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Alright /b/tards.
So my wife and I have been together for 8 years. We don't have any kids, we are young and have a bright future together with our careers and stuff. We've gone through a ton of crap together and we really love each other. Now, here is the kicker. She wants a threesome and I'm not sure about it. I sound like a faggot I know, but hear me out.
She wanted to experience being with another girl without me. I tried to be cool and have her the green light with an old HS classmate of her - who happens to be my friend, coworker and classmate and this time- They went out and shit happened. They undressed partially and made out and my SO got fingered a little. That was all. They arranged another gathering where they were supposed to go "all the way" but I freaked the fuck out and called it off while they were at my friend's place. It got to me, I thought it was bullshit I was not included. I figured two things:
1.- if she wants to find herself and find who she really is and wants, she doesn't need me for that. 2.- if this is all curiosity, a mere fantasy, I need to be fucking included. Period.
So she was game. She changed to being cool with me in the threesome.
She seems eager and I am at times, but I really don't want to fuck up my marriage. I really like what we have and I don't want it to change us. Not gonna lie, I'm a pussy and I'm concerned.
The thing is when I told her she couldn't be with another girl without me, she throw a fit and wanted to leave my ass. We argued a lot. She wanted an open marriage and shit. I was not having it. She eventually change her tune and become cool with me being in the threesome. I mean, it was dumb to be ok with an open marriage and her not letting me be with her and another chick
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>women
Not even once
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>>17918330
This will only end badly.
Divorce her now.
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I dunno man... bringing a 3rd person into a relationship is almost never good.
She threw a fit because you wouldn't let her have an open marriage? Um, I would end that shit.
As much as it would fucking hurt after 8 years, she wants to meet new people and have fun. If you are up for that... great. Even tho I am like 98% sure this will end bad.
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My boyfriend died the week before Thanksgiving in 2012, and my best friend wrecked his Jeep and died 2 weeks later. The only thing keeping me here is the fact that I don't want to hurt my family.
After 4 years of hoping to get better, with plenty of antidepressants, weed, and therapy, nothing has worked, and the pain hasn't subsided in the least.What's the best way to kill myself without hurting anyone, or minimizing the pain for them? Either that or wait 60 more years for it to happen naturally? It will be just that, a wait for the end.
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>>17918287
I've never lost someone beloved, so it's hard for me to give you and advice. Of course some people change our lives and we don't want them to leave us, life is unfear and take them away from us. but i'm pretty sure, those two guys you love so much, They'd have never wanted to see you that way, so for respect to them, to their memory and love, fight, fight for being a better person, and fight for your dreams. You're not alone.
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>>17918287
Don't you have any aspirations or desires?
Anything you've always wanted to do?
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>>17918319
Yeah, to kill herself apparently.
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why do i feel so inferior to tall girls?
i'm really short. 5'1. i can't help and feel like "less of a woman" if i encounter a beautiful big girl.
i feel like i will never be taken seriously due to my hight and that i will always be perceived as cute and inmature.
is this true or am i just paranoid?
oh and i also feel like short gurls can never looks as refined as big girls. they just look more put together
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tall girls look like slender man to me
stay little it is ok, a lot of guys like it
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Babe tall girls are literally %1.5 percent of all women on the planet and they're all terribly insecure about their height, because they're taller than some guys they usually have to be the initiator in flirting and thats hard for girls.
You're cute as long as you have good legs and butt its no problem, and that can be fixed with reverse leg raises and squats.
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kek, whatever you need to tell yourselves, dwarfs. Tall women are the best women. There is a reason all supermodels are tall.
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Should I buy an engagement ring, /adv/? I read somewhere you should spend two months salary on one. I have about $10,000 in the bank and two months is $4,000... seems risky.
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FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK no, don't get super fucking crazy expensive rings. If you're going to get one with shiny rocks in it get one 2nd hand from a pawn shop, don't spend more than 500 bucks on both rings because if your marriage lasts she WILL lose one or both eventually.
Also don't spend a lot of money on a wedding either
Here listen to this shitlib who is accidentally correct
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5BeLinyfpg
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This as well
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5kWu1ifBGU
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>>17918261
Second this
My buddy I'm sure spent some cash on the wifes engagement/wedding rings. All she does is leave that shit around by the sink, or has it sit in such a way on her finger that the stone hits everything. AND she picked the princess shit out herself. So you know it wasn't cheap
Like others may say, get the moissanite or even zirconium, she won't fucking know. And if she goes to get it appraised and makes up some bullshit that you don't love her enough for a diamond, then you married wrong.
Another anon suggested checking out a gem/rock club. They cut precious stones and diamonds for fucking cheap, like 100 cheap and its the same thing you're going to spend 5k for
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> Like girl A
> Ask girl A out
> Get rejected
> Ok no big deal whatever
> Ask girl B out
> Girl A gets wind that I asked out girl B
> Girl A texts me "Anon actually I would love to go out with you"
So can anyone explain what's going on here?
Should I just go out with girl B?
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>>17918200
Go out with both. You aren't a couple just because you asked someone out.
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Just go with the one you like the most !
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Go out with girl B until girl A gets so upset she impulse fucks.
Then stay with B forever because A just wants to fuck over you/B
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How do you guys deal with suicidal thoughts ? 2017-01-03 01:51:24 Post No.17918132
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How do you guys deal with suicidal thoughts ?
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Just really fucking curious
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Suicide is probably the most selfish act on the planet because even if you're a loner your death hurts other people much more than it hurts you, everybody around you blames themselves because they have empathy for you. Thats how I think of it.
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>>17918137
So, guilt is the way to deal with it?
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Make a bunch of plans and then tell myself to wait until tomorrow to see if I still feel like following through.
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Help senpai... yesterday I met this young girl which looked a hell lot like this "actress" I remember....
she had blond hair, braided right above the ears, green eyes, redish tan...
I remember this teenage like movie, perhaps disney or something, anyone remembers?
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Wat? Miley Cyrus?
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>>17918115
I can't tell if its her early days or someone else...
can you post pics?
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this?
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My fiancé idolizes black culture.
I don't understand it and I don't like it.
Why would a white person from a good family think foul rap music is something cool?
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I seriously hope you're a woman.
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My fiancé idolizes lower class culture.
I don't understand it and I don't like it.
Why would a white person from a good family think foul Shakespeare plays is something cool?
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>>17918103
Does she actually idolize black culture, or does she just listen to rap?
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Chick i know has a boyfriend, shes flirted b4 when drunk and complimented my body but shes always apologised when she was blatantly flirting the next day. She always initiates convo, told me she deletes our chat cause her bf dont want her talking to me.
She sometimes asks me for her hobby etc. Ive flirted with her on txt occasionally but her response when not drunk isnt flirty back.
I do t give her attention really n respond really late, shes commented on why i dont initiate convo and reply late.
wtf does she want?
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Maybe she just appreciate to feel liked by another person than her boyfriend.
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attention, validation, human connection and dick
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>>17918055
is that bad ?
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Hey /adv/
Over the past couple months Ive been trying to peek out me shell a bit and be more social. Couple problems Ive encountered so far:
>Most guides on the subject will tell you to practise on just about everyone, but to show genuine interest and a genuine smile during convo (apparently people easily pick up fake smiles)
>Problem is I don't find most people all that interesting (especially members of the same sex, so guess I'm thinking with my dick a bit)
>Also smiling rarely comes naturally to me
>This extends to compliments too; I feel like I'm sucking up when I dish em out, even in the rare cases where I actually mean what I say
>probably cause I dont handle praise well
>But even if I did disregard all the above, I feel like I'd just be learning to lie to get people to like me, which feels pretty lame desu
>Another thing is while I realize random strangers are best to practise on, it's extremely difficult to show interest in someone I'll never see again (maybe the problem is the use of the FORD technique with these specific people?)
To be clear, I'm not really looking to be able to make TONS of friends, just be able to find a few good ones and get along relatively well with most people I happen to be around often (though I guess the latter is some people's definition of a 'friend', idk).
I'm thinking about practising more with people on stuff like omegle, but feedback on all the above would be nice.
So finally, anyone ever been in a similar boat or have some advice on this?
>pic very much related
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Just bee yourself
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>>17918032
I fully intend to do this when conversing with people, but without a genuine interest in the other party I'm stuck either just talking about myself (which I don't like doing) or making otherwise weak conversation
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Holy hell you sound a lot like me. I've kind of always been a shut in. My parents were trying to raise me to be a Christian man. So they kind of left me locked in the house for some stupid fucking reason tell I was an adult. Needless to say I've been trying my fucking best to be social and it's hard and awkward. But, I think I'm headed in the right direction it's just been a real struggle. My advice is to just keep working on it dude. And remember some people just go away and all you can do is respect their space. Oh and all people really want is someone they can be comfortable around. So teasing is okay as long as it's funny.
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My friend told me: "Whenever you experience something close to 'love at first sight' and being heavily infatuated with someone, you should instantly realize this person is not meant for you. It means your hormones are blinding you from seeing the big picture. I'm convinced if soulmates existed, they would be ones you'd select after ages of continuous interaction, who doesn't make you experience intense emotions but comfort instead, whom you don't doubt the loyalty of & trust with your life Not because she is 'smart', 'pretty', gives you goosebumps and you have a 'fun time' together."
He's only been in one relationship in his entire life which ended badly. Is this good, experienced advice or just his method of getting over it?
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>>17918004
>one leationship in his entire life which ended badly
>experienced advice
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>>17918011
you got the point
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>>17918011
So he is completely wrong and off the mark? Or is there some truth to it?
My friend is high on the attraction/intelligence scale and can get a date very quickly if he tried, but his ex just left him with a gigantic load of trust issues.
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How to go from strangers to dating - Autism edition
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So a little background information. I have a pretty mild case of Asperger's Syndrome/Autism Spectrum Disorder which, combined with Anxiety, means I lack some social skills.
The people I have told about my Asperger's have been surprised to hear it, because I don't really show any signs of being anything other than neurotypical. I can hold a conversation alright, and pick up on social cues fairly easily, but something that has always eluded me is romantic interactions. I've always struggled to understand how exactly I am expected to act to convey romantic interest.
Recently I've developed a crush on the cashier who works at my local EBGames. One of my proudest achievements recently is having been able to hold a conversation with her when I went last, so that gives a good indication of where my social skills/anxiety are at in this context.
Basically what I'm trying to figure out is how I'm meant to act on a crush on someone I'm essentially a stranger to. Even if I was a friend of hers I would struggle to make any sort of 'move' so to speak.
Any sort of advice whatsoever is more than welcome, even if it's not specific to my situation.
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>*wave* her.. yeah hi
>hey listen, I thought you were very attractive, but I was reluctant to approach you
>I was wondering firstly, how old you are? (she tells you her age)
>oh, alright, that's a reasonable age.
>hmm, well, by any chance are you single? (she sais yes = awesome! well, would you like to talk sometime? because I'm definitely interested in getting to know you. -exchange numbers or contacts-) (she sais no = well hey, alright, no problem, have a good one, see ya.)
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>>17918282
I guess this is where I'm getting stuck. Is it really ok to just ask out a stranger like that? Does it have even a reasonable chance of working?
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>>17917965
i dont want to discourage your endeavor but i would be really careful about people who work at businesses that you frequent.
firstly because its hard to tell if they actually like you or are just being polite cause they are at their jobs.
secondly its just horribly awkward to get hit on at your job by customers and its probably happened to her before.
best advice is to try and talk about stuff you want to do in the future (check out a new movie or restaurant or similar) and see if she makes any remark about how she would like to do the same. i usually consider that an invitation to ask her out.
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I sorta have a small issue with fapping.
Specifically fapping hasn't felt good in months. I don't remember when was the last time a fap felt good. The material I use is irrelevant, it just feels...bland. Almost like I feel nothing.
What could be causing this?
pic semi-related I guess.
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Try to go a week w/o fapping. it might might be hard but it will feel so good.
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>>17917966
I tried going 2 days but it still didn't feel good, it actually was slightly painfull too.
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>>17917956
I was in the same boat as you anon.
Do you fap out of habit or because you're turned on?
Do you fap to your imagination or to porn?
For me it turned out that I lost all sensitivity/pleasure because I fapped too often (1x a day) habitually, gradually decreasing sensitivity over time. For some reason I lost interest in porn too, and I enjoy it much more, plus orgasm stronger if I just stick to my imagination.
Now I fap 1-2 a week.
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Does loneliness actually do any kind of real damage to you, or is that thing when you feel like you are going to die just your stupid animal brain freaking out over nothing?
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>Does loneliness actually do any kind of real damage to you
Being lonely has been correlated with a detrimental effect on health.
>or is that thing when you feel like you are going to die just your stupid animal brain freaking out over nothing?
I'm not sure what you're asking. You feel as if you're going to die and associate those feelings with being lonely?
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>>17917950
Well, not DIE die, but that stinging in your chest and feeling like there is no possible way to ever feel worse than you are feeling.
Like you're not CRYING, there's no tears, you just hurt.
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only on mental
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Hi anons, need some help here please !
> There is a guy in my group of friends, funny intelligent empathic.
> Sometimes we see just the two of us
> One night we were at a party, and i slept at his home and we kissed in his bed and hugged. We didn’t have sex.
> He said that we were in osmosis together and that he once fantasized about me.
> I really like him and want it to happen again
> He has a girlfriend and say he wants to stay «a good man».
> Should I do ?
Sorry for bad english
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*what should i do ?
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Escalate sexual tension until he leaves her for you obviously
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>He said that we were in osmosis together and that he once fantasized about me