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nigs already got em senpai, too late

Too bad you'll never fuck either race.

You like Asians because you're too inferior as a white man to get white women, so you assume Asian women will chase you and be submissive. Nope, you're beta no matter what.

>>17915590
But I have a jap gf though, so you're wrong. Tyrone is waiting for you.

eat them with parsley
it reduces the stench

You could also eat a lemon slice afterwards.

>I need to eat raw garlic for reasons
no you don't

Cry me a river you dumb cunt

>>17915522

He found someone more attractive and didn't want to make you feel bad. Sounds harsh but that's the probable case.

>6 months

Get over yourself

Thanks for the kind replies, gents I doubt he found someone else.

Because it diminishes their value in terms of marriage potential.

Because you're insecure and probably haven't had any similar flings/hook ups to maintain your fragile confidence.

Get over it, m8. She's with you now, that's all that matters. You're insecure at the fact that when you were single and probably dry, she was banging.

>>17915464
>why does hearing about a partner's short-term fling piss me off so much more than hearing about a long-term relationship they had

maybe you're insecure and think that a short term fling is gonna happen to you.

that it's ok to be a loser in society eyes if you're happy. Play Vidja all day, Girlfriend is a 4 and your idea of fun is Magic tournament and awkward sobby stories behind hard castle? that's cool, the only status you should worry about is personal happiness and if you have achieved this then you win.

>>17915443
what about doing something with your life? Living just to be happy is selfish as fuck.

Don't compare your life to others and study stoicism.

>he ignores you
>he is going through a rough time
>contact his family, despite all the hints to leave him alone
>get pissy when you get chewed out

Jesus christ women are stupid

>>17915416
Well he specifically ignored me, no one else and he twice said he didn't want me to leave him alone and got pissed when I asked again for a third time. So him saying no but sending all signals that he wanted to be alone... It got confusing.

>>17915409
>I feel utterly terrible and confused as to why he'd react so aggressively.
Because :
>So I just vanished

That's being a cunt, unless you were together for like a month, you don't break up without a word, without even saying it's over, and moretheless if it's a tough time for him.

You acted like a cunt, so he answered accordingly.

Your young OP. Don't get tunnel vision for one girl. Just have sex with her if you can and don't expect a relationship or anything. The first girl you sleep with is usually not the girl you end up with. Also don't feel bad I didn't lose my virginity of even hold hands until I was 22. I'm 25 now and doing fine. I was like you the girl started with me and invited me to her house and everything. We dated for a year and she decided she didn't like me anymore and just left without telling me why. Which is why you try not to get too attached. Good luck buddy, don't take it all so seriously.

>>17915400
Many thanks for you advice buddy. It is true, that I might get too much of a tunnel vision, she was a first girl I was ever with physically intimate, so that is why it left a huge trace on me. What if she contact me again? I am almost sure later or sooner she will.

Bump, anyone having any other ideas?

Discuss if you can have a safe word that you use if things get to far. That way you can try it out, I recommend using it the first time when he is not going to far just to see if he will stop. That way you can trust him to stop if you were in danger later on. But if he doesn't stop, I suggest you take your things and go because then you are dealing with an abusive and dangerous man. No matter how insanely horny he is, he should have restraint to stop himself if you ask it.

>>17915391
Our safety thing is just me tapping his side or his arm. Which we established already and he did stop when I tapped him.

I think we both don't really know how far to actually go. This is something new to us. What do we even discuss when talking about it? (as far as how deep we want to go into this type of roleplay)

tell him that when you have sex you need to require him to use JIZZLE jizz wipes so that when he cums loads on your chest you can easily JIZZLE it up. That should clear things up a bit.

>>17915303
Filled it out for you, hope it helps.

>>17915303
I think you'll recognise my survey application

thanks man, appreciate it

Haha I doubt that will make them racist, and yeah if was part of a married couple with kids I wouldn't want that shit rolled in my kitchen either.

>>17915283
Holy shit the implications of what you are saying is fucking hysterical.

Ok so your husband has a black friend who smokes weed and he hangs out with him sometimes. You freaked out over weed and kicked him out and your husband said that you are racist for not accepting black culture and smoking a blunt.

Also, do you even know what a blunt is? A blunt is a joint rolled in tobacco like a cigar. A spliff is a joint with rolling tobacco added. A joint is just weed in a rolling paper.

>>17915283
Stuck up bitch.

>>17915235
How about making youtube videos discussing the books you like? It may be a nice hobby and hell, I'd watch a youtuber telling me about good reads and analyzing them.

>>17915240
because part of it is I'm too scared to put myself out there, because I have a psycho ex-girlfriend (and I mean psycho) who is still mad at me for breaking up with her and loves to lie about things. I swear she will lie and try to ruin my name if I ever 'make it' or even develop any audience and she finds out. she is completely nuts and it's a long story but she was very abusive to me. she is willing to say anything if it means revenge.

>>17915242
Dude, you can't let this cunt ruin your life.

How could you be on 4chan for 12 yrs and not get redpilled

You must not be finding the right women. The best joy of life is nailing down a perfect conservative woman to make into your wife and then having a bunch of kids to raise as your champions.

Sitting on the front porch of your expansive house, shotgun and beer in hand, as you watch your children go to prom, go graduate, this is what life is all about, you get to continue the eternal circle of life and manifest love into the world

How tf you even think redpill people hate women?

>>17915277

Btw maybe don't drink with a shotgun. But thats not exactly what I am talking about.

>>17915277

I'm not a conservative person and if anything, I'm more like Chad than most. I'm not sure if you're baiting, but I don't want a conservative stay at home wife. That shit sounds boring as fuck, and I dumped my last girlfriend because she was too conservative.

I don't get what raising kids to "be my champions" does for me. Instead of slaving away at a 9-5 so I can send my kids to go do the exact same fucking thing millions of other middle class American kids are doing, I could be out doing something enriching with my life. Traveling, learning, or shit, just sleeping the fuck in.

Part of me realizes I'm the last chance to carry on the family bloodline, but is that really a noble pursuit anyways? I'm failing to see the point. The only half decent point someone has made to me was that I'll have someone to look after me when I'm old, but ehhhh... All I've watched growing up are my parents wishing they didn't have to put up with their parents' shit.

It used to be you needed kids and a wife just to get by, now they're a burden.

ah

ok

bobei

What makes you good enough to dispense advice? How old are you? We need more info, not just the fact you have a vagina.

what race are you?
how do you feel about interracial sex?

>>17915183

What makes anyone good enough to give advice on this board? Nothing. I'm a nobody with a vagina, but I'll try to answer consistently to any questions shot at me here in order to help someone in need. I'm a good listener with a reasonably good head on my shoulders, so I work from there. Friends and family have appreciated my advice, so I'm hoping to help someone here as well.

>>17915171
Would you say that you are trying to get a girlfriend? Going the extra mile to meet that girl in the club that gave you the look?

>>17915171
You sound like a beta "good guy" that girls would love to have as a brother and have no intention of ever fucking.
Good news: You are asking this question so you're probably at least starting to look at what's wrong with you that needs fixing.
Also, at about the age of 25, women's preference in men changes and things like jobs and intelligence become more important.