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>>17987133
Reason with her and explain why. Get a real good idea of what exactly it is you're going to say. And most importantly, stay strong and stick to saying what you feel.

be kind enough to be honest instead of "letting her down easy". allow her to hate you and kill every hope. this is the single best thing you can do for everyone you break up with.

>>17987138
I hope i dont pussy out

Wait for her to call you.
Also. Did you fuck her yet? If not, fuck her next time you see her

>>17987135
Nah, I'm not sitting around and waiting, cause she's not going to call. She's pretty timid.

We didn't have sex. We fooled around a little, but she's the traditional type for the most part. She's only been with 2 guys (she's 25). And that's fine with me.

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Just message her on snapchat. See if she replies. If not call her. And see how she's doing. And just play it by ear man. No obligations. Just feel it out.

me personally, i wouldn't be able to see him. he beat your mother, multiple times. this wasn't a slip, this was a long term pattern of abuse. thats not something you just ignore while you bond.

but thats me. if you feel otherwise, you do for a reason, and me saying you should feel bad about it shouldn't make you feel bad about it.

>>17987099
What's the situation with your biological father?

>>17987107
That was my initial feelings and thoughts about it, but he's messaged me throughout the months and showed me that he's missed me and whatnot. I'm not allowed to talk to him so it's basically him texting me and me not replying.

Today he sent me a picture of a soda can I used to shoot with my step brother.

Well, he sent it to a friend who's also a neighbor and screenshotted it to me cause he knew I'd see it directly but you catch my drift.

>a fucking soda can he could've thrown away but instead he kept he picked it off the ground and put it back on the post where I had it

Idk if it's bait or what, but it hit me in the feels

>>17987097

>how do you meet people

by going up and talking to people wherever you may find them.

>and hold conversations

by first realizing that the point of an interaction is not to hold a conversation, but rahter to see if they are worth holding a conversation with. some of them aren't. and as a result, they wont. just becuase you initiate doesn't mean you are there to be judged. its just two people talking. if it doesn't go anywhere it doesn't mean anything.

for anything more specific, you will also have to be specific

But what do you talk about?

>>17987141

again, you'd have to be more specific.

you wont talk to someone at the bank about the same things you talk to someone about at the beach.

>>17987073
Deal with it.

Also try garlic soup.

Its like the one thing naturopaths got right. Garlic is good for colds.

>>17987073

free clinics.

swallowing the cost of a doctors visit, there are many clinics near me that will see you for 75 if you are ininsured.

you can order antibiotics online as well, but its hard to say which ones you'd need.

my advice is just to swallow the cost and go to the doctor if you really think that you're non stop sick

>>17987073
Autoimmune disease

>>17987031
Pic related

>>17987031

its not gay... but it is queer. its gay in the sense that lesbians are gay and that trans people are part of the 'gay' community.

but its not 'homosexual'.

ultimately, does it matter? would you resist something you like just becuase of a label?

Have you ever fucked one?
Because if you ever do, you'll quickly realize you're fucking a dude that appears like a woman. But a dude nevertheless.
It's still ok to be attracted to them, a lot of me look great actually

Slow at first, hard towards the end.
Grab her breasts hard, slap her ass hard, choke her a bit. Be dominant and don't hesitate

>>17987050
Seems like sound advice. I guess I'll try it.

>>17987021
marry her and then cheat on her

>>17987018

talk to her.

>>17987018
Notice how the world is turning to shit and degeneracy is everywhere. One of the reason is people abandonned religion.

Read the bible my friend, God is real.
Though I gotta say Christians is only one opinion on who this "God" is, just like Muslims think it's some guy named Allah

>>17987030
>Allah=god

Lel

>>17987016
My exs only come back into my life when they see me doing something productive which is kinda mean.

Be super independant and make it seem like you're now having an awesome exciting life and don't miss her at all

>>17987020
achievements take time its not like i can just say i did this this and that. and it's nicer to have someone grow with you and help you get there instead of watch you fall and just want you back when you're better than every one else.

Reddit

Find a bunch of subreddits that are pertinent
Then post it

Nobody reads spam.
Invest in Facebook ads or something more efficient

>>17986923

what format do you have the emails in?

>>17986917

not really. as long as you treat women fairly and respectably it doesn't matter what you do. im the same way. most women are just too much to deal with. I met a few cool ones here and there, but im just not motivated to even date them. if a friend is dating a girl and shes cool, thats great. but otherwise i dont really see the point in trying.

there was a time when men and women werent expected to be friends. women hung out with women folk and men hung out with men folk.

the only activities you'd do with your wife were dates, tv and sex. you werent expected to be able to just hang out and share each others hobbies like you are today

>>17986917
It's wrong in that it's considered a bad way to think about women. The ideal is to look behind notions relating to gender and focus on what everyone shares as simply "people".

It's not wrong in that you know you might fuck things up and you're prudent to not let that happen.

>>17986966
>there was a time when men and women werent expected to be friends. women hung out with women folk and men hung out with men folk.
This.

Work on yourself.
Pick new hobbies and lead an interesting life. Read books
Find a passion that doesn't relate to tv/movies/gaming/

>>17986912

i feel ya. i like being single. but im not sure that i like how much that i like it.

I can date, there's been interest, but no one that i would want to date, no one id give up on sex with other women for.

i think more than anything we just want to feel like we are worthy of love, know that we could get someone that we find truly special and looks reasonably good.

maybe we can't. maybe we can. maybe we should focus on being happy regardless of that answer.

People that dont have many relationships are picky because they know what they want in a partner and they know what they have to offer. People that jump from relationship to relationship are indecisive, impulsive and have little to offer other than a needyness for attention and love. They fear and rewent loneliness.

Dont worry about it kid. It will come natural. Focus on your career and ectea curricular activities.

>>17986857
When they're balls deep in your b-hole

>>17986857
When they tell it to you first
Either that or they're dying

>>17986857
There is no "right time" to express you love your significant other. Say it when you feel and know you really mean it and all that it entails. Too many people say these words flippantly.

>>17986846

get up early and do it before you burn out.


> fucking mechanical turk select the streetsign bullshit when there is no streetsign and i just want to post

I'm the same way, I can't do anything at home.
Therefore, I don't go home.

When I know I have a lot to do, even though after class I'm worn out and just want to go home, I push my ass to the library and tell myself, I'm getting at least 30 minutes of this shit out of the way before I go home. I just consider it as if I had one more class of the day. Trick is spacing yourself as best you can. Yeah, after a long day at school I'm not too keen on staying after for hours on end. But just stretching my "school time" a tad longer I get more done than if I just gave up and went home and did nothing at all.

When you have bigger projects (or if you're my teachers and all assign their 20 page papers at the same time) that require you to need to put a shit ton of time into them, all I can say is utilize your weekends the best you can, and take it in chunks. make your work sessions short, and take many small breaks inbetween.
And again, do not stay at home. Go somewhere you are least likely to be distracted. For me, that's the library on my campus. Even on the weekends, I drive my ass to school and sit in the library for a couple hours to do homework each week.

>>17986846
When you finish class, go straight to the library and do your homework then

School for work, home for relax
Never mix up the two

And you shouldn't be doing 6 hours of homework, wtf
I never had to do more than an hour of homework, HS or college.
Graduated top of my class either

Isn't this the plot to 16 candles?

>>17986838
I've never seen it, but if it is, it's also the plot of my life

>>17986823
>>17986838
Yeah bruh, just go find Jake Ryan and everything will be okay