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I'm going to a big club party in London for NYE, and it's being shown off as a rave of sorts. At these events, I'm sure there are lots of hood people and dicks wanting to stab you or take all your shit just for fun. My question to you lot is, how do I prevent that, and just enjoy myself? I may be on E during the night and I don't know how that will affect things. If you can't tell, it's my first time doing this.

Any help would be appreciated, thanks.
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>>17906041
You first time on MDMA probably shouldn't be when you're scared of getting stabbed.
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>>17906053
There's no real better time to take it. I'm pretty much always scared of getting stabbed. I want to enjoy myself, but I don't want to attract any attention that would get me mugged.
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>>17906041
>how do I prevent that

get a gdamn clue and don't go to those things

why put yourself at risk ? those fuckups don't need a reason to kick your butt any more than they say - hey there's a dweeb let's go kick his ass

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Long story short, I'm currently playing with the idea of creating a short film similar to the feature length film Maniac. That said, I'm poor as fuck so it's going to be an ultra low budget found footage film.

The basic premise is that a deranged homeless stalker(played by me) would find an iphone, or something similar; and use it to document his decent into madness and the insane events that result from it.

Like those autistic kids that put videos on youtube before shooting up a school, or whatever.

The hook would be that every attempt would be made to make it appear as realistic as possible. I have a script half made, and I'm currently looking up/practicing filming techniques that I can utilize to achieve this effect.

The problem is I need a woman to play the "victim," and I'm not exactly sure how to go about finding one. Simply put, exactly how much proof do I need to convince someone to allow me to basically creep on them(i.e. film them from outside their house, or while hiding under their bed)?

I was thinking that I could just show them the Canadian law that forbids the creation of profane material unless it's artistic merit can be proven in court. In other words, I could show them proof that this is an artistic endeavor and not my own personal fap material.

Any suggestions, or comments would be appreciated.
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>>17906029
Finish the screenplay. That is step one. Focus on that first.

I'm a film major and have a complete short involving a woman covered in scars who has to do full nudity at the end. I plan on simply posting ads for the drama kids majoring in theater or acting to audition to be in it.

Being convincing in your own acting is also something I'd question.
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>>17906049
The screenplay is "done." I'm just in the process of polishing it. No idea how long that'll take though, so I consider it incomplete right now.

The majority of the scenes that require my own acting to be on point are solo scenes. Meaning I can re shoot them as many times as needed if I fuck them up. So I'm not super concerned about that.

Plus, I'm also a bit of a weirdo as is so I don't have to "act" as much as might typically be required.

I have no filming experience other then stupid shit I've filmed by myself so I just don't know exactly how much of a project I need done in order to be taken serious while looking for talent.

That, and I get the feeling this role will be kinda hard to cast since I'm offering little to no pay, and it's a weird subject mater.
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>>17906084
Well, saying I'm a weirdo might be a bit of an exaggeration, but it does take a certain type of person to be interested in this subject mater, and I look the part.

I've been growing my beard out for nearly 4 months in order to look like a hobo. Like I said, this is ultra low budget. So everything will be as practical as it can be.

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Chick gave her number, call her. Find out shes 16 ( just legal in my state) im 23. Was hella awkward, felt like a pedo so i did chit chat then told her i gtg cause work.

Literally most awkward call i ever had. Anyone know this feel????
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>>17905998
no because I don't cruise high schools for girls
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Also in person this chick seemed dtf and super flirty, so when she told me she was 16 i thought wtf this child wanted the d, i need to get outa here.
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>>17906006
I dont either, thought she was atleast 18.

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I want to greentext and shit and all that other funny edits you guys do and yeah how do I do stuff like that and what the fuck is a kek
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lurk moar
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Why? This isn't 4chan anymore.

They should've changed the name to faggotchan once moot left.
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>>17905993

you green text by using the greater than symbol; this (>)

put the grater than symbol before you type and ut turns to green text when you post. obviously remove the brackets.

kek is just lol ir the pepe the frog meme.

if you dont believe me. you could google this stuff.

fuck the people that say lurk more. some people dont have time for that shit.

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>>17905932
Balance, nigger. Vidya and anime shit isn't "being true to yourself", these are the simplest forms of entertainment ... and simple entertainment is perfectly fine unless you sink into it and all you do is related to consuming trash. Most of the "alpha" guys play vidya too, they simply don't spend their entire time with the shit chasing glad title or talking about Skyrim shit with others.

Although it'd be probably best to stay away from MMOs, these are too focused on being addicting and keeping you in a loop.
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God damnit, you kids today have no fucking guidance. The internet failed the lot of you.

Haven't you ever heard of suppressing your power level?

Be like Goku. You think he walks around as a super saiyan all day blowing passerby away? No, he suppresses his power level. Shit won't even show up as 2 on a scouter.

Enjoy the shit you want to enjoy, then recognize what you should keep to yourself and what you can make public.

You think muscular guys don't like video games? You think successful people can't like D&D or anime? You're as wrong as wrong can be.

Moderation. Suppress your power level. It's not that hard.

And hey, sometimes you'll end up meeting people who are also hiding their power level and you can both release and compare.
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>>17905959
>You think muscular guys don't like video games?
>tfw 90% of the /fit/ fags I know talk about battle arena games with the same enthusiasm as when they talk about gainz, exercise and diet
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>>17905959
>Be like Goku. You think he walks around as a super saiyan all day blowing passerby away?

pic related

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Hey /adv/

I'm coming to you with a big problem. I've only been in a relationship for a month but in this time she hasn't really left my house and before I know it she's pretty much moved in, prior to us getting together she was living on a friends couch.

>she's without a job at the moment
>I've been paying for everything
>she's 29 and quite irresponsible
>always in a bad mood and negative so I feel suffocated because I can't get any space or alone time

Truth be told I have been realising this relationship is something I need to get out of but it's all happened so fast. Tonight however she really really treated me like shit. Calling me all sorts of things, just winding me up and really being quite abusive.
>tell her to pack up her things and go
>she calls me more names and leaves telling me she's glad she got out now, I'm a cunt, a fuckwit, crazy, a child etc etc
>10 minutes later she's banging on the door, I don't answer but she's lying on the doorstep with her bags
>begs me to come inside till the morning (it's middle of the night)
>I tell her she has to leave in the morning
>she tells me she has nowhere to go and that I'm just "chucking her out on the streets"

Help /adv/ I'm so desperate I just want my life back, my space back and to get far away from this bad situation but she knows where I live and I reckon she won't go away and stay away.
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>>17905927
you're not in a relationship but a girl fucked you for a place to stay
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>>17905927
She sounds like bad news OP. Stand your ground. Tell her to leave and don't allow her to manipulate or guilt you into staying. And tell her if she comes back on your property you will call the police. Don't just say this as a bluff but be prepared to do it.
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>>17905934
its sure beginning to look that way

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She said she never loved her ex and never said it to him (6month of relationship) but I don't really trust her, how can I be sure ?
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You can't. That's why you're not sure now, you fucking idiot. That's what being "unsure" is.

>4chan, the dictionary
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>>17905920
Never trust a woman.
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That's true, never trust a women that's why I doubt about this

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My husband's father lives by himself on permanent disability for a mental health issue. He has been stable for at least 15 years but he is lonely and lives very far away from family. For the past few years he has told us how much he would love to live with us and be caretaker to our 2 children.

Both my husband and I are very career oriented and it would be a wonderful boon for us to have someone who can be there to chauffeur the kids, cook dinners, and handle emergencies and sick days. On the other hand, once the kids are in college I do not intend to live just the 3 of us. I want private time with my husband once we have an empty nest.

My thought is that we buy a house with an additional bedroom and bathroom and let grandpa move in with the understanding that once the kids no longer need his help we will help move him into a nearby active adult community or an assisted living community depending on which is more appropriate. We will cover any expenses he cannot and he will still live close by (right now he is a 6 hour plane ride away!)

Potential downsides to this plan? Positives?
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>>17905916
buy a separate house for him next door or down the street
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>>17905944
That is what we were thinking but right now we have not found the adequate property. We are looking at a new development that actually has an active living center in it, but that would be a townhouse for us and not an actual home.
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I doubt your father in law will live all that long, besides I'm sure once the kids are old enough to move out you'll be glad to have someone around( and if grandpa still lives he might need supervision because times get harder when you age).

A lot of books I read say women must have "a professional haircut." I usually do self-hair care including color and trim at home. My hair is blond and it is long, down to my waist. I don't have a stylist I like in the area, and going to a recognized salon downtown for a cut and color is something around a $300-$400 when you include tips (and no guarantee you will like it!)

Does "professional haircut" mean a hair cut by a professional, or does it mean hair that is cut and styled in a professionally acceptable manner?

Finally, I heard ponytail is the best option for long hair to avoid playing with it or it getting in your face. I personally do not play with my hair when I talk and I prefer it down. Opinions?

Pic related: closest thing I could find to my normal hairstyle except mine is blond and a bit longer.
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>>17905905
>Does "professional haircut" mean a hair cut by a professional, or does it mean hair that is cut and styled in a professionally acceptable manner?
Nigga, are you retarded?

Also if pic related is similar to your hairstyle, you should be fine.
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Having it pulled back into a tail or bun is for the removal of attention. Long hair is normally an attractive trait to guys and the reason they want you to look professional is because the attention is supposed to be given to the event, not you. This is why men have the standard, "jacket, white shirt, tie, black pants and shoes" and the standard look because it's supposed to show respect for where you are.
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>>17905915
Well, I don't think so because I genuinely was not sure of the answer to this. (When they say "professionally manicured fingernails," that means you went to a salon).

I am looking right now at the family portrait from Christmas and yes, my hairstyle looks exactly like that when I style it myself.

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How much weight do the words "I love you" hold?

I am bad at expressing my feelings of affection towards people and this defect is also present in my relationship.
Through actions I can more or less express my affection (hugs, kisses, touching) but words that encompass what I feel seem impossible to utter.
There is a mental blockage on anything I want to say that would make me feel vulnerable and I can't push myself over the edge.

I feel like saying"I love you" would be an appropriate reflection of my feelings that would at the same time take the edge off for me to make it easier to verbally express my feelings.
HOWEVER I'm afraid that because of how much culture has influenced the meaning of the words there will be a difference in my meaning and the meaning given to it by interpretation.

So what do I do
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>>17905830
>Because of how much culture has influenced the meaning of the words, there will be a difference in my meaning and the one interpreted

Yes.

This is always going to happen . A few hints would be to increase your vocabulary, research what "love" is throughout history/ when it was created, and set your own definition for it. There is no proper interpretation of the word because how to "properly love" is the most vague concept ever. Anything you do, including the most pleasurable acts possible can be misconstrued as offensive to anyone and thus, nothing is really considered the right or wrong way to treat someone.

There are people who love torture and desire death. There are people who make themselves sick and lonely.
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>>17905863
Where do I even start?

Is it really necessary?
As much as I am interested in the subject, the option to just take a leap and put myself in a vulnerable position is very tempting.
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>>17905830
Love is a verb, love is a doing word.

Saying "I love you" is pretty meaningless without loving actions.

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About a month ago at 3am I got a call from a number I didn't know. I put it into facebook and got nothing. Half an hour ago I got a call from the same number. This time I thought to put it in snapchat and its some guy that I don't recognize.

Should I be concerned about this? It seems odd that the same number would call me a month apart at odd hours. I could assume once was a random/accidental call but twice..?

Also about 2 years ago I was pretty active in dating women and I probably had over 100 different girls numbers in my phone. Could it be something to do with that? (its a guy though and I never screwed any of these girls over). I have no enemies as far as I know
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>>17905820
A girl ptobably gave him a fake number.
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>>17905823
I had these numbers years ago (2014ish). Could it really surface all this time later? Not to mention its the same number who called me a month ago. I miss the calls but I've never called back
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>Phone number anxiety

Just relax dude. Either your number is similar to some other number or its just someone doing it for the kicks...
Either way nothing to worry about

>Funny story a dude used to call me drunk and bitch about his life every so often for a while... At firs it was kinda creepy but later i just installed a call blocker and he eventually gave up...

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any advice on pegging my bf?
not asking about technical stuff (lube, preparation and so on), more on the right mindset and mood to make this a great experience.
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>>17905793
Stop dating a faggot
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>>17905793
How is your general relationship? Are you usually domming him?
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delet this

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What's your showering routine?

Soap, or just water?

Any lotions or moisturizer?

Reveal your secrets.
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shampoo and hair mask
face wash
shower foam with exfoliating gloves
intimate wash

after shower:
moisturizing haircare, root lifting spray, hair oil for the ends
toner, exfoliator, serum, moisturizer for face
bodylotion, deo, perfume
foot- and handcream
intimate moisturizer
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>>17905785
shampoo
rinse
shower gel on face
rinse
shower gel on body
rinse
get out of the shower
clean glasses
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>>17905785
Stay under shower until I feel comfy
Shower Gel on body
Shampoo
Enjoy the last moments of hot water
finish

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how can i be friendly with my bf's friends without making things weird?

we spend a lot of time with them and naturally, i sometimes talk to them about everyday stuff.
for example, one of them wants to quit his job, so i asked him why, then i asked what he would want to do instead, so he told me about the applications he has sent out already. i asked which one he would want the most and why, and so on.
problem is, those guys are all typical "spend my time playing wow and never talking to girls"-guys. i'm probably the only female interaction they regularily get.
that evening, this guy i talked to suddenly started to give me "strange glances". now i am afraid i was a bit too friendly towards him and showed too much interest in his life. do i have to fake superficiality or what?
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No just cuck your bf
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>>17905730
i'll pass, thank you
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>>17905724
Stop having a cat and your problems will be solved. If possible, get a doggo.
Your life wil dramatocally improve and your problems won't exist but only if you raise it well.

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I'm a single father, 40. My wife died of an aneurysm 5 years ago. We've been together since we were 14 in high school, married at 20.
Our daughter turned 18 in October, graduated from high school and moved out in early December.
I spent Christmas alone for the first time and it was incredibly depressing. I have literally never been alone in my life and don't know how to deal with it.
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This post filled me with such a profound sadness.

Being someone who has been alone for most of their adult life, I can only tell you that for me, It got easier with time.
During the holidays when It really does hit home alot more, plan to do something beforehand, If you have any hobbies, Go and do them to excess. If you don't. plan something new that will keep you occupied.
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>>17905689

I am deeply and honestly sorry to read this. I know no matter what we write, it won't help you a lot.

Try to engage more in activities with friends or other relatives. Or those two don't apply, try people from work. You don't have to become actual huge friends, it doesn't even havr to be meaningful. Just do something with other people. Experience new things. Try to pick up some completely new hobby. Something like DIY woodwork, building things, painting, buy an old rusty car and rebuild it and make your dream car out of it. Save some money and travel somewhere you never went before, alone. Somewhere far away. Be active, don't let yourself sink into the sadness. I can't imagine how hard it must be to lose your soulmate. Personally it would destroy me. But try to find solace in the fact that you at least had the luck to have here while it lasted, the luck to have a child. Even if you think you are, you are never alone.

Hell, I would even just go out and spent time with you if we (probably) didn't live on different continents. You have my greatest respect man. It's people like you who are the real warriors on this damn world.
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>>17905689
do you have time to get into some social hobby?
even something like weekend hiking or something.

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