost her virginity. Ask me anything
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>>17904635
Are you okay?
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>>17904644
Im alright
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>>17904635
When are you going to file rape charges?
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99% of women can go to their nearest bar and find a man to have sex with her within an hour at most. Any woman, even ones significantly less intelligent, physically capable, emotionally stable, and wealthy as me. ANY single one.
Is this some kind of a cruel joke? I have to work out for years on end and learn how to convince them to let me give them my money in return for a marriage with a 50% chance of failure?
Is this a joke? Someone please just tell me so I can legitimately kill myself. I am so fucking sick of this.
Why can't men complain about this without being called losers? Women do all the fucking time
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Lol /adv/'s a joke, full of losers like you mad at women cus they can have sex whenever they feel like
Don't be jelly virgin boy
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The dating world in general is shit. If you had high expectations join the club of being let down.
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>>17904632
I'm not a virgin I've just had a string of bad relationships where when I really look at it, the girl offers nothing except a vagina and occasionally a fun time. Literally nothing else. No skills, no virtues as a human being.
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Help /adv/, I'm seething in jealousy and it fucking hurts.
We're both m/f 18/18.
Basically I was reading The Sex God Method which is actually a really good book. There was a part that talked about dropping all insecurity and jealousy getting to know your girlfriend's sexual history/favorite sexual moments.
I knew I was gonna be jealous. I asked her about the best she had. She was probably 16/17 and a tall, fit, big dicked, 25 year old guy got drunk with her and fucked the shit out of her.
Yeah. I'm fucking seething in jealousy. This guy is everything I'm not. Tall, fit, huge dick, nice beard, nice hair. I know I'm an insecure pussy for being jealous, which makes it hurt even more.
She even tried to comfort me, telling me I'm the only one she wants now, and how our sex is some of her favorite, but it doesn't fucking help. I feel like a fucking child.
How do I let go of these negative feelings?
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>I feel like a fucking child.
Well you ARE when compared to this other dude that fucked your girl. Don't worry though, she probably just wanted him for a one night stand.
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>>17904572
Stop being such an insecure pussy. You asked. She told. Grow up.
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>>17904572
Talking about past sexual encounters usually doesn't end well. She shouldn't have gone into detail about his size or anything like that. Like damn. That wasn't cool.
But the damage is done now, tell her how you feel and then maybe have some angry sex, dominate that ass and let it all out.
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Is it better to Keep Very Dark secrets from your youth from the ones you Love?
Things that may make you a Monster in others eyes. I've Ben crumbling.
If you'd ben with someone over 10 years would you want to know?
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i would ben the situation tbqh
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Best thread on adv right now
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>>17904565
I don't follow.
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>Got out of a super nasty relationship a year ago, girl emotionally abused me, cheated on me, even hit me when she was feeling particularly nasty
>It was my first relationship ever
>Just now started dating
>Met awesome girl, cute, super kind, caring, etc
>She is really into me and wants to date more
>I'm starting to freak out a bit at the thought of another relationship
Like actually starting to develop anxiety over this, and thinking history might repeat itself. I tried to push her away a bit, but it didn't work, because she is so fucking insistent on dating more, and so damn understanding.
I really do not think I should be in another relationship, but I don't know how to turn down this girl, I've tried dropping every hint I could, but it just isn't working.
help
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Fuck your ex now get your man balls and experience new shit
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You win some you lose some. This could be the best thing that ever happened, or it could be a shitshow. Up to you OP. Seems like you're trying to displace the responsibility of making the decision onto some anonymous internet user, that way if it all goes to shit you can go "damn you 4chan!". Nuh uh. Up to you really man. Go ahead.
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Sounds like someone's afraid to live.
What the fuck is going on and what should I do to relieve it?
I had soreness of my soft palate a couple days ago, but just figured it was a sore throat, as I felt feverish. I decided to take a look in the mirror today and was greeted by pic related. I've had congested/runny nose and my sinuses feel odd. It hurts to swallow, but I've been drinkin ginger tea, non-stop, in hopes of soothing my throat.
Does anyone have some expertise in this subject?
Please, no, "AIDS lol".
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warm up some water, add salt to it, gargle it, spit it out, drink chamomile tea with honey and lemon.
repeat salt gargling every 2-4 hours or so.
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>>17904483
But what's going on? I'm hypochondriacal and am becoming increasingly concerned that I may have a serious medical issue.
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>>17904496
looks like swollen adenoids. if gargling salt is not effective you need to see an ENT dr.
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Is it really bad to call a girl 2 days in a row if you've hung out a couple of times?
How do you know if you're being clingy?
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>>17904390
It's simple.
If she doesn't call you back and you continue to call, you're being clingy.
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>>17904400
If she didn't pick up and I said "call me back when you get the chance" and she hasn't replied to it or called me back in 24hrs, am I a stage 5 clinger, do people get THAT busy? she answered my last call the day before.
Is it because girls around the age of 20 would rather text? I never really text her desu
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>>17904415
If you are asking these kinds of questions, then yes, you are a clinger.
Let it go.
She will either call you back (and your chances will go up if you let it go) or she won't.
You can only win if you let it go.
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I'm scared to talk to my boyfriend 2016-12-30 02:00:13 Post No.17904379
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I'm scared to talk to my boyfriend
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Whenever I feel like talking to my boyfriend, a voice in my head goes "He's busy. He's talking to his friends. He's playing a game. Don't bother him or he'll dump you". This means that he has to initiate conversation all the time, or else we never hang out or talk.
I don't think it's normal. How do I make it go away?
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It isn't normal to think those thoughts all of the time. Do you think so little of yourself?
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Sounds like a self esteem thing. You see no worth in yourself, so you automatically assume you are being a bother.
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Do girls do this to guys they like...? Because this girl never texts me but initiates conversation with me in person a lot.
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i need some one to talk to
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well i tried. those are signs i guess
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>>17904323
No one listens to you even here kek
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>>17904323
stop attention whoring and instead call the suicide hotline if you need to talk so badly.
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I'm having a hard time getting my girlfriend to agree with me on how we are going to balance our finances when we move in together in a few months. She's insistent on working two jobs to make ends meet. I had to convince her to even allow me to contribute with the money I make by bringing her one year old son into consideration, but when I brought up the idea of me having two jobs so that she could have more time with her son(60hrs/wk as opposed to 40) she refused and reverted back to wanting to get two jobs. As a child of divorce, I would've been angry at my stepfather had he NOT done what was necessary for me to have ample time with my mom. I'm not too worried about how our personalities balance eachother out when making common decisions not having to do with money, but I'm still evaluating how much it SHOULD matter to me that she wants to be the one making money. I also obviously wouldn't get much time with her after she spends what time she has left with her son.
Has anyone been in a situation like this before that can offer me some advice?
Feel free to ask me for more information, my thoughts usually come out pretty jumbled up and I'm sure I missed plenty of pertinent details.
Pic related but not of us
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>hiding "my wifes son"
You did well, OP
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>>17904292
she was already abandoned by one man. she does not want to risk being abandoned by another, or at the very least just losing another by her own volition.
its hard NOT to think this way in todays world, even women know marriage isn't forever and not all of them are hella golddiggers.
therei snt much you can do to stand between a woman and what she thinks is right for her kids. good luck though
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>>17904310
I can't tell if I didn't understand, or you didn't but her son is not my child.
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How do I tell my roommate how difficult it is for me to socialize? They want to friends but don't know how incredibly difficult it is for me to make conversation. My social skills are just broken, they've never been good which is why I never had a close friend no matter how hard I tried, I just was not born mentally normal for social skills. This is the only reason I don't have a much more normal life, social skills are very important in society.
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>>17904286
ever heard of the phrase "fake it till you make it" ?
the first ones (in this case socializing with other people) will always be the hardest ones, just start talking to them it will help if you open topics that interest them like do they like sports ? say something general like "i like this team cause they are a complete package" or do they like video games say some game at you know they know , just start talking
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>>17904286
say waht you say here.
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>>17904319
I will confess this though most people don't care but my roommate deserves an explanation since they're forced to live with me.
>>17904312
That is exactly why it is a problem for me, finding a new thing to say just never came naturally for. For some reason I find ig so difficult, its more than "shyness" I can't do it.
It is something that must be done so often that i'm terrible at. I go to extremes so people do not notice this, very difficult.