File: 1371317768379.gif (869KB, 500x725px) Image search:
[Google]
869KB, 500x725px
so my bf didn't get me anything for christmas...
he hyped it up like he had something special for me, but in the end he "forgot". however he didn't forget to buy for his brother, his brother's wife and his nephew... at least 3 gifts each for them. he told me he would go shopping with me to buy a gift, but i guess he forgot that too...
now he's saying he has something "perfect" for me on my birthday (on the 18th) but i don't think anything will happen... like last year.
see, he was like this all year last year too. he would make a big fuss about our anniversary, x-mas, my birthday, valentines day, etc... then nothing. not even a card.
i got him gifts for all those occasions though, always with a hand-made card filled with text. he would even indiscreetly hint about the things he would like to be gifted.
this is really annoying and it hurts. it's not like i expect anything expensive, he could've given me a thoughtful card or a box of chocolates and i'd be thrilled. if he wasn't going to get me anything, then i'd rather have him tell me straight up instead of building my expectations and then disappointing me. i feel so stupid and used in a way.
how do i even bring this up with my boyfriend? it feels so awkward to talk about.
29 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17914263
your boyfriend isn't considerate. showing his appreciation for you isn't a priority to him and nothing you're going to say is going to make him suddenly start giving a shit about you.
either accept this about him or find a new boyfriend. trying to change him into the boyfriend you wish you had is not in the cards.
>>
>>17914277
pretty close to dumping him if he doesn't do shit. my past boyfriends were like this too. i even told him about them and yet he pulls the exact same shit! all the while telling me how he would spoil his exes...
gonna see what he does for my birthday but otherwise i think i might have to dump him. i hate that i feel resentment for something like this...
>>
>>17914277
eh i would disagree to an extent. Sometimes a partner needs a bit of ribbing to change. Change can happen but it would happen slowly and you would have to push them to make an effort. It depends on how dedicated you want to be to him and how much effort he is willing to put in. If your boyfriend has changed a behavior you have discussed before then maybe change is possible. If this never happened OP then change might be something harder for him to do. As far as bringing it up, you want to just tell it like it is but not be too harsh. Maybe something like listen, you always tell me you are going to get me a great gift or take me shopping for Valentines day or my birthday or whatever the occasion might be, and I end up not getting a gift from you while giving you a gift. This affects how I view how much I am worth to you in your eyes. I want to feel like I'm a more important part of your life. Do you think this is something we can work on?
File: 20161106_015142.jpg (92KB, 480x347px) Image search:
[Google]
92KB, 480x347px
Am I fucked? I'm pretty sure I'm fucked and should cut losses.
First date ever, highschool. We snuggled and shit to that new Passengers movie with Jennifer Lawrence and Chris Pratt (overall ok movie). It was cute and shit.
After that, the date was pretty informal. We joked around, went to burgerville for a late night shake, walked around the park at night.
At the end of the date, I awkwardly kissed her (my first kiss,but not hers). It was later described as a 'mom' kiss--so i fucked it up badly.
Later, I asked a friend of both of ours to do 'recon'. She told him she saw me as a friend. After that, neither of up snapped eachother ending a 2 week streak. 3 days later, she snapped me an inside joke.
Any hope for me? My friend said mission failed.
9 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Also, this could be important: The joke was a cards against humanity game where the black card was "what ended my last relation ship" and the second was "crystal meth" which we joked about doing because we are cheesy white people.
Also, how do I deal with seeing her around school? I'm 18 and I still got 6 months of this shit.
>>
Forgot to mention, we've technically had two first dates. First was months ago, with friends there. It was much less formal then, and I didn't make a move. This time I did.
>>
>>17914259
Ask her out somewhere else, idiot. If she says no, forget about her.
Anonymous
It feels like im wearing a hat, but I'm not. 2017-01-02 09:00:22 Post No.17914229
[Report] Image search: [Google]
It feels like im wearing a hat, but I'm not. 2017-01-02 09:00:22 Post No.17914229
[Report] Image search: [Google]
It feels like im wearing a hat, but I'm not.
Anonymous
2017-01-02 09:00:22
Post No. 17914229
[Report]
[View this topic]
for the past 3 days I've had a wierd feeling on my head which makes like im wearing a hat. It's not painful, just annoying.
does anyone know why this could be happening, and how to make it stop?
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17914229
brain swelling?
>>
>>17914229
Take off your hat.
>>
Your brain is expanding.
File: 1481522475449.png (70KB, 288x288px) Image search:
[Google]
70KB, 288x288px
I did pot for the first time on New years and I did alot. I had an entire edible and a big hit of wax.
When I woke up today I thought that I had taken so much that I was still feeling it. Now more than 24 hours after taking it I don't think the glowing in my chest is a part of how marijuana feels.
>The feeling is only on the left side of my chest
>I have a heart condition
fug
I have some questions:
Should I be concerned? I'm kinda concerned. I might be paranoid but I think my heartbeat is irregular.
>Is a glowing feeling in your chest and body a part of getting high because it was a big part of it for me. I don't think I'm high anymore though and I still feel it in my chest where my heart is
>Is there a possibility I could still be high, over 24 hours later?
Also during my high I had a major headache, teeth pain, and the taste of blood in my mouth
Am I going to die?
fug
9 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
File: 1392790884996.gif (472KB, 245x184px) Image search:
[Google]
472KB, 245x184px
>>17914216
>I have a heart condition
Go to the fucking doctor you fucking dumb sack of shit, jesus.
>>
>>17914216
teeth n headache are common side effects. yes you might still be under the effects of it. anyone whos new to having weed will be super affected more than ppl used to it. edibles take way longer to work through your body too so give it time. idk about that heart burn.
>>
>>17914216
Edibles last a long time. I want to say 6-8 hours but im not sure
File: 1406450677640.jpg (23KB, 300x230px) Image search:
[Google]
23KB, 300x230px
So I've kind of got myself into a pickle. I have three women romantically interested at one time. I have fed into these ideas mainly because any female attention is a rare thing for me. One of these women wants to have sex with me relatively soon. She wants us to be FWB basically. I'll probably go along with this for a while. Is it wrong of me to want us to be exclusive if it's not going to be anything more than FWB? The second woman is the one I'm really interested in but also the one that seems least interested in me. The third one I've known the longest but I just don't see it going anywhere. Am I a bad person for allowing these things to go on around the same time and not being explicitly clear about it?
12 Posts / 3 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17914145
>I have three women romantically interested at one time.
Congrats.
>Is it wrong of me to want us to be exclusive if it's not going to be anything more than FWB?
Yes. An exclusive FWB is called a girlfriend.
>Am I a bad person for allowing these things to go on around the same time and not being explicitly clear about it?
You're a bad person if they ask and you lie. You're a bad person if you let things get to a point where you know if they found out they would be upset or hurt.
Throwing your hands up and saying "Hey, you never asked." is not a good justification for hurting people nor does it absolve you of responsibility. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing but when it comes time to make a choice, make it.
You'd be amazed how many girls don't mind casual romantic relationships when you're honest about it.
>>
>>17914145
Consider telling them about one another harem having -alpha cuckold.
-If one or any of these girls want you exclusively and is too shy to speak up, she'll ditch you once you start displaying sus behavior when you ditch to bang the other 1-2 whores.
You shouldn't lead girls on, op. Fucked up.
>>
File: 1473453820020.jpg (40KB, 576x472px) Image search:
[Google]
40KB, 576x472px
>>17914158
>Yes. An exclusive FWB is called a girlfriend.
Yeah, I'm going to have to readdress that soon. Like tomorrow soon.
>You're a bad person if they ask and you lie. You're a bad person if you let things get to a point where you know if they found out they would be upset or hurt.
I'm trying to avoid hurting anyone as much as possible. I would never lie about it if asked. I need to think about how to bring this up before it hurts any of them too bad.
If anyone should get hurt because of this it should be me. If I could let this go and only I would get hurt I'd do that. But relationships aren't one sided things, are they?
>>17914188
>You shouldn't lead girls on, op. Fucked up.
I've never done it before. Honestly didn't expect any of these things to work out at all.
File: IMG_1589.jpg (304KB, 1095x730px) Image search:
[Google]
304KB, 1095x730px
How do you accept that reality will never be as good as fiction without turning bitter as a result?
55 Posts / 8 Images
View this topic
>>
File: e-europe.jpg (47KB, 418x328px) Image search:
[Google]
47KB, 418x328px
u dont
>>
>>17914144
let me know if u figure it out
>>
>>17914154
Then how do I get bitter without hurting myself?
It stings so bad.
Anonymous
Any advice for this story? 2017-01-02 08:25:01 Post No.17914142
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Any advice for this story? 2017-01-02 08:25:01 Post No.17914142
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: IMG_0458.jpg (383KB, 703x1033px) Image search:
[Google]
383KB, 703x1033px
Any advice for this story?
Anonymous
2017-01-02 08:25:01
Post No. 17914142
[Report]
[View this topic]
>be me
>meet girl
>tell girl I like her
>she OMG'
>work with girl
>ask for number
>rejected
>still work with girl
>looks at me every time I walk by
>kind of have small talk
>"your wrist tattoos put me off op"
>"lolz you have henna on you rn"
>work
>I think she thinks I'm in love with her
>puts her off
>still looks at me everytime I pass by
>whatdoesthismean.jpg
>introduces me to man
>says man is...
>I stop her and say it for her
>"relationship thing"
>does it to put me off
>next 5 min is of her comparing dicks
>leave because I don't know how to handle situation
>next day
>stilllooksatmeeverytime.jpg
>think to myself
>just looks at me to get her high or something
>time passes
>fuck it asking for her # again
>reject second time
>unrelated even happens and I'm suppended from work for 3 months
>finally get back in to schedule
>say to myself "not a single word to her"
>walking with assistant manager
>makes an effort to talk to me from a literal mile
>says "hey I haven't seen you in a while" or something
>ass manager thinks she's talking to him
>lolz arise
>ass manager giving me orders
>stares at me from top to bottom
>me totally unfazed
>make effort to not even look at her face
>passes by me again
>makes effort to talk to me
>"are you glad to be back?"
>"no-not really" ftw I stuttered
>"not really?"
>get away from her as fast as possible
>ftw I said I wouldn't talk to her
>failmyself.jpg
>fuck it I already broke my promise
>Need keys for security cage
>walk to find a manager
>see her checking someone out
>ask her if she has the keys
>"no dear I don't have them Linda does"
>dear?
>think to myself
>just like I call women sweetheart without me meaning anyhting from it, must be the same.
>probablyforgotmyname.jpg
>don't let it bother me
>still looks at me every time I pass by
>ftw and fuck this bitch
> go take 15
>pass her on my way outside
>"hey Kevin, something something"
>did she just make an effort to let me know she knows my name?
10 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Other than her continuing to look at me when I pass by, I have no reason to believe that she like me, wtf should I do, if I should do anything?
>>
Bump because have no social life
>>
>>17914142
>>introduces me to man
>>says man is...
>>I stop her and say it for her
>>"relationship thing"
wat the fuck u talkin about
What do you do when people ask you 'what did you do for Christmas' or 'what did you do in New Years Eve', when you didn't do anything but you want to sound like a normal person?
11 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
safari
>>
hung out with the family.
alternatively just say you slept in.
>>
>>17914123
Normal people usually go to disneyland on christmas and spend new years eve on a train.
File: nice-grey-nuance-of-the-large-contemporary-house-plans-that-can-be-decor-with-warm-lighting-can-add-the-beauty-inside-the-modern-house-design-ieas-that-nice-.jpg (326KB, 1920x1440px) Image search:
[Google]
326KB, 1920x1440px
(Australia) I inherited a huge expensive house (well worth about a million at least) as well as 200k after tax. I calculated and based on living costs and cash i could comfortably live there for 10 years without doing anything. However my question is whats the best thing to do with this anyway? Its in another state and im a student in 3rd year of university (gonna do masters after). Should i rent it and invest the money or what? Living there is kind of unlikely for at least another 4 years or so if i choose to keep it and im not sure about the risks of renting, especially when its in the other side of the country.
19 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
let me live there and I'll manage your money for free :D
>>
File: post-34040-0-93091900-1446069376.jpg (43KB, 500x500px) Image search:
[Google]
43KB, 500x500px
>>17914105
best thing for you to do would be get a rental agency: the rental agency vets the tenants etc and works for you, rent it out and live off the income untill you are ready to move in but put some money aside in case tenants damage property (yes it happens) and insure the house too. (yes it happens)
>>
>>17914119
They arent liable for property damage? Id be making and losing nothing total if i use a rental agency right? Its fully furnished with decent stuff so i think i could possibly make a small profit.
Im not sure if i even want to move it, but i dont particularly want to sell it
File: feeltrain-547f29de4f649.jpg (81KB, 669x627px) Image search:
[Google]
81KB, 669x627px
How does one love themselves?
10 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
I wish i know too.
>>
what is love?
>>
>>17914083
stop telling and beliving all the jibber-jabber you tell yourself. once you do that you will be back to mental well-being
File: LARGE PHOTOS_ALCOHOL.jpg (56KB, 701x468px) Image search:
[Google]
56KB, 701x468px
Is it ok to use alcohol as training wheels for confidence?
long story short I grew up acting like a fedora supreme gentleman on reddit but I grew out of that, got /fit/ and started to read books
the few times that I have had 3-4 drinks I loosened up and was actually able to enjoy parties, conversations and just let loose
Problem is I would really prefer that I stay sober as my uncles fucked their shit up with alcoholism
is the answer as simple as drink responsibly?
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Kava is an herb that is sold in powder/capsule form. It holds similar effects to alcohol without a hangover or nausea. I do notice the loss of inhibitions when I take it.
It makes you go numb, but that can be fun. Very relaxing.
>>
Alcohol's purpose is to lower inhibitions and shit, op. It's only really an issue if it becomes alcoholism or starts effecting you negatively.
>>
>>17914057
>Is it ok to use alcohol as training wheels for confidence?
IMO learning to be social while drunk will not aid your ability to socialize when sober. The age old adage of "practice as you play" comes to mind. I am personally incredibly social when drunk, but it doesn't make me any more social when I'm sober. Nor does that experience relieve the anxiety that being sober in front of a huge crowd gives me.
File: IMG_0402.jpg (147KB, 750x559px) Image search:
[Google]
147KB, 750x559px
Recently I was having sex with my boyfriend and noticed a small little red bump (almost like a spot) in the pubic region, could it be an std although he was a virgin before w had sex
30 Posts / 4 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17914056
It's called a pimple
>>
>>17914056
ingrown hair
>>
>>17914058
Can you get those in the pubic area
File: 38179bacd9f0f9c60ff9fe88e1bbbe50111734decfcdca7dd77d704c7ecbd6ab.gif (1001KB, 500x291px) Image search:
[Google]
1001KB, 500x291px
I met a very cute boy on tinder, and I really like him… but… he brings up his ex all the time. They dated for four years, I think they were engaged, and they only broke it off 3 months or so ago..
He says he’s over her, and wants to keep seeing me. Says he’s made me feel things he thought he’d never feel again.
I really like him, but... is it time to turn away?
10 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
No, absolutely not.
If you are special enough to him to overwhelm the feelings he had for someone he once thought was his soulmate, you have a deep bond indeed.
Let me put it this way. Things went sour between me and my fiancee. I have looked forever for someone who could make me forget her, someone who could make me feel more for them than I did for her, and I haven't found them, and it's starting to drive me a little crazy.
Just bring things up with him that talking about her makes you uncomfortable. Let him know that you want to be that new special person in his life. Let him know you want to help him forget her.
>>
>they dated for 4 years
>they broke up 3 months ago
>he brings her up all the time
Op I mean this kindly but how on earth do you not realize that this is a rebound?
>>
Definitely a rebound. My ex gf of four years dumped me in May and I'm still not over her completely.
I've had two short term gf's, one fwb, countless dates, and 12 hookups since we broke up. Each one was a rebound more or less.
File: 1476394244618.jpg (74KB, 720x720px) Image search:
[Google]
74KB, 720x720px
>start talking to a girl and we start clicking instantly
>asks if she would like to hangout or go on a date
>sure anon, you're cute
>prepare myself by shaving my pelt off of my body
>meet her and the whole time you can feel the tension in the air
>THE_AIR_IS_ELECTRIC.jpg
>we go and do some menial date stuff and eventually end up in privacy
>she moves closer as I go in for a kiss
>end up getting frisky and bang boom sex happens
>end up kissing and cuddling
>get dressed and take her for a smoke and some food
>eventually drop her off and drive home
>start having a panic attack because I start looking more and more at my flaws
>keep freaking that I cannot satisfy her and that this was all out of pity
What do I do /adv/?
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17914029
acknowledge your accomplishments. you have to remember that despite what you think about yourself, the facts think for themselves. people tend to ignore all the great things they do in favor for the bad.
imstruggling with a script... so now i think im the worst writer in the world and should just give up and kill myself.
despite the fact that I have millions of views on my previous web show and still get 50 thousand views a month on it without having posted an episode or update in over 2 years. despite the fact that I literally got paid to rewrite an established writers script for FOX. I could go on... but i dont. saying these things were hard enough. its human nature to not think about these things that make us successful, that make us good. instead we see someone else who is different... perhaps better in one way, and then write our selves off as infinitely worse.
were not.
all this being said women ar enot objective. they do not say 'well anons only got a level 6 charisma, a level 7 defense class, and a level 4 mage... and chad is exactly the same but hes a level 5 mage, SO THERE FORE ANON IS AWFUL AND I MUST DATE CHAD'.
its not a contest. if you have the baseline of what a girl considers attractive, it doesn't matter if there is a more attractive or more successful man out there. what matters is hwo she feels. who inspires chemistry? you do. you inspire chemistry in her. she likes you. not because of your accomplishments or how much better or worse you are compared to someone else, but just because of who you are.
>>
>take her for a smoke
wut
>>
>>17914038
>not smoking a cigarette after sex
Bro do you even Nothing's Gonna Hurt You Baby?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2LQdh42neg
File: stopRead.jpg (12KB, 281x211px) Image search:
[Google]
12KB, 281x211px
Stop doing NoFap or advising people to NoFap you god damned retards.
NoFap doesn't do anything good for you and probably has bad effects instead. NOPORN is what you should be looking at. Stop watching porn, but you don't have to stop masturbating unless you're doing it like 7 times a day, masturbating once or twice a day is completely normal. Masturbating TO PORN everyday will mess with your sexual health.
16 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17914027
Although I agree I have to inform you that all that faggotry is coming from the other site.
>>
>or twice a day is completely normal.
Its really not. Every once in awhile sure like maybe once a week at most but not everyday.
define porn
masturbating to nothing but your thoughts? Guaranteed thats much riskier for sexual health.
>>
>>17914035
>masturbating to nothing but your thoughts? Guaranteed thats much riskier for sexual health.
How so?