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>>17914023
>she adds me on instagram* doesnt give me her account..

>>17914023
>rloving fuck does

you're also a world traveler, you hopped continents.

that being said, women are not objective... neither are men to be honest. you do remember what its like to have 'a crush' right? when you like someone just because they happen to blend what they are together perfectly and it makes you feel tingly?

you liked her BEFORE you knew about her social media personality. you liked her for who she was, the girl in class. and she liked you for who you were, the guy in class.

please stop acting like having people like half naked pics of a girl somehow makes her important. most any girl can get that kind of following by traveling half naked pics.

they're still girls and they still date guys they are into.

>>17914030
I thought that hot women dated hot guys, who are all involved in the same level of popularity, because thats all dating is for my generation... A popularity contest. Thats why you can see some chad with an 8 - 9 outta 10 babe, but the fat guy with the awesome social media page gets with the 10/10 girl. It's about who you hang out with, is it the people who know celebrities and where the good parties are, or the people who take photos of cats and have 1 profile, which do you think a 10/10 is going to want to involve themselves with?

kava

Meth.

>>17913968
What does that even mean? Like, something that has an effect similar to alcohol and cannabis, or something that is more socially acceptable than cannabis, but less so than alcohol?

You've already been basically married to cathy anyway
Who cares about that fat beth chick
She seems like a snake, cathy told her she loved you and fuckin beth just goes for you without a thought for cathy

Man that cathy chick stood by you for decades you better go get her

>>17913928
Lesbians are well documented for having lesbian bed death. Look it up, because if you date your lesbian friend, this is where it is headed.

>>17913948
I thought that was due to chicks not initiating sex.

>>17913911
Depends on the destination.

>>17913911
Depends where you're travelling I guess. I'm an 18 year old girl too and travelled from SF to LA using Greyhound.

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>>17913911
Depends if you look like a bitch.

Sure, go ahead

Kind of. It will guarantee you money though. You cant go wrong with an ME degree

Naw.

Have you tried baby wipes?
Wet wipes?
A bidet?
Eating food that doesn't give you marker shits?

Get better tp, wet wipes, and eat healthier so you don't shit all the time.

>>17913893
Go to a doctor.

/pol/ is like every other board in that it takes its particular topic and ramps it up to 11.

yeah, you should have a healthy dose of wariness against the media and the hood but the rest is a result of the place running out of topics to speak about.

>>17913867
But how do I fix my fears? I'm afraid to say or even think a racist thought, I don't wanna be crucified (doesnt mean I hate specific races)

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>>17913860
No it's not weird. You don;t want to be something you dislike, that's normal.
What you do is reflect on those opinions you have encountered and the ones you feel that you have - how do they match up, what don't you know and what are you assuming. Separate hyperbolic acts of racism (keyword, act) which you are just being purposely absurd from behaviours you actually believe but have little evidence or relevance. Don;t do things you think are racist and keep an open mind to learn new things about the flavours of the human race which are referred to as a race themselves.
tl;dr: don't become racist by not taking opinions about race at face value without thought- ESPECIALLY FROM /POL/ OR ANYONE
That's the best I can manage on clarity here

Anyone?

I know it's silly to give up at 21, but I really feel that way. I feel like people only really talk about a few things in general I can't really connect with.

>I feel like people only really talk about a few things in general I can't really connect with.

Welcome to adulthood. Enjoy your stay.

>>17913861
Yeah, because all adults are solitary creatures, right? I think I'm "wrong" for a reason: they aren't solitary. I am.

>>17913822
Be the best person you can be. People want to be around successful people. By being around better people, you will find someone of quality. However, you yourself must also be of quality.

>>17913875
How do I be quality? I have no talents, passions or interests no matter how hard I look for them.

>>17913953
Then get some. No one is born magic with built in amazing qualities. Most people with amazing qualities had a slight advantage in a certain area then ran with it and polished it. Like I have a really good voice so I learned how to do a lot of public speaking.

Just pick an area you have a leg up or an interest in and work on it until its attractive.

Odds are, you can meet a partner in the process with similar interests.

Assuming this isn't a troll, he's avoiding you so he doesn't make you uncomfortable, you moron.

>you make me uncomfortable

This is one of the most soul rendering things you can say to someone. They just wanted to be your friend or talk to you. You're telling them that everything about them offends you and you don't like jt. That you like nothing about them . That they scare you and make you nervous, and there's nothing about them that you find ok. That you will never be their friend.

Who wants to be told that? OP you really spazzed out and hurt him deeply. You should apologize to him and explain why you did that.

>>17913794
This
He needs to know his presence isn't a bad thing. Tell him you meant you feel shy, not uncomfortable.

Uncomfortable is reserved for creepy people. It's rather disheartening to think your presence gives someone negative thoughts or feelings.

If you're doing it just so you can have sex, then do it if you want, it's your life. Just know that people will judge you for it.

If you're doing it so you can lose your virginity, know that nothing's going to change once you have sex.

>>17913775
>can you give me one reason why i shouldn't have sex with prostitutes?

I can give you a million reasons, but it'd be of no use since you probably spend 10 hours saving up awful /r9k/ images like that.

>>17913791
>Just know that people will judge you for it

like how? oh he fucks hookers therefore he is too ugly to get girls the normal way. How is that a bad thing?

>>17913679

It's a game, a dance...seduction.

>>17913679
welcome to the real world, anon
enjoy

There's a middle ground where you feel out the situation, despite your autism, and the signals tell you if she's interested.

Most girls aren't out to screw you over.

>>17913676
>you want to buy food
>someone says "ok i have food"
>instead of giving you the food they dance around it and just talk to you
>finally ask them if theyre giving you the food
>sorry you keep asking about it, i dont want to give it to you now. But lets keep talking!

Thats you op. Quit being a fucking faggot and using people to validate your attention whoring ways while you continue to look for 'the perfect guy'. Guys and girls like you are literal trash.

>>17913676
pretty simple, its usually impossible to be friends with opposite sex.

>>17913676

Your buddy was definitely attracted to you, and when you said you weren't attracted to him...his bubble burst, he was hurt, and he had to leave.

This wasn't your fault.

It's difficult to find your love, but keep trying; they are out there.

>we get along ok
This was the first red flag. Why would you marry someone you only got along ok with? Are you retarded? You're gonna spend life 24/7 with someone you only get along ok with?

Also if you marry him you'll be resentful that you won't have a career, he'll be resentful that you're resentful, and it will spiral down from there.

>>17913674
>I do want kids (eventually), but I want an equal partnership. I'm scared of going into a situation where I'll be financially beholden to another, and that the breadwinner always has more power in a household. It also means that it would be nigh on impossible to get back to where I am in my career, should the relationship go sour.

This means you don't trust him not to abuse his power over you. Don't you think that's a bad sign? Because it is.

>>17913686
I meant it as a general term. I suppose the more accurate term is 'well', as in we have the same interests, talk, go on dates etc. etc.

>>17913692
I wouldn't trust anyone like that, I want to be able to be in control of my own life.

say words with your mouth while having the attention of a female

You talk to them like guys.

>>17913661
At the start, compared to men, less vulgarity, no disgusting topics/jokes, not too much self-deprecating humor. You can feel out whether she likes black or disgusting humor later. Try to sound smart as women judge you more harshly; avoid sperging "dude"s or "bro"s or similar.